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Booscalia
Booscalia has 16 days to go and is now in week 37
Age: 34
Country: US
Province/region: Ohio
City: Cincinnati
Partner: No Longer Have One ;-(
Children: Yes, 1
Pregnant: Yes
Due date: 10 Aug ,2008
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Hello,

I am scheduled for a c-section on August 7th. I have one son, Andre, who will be 3 in September (yep that's my Little Angel in the picture) and this baby, Eric, is also a boy. I have been on this website for a while now and can attest to the fact that there are some seriously nice and generous women left in the world. I'm convinced. I appreciate them now more than ever because, last Month, 3 days after our 6th anniversary, my husband walked out on me. It's been devestating. I am in love with him and I hate that this is happening, but he doesn't love me anymore and I have to face that fact. I can't live with him knowing his mind will constantly be on other women. I can't even bare the idea of his hands being on any other woman. I cannot take him back, although, I can't help but to want to. I have decided I do not want anyone in the delivery room with me. If I don't have the support of my husband now, I don't want it then. Since me and my boys will be on our own, from now on, I want to try to start that life as soon as possible. I have cried so much and just when I think I can't do it anymore, I break down and cry again. It's still new. People thought this will just be an episode and then we will return to being together, but it's not going to happen. It can't. The only thing I can think to hold onto is my children. I am so excited for the arrival of my little one. At least I know for sure he is really wanted by his Mommy, if no one else.

~Boo





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mommyforlife - 6.2 hours ago
My birthstory is now up if you'd like to have a look:)xoxoxo


izziebo - Tuesday, 22 July
ur husband sounds like a prick no offence! i wud just love to meet him n tell him a few truths about his uselessness! i hate men the only thing they are good for is their sperm! we should be like spiders and eat them once we mate lol

im okay tho to be fare andys been lovely and trying really hard hes been ever so supportie he even had a cry the other day coz hes missed out on his babys first kick and all the big mile stones in the pregnancy like the 1st scan n he only just realised hes not ever going to get that back hes never gonna be able to go to his 1st kids 12 week scan or feel his 1st kids kicks or anything n it really hit him hard, me been a heartless bitch just went its ur own fault! n left it at that but he was really rather upset with himself. he scared me a little n said "next time im gonna do it proeprly" not with me hes not lol i aint doing this again, hehe so everythings going ojk with him which im so greatful for moneys still an issue but everyones heloping out where tehy can my mum bless her has spent a fortune on things like nursing ras and nightware and comfy clothes for me for when babys here shes trying so hard but still cnt seem to give andy a break she wont let me have andys best friend as god fatehr even tho its me who wants to ask him not andrew lol coz she doesnt think he dieserves the roll. i think he does hes a lovely bloke and i adore him hes the only eprson really whos been tehre for andy throguh thick and thin n id like that to carry on with the baby but mums adiment

stress stress stresss

never mind it will all work out soon enough i think lol i cnt bitch about her after shes spent her whole pay check on me can i lol xxxxxx


mommy32 - Thursday, 17 July
I hope things get better for you. Everything happens for a reason, whether it be good or bad. It may not be clear to yo now why all this is going on. In the future you may realize why. It's hard, I know. My husband of 15 years commited suicide cause I left him. We have two boys together now 13 and 9. This one I thought was a man I could Love and trust and I don't even know where he's at. She is going to be mixed and both my boys are white. That's going to be nice to see how that goes. If you ever need to talk I'm here...


SarahTook4YearsFord - Tuesday, 8 July
Feel free to let loose whenever you want. When will he be out of the house? He's still going to Pennsic, right? Do you guys ever talk anymore, like about Eric's birth and him being there? There's no telling what he's got the skanks believing. He might have told them that he caught you with his best friend. So many of them are so coked up that they don't care. Well, it's good that you're smart and are documenting everything. I hope he gets no custody because he doesn't sound fit--just supervised visitation.


SarahTook4YearsFord - Sunday, 6 July
Now THAT'S a cute little boy!!! Awww, Andre. Oh, I'm seeing Snuggles's advice--DITTO--keep a journal! My MIL was divorced last year. When John's dad asked for the divorce, I told her to start a journal so she'd have a record of any crap he tried to pull. She tends to shrug off good advice--that, she was afraid to do in case he ever came across the journal. Well last year, she told me that she regretted not having done it because he DID pull tons of crap that it would have been helpful to have recorded when it came time to confront each other with the lawyers. I STRONGLY recommend keeping a journal!!! You may feel too wiped out to do that. Those are the times you'll need it most because it'll be the stressful things he does that wipe you out. Big, caring hugs, Sarah


Snugglebug - Thursday, 3 July
Hang in there. I don't know what judge, in their right mind, isn't going to laugh in his face if he asks for a single thing. It's pretty obvious that his character is flawed and the judge will see that and see what a cold, heartless person he is. I hope you take him for everything! A bit of advice, from experience with other friends that have gone through this, KEEP A JOURNAL. Write down dates and times of any contact with him, especially negative, or anything that he says he will do for you (if anything). Keeping records will help! Let me know how things are going and how you and the little one are progressing. :) Stay strong, girl! :) *hugs*


GoonieMomma - Thursday, 3 July
 What a cutie!


donnamarie - Tuesday, 1 July
Sorry to hear about everything that is happening :( You know we are all here to listen and give advice when asked for or needed. We can be your supports dear.


megan1981 - Tuesday, 1 July
I am so sorry you are going through this... and I know it's such a smack in the face moreso because you're pregnant. We are here for you.. hold your head high, you are doing the right thing!!


mumofsix - Tuesday, 1 July
I am so sorry to hear what a hard time you are going through. I am helping my sister in law through the same thing and she is not pregnant but has two young kids. My brother is just being such a jerk. I know what an emotional roller coaster you must be on, happy that baby is coming and grieving a loss at the same time. Hang in there.


izziebo - Friday, 27 June
we all are hun! its like a big fat family this website n when one of your girlies is sad u get angry at the bastar who casued it!!


izziebo - Friday, 27 June
babe u love the guy n u having his babyu have alot of emotions coming and going!! did u talk to this woman? what a whore i bet shes arite grotty minger!!!

i hope things figure them selves out for you tho i really do when baby is here things may seem different, i hate people telling me that tho i still dnt think andrew n me will manage to make things last but thats only coz i dnt want to get hurt again im always told when babys here things will look better.

hopefully it will for you! dnt get upset and also if u need help in any way dnt be afraid to go and ask for it, im a big believer in counceling now i go once a fortnight its helped me no end xxxxx


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My Angel (2008, 06, 29) Back Then (2008, 06, 29) Bad Digital Pic (2008, 06, 29) Him and his Dad (2008, 06, 29) First Birthday Cake (2008, 06, 29) Little Man at a few months old (2008, 07, 17) Andre (2008, 07, 17) Biker Boy (2008, 07, 17) They may say... I`m a dreamer.... (2008, 07, 17) How you doin`? (2008, 07, 17) The Heart (2008, 07, 17) Balloon boy (2008, 07, 17) AHHHHHH! (2008, 07, 17) Andre...apparently ready to go yachting... (2008, 07, 17) Yellow is still one of his best colors! (2008, 07, 17) Dark Helmet (2008, 07, 17) EGGADS!! (2008, 07, 17) Click here to see all Booscalia`s photos

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