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jesspregnantwith4th - Tuesday, 11 November
Hello everyone!! I had my 3D and 4D ultrasound today!! Pics are up and soon will be the video!! Check them out and tell me what you think!! We are now 100% sure that she is a little Girl!! Hope everyone is doing great!! God bless!!
-Jess

Laura Ward - Wednesday, 5 November
Message to all: Message to all: Because of the controversial opinions and thoughts, please do not continue to discuss politics on the site. This includes private or public messages, comments, quotes, etc on ALL pages of the site, whether it be a weekly or monthly forum, your personal page or a friends page. If you choose to continue posting once this message has been posted, your account will be deleted from the site. Please report any member that continues to post these messages. Thank you all for your cooperation and help keeping this site friendly for everyone!

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kanojoca - Thursday, 30 October
Ahh hun, you sound really hurt. I'm so sorry your going through this right now. You sound like you two are on two different pages in a book. Your not working through it together. No-one can tell you what to do hun, and i'm sure its hard talking to friends or family members somtimes cause if you talk negative a lot then you get well why are you with him responses.

But really why are you? A partnership is a partnership, you shouldn't have to ask for him to spend time with you and your daughter, he should want to. If he thinks that you have everything that you want....well he's not listening to you. Either he doesn't want to face it, and has things perfect the way he wants them or he just .....oh i dont' know.

You didn't do anything, don't start beating yourself up. You shouldn't have to beg him to spend time with you.

He has a baby on the way, and family should be the most important thing. Your children are your most important thing so you just have to figure out how long you can live like that for before you crash and your children suffer.

K i just finished carving my pumpkin, kevan is jealous!!! i'll post a pic of it, its great, he is on the couch now struggling....lol, its so funny, he forgets i'm artistic!!!

keep me updated petal

laura

alisha2730 - Thursday, 30 October
Sorry to hear things are so stressful for you right now. My boyfriend, fortunately, gets to stay home with our daughter and I work. When I get home in the evenings I would like to just sit on the couch with him, but he seems to be doing something or talking to someone on the phone all the time. I can't say my situation is the same, but I definately understand where you are coming from. I hope your day gets better and try to destress somehow. It's not good for you or the baby.

kanojoca - Thursday, 30 October
Hey hun,

ok, first thing, cut back on work. If he's the main breadwinner, then stay home as much as possible, relax, take some time out for you, get the house together that sort of thing.

Boyfriend: i don't know about you but i'm so clingy at the moment and i have to have my partner around me all the time, especially when im home at night, i'm lucky i have that, but you need to sit and have a real heart to heart with him.

Book a romantic restaurant for the two of you, have a date night, but you need to tell him your crashing. The mother of his child needs him and can't do it on her own anymore.

Hun, you need to resolve this. Money is money, if your like me its not the most important thing, having a partner there and doing things as a couple are more important. You really need to sit him down and tell him your with him becaue you love him, and you need hikm right now, its hard enough being pregnnat, but if i didnt;' have the support i do have i don't think it would be good for me or the baby.

Even if you have to set your alarm and wake up before he comes home, put on the kettle and wait for him and make him understand that you cant keep this up.

xx x hope any of that helps, i think your brave for doing what your doing, and i know times are hard, but hopefully you can work through this together, he owes that much to you and your children.

laura
xx

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