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Cherub
Age: 35
Country: AU
Province/region: Western Australia
City: Perth
Partner: Ryan
Children: Yes, 1
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Occupation: Data Quality Controller
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She arrived !!

Hayley Drew arrived on Friday 15th Feb after an aprox 11 hour labour. I had a slight leak on the Wednesday evening and headed to the hospital on Thursday morning (Valentines day).

Hung out at the hospital all day waiting in the "que" and at 9.30pm was placed on a drip to bring things along. Contractions are insame eh?!? hey took no time at all to kick in and be coming every few minutes.

By about 7.30am the following morning (Friday ) I was finally fully dialated and ready to start pushing. Have to admit that was the point it went through my head.. I cant do this.. but refused to actually say it.

I had taken the gas and 2 shots of Pethadine - and even asked for the epidural which I had said I did not want (they refused anyway - too late) and at 9.09am Hayley Drew arrived weighing 8lbs 4oz (which was my exact birth weight). She was 52cm long. (oh yeah no stitches YAY!!)

Home now and loving every minute - however she is a bit like her dad and I. Likes to sleep all day and at 2am she is wanting to party til 6 or 7.

Breast feeding is going really well and she is now 1 week old and we have got a bit of routine in place.

Hope all are well. Not sure how often I will access the computer these days.. must sort my home one out.

Take care all and thanks for all the fab info and advise xxx

Hi all,

Well this is my first ever pregnancy, and due to my age I am very excited as is my partner Ryan (he is 7 years and 7 days younger than I am). We had not been trying - but cant say we were trying not too either so I guess it was just a matter of time !

Ryan now works away on a mine site, and I found out I was pregnant 1 week before he left to start for the first time ! We both agreed it was good timing (even though we were hoping for a Run-a-Muck holiday in Thailand at the end of the year...) We figure it might be hard for this to have happened if he was working away 3 weeks out of 4 !

So far so good with the health. No morning sickness.. but I think my first thought every day is... will today be the day? I do get very tired however.

I will not be getting my first scan until Im 11 weeks so I cant hope for that day to come quick enough.

Ryan tells me he was a 10lb baby.. yikes.

I wish everyone else all the very best of luck.

Cherub xxx

June 6th - Discovered I was pregnant

July 23rd - First scan, saw the baby and its heartbeat

July 26th - Ultrasound. Saw the baby kicking its legs and moving its arms. Heart rate is 151 beats per minute

July 27th - OB called. I have a 1:77 chance the baby could have Down's. The Nuchal fold was normal at 1.3mm and it was my bloods and probably my age that put me at "high risk". Im not sure that I will have the CVS test next week as the risk of miscarraige are higher than of my baby having DS. Quite a few tears last night, but Im staying positive.

My pregnancy has been a breeze so far so Im trusting my gut instincts that everything will be ok. If not, I will still love my child with all my heart.

July 30th - After a rather stressful weekend I decided that I wont have the CVS. Thankfully Ryan called on Sunday from the mine site and being the "gambling man" that he is, he felt that the odds were in our favour and we should not take any chances having the CVS.

It was so nice to know that he was on the same page as me. We will take things as they come and discuss it further on Thursday - he is home after 3 weeks away. I cant wait to get a BIG hug from him.

August 2nd - Ryan is home !! Cooked him a lovely meal. He told me I look beautiful and he loves me and missed me... all those things I needed to hear. Needless to say we had an early night.....

August 14th - First visit with the Midwife who was lovely and also with the OB. Just the routine sort of stuff and form filling. Next appointment is an Ultrasound at 19 weeks on 14th Sept and Ryan will actually be there for it which is lovely.

August 24th - I think I may be feeling just the slightest of movement or odd flutter in my belly. 4 months this weekend WOW !!

Have still decided that we will leave finding the sex of the baby out until I give birth. I lurv suprises !! Having a hard time with names - but one thing we do know is that no matter the sex we will give it the middle name Drew, which is Ryans youngest brothers name. He has a heart of gold but has addiction problems.. so this was my idea as I just know it will mean the world to him.

October 12th - Thought I had better give an update - not that much is happening out of the ordinary. Experiencing a bit of heart burn. I also have a second job on the weekend (nearly finnished with that as Im on my feet out there for 12 hours on a Sat and about 8 on a Sunday!). Anyway its out in the farming area and Im starting to get really bad allergies. I sneezed all the way home yesterday (which reminds me to get working on those pelvic floor muscles...oops). It has also affected my throat which is now VERY raspy.

I feel the baby moving every day now which is awsome - and last night I was just laying there watching it and could actually see my belly move when it kicked. Ryan was home last week from the mine site so he has now felt it move as well.

Getting some pain in my lower back but I know a physio and he has been so kind as to arrange a back brace for me on the house. What a guy !!

Im loving being pregnant. Just cant wait to finnally see my little babe.

November 28th - I feel bub move ever single day now. All the movement is still very low. Nothing under my ribs at all. Having ALOT of pain in my pelvis and it often clicks when I roll in bed at night. I wear a belt and that seems to help a bit. The Docs only advise to fix the prob was to have the baby. So I am doing very little exercise lately. Will start heading to the pool soon I think.

Have all the bubs cot etc on layby and it will be delivered to my door and put together for me. For $1488 I got the Cot, Change table in matching wood which is also a set of draws, the Pram, the Car seat, Bath on a stand, Matress and bedding.

Guess I still need a breast pump, and bottles as I will be coming back to work when bub is 5 months old. It sucks but we need the second income.

Ryan got his drivers licence - YAY !!





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karenc - Wednesday, 23 July
hayley is beautiful! and that bib she has on ROCKS, LOL!!


labour-of-love - Wednesday, 23 July
hi!! All labours hurt but geez i tell ya i was not prepared for that one heheheh! I could cry for weeks after i had lilly just thinking about it. Another thing is that my midwife as much as i thought she was great... That morning she told me of a woman in room 1 who was being induced and she was 7cm at the time of my induction being started.. She made a bet that we would beat hurt (she said cause i had had 4 other children) but i have my suspicions i just dont think it was right and i think she may have pushed my body to fast.. because previous to this delivery i was as i call it in good working order. Now i have a second degree prolapsed uterus! And i know i was fine before cause i had been checked. I discovered it myself one night after about 4 weeks i still didnt feel right! I felt like i was hanging out. hehehe TMI but i was right just inside i could feel my cervix i was horrified! And to think back now i truly believe i was induced way to fast, my contractions just about stopped and wouldnt you know it! I did give birth before the other lady.. i went to 10 in 4 hours and she was already at 7 when i started. I just feel suss about the whole thing... Sorry to ramble. I read your birth story the other day too... Your bubba is so beautiful, i just cant believe how fast they grow!


workathomemom - Saturday, 19 July
Just wanted to check and see how your sleep is coming along? I updated my blog again yesterday. My lil 10 week old goes to be at 8p sleeps till 330a eats 2.5 oz (should be done with that w/in 9 days or so!) and then sleeps till 8a. You should check out the book , it has changed mine and my husbands life dramatically. It is great to have her on a schedul, she eats 4x q day, plus that lil feeding we are almost rid of in the middle of the night. Good Luck to ya!


manda21 - Wednesday, 16 July
My son has to go to bed at ten or he wouldnt be able to sleep a full night. As he gets older, I am progressively moving his bedtime earlier, but for now, he wont sleep through the night if I put him to bed any earlier. Also, I give his his bath at 930 and put on the johnsons baby bedtime lotion which is supposedly clinically studied to help them sleep better, then give his his bottle and by the time he finishes that, he is out cold. he is coming onto the teething phase soon though so I am sure my good nights sleep will be coming to an end soon :)


sheen - Wednesday, 16 July
 Thank you. This picture is the cutest!


hawaiimommy - Wednesday, 16 July
wow! i had no idea you could start swimming lessons this early! ooh, might have to find one for braeden too! lol


manda21 - Tuesday, 15 July
I breastfeed my son and he is 3.5 months. He is a snacker so he eats every two to three hours during the day. When he was two months we tried a formula bottle at night and he immediately went a five hour stretch. We kept doing that one formula bottle at night and now he goes to bed at 10 and weeks up between 5 and 6 to eat again. We only give him one bottle of formula though. Good luck :0


lynna - Tuesday, 15 July
Hey you! Glad to see you back! I am still breast feeding Elijah and yes he still wakes and eats every three hours... arrgg its hard when your working. So I have started to shorten the feeding time. I used to nurse till he fell back a sleep but last week I moved him out of his bassinet and into his crib and now I have to go into his room to feed him.. so needless to say gettting up that much when I have to work isn't working out so well. So far so good. I just make sure he gets enough milk during the day to carry him over. I know now that it is just habit and not that he needs to eat. But I can't stand to watch him cry out for me when I am right there. So anyway sorry so long! Take care!


Myra - Tuesday, 15 July
Hi I just read your post on sleep- my boy is 9 months old and still breast fed and he also waked up every few hours and ive tried everything to get him to sleep and the only thing that worked was to stop feeding at night! and to get into a strict schedule he goes to bed at 8pm and can only get a feed after 4 am he must sleep an 8 hour strecth and i did not pick him up when he cried i just gave him his dummy and a teddy and stood by him untill he was calm and i go out and left and we had a bad week of crying at night but now my boy sleeps from 8pm untill 4am without waking and goes to sleep untill 6 or 7am and his up i make sure i go to bed at 9 pm so that i can be refreshed in the early morning! its winter here try buying a warm water bottle and cover it with a light blanket and put it next to your baby it helped with my son so it feels if hes sleeping next to me! and also if she sleeps more than an hour at a time during the day wake her up after and hour! and make sure she gets at least 6-8 feedings during the day so you know she has had enough nutrition to go through the night! she does not need the extra milk during the night trust me its only a bad habbit!


hawaiimommy - Tuesday, 15 July
 aww such a sweet pic! she looks like she has your eyes in this one!


hawaiimommy - Tuesday, 15 July
 wow! such a beautiful little girl! with big beautiful eyes! awww!


hawaiimommy - Tuesday, 15 July
 awww that's so precious! she looks like she's loving it!


hawaiimommy - Tuesday, 15 July
aww, thank you!


babymck - Monday, 14 July
Hi there, thank you for your nice comments, Hayley is also a little doll.


willows-mum - Tuesday, 8 July
Yes sadly its the children that get caught in the middle & get dragged around when they are finding new places to live etc .. What life do some kids have. Its so sad.


willows-mum - Tuesday, 8 July
OMG! Hunni don't get into that trap of having to drag her around. A friend of mine just took in a friend (so called) and I told her she was making a big mistake. It turns out this friend, stole from her, stole $$ from her kids, stole toys from her kids, stole clothes, ruined her house & then after she kicked her out this so called friend decided she'd put screws in all 4 tyres of her car, so then she needed to get all new tyres. BIG MISTAKE to take someone in.


willows-mum - Monday, 7 July
Aww thank you for adding to my blog
I do feel ok about it now .. Willow was only feeding once a day anyway the rest were formula so its not like she was totally relying on me anyway. She has veggies too, not everyday though .. just a little every few days. She wont touch the cereal .. LOL! She hates it.
And i would still have a drink while i was B/F her .. i think i would have 3 glasses of bacardi & raspberry per week. But now that i have stopped B/F i am going to work on losing some weight ... My family need me healthy & happy. I hope you & Hayley are both well.


LC Melbourne - Saturday, 5 July
Oh thats no fun about your family all being sick. sitty! lol... Im sure Hayley will be fine. And if she does get sick thats ok its bound to happen one day.

Yeh i am going a tad crazy and there is only so much crap on the internet to fill in my time when Charlottes asleep, i am so looking forward to working.

Dr.Phill lol he never gives outstanding advice, its always such simple answers and then he says he will provide people with great help lol not like he helps them himself. Is he even a doctor? lol... But none the less fills in my 12-1pm time if she is asleep.



LC Melbourne - Friday, 4 July
Wow thats wonderful about the sleep. Charlotte is an angle apart from some crappy nights. Has she gotten sick at all since being in child care? We are sending Charlotte to day care in september, im not looking forward to it but it'll be good to go back into work!!
Have a great weekend


Ambrielles mommy - Thursday, 3 July
 what a lucky girl with those beautiful eyes!


LC Melbourne - Thursday, 3 July
Hi Cherub, I noticed you online and checked your page out, my daughter Charlotte was born on the same day! We are in Vic, so its nice to see another aussie here. Hayley is such a gorgeous baby. I was going to pick Hayley that was in my top 5 lol... How much does she weigh? Charlotte was 6kgs at her 4 month check and i think 63.5 cms which is quite long from what the nurse was saying. Anyways let me know how u are going. LC


willows-mum - Thursday, 3 July
Awww she sounds lovely
I had missed you sooo much. I looked for you in the search members but i couldn't find you. Labour-of-love also sent me a message the otherday too. I often think about Peri too .. remember her?


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