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Friday, January 18, 2008
Alright, well I just had my other ultrasound, at 5 weeks 6 days, and guess what? I SAW THE HEARTBEAT!! my mom and hubby was there, and we were all excited. I saw it before the doctor did, and asked "what's that? " then he said, "that's the heartbeat!!! I was so happy. He's said that it's viable and wants to see me in a month @ 10 weeks
Friday, January 11, 2008
 | My first appointment! Ok, I'm officially 4 weeks pregnant. I got all my exams done and the doctor said I look fine. He did have them draw like 8 Vials of BLOOD. UGH!~ I feel like a pin cushin, haha. But he did a sonogram, unfortunately it's too early to see the sac. So he can't tell me if it's a Viable pregnancy. Meaning he can't say if it'll survive. BUT I do go back next friday for another ultrasound. He's hoping to see the Fetal poles and a heart beat! So HOPEFULLY things work out fine. And OMG I know it's TMI but I gotta pee every 2 hrs! UGHHHHH Thursday, January 10, 2008
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eastern-Canadian-Lady - 15.3 hours ago
they were really nice. I took my friend adnher kids (single parent, two kids, no vehicle) to see the fireworks. The kids loved it.
That weight seems normal for this stage. Hearing his little heart beat must really make you smile. I know it does with me.
I have been having trouble with calf pain too. It's good that you got it checked out. I doubt it was a pulled muscle. Mine was lack of calcium, potassium and iron. It's not so bad now that I have been eating better. Sounds liek it was a rough night. Getting the following day off was probably the best idea, and having h at home would have made it even better.
P.s. I was going to leave this past Thursday for vacation for about 2 weeks, but things came up. I may go next Tuesday but will probably be back by the following Wednesday.
I should run. Ally has a birthday party to go to, so I want to get her in the bath.
I'm glad all is well with you add the baby. take care
BeaDis - 37 hours ago
HA yeah i hate the racing games but what i only like about mario kart is battle.. causeits basically like shooting... someones gotta win...lol So im guessin you were playin liek sega or wha? Yeah im still stuck on N64 Mario 64 and like Perfect Dark and 007 Those are pretty tight..:D
BeaDis - Friday, 4 July
:D yes mam.. PC Gamer...But i Hate WoW DOnt PLay Guild Wars either.. i like FPS(First person Shooters)
What about you?
BeaDis - Thursday, 3 July
IM okie dokie just havin that damn round ligement pain...killin me! iLL BE 22 Sunday..Wo0t WO0t!
eastern-Canadian-Lady - Wednesday, 2 July
Thanks,
I was surprised too! when you wrote "I guess it's a good thing because I could've gained like 80lbs or something and have ppl do the "ewww face" when looking at me. lol" I had to laugh. That was me last time I was pregnant, LOL.
I am now going to stop eating whatever I can, and focus on healthy. Before, I would just eat whatever would stay down bc there wasn't much that I could eat. Now that I can eat a bit more it will be easier to be more choosy about the stuff I do eat.
I just got back from the fireworks for Canada Day, I am so tired. It's been a long day. I hope that you can put up your feet and relax some. Good luck at the doctor's appointment.
take care
BeaDis - Tuesday, 1 July
Hows the pregnancy going?
eastern-Canadian-Lady - Tuesday, 1 July
They do sound like they might be able to help, at least somewhat. My baby brother will be 18 in October, and he wants me to have a baby boy. He wants a nephew to be close with. (He is mentally slower than some, but is functional, as in he can go places on his own some. You just can't trust his judgement or decision making process most of the time.)
The group that you are referring to sounds like it might be worth checking out. It's nice that you found out about it, bc around here there aren't many things like that, and very few people find out about the ones that do exist.
The ob told me the same things today about baby moving around causing contractions. She said that having them this much means I will likely have a very easy labour bc the contractions are getting my body ready for the big day.
That was good news. She also said that the more kids you have the easier it should get.
Gosh, I can't go more thna about an hour without running to the washroom. Sometimes I just come out and have to go again, with my hands just getting time to dry in between, LOL. It's kinda nice to have people that don't even know you treat you so well. Common courtesy does seem to be slowing quite a bit. One day I was downtown walking to an office building to get paper work done, and I had to stop walking bc I was having a really bad contraction. This man walks right up to me and asks if I am ok. I was so shocked. I wasn't really ok, but I told him I was bc I was only foot steps from my car. That was on a day just before my ob appointment in May. There were a few people (including mostly women) that didn't even bother to ask! It ended up being fine after a few minutes, but it was nice to be asked. Consider yourself lucky, I am starting to get comments like "you haven't had that baby yet?!?!" I am big now, and the doc told me today that I have to slow down on my weight gain! I lost 37 lbs, and have only gained back 6. mind you, two were in the last two weeks. She said that I should only eat healthy stuff now, and try to not gain more that a half a pound a week. And I thought I was doing good now, well, apparently TOOO good!
I hope that you have fun at the beach. It sounds nice. I go away for a few days on Thursday, so you may not hear from me for about 14 days.
Have a god sleep. I plan on doing the same. I've been up since just after 4 this morning.
ttyl
eastern-Canadian-Lady - Tuesday, 1 July
They do sound like they might be able to help, at least somewhat. My baby brother will be 18 in October, and he wants me to have a baby boy. He wants a nephew to be close with. (He is mentally slower than some, but is functional, as in he can go places on his own some. You just can't trust his judgement or decision making process most of the time.)
The group that you are referring to sounds like it might be worth checking out. It's nice that you found out about it, bc around here there aren't many things like that, and very few people find out about the ones that do exist.
The ob told me the same things today about baby moving around causing contractions. She said that having them this much means I will likely have a very easy labour bc the contractions are getting my body ready for the big day.
That was good news. She also said that the more kids you have the easier it should get.
Gosh, I can't go more thna about an hour without running to the washroom. Sometimes I just come out and have to go again, with my hands just getting time to dry in between, LOL. It's kinda nice to have people that don't even know you treat you so well. Common courtesy does seem to be slowing quite a bit. One day I was downtown walking to an office building to get paper work done, and I had to stop walking bc I was having a really bad contraction. This man walks right up to me and asks if I am ok. I was so shocked. I wasn't really ok, but I told him I was bc I was only foot steps from my car. That was on a day just before my ob appointment in May. There were a few people (including mostly women) that didn't even bother to ask! It ended up being fine after a few minutes, but it was nice to be asked. Consider yourself lucky, I am starting to get comments like "you haven't had that baby yet?!?!" I am big now, and the doc told me today that I have to slow down on my weight gain! I lost 37 lbs, and have only gained back 6. mind you, two were in the last two weeks. She said that I should only eat healthy stuff now, and try to not gain more that a half a pound a week. And I thought I was doing good now, well, apparently TOOO good!
I hope that you have fun at the beach. It sounds nice. I go away for a few days on Thursday, so you may not hear from me for about 14 days.
Have a god sleep. I plan on doing the same. I've been up since just after 4 this morning.
ttyl
eastern-Canadian-Lady - Monday, 30 June
I agree, when it interferes with their personal lives then it's time for help.
When I was done writing that last night I went to go see here, and POOF! she was asleep. I KNEW she was tired, but she has always fought sleep, but more so in the last year.
WOW, you are brave! I could NEVER live with my mother. She is so difficult to live with, or even have conversations with. It sounds like they way you have set it up could work well though, so I'm happy for you. How old are the other kids? Maybe they can help some with the baby once in a while. (My step-kids would never help. I feel like I do most things myself for my daughter. H is good with her, but tires easily, but he is good with dishes, supper and laundry.)
Many hands make light work, that's for sure! You will love being home with him. Do you have playgroups in your area? I use to take Ally once a week for an hour or so. It was cheap, about a dollar, but it got me out of the house so I didn't feel quite as lonely or as depressed. I needed adult conversation! Taking advantage? nope I don't think so. You need what you need. You pay into it in taxes, right? and you haven't used it a thousand times before? and you aren't being lazy and refusing to work? You have been ill? well, that sums it up for me. The government has these programs for people so that they don't get desperate for money and do things that are illegal. It is help for when you need a hand up.
I have been getting BH all day too. It was really bad for about three hours, and I actually considered going to the hospital. I reconsidered and had a nap, and another one woke me up. They aren't as bad now, so I think I can wait for my appointment with the ob tomorrow.
I must run. I feel lazy, but I want to get a few boxed emptied. ttyl.
eastern-Canadian-Lady - Sunday, 29 June
Oh, I guess I didn't quite get the timeline. I thought he killed her step father, then she committed suicide, then her boyfriend did, then her dad did.
Yup, that's what I thought. I don't want it in my house either. He wasn't buying that and sending it to my house, just to clarify. He would buy computer parts that my h would recommend to fix up his busted old crappy computer, and vidoe consoles, and games, and rifle parts for target practise (he's military). I still wasn't comfortable with it coming to my house. I wouldn't want people helping my h to hide things from me. (not that he would, it's just the principle of it. I am BIG on principle!!!)
It sounds like you and your h have things worked out in a great way financially. I'm impressed!
Looking at pics is one things, but cheating is totally another! People can fantasize while looking at pics all they want, and it hurts nobody. Cheating always results in somebody being hurt.
My baby was doing the same thing, two nights in a row. It doesn't hurt so much as it is uncomfortable. Hopefully tonight's sleep will be much better for you.
I have to get going. For some odd reason lately, my daughter won't sleep on her own. She is up until somewhere between 9 and 10:30. Last night it was 11:45. I got her up nice and early this morning, 7:45. I was hoping it would make her tired for tonight, but no luck!
I must run. take care
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eastern-Canadian-Lady - Saturday, 28 June
I wrote out a long post earlier, it got lost. Must be in the land of socks.
I know a few people that had the same problem with taking unneccessary meds long after, or more than they were supposed to. It must have been very tough for your mom to have to make the decision that she did. She probably knew it wasn't him, it was the addiction that made him do the things that he did. As for your step-brother, he sounds like he needs help. Where is his mother? Good things he isn't staying with your mom anymore.
Your friend sounds like she had a horrible life. I wonder if her dad felt any guilt? It sounds like he was at least partially responsible for how she was feeling. You did the right thing by trying to make sure she got help.
Not all of Canada is like my area. Big cities (Vancouver, Halifax, Montreal, Toronto) are much more accepting. I have neighbours that are gay. They don't advertise it, or flaunt it in any way, and as far as I know nobody has ever said or done anything mean to them. I can't say that it would have been the same if it were 10 yrs ago. Where I am, it's not socially accepted. We are very conservative, for the most part. People are generally nicer about it than now they use to be, but I have known several men that have dissowned their children for "choosing that lifestyle".
I'm surprised that your brothers didn't pound the snot out of him! He is lucky that you are trying to work things out with him.
My h's friend from work was addicted to porn too. The only difference was that he wasn't really spending money on it.
His wife is and always has been very controlling and mean. i think that kind of drove him away. She yells at him constantly, even when he is on the phone to my h she accuses him of talking to another woman. She is jealous and insecure. She had that before she found out that she had cancer. She's had it for about 5 yrs now. She is very overweight. (maybe 250 lbs) She gives him an allowance of 10 dollars every month, or once a pay. can't remember. Anyway, if he wants anything, he has to spend it out of that money. (Even for a coffee at a corner store once in a while) She tries to control how he spends it though. He saves his money pretty well, and everytime he wants something she asks a bizzillion questions. (where did you get money for that? where did you buy it? how much was it? then she proceeds to tell him that he must be getting too big of an allowance if he can get himself things that he likes, even if it took a year to get it.) So he has resorted to getting things shipped to our house (which I put a stop too bc I don't want to be on the receiving end of her anger and I don't like him lying to her) He picks it up at our house and takes it to his mother's house. His mother will keep it until his birthday, or Christmas then wrap it as though it was a gift. She gets mad saying that his mother spends too much money on him.... if she only knew!!!
It's good that your h recognises that their is/was a problem and lets you help him to deal with it. It's a good thing that you know what you are doing when it comes to the computer, bc fore-warned means fore-armed.I'm glad he is treating you well now. I agree with your views on marriage. One shouldn't just get a divorce without trying to work on the problems, bc it will inevitable show up in the next relationship. However, I also don't believe in marriage being an excuse to abuse. You are a smart cookie to have already decided what would be the final straw for you. You are much more likely to keep the promise to yourself about leaving now that you've done that. Smart move! You are much more understanding than most people would be. He is lucky to have you! (I'd want somebody to say these things to my sister if she were in your shoes, so I had to pass it along.)
My baby doesn't go near my ribs. Seems to stay way lower than my belly button, but likes to kick my belly button a lot. When baby kicks, if I push back, baby pushes back too. It's funny and sometimes I end up laughing. My daughter watches and giggles too.
I made cookies tonight. Mmm Peanut butter cookies are good. I got h to get me chinese for supper bc I couldn't eat anything here. I really didn't think I could eat that either, but surprise. I ate a lot, then had 2 cookies for dessert.
I'm sick of typing now too. gotta get my monkey ready for bed. ttyl
This is your private message to Cindie - Friday, 27 June
(Not visible to others:) I think that Ontario only ever hit 45 degrees once that I know of. I would DIE in that heat.
I've known people who have the same problem with meds bc of pain. Even though your mom went through a lot with your step dad, it must have been a really tough decision for her. She probably realised that even if he lived, after all of those meds, he wouldn't have had a very good life afterwards.
I am glad to here that your step brother is not living with your mom. He does sound like he needs an awful lot of help. Where is HIS mother? shouldn't she be doing something to help him get treatment? Yeesh!
What happened with your friend in high school sounds terrible. Her life sounded horrible. Was it always that bad for her, or did it all just fall apart when she got into her teens? Her boyfriend obviously took it hard too. Sometimes people blame themselves for what other people do. Guilt never works in anybody's favour.
We are considered by some to be the Bible belt of Canada, so family matters are really not to be messed with much. When I was in school it was more conservative than it is now. Things seem to be the tiniest bit more relaxed that way now. In fact, my neighbours are gay. Although they don't advertise you see that it is only the two of them living there. Nobody has ever (to my knowledge) bothered them. I don't think it would have been the same 15 yrs ago. I know several men who have disowned their children for "Choosing that lifestyle" It's not like that everywhere in Canada. In the big cities it is very common and socially acceptable, from what I gather. (Toronto, Halifax, Montreal, Vancouver.) It's not my style, but it doesn't mean that I have to hate them. They are people, bottom line.
Your brothers just talked to him? And that changed him? He is probably pretty scared of them. I am very surprised that they didn't beat him into submission.
My h's friend has the same addiction, with one exception. He has never paid for it by running up bills. He bought a few magazines, and movies, but gets it free on the net. She got really mad, so he stopped.
Not as an excuse, but She is VERY insecure anyway, but this addiction made her insecurities even worse. She has cancer, and has always been very angry and controlling. He gets a 10 dollar allowance every two weeks or every month to spend on what he wants each pay day. She tries to control where he spends it.
He has to save it for a year to get anything good. He has resorted to buying things out of his money and getting it shipped to our house, then he takes it to his mother's house. His mother will wrap it and give it to him as gifts so that she doesn't get mad at him.
It's good that your h has the knowledge that he has a problem, and is willing to get help (even if it's from you) in order to get it under control.
I agree with your thinking on marriage not being done just to get a divorce, however, I would also state that I don't think marriages are an excuse for abuse. If you ever get into a situation that you can't handle, it's better for you and baby to get out. You're a smart cookie though, so I know that you already know that!
i'm very glad to hear that he is sorry for the mistakes he had made, and is doing his best to treat you well. That's a "one up" on most people.
My baby never goes up near my ribs, but I hear many people saying that. Barely There does like to roll around a lot though. If I push on where baby is kicking, baby kicks me back too, LOL.
TMI, but at 5 this morning, we were frisky. I got a really bad pain suddenly which was much like the pain I get with ovarian cysts. Then I went to the washroom. and I think I lost a SMALL piece of my mucous plug. It was gross, like snot. no blood though. I haven't had any pain since. H was already paranoid of being frisky, but now he says he doesn't want to do anything more until after baby is born.
I think it may be wise. i think I will mention it to the ob on Monday, since I already have an appointment scheduled.
I am sick of typing now too. I think I will run. take care
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coronafrk80 - Thursday, 26 June
Oops, forgot to tell you that i'm having a little boy. I'm not sure what we're naming him yet. Any ideas?
coronafrk80 - Thursday, 26 June
I'm sorry to hear that. I'll say a prayer for you and your little one. I know how tough it is to hear that your baby is sick. It took me a while to get used to the idea of my baby boy being sick for the rest of his life. God decided to take him and make him into a little angel. What type of skin problem if you don't mind me asking.
coronafrk80 - Thursday, 26 June
You're very welcome! Do you know what you're having? Any names picked out?
coronafrk80 - Thursday, 26 June
You are nowhere near fat!!! You look so cute! coronafrk80 - Thursday, 26 June
You have a cute belly!!! coronafrk80 - Thursday, 26 June
Ooh, we're due around the same time! Aren't you excited?! I hate waiting around and wondering if everything is okay.
eastern-Canadian-Lady - Thursday, 26 June
Good morning. Sleep well?
I am usually the freezer and Dan is the oven. I can normal warm up on him in winter, which I take full advantage of, LOL. I get so cold normally that I even sleep with a comforter on, even in summer.
I think the highest I have EVER heard of in Canada was about 45 degrees. Usually in the hottest part of summer it is between 30 and 35. On overcast days it's nearer to 25. Once in a blue moon, if it's windy we might see it go to 18. It's usually about 18 to 20 degrees at night.
For poutine, (pronounced Pooh-teen) all you do is make your fries as normal. While they are cooking, make a small pot of gravy. Then when the fries come out of the oven, toss of some shredded mozzerella cheese and pour on the gravy, and Voila!
There are several variations on it, but that is the most common. One variation (I think it is referred to as Newfie Poutine) is to fry up some hamburger and throw it on before the cheese and gravy. Another is where you add chicken. Another they add either one of those two meats and also a bunch of boiled mixed veggies. (corn, carrots, peas)
I hardly told you about my family. I wrote this, than thought twice about sending:
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My parents and step-parents have all been married twice, resulting in 17 kids total. I have only 3 full siblings, supposedly 6 half siblings, and 8
step-siblings. (Time for birth control if you ask me!)
Neal had one, met my mom and had three,
My mom had us three, then met Jim and had 2
Jim and first wife had 5, (then he met my mom and had 2, alreay mentioned)
Sue (Neal's wife) had one in high school that she put up for adoption, but she keeps in contact with her. Then she married a man and had two, then she met Neal and had two.
I think I am pretty much the most normal of the bunch, except for one of
Jim's girls. She is a really nice Christian woman, about 20 yrs older than me, and has three kids. The rest of them I could do without. There was never any conflict or anything, but it was basically bc there was almost no
contact. They were all a lot older than us 6.
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my mother's mom died of Breast cancer when mom was 7. She has three siblings, and is in contact with none of them.
My mother's mother had several siblings. (my gradmother's father had three wives. One died of illness, one in childbirth and he stayed with the third. I never knew any of my grnadmother's family)
My mother's father had a half brother and I think 3 other soblings. My grandfather was in WWII in Hong Kong. He died afew years back. Grampy never re-married after his wife died. He was a single parent with 4 kids.
My sperm donor's parents died when I was really young. I met them once, but I was a baby.
My sperm donor had I think 7 siblings.
One sibling was close to where we lived, and had three kids that were a few years older than us. I know who they are now to run into them, but that is only bc they were at my aunt's (their mother) funeral when she died 8 yrs ago. i was pregnant with my daughter at her funeral, so it's a shame they never met. She was ok, I guess, I only saw her a few times, but she was there for two BIG things that happened in my life, where her brother wasn't.
My sperm donor had a sister that lived in the next province that ALWAYS sent cards for my birthday and Christmas until she died (of a brain aneurism?) when I was young. (maybe 7?) Funny thing was that I never knew who she was until I found a card when I was about 12. I asked who it was from, bc it was addressed, and she told me it was my father's sister. I guess she was really nice.
My step-father had I think 9 siblings. (some half siblings.) His mother was married twice.
My step-mother was adopted and had I think 5 full siblings, and 1 that was a bio child to her adoptive parents.
My mother doesn't like anyone, so we never really had contact with anyone in any of the families. My family is full of drama too. I don't have much in common with my siblings. I was really responsible all the time, and mom took advantage of that. I only really have conversations with 2 of them right now, and they are seldom at that. I CAN speak to another one, but we have nothing to talk about.
I absolutely refuse to speak with two of them. My sister married my ex boyfriend, and that was after I stopped speaking to her. I couldn't stand her before that happened, but that was embarrassing and gross, and made us look like a bunch of hillbillies.
My other brother belongs in an institution for insane people. He has done many things that are totally against what normal people would agree with. We don't stick up for each other either, at least I don't. If they expect me to stand up for something that they've done, they better start doing something good, LOL.
so yes, I guess my extended family is big. I never really thought about it bc none of them are in my life. They wouldn't know who I was if they tripped over me. My own father didn't know who I was when I was a teen. I saw him at his work and he looked right through me, like I was just another face in the crown, non-existant.
That's why if I wasn't with Dan I wouldn't ever have any more children. My family is ridiculous. My daughter will only ever have the baby (and perhaps one more if we decide to) and 2 half siblings. Dan was married before and had two kids that lived in our home for a decade. one is still with us at 19. The other moved to her mother's house at the start of March. (I am so glad to have her gone, her moodiness was too much for me to handle during pregnancy.)Dan and I get along really well. After this long we are still best friends. I've been a step-mom since I was about 20, to kids that were 6 and 7. It was not an easy road, and I recommend against it to everyone that asks.
That's funny about your cousin and your aunt. There must be a lot of family resemblance in your family!
Your pic looks exactly like my littlest sister, she's pretty brainy. I had to do a double take the first time I saw it your pic. (I'd like to take credit for teaching her, LOL, but she really picked things up quickly. My daughter takes after her in that way.)
I have never been to myspace. Do you have to set up an account? login? passwords? My step-son can probably help me figure it out if I do.
I guess I should go. time to bake cookies with my monkey.
ttyl
LAURASUE - Thursday, 26 June
Thanku 4 your congrats hun & good luck with the rest of your pregnancy and the birth xx
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