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Dani331
Age: 26
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Partner: Scott (husband)
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Due date: 18 Oct ,2008
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**My husband and I are pregnant with our first child and are due this October. We decided not to plan to get pregnant, just wait and see what happens. We didn't want the stress every month of waiting to see if my period would come. We weren't actively trying to conceive but we also weren't actively preventing it either. We figured it would happen when it was suppose to. Well it didn't take long... we were married in October 2007 and pregnant by January 2008!

**We have decided not to find out the sex of the baby which is only adding to the anticipation of the birth! We have chosen Ryan William for a boys name (William is my grandfathers name) and are all over the place with girls names!! My husband likes Madison, I like Madelyn.. either way it will end up being called Maddy. Kate, Megan, Alison (Ali) and Brynn are all in the running. If it ends up being a girl we will just have to see what she "looks" like to us!

**I have had a pretty easy pregnancy up until week 22. Before then I only had morning sickness twice and was feeling great... no aches and pains. I was having severe back pain that migrated to my abdomin and was admitted to the hospital where I found out I had kidney stones. It was horrible! I am just hoping the last few months are as uneventful as the first few (wishful thinking)!

**Update 7/30: I've noticed the pregnancy getting a lot harder as I enter the third trimester. I'm not saying it's a bad thing, I've just noticed a huge difference in my body the last few weeks. I am usually a very active person so it is a bit frustrating when simple things like walking my dog tire me out! As of week 29 I have put on a total of 16 pounds. I am not complaining by any means though, I love being pregnant. It's just a lot harder than I thought it would be! We had another sonogram at 27 weeks. The baby weighs 2lbs 6oz. He/She is extremely active, it moves around a lot during the day but it seems to put on a show for my husband and I at night. It is such an amazing feeling.

Name? Danielle
Age? 26
Height? 5'4
Pre-pregnancy weight? 125
FathersName? Scott
Age? 28
Height? 6'2
Are you still together? yes...married 8 months and counting!
Is this your first pregnancy? yes
When did you find out you were pregnant? Valentines Day
Was it planned? sort of :)
What was your first reaction? I started crying
Who was with you when you found out? my dog Jack
Who was the first person you told? I told my mother. my husband was at work and i didn't want to tell him over the phone! it was the longest few hours waiting for him to finally get home so i could tell him the good news!
How did your parents react? they were thrilled
How far along are you? 24 weeks
What was your first symptom? I thought I had the flu so I went to the doctor. he ran some blood tests and turned out I was a few weeks pregnant
What is your due date? 10/18/08
Do you know the sex of the baby? nope. we want to be surprised
Have you picked out names? for a boy we have chosen Ryan William. We are undecided for a girl
How much weight have you gained? 7 1/2 lbs
Do you have stretch marks? nope!
Have you felt the baby move? yes! i swear I have a soccer player in there!
Have you heard the heartbeat? yes
Will you keep the baby? of course
Home or hospital birth? hospital
Natural or medicated birth? MEDICATED! I am not trying to be a hero!
Who will be in the delivery room with you? my hubby
Will you breastfeed? no
Do you think you'll need a c-section? right now the baby is breech, but it has plenty of time to change positions!
Will you cry when you hold the baby for the first time? i am sure i will
What's the first thing you might say to him/her? probably "i love you"
Would you let someone videotape the birth? No!
Are you excited about the birth, or scared? a little bit of both





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Shaymika1987 - Thursday, 11 September
I was also having pains but to the pelic trying to seperate due to the baby trying to get his head down there, But I also heard the what you are talking about can be worse than what it is now, I talked to one woman that had it and her pelvic bones seperated so much that After the baby they never went back together and she had to be in a whell chari for a long time so I would def got get it checked out just to make sure that yours is normal and haven't stretched out too far good luck


oldpinkprincess - Wednesday, 10 September
a woman who i talk to on here has this, shes just been told to take warm baths, and keep her legs closed as much as possible, ie- when getting up out of bed or sofa and so on, they were going send her to see a physio and give her a bump belt, but it would take 3 weeks to get an apt here, and she will be nearly rteady to give birth, hope this helps. x x


Shaymika1987 - Tuesday, 9 September
Well you can loose it all or just a little at a time it just depends on the person. Your plug can look different it can be brownish, pinkish, or reddish. If your is brown then the just means that it dried up blood but you said it's like spit then that was probably it.


*lovelymomma* - Monday, 8 September
I've had similar discharge in the last few weeks and my doc said it was probably part of the mucos plug.Mine was only a little yellowish/green but she said it could be anything from clear to brown that everyone is different.


tish06 - Monday, 8 September
yes it is possible to lose your mucus plug gradually instead of all at once...my aunt always lost hers gradually...


Bangel - Monday, 8 September
What color? Been having similiar, but its white so my doctor says its just normal discharge. Think the plug is supposed to be yellow.


tamara4843 - Wednesday, 30 July
I feel your pain about the breastfeeding!! I haven't decided yet what I'm gonna do, but I think I'm gonna give breastfeeding a try and see how it goes. I just look at the convenience of bottle feeding - my hubby can take part in feeding the baby, and you can go out for an afternoon with the baby without having to worry about breastfeeding in public. But my mother-in-law keeping bringing up the topic and telling me how I MUST breastfeed because breastfed babies are happier and more content and healthier, yadda yadda, and I just get frustrated with her everytime we talk about it. My mother had three of us and we were all bottle fed, and we all turned out fine . . . don't let anyone try and change your mind about doing what you want to do!!


lead cackle - Wednesday, 30 July
I also have decided not to breast feed my baby and have heard nothing but crap about it! People can be so freaking rude, I swear. It is such a personal choice and the baby needs fed so often that the mother had better damn well feel comfortable with her choice! Just try and ignore other people's unwanted comments and do whatever feels best for you. It is your baby and will be healthy with formula or breast milk. Either way, it doesn't make you ANY less of a mother!!


stone - Wednesday, 30 July
Breast feeding and bottle feeding is a personal choice and you shouldn't feel bad about choosing one or the other. I chose to breast feed and will with this one, but my sister went bottle the whole way. All our babies are perfectly happy and healthy. It isn't your extended families baby or body so they don't get a say in the matter. I am sorry that you are going to have to put up with some crap from them. Just do what is best for you and your baby.


dapie898 - Wednesday, 30 July
oh and we also weren't actively trying or preventing pregnancy with our first...we were married June 4th 2005 and I found out i was 2 months pregnant in Jan. 2006 :)


dapie898 - Wednesday, 30 July
I read your page and my baby is a boy and his middle name is going to be William after my grandfather as well...i saw taht if you have a boy that's what you'll be naming yours. My husband's name is Ryan...which is your boys name and my 2 year old son is Andrew Ryan. If we had a girl we were going to name her Danielle...just thought all the name coincidences were neat :)


dapie898 - Wednesday, 30 July
breastfeeding is a personal choice and not for everyone...i think it's terrible that your in laws are giving you grief about it. i breastfed for a very short time, then pumped, and then went to formula by month 6 with my first...i'm an OB nurse and I'm telling you that formula feeding is FINE...if it will make them feel any better lie and tell them you are pumping and bottle feeding


mrskcich - Wednesday, 30 July
no problem....to each their own in their decision to breastfeed.

All of us are given the facts about it..is it healthy..of course..healthier than formula..perhaps but I don't know of any babies that have been seriously ill because they got no breast milk. Those that are breastfed aren't necessarily are the healthiest babies there are. Ya know?

My third child I did breastfeed (well breast and pump) for about 6 weeks..it was fine. Was she sickly? not really but she did have her illnesses, needed tubes in her ears, has allergies like a champ, etc. I think some of the statistics are just run on naturally healthy babies...they never release the statistics on the unhealthy kids that are breastfed, ya know?

I do plan on breast feeding this one..along with pumping..unless it hurts this go round. I certainly won't feel bad about it if I can't. Times have changed and formula has come a long way.


MommyToGirls - Wednesday, 30 July
don't worry about not breastfeeding, I didn't breastfeed my first two and they turned out perfectly health and smart. My grandmother is the opposite, she's against breastfeeding! lol! she hates that my cousin breastfed so long and had a toddler yanking her top up for the boob in public. lol. I only breastfed my 3rd until 10 months when I found out I was pregnant again. Don't let what others say bother you.


kelim - Wednesday, 30 July
hey huni, dont worry i am not going to breast feed and its your choice so dont listen to any one else, its your baby!xxx


Bangel - Wednesday, 30 July
Even my old fashioned mom was just commenting on how obsessive, mean and pushy people have gotten about breast feeding! I know what lady even getting crap because she's only pumping..she can't breast feed because of medical reasons, but the baby is still getting breast milk and that's not good enough for people. Crazy! And brace yourself for the hospital nurses, they made my poor sister cry about it!


Madisons-Mom - Wednesday, 30 July
Have you ever considered pumping? Maybe that would make you feel better? I breastfed for a year with my first and really do not want to this time, I'm going to try to pump and bottle feed or do both, I just don't want to nurse that long again.....just stand behind your decision and if you feel guilty maybe just give it a shot, you never know unless you try, people need to respect whatever decision you make and support you....good luck!


McKeela - Wednesday, 30 July
Hello - I actually am debating on whether or not I am going to breast feed this one. And I would like to say be ready to expect it form the hospital staff as well. The thing to remember is it's YOUR choice. If you would elect to not breasfeed so be it.


mrskcich - Wednesday, 30 July
With my first child my in laws (thankfully, they are my ex in laws now) made me feel horrible because I was going to breastfeed my son. They told me it was disgusting and selfish on my part because they wanted to feed him too. We lived with them, so I was very intimidated by them. They actually told me that if that is what I was going to do then I had to do it in our room where they didn't have to see it. I was shocked.

Anyways, my son was a massive 9.9 and I only breastfed him for like a week because it was torturous and he was always hungry. With my second child, I didn't even try.

My point is, try not to let it get you down. I know it is hard...but it is your decision..if they think the baby needs to be breast fed then they can have their own kids and do it.

You can always buy your own bottles or tell people to give you gift cards so you can pick them out and not be out any money. I know this doesn't help much but try to stay positive...


KatieMarie - Thursday, 3 July
I am feeling much better compared to Monday...It was the worst pain every! I think you and I will be ready for the labor pain!...lol they told me the same thing that kidney stones are worse. I am glad that you are feeling better! Good luck with you little one!


courtenay - Friday, 27 June
thank you, its just really scary when something is abnormal.
good luck with everything for you.


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