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J9
J9 has 163 days to go and is now in week 16
	Age: 29 Country: UK Province/region: England City: London Partner: husband Children: Pregnant: Yes Due date: 15 Feb ,2009 Occupation: Psychologist
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Hi everyone, my name is Janine. Thanks for stopping by my page.

We found out today (8th June 2008) that we are pregnant for the second time and are overjoyed but terrified at the same time.

Sadly our first baby had to go to heaven at 13 weeks. We discovered at our scan that our little bub had Anencephaly, a fatal neural tube defect which causes the head and brain not to form - a condition totally incompatible with life. We therefore had no choice but to say goodbye to our little bundle of joy and opt for a d&c on the 29th February. Our hearts were broken by this terrible experience.

We now have an Angel in heaven and we have taken many blessings from the 3 months our little baby had with us. That little person will always have a special place in our hearts.

We are so grateful for the wonderful second chance we have been given and can only hope and pray that all unfolds well this time around.

What follows is a poem a lovely friend from this site sent to me. It brought comfort to me and I hope it will do the same for others who have experienced a loss.

I did not die young.

I lived the span of my life in your body,

And within your love.

There are many who have lived long lives

And have not been as loved as me.

If you would honour me, then speak my name,

And number me among your family.

If you would honour me, then try to live in love,

For in that love, I live.

Never ever doubt that we will meet again.

Until that happy day, I will grow with God

And wait for you

If you are interested, all my updates are in my blog section on the right.

Best of Luck to everyone trying for a baby and Congratulations to all those with a little bundle of joy on the way!
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lp - Friday, 29 August
haa aw your too cute! ya know i feel like everything in moderation ya know? are you painting walls in a room or painting pictures? i wouldnt worry about it. as long as you take your breaks and stuff like that why wouldnt you be able to? you can always ask your doc if your really wondering. and geez what is with the men thinking they know it all? where is their vagina? and their uterus? i mean hha they are wonderful and helpful but making us worry isnt doing a bit of good.
how are you feeling otherwise???

kytti - Thursday, 28 August
Thanks so much for the nice comments on my baby girl. :) She is a sweetie.... we just had her first bath today! Posting a few pictures in a bit. I hope you are doing okay!

mirielle88 - Tuesday, 26 August
Hey, I am doing well, how have you been? Hope you're feeling great!! :)

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Photos

6 weeks today! 22 June 2008 (2008, 06, 22)

Our Baby - 8 weeks 5 days (2008, 07, 11)

20th July 2008 - 10 weeks today (2008, 07, 20)

3rd August 2008 - 12 weeks already! (2008, 08, 04)

Baby at 13 weeks + 2 days (2008, 08, 12)

14 WEEKS - 17th August 2008 (2008, 08, 26)

Latest blogs
02-9-2008 - 16 week ultrasound
22-8-2008 - Second Trimester
12-8-2008 - The dreaded and long awaited 13 week 2 day scan
11-7-2008 - 8 week 5 day scan
19-6-2008 - Updated 6th AUGUST - First Trimester
08-6-2008 - Pregnancy Symptoms
08-6-2008 - I-AM-PREGNANT
03-6-2008 - An emotional wait
23-5-2008 - The time has come.. a little early! 23 May 2008
11-5-2008 - Back to square one
10-5-2008 - Waiting to test... tomorrow!
06-5-2008 - Symptoms or Madness! 6th May 2008
06-5-2008 - Trying again... 27th April 2008
06-5-2008 - follow up with the doctor 24th april
06-5-2008 - a new cycle, a new beginning
06-5-2008 - waiting for first AF 2nd April 2008

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