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JayW
JayW has 40 days to go and is now in week 34
Age: 32
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Due date: 26 Jun ,2008
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My husband and I met in college back in the early 90's. We got married in 1999 and welcomed our daughter, Sydney Michelle, in 2001. We are expecting our second child on June 26th, 2008 and are anxiously awaiting Syd's sibling!

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I keep forgetting what weeks go with what months...so if anyone else has that problem, this helps:
Month 1 = Weeks 1-4, Month 2 = Weeks 5-8, Month 3 = Weeks 9-13,
Month 4 = Weeks 14-17, Month 5 = Weeks 18-21, Month 6 = Weeks 22-26,
Month 7 = Weeks 27-30, Month 8 = Weeks 31-35, Month 9 = Weeks 36-40

Pregnancy Survey

How far along are you::15 Weeks
Cravings so far::Clementines, Strawberries, French Onion Soup
Things that make you sick::Cheddar Cheese & Pretzel Combos
Boy or girl::"It looks like a boy", I'm told!
Babys name::It's a secret (we haven't fully agreed on one!)
Advice for other pregnant women::Rest NOW!
Baby Daddy::Husband, Seth
His reaction::Excited
Greatest memory so far::My first ultrasound
Biggest fear::Having our daughter feel left out
Strange symptoms::Great sense of smell
Advantages of being pregnant::My husband waits on me!
Weird dreams::Of my grandmother who passed away a few years ago...
Emotional outbursts::Only when prevoked by TV! (Extreme Home Makeover - Home Edition!)
Breast changes::HUGE
Waist changes::Can't button jeans and khaki's.
Things you quit for baby::Margaritas!
Most uncomfortable time::Middle of the night.
Worst part of being pregnant::The long time until I feel the baby move.
Best place for maternity clothes::Mimi Maternity
Taking parenting classes::No.
Pregnancy necessities::Flat shoes.
Grandparents reaction::Lots of tears.
Aunts? Uncles?::Erin, Tom, Josh, Missy, Tanya, Scott
Godparents::Godmother: Courtney, Godfather: Not sure yet.
Where will you deliver::Hospital
When::Due 06.26.2008
Will you breastfeed::I'll try, didn't work with my daughter...
Will you use cloth diapers::Nope.
Books you're reading::Your Pregnancy, Week by Week.
Friday, 4 Jan

Anxious @ 15 Weeks...So, the more familiar I get with this site, the more I see `updates ` and I have decided to start them!At the 15 week mark I am feeling anxious. My first trimester (as much as it guilts me to say this) was rather uneventful! I did have two rounds of `evening sickness ` (one being at a wedding!) but that was it...I`ve been pretty lucky. What I didn`t have in sickness I made up for with exhaustion. I am finally able to stay up past 8:30pm, though!

I am plagued with paranoia this pregnancy, and I am not sure why. Our daughter is 6, and although it seems like a million years ago...her pregnancy was uneventful. I was large and in charge, I gained 60lbs, but I had an `easy ` pregnancy that time, there really isn `t a reason for me to be this worried...easier said then done!I am hoping once I feel movement, that will set my mind at ease...but time will tell.

I swear I am feeling some early movement. I remember with my daughter it started with a feeling like someone was dragging a feather across the inside of my belly...it won `t be long before the movement will make me sit up and stop what I `m doing!

Next appointment: January 10th!

Tuesday, 8 Jan
So...last night I had these terrible pains under my breasts and it eventually caused tears! I got really nervous, b/c I just couldn`t pin-point where or what was hurting. My husband wanted to go to the ER, but I convinced him that I should call my DR first. I did, and after describing it to him and answering a few questions he told me I was having a GALLBLADDER ATTACK! He said it is quite common in pregnancy b/c of an increased amount of estrogen that prevents the gallbladder from emptying completley. I am on a bland diet until further notice and can only drink clear liquids. I can take Tums if the pain comes back. I have a scheduled 4 month visit on Thursday, so we will chat more then.The more people I tell the more I hear that it is rather common!

Friday, 11 Jan

Appointment Update...I had my 4 month visit yesterday and we heard the heartbeat. I didn `t think to ask how many bpm it was, and I am kicking myself for that! They did mention that the baby is sitting right on my bladder!

Total weight gain so far is 5lbs, I am fine with that, b/c with our daughter I was at about 18lbs at 4 months! I can slowly begin to eat non-bland items...but that makes me nervous b/c the pain of that gallbladder attack is still fresh in my mind, so I think I will stick to soup and crackers and JellO for a few more days!

We have an u/s scheduled for February 7th at our 5th month visit. My husband and our 6 year old will be joining me, and I sure hope the doctor announces that it `s a girl, otherwise, he will see the mother-of-all-temper-tantrums from our daughter! She is banking on a baby sister that she can dress in her American Girl clothes (SO not happening, but I am not breaking it to her now!).

Next appointment: February 7th!

Friday, 8 Feb

Appointment Update...I had my 20 week visit and ultra-sound yesterday afternoon, and my husband and our 6 year old daughter attended. My doctor does the u/s, so he began with measurments and said everything is right where it should be for a June 26th due date and that the bones look strong and developing as they should be. At that point, he asked if we wanted to know the sex if he was able to determine it. We anxiously said 'yes` and after a few good pokes to my belly the baby moved into a position that the doctor liked. We were able to see the face and the baby even opened it`s mouth and stuck out it`s tongue! The next thing we saw was a little tiny fist waving in the air!

He then said to our daughter `Well, it looks like you are going to have a baby brother!` and she said `Nooooooo!`. It wasn`t the full temper-tantrum that I expected, but it was close. She was giggling though, and didn`t resemble the devil`s spawn that she can be. Her unhappiness turned to pure excitement as her next statement was `Well, now I don`t have to share my American Girl dolls!`.

So...it`s a boy, I'm told. I am still in denial. Don`t misunderstand, I am pleased beyond words that things are happy and healthy, but since I have `done` a girl before, I am a little scared about a boy!

I gained 2lbs this month, which puts me at 10 total. That was one thing that had me wondering about it being a boy...with our daughter I was up to at least 25-30lbs by 5 months! Girls definatley transform their mother`s bodies! Even my nose looked weird!

I am told that `little boys love their mommies...`and that alone is enough to make me think that, well...okay, maybe I CAN `do` the boy thing! Next appointment - March 6th.



Friday, 7 Mar

The ole` in & out...I had my 6 month check-up yesterday, I remember these as the boring appointments...pretty uneventful. Weight, urine sample, blood pressure, measured the belly and chatted for a few minutes...then I was on my way!

I gained 4lbs this month, which puts me at a total of 14, I am so fine with that!

One exciting bit of information that I got was that I should go ahead and sign up for our hosiptal tour and the sibling class for our daughter.

The spare bedroom is empty, the changing table is in place...we have to get the crib and cradle back from my brother-in-law...things are moving right along now!

I have to go for my glucose screening on the 21st...that is never a fun morning!

I am over my paranoia at having a boy...mostly because a close friend of mine just had one. They have a daughter, as well...and she said that she can`t believe her attraction to the little man. She said it isn`t that she felt she slighted her daughter...this relationship with her son is just 'different`.

Next Appointment: April 3rd!


Wednesday, 26 Mar

I am officially crazy! I changed doctors! Yes, I know...crazy, right?

I couldn`t help it. I have been unhappy for quite some time, but now that I am sick, he pushed me over the edge. First of all, when I called him on Easter to tell him I couldn`t breathe, he treated me like I was a 5 year old. Then...when I got to the office on Monday...he didn`t even acknowledge me when he walked into the room! He just grabbed the stethescope, listened to my back, and said `Come into the office! `. I had to fight back tears b/c my husband was in the waiting room and I knew he would end up in jail if I told him how rude the doctor was!

I went home and stewed about it all day and all night (probably why I didn`t sleep good that night) and after a heart to heart with my mom she told me that now was not the time to settle and I needed to talk to some friends and see what doctor they recommended (to make a long story short, I hadn`t met my doctor until I got pregnant, my normal Gynocologist doesn`t deliver babies b/c he focuses on cancer, which is why I was with him to begin with b/c my aunt is a cervical cancer survivor so all the females in my family go to the same doctor...).

I have found a fantastic new doctor who I can`t wait to meet in person. I spoke to his receptionist for about 20 minutes and then a nurse for another 20. Both were speechless at my history with this doctor.

In hind-sight, never once has this guy gone over any labs with me...never told me my baby`s heart rate (they barely listen...like for 6 beats and thats it!)...never told me my bp without me asking...and I would have to ask for my weight gain each month!

I go in next Friday for my 7 months check up with the new doc, I still can`t believe I did this at this stage in the game, but I already feel better about it...I slept like a rock last night!

Friday, April 4

I had my first appointment with my new doctor today...and he is fantastic. We went over my file from beginning until now. Apparantley my old doctor was quite thorough...just lacked a bit in bed side manner! All of my labs have been great...my glucose test came back good...my bp is great and the baby's heart beat is a solid 127bpm.

I gained lots this month...10lbs! I am up to a total of 24. He wasn't concerned, though, and told me to be prepared to gain double what I am now in the last 3 months...48lbs seems like a lot to me, but he said because of my frame (I am not a small lady!) and because the baby is measuring a little on the big size...48lbs is my max. He is also taking into consideration that our daughter was 8lbs-10oz...so the trend seems to be that I have big babies! I am hoping it won't come to that a full 48lbs...but I know that the last trimester isn't very nice to us!

I will begin to see him every 2 weeks from here on in...and I will have an u/s at 35 weeks to check the baby's measurments and position.

We are heading to South Carolina for vacation the week of the 14th...when I get back I will see him again on the 23rd...

It's the home-stretch!

Thursday, April 24th

I had my first bi-weekly appointment yesterday...pretty simple, listened to the heartbeat, took my blood pressure and urine sample. I will see him every two weeks until week 35, and then we will switch to weekly appointments.

The little guy is very active, and there is a method to his madness, he is kicking at the same times each day and sleeping at the same times each day.

We need to get to work on the nursery, the crib is there...but in pieces...maybe we will tackle that this weekend.

Thursday, May 7th

Had my 2nd bi-weekly appointment today...heartbeat is great, blood pressure is great...the only news I got was, as my doctor palmed my belly like a basketball, he said 'the u/s we will have at the end of the month will determine if this baby will pass through your pelvis'.

Of course, my response was 'what?!', to which he said 'Yeah, this is a BIG boy'.

Not that I am surprised. I am not a little woman, my husband is not a small man, and our daughter was 8lbs-10.5oz! I guess we make big babies! Our daughter was the first newborn that my grandfather held...b/c he said she looked like she was 3 months old!

I go back on the 22nd, and from there it is weekly appointments!

The baby's carpet is being shampooed tonight...hopefully it will be looking like a nursery sometime this weekend!


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Rachel918 - 28.2 hours ago
Well i think we are having the same pregnancy lol.. I feel the same way.. Keep having cramps and baby is sooo low just sitting on my bladder and pushing soo my pressure on my pubic bone!!
Aboutthe car seat.. Thats what we have as well and i love it, but it def does not fit right in our suv, we just got a jeep cherokee and i have to put me seat up all the way to make the carseat fit in back, then i put it in the middle seat and the carseat base hangs over the seat the also comes forward into the front of the car about 4e inches which i dont feel is safe at all... I liked the stroller as well my husband is 6'1 so he needs something that will adjust and i am 5'1 so same for me lol... if only things could go smoothly!! we are going to babies r us tonight and testing out all the seats to see if its our car or the seat itself. thanks for the message:)


Rachel918 - 41 hours ago
Lol well I swear i feel like all the bones on top of my left foot are broken!! its hurts soo bad!!! it has just started since my feet are swollen all i can wear is flip flops but you would think the other one would feel the same way as well... Oh well. there are no marks or anything on there, i guess i will just be in pain! I hope your doing ok:)


sexymama021 - Thursday, 15 May
I too am a formula feeder! My kids are 100% healthy and happy...and they were fat little monsters! :P I'm gonna try breastfeeding this time, but I do really like the convenience of bottles. Anyhoo...I'm with ya. :)


newcastlechick - Wednesday, 14 May
seriously i really really havent taken offence. i totally get your words and think u are within your rights. i have friends who have had same problem with u and been "put under pressure" to breast feed - i think thats sooo wrong and we as mothers to be have the right to choose to feed whatever way we want to. there defo is a lot of pressure on breast feeding and i dont belive there should be. The forums are for healthy discussions and passing advice etc and thats all we did. Dont even think i took offence :-) im not like that at all :-)


shk0910 - Friday, 25 April
You can take benadryl for you allergies


DonnaG - Thursday, 24 April
A friend of mine gave me the chain idea and I thought it was so cute! My girls are 6 and 4 and they love it - woke up early today just so that they could cut the first one : ) Just reading your profile about your feelings about having a boy and I was just like that. But I am starting to relax about it and now I'm really looking forward to holding him. That's what i love about finding out the sex while you're pregnant - they become a part of the family before they are even out. All the best with the remainder of your pregnancy!


nancy26 - Friday, 11 April
Hey J :) Yeah, it sucks being sick while pregnant - I've not been this sick since I was in my preteens! I have the fun nasal congestion now, too, but am fortunately over the illness! How're things with you? Have a great weekend!


happymomma2be - Thursday, 27 Mar
Good for you!!! See, changing the doctors was the BEST thing you could do...you're going to be a spectacular mom by following your head and heart!! Glad it went so well, and I hope you get over your sickness SOON! Hang in there! Hugs!


lisasmells - Thursday, 27 Mar
oh okay! must just be my laziness of why i feel breathless lol! hope u get better soon :D x


lisasmells - Wednesday, 26 Mar
hey, u wrote a comment in week 26 about ur nightmare experience with ur dr!... anyway the point to my comment was: when u said u rung ur doctor up to tell him u cudnt breathe, was there a reason y u cudnt breathe!? coz sumtyms i get a tightening sensation in my chest and was just curious. x


topazbecky - Wednesday, 26 Mar
I switched MD's this week, too! I just didn't jive well with my MD and felt very uninformed and neurotic. It was a great choice and I, too, am very much more at ease. I spent a long time debating whether I should switch or not and then thought, 'Giving birth is one of the most important things I will ever do- I need to feel comfortable.' Here's to us listening to our hearts/heads and swapping docs so late in pregnancy!!


CCQ - Wednesday, 26 Mar
GOOD FOR YOU!!! How dare a dr act that way. I really hope you are in heaven when you see the new one. I had a mean dr before I got pregnant who acted like I was an inconvenience to her on my YEARLY appt!! I couldn't imagine seeing her for a pregnancy. I thank GOD above for drs like mine now. She is the epitomy of what an OBGYN should be! I wish I could find a general practitioner like her!


bubsbaby - Wednesday, 26 Mar
Hey dont feel to bad for changing your doctor so late... Mine is the same way with me and I really cant stand her so Im in the process of switching over right now as well. So just so you know you're not alone in this lol :) Good luck with the next one!!!


chastin - Wednesday, 26 Mar
I dont blame you at all for changing drs. you need to have the trust and a good relationship with a dr to go through a pregnancy and have them deliver your baby!!


happymomma2be - Wednesday, 26 Mar
Wow, what an awful experience that must have been for you!! You did the RIGHT thing by switching not only for you, but also your baby. No doctor should ever treat you that way! You are going to feel so much better, and it's definitely going to reflect more positively on your well-being! Keep us posted! Hugs!


araya-sunshine - Wednesday, 26 Mar
That medicine doesn't work for me either. I had to call the nurse and ask for something else. She called in a different drug to my pharmacy and I felt better right away.


BrittanyMarie - Monday, 24 Mar
i posted baby's first picture!!! :)

hope your family had a happy easter!! <3


BrittanyMarie - Thursday, 20 Mar
I finished the book you gave me and wanted to thank you again! :) it had me laughing so hard I didn't want to put it down! i'll have to keep that in mind when some of my girlfriends start getting pregnant! How's your heartburn been? Find any cures yet? I've had a miserble cold all week, so i'm trying to get rid of that... other than that, everythings going well :)


Rachel918 - Tuesday, 18 Mar
I know sleeping is such a challenge its aweful!!!
I cant believe how soon they will be here:) I just need all my furniture and I will be happy:)


Rachel918 - Saturday, 15 Mar
Thanks:) How are you feeling?


myfirstbaby - Thursday, 13 Mar
hey... are u sure ur leaking or do u think its just an increase in discharge? cuz i have a fair amount of discharge where i also use 1 to 2 pantyliner. i know an increase in discharge is normal as long as it doesnt smell or become a weird colour as that could be a sign of infection.


sunshinebaby - Wednesday, 12 Mar
I have not experienced leaking, but does your Doctor know? I'm asking b/c at avery one of my OB appointments, they go thru a list of questions & discharge has been one of them. I don't know why they ask, but they must want to know.


Baronsmom - Wednesday, 12 Mar
Hi, I read your post about the leaking and I would not make an emergency call but next time you see your DR/Midwife check with them. I have a coworker that just had her baby 3 weeks early emergency c section as she started to measure low and after and U/S found out her amniotic fluid was low and after 12 hours of contant fluids could not restore the lost fluid. I being very curious asked if she realized she was 'leaking' and she just thought it was sweat or a discharge. She didn't think twice about it. She and baby are perfectly fine but had they not noticed it right away it could have beena problem. I am not trying to scare you just maybe ask DR =) Take Care!


bethanne - Wednesday, 12 Mar
I totally am in the same boat lots and lots of wetness down there. At first I was worried about leaking amniotic fluid, but it seems to be more like discharge, and from what I understand a fluid leak is constant, it doesn't come and go like discharge does..... plus if you lay down for a while, you will feel a gush when you stand up if it is fluid.




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American Girl Place NYC (2008, 01, 01) Before (2008, 03, 02) St. Patrick`s Day Storm `07 (2008, 01, 01) Syd`s Irish Step Dancing Dress (2008, 01, 01) After (2008, 03, 02) Annual Trip to South Carolina (2008, 01, 01)

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