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Jessie89
Jessie89 has 125 days to go and is now in week 22
	Age: 18 Country: US Province/region: California City: Yuba city Partner: Kyle Children: Pregnant: Yes Due date: 08 Jan ,2009 Occupation: Medical Assitant
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Hey there! My name is Jessica I am pregnant with my first baby!! I'm engaged to the love of my life Kyle! We are both really excited!! I'm just a lil nervous though because of some complications already! I have a rip in my uterine wall and I'm on partial bedrest! Ugh I can't stand just sitting here!! I wish I could work!! My poor fiance has to take care of all the bills! I don't know how we are going to make it! But he says we will. . But other than that I am truly excited!

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youngashley - Saturday, 19 July
i know! im so happy i won't lose it. at least i shouldn't unless i get some random letter in the mail! then we'd have a BIG problem haha! but im glad to hear all is well but im truly sorry you have been sick and all! ive actually been feeling TONS better than i was a couple weeks ago! after i got through a couple TERRIBLE headaches, i have been feeling like i actually wanna do things and stay busy...before all i wanted to do was lay around and sleep and i felt like crap! not really sick to my stomach or anything...just felt nasty lol. so now i realize how bad i felt then and how better i have been feeling! lets just hope it doesn't go away! and hopefully yours goes away real soon! : ] and i might find out what im having next week!! gosh i hope so! if not then it will probably be in about a month! : / lol

Tastiecake731 - Saturday, 19 July
Thanks Jessie..you know what? I had an accident several years ago and I too have a pinched nerve in my shoulder that I never even thought about, however I find that when I reposition myself it can get a little better.
I know I am overweight, however I didn't expect the baby or fat pushing against my siatic nerves and making anything go numb this early 13-14 weeks) and as time goes by it seems to be getting worse. Now I can just be laying on my back and my entire right arm and shoulder go numb. It's nerve racking becuase I have a hard enough time just trying to sleep but now this.
I have decided I'm tired of my doc being some of the STRESS I'm having to deal with so on Monday I'm going to start calling around to try to find another one. It just is such a pain in the butt to start all over and there's never any guarantees as to what I will find next?
Thanks so much for your understanding, Tina

mandabelle22 - Friday, 18 July
Thanks, I'm sorry you're going through the same thing. It's awful! I know..

youngashley - Saturday, 12 July
hey girl. things are going pretty good lately. im really hoping things will become less stressful cuz i went to court for a speeding ticket i got and i would have lost my license...idk if i told you about it. but anyway. i went there and didn't even have to go to court. they just automatically lowered it so i won't lose my license! and now my b/f just got a car so i haven't been driving EVERYWHERE the past couple days lol.

how are things with you and your guy?! everything going okay now?

preggaliciouslydelicious - Thursday, 10 July
its so funny that you said that! I have become the worlds biggest pregnant idiot! i forget the dumbest things. I only hope this gets better.. or as soon as this baby pops out we might end up feeling like we are genius'!

youngashley - Monday, 23 June
haha no dont be sorry! im here to listen! if anything, that's what i would want too...oh wait. i already have vented to you lol. but i completely understand. smoking can cause all sorts of problems no matter who, although its worse cuz babies are still developing in every single way...and i guess it seems to you...and me too some...that if he really cared about it like that then he would quit....but idk how old he is or if he would have insurance that would cover it, but i know chantax is suppose to work really well?! so maybe you can mention it to him!

but my next appt is on the 7th and its driving me crazy cuz its so long away and i know i wont get to have an u/s or anything lol...

but i am really excited cuz i got a car seat and a stroller from a yard sale yesterday for only $30. then NOBODY knew how to put it back together after i cleaned it, but guess what?!?! i figured it out!!! yay i was so excited and proud!!! lol

when is your next appt? and how many have you gone to?

youngashley - Sunday, 22 June
wow that's really messed up! im so sorry to hear that cuz it would just kill me. but hopefully everything will work out for the best and im sure he will be back cuz guys are just like that lol...dumb and stupid!!! but i know how you feel cuz that's how it was with my boyfriend and i... right now tho i think things are working out okayy! but its nice you have your own house and all. how old are you again? and why did you get put on disability; cuz the pregnancy? but i hope you two can work things out more! keep me updated and good luck!

tuesday - Sunday, 22 June
auwwww good =] in glad your baby is doing well

tuesday - Friday, 20 June
good luck with your appt, i hope everything is ok with you and bump, and that you feel better =]

youngashley - Friday, 20 June
well it sounds like he's starting to show more concern and caring for the fact that your pregnant. and that's what i want from my b/f. as far as his drinking...he gets kinda loud and obnoxious and then i guess he likes to show off but he makes comments about me that make me look like a fool or tries to make me look stupid. then he takes things wayyy outta proportion and says lil things like he's trying to start an argument. its all really annoying!!!
for the money: he doesn't have a problem with it. he actually likes that i am taking his money now...the only thing i would wish for now...is maybe seeing a lil more responsiblility on his own and not me doing it for him...but things are good right now for the money.

and just two nights ago, actually when i first read this message lol. we had a biggggg lonnnggg talk for like three hours. but it was awesome!!! we just talked the whole time and not once argued and we understood each other and how we felt! so hopefully things will start to work out.

and i am 18...i will be 19 in september. he just turned 20. i am currently living at home still with my mom, stepdad, the family lol. mark is living with his "ex stepmom". she charges him $350 a month to live there!! its rediculous esp cuz he has a baby on the way and she thinks of no one but herself. when the baby is born, my mom and stepdad have talked and agreed that he can move in so he can be here 100% of the time!! which is what i really wanted for the baby. its not like our dog and we take turns on who keeps it lol. but we plan on closing off our bonus room and my lil sister will move in there. then the baby can have her room and mark, me and the baby will all have one side of the upstairs...if that makes any sense without a picture lol. probably around next summer if things work out...mark and i will look for an apartment together!

what's your guys situation?! : ]

First Time Mama - Friday, 20 June
Hi Jessie89, My name is Jess too, I'm also born in 89 & engaged to the love of my life this is our first baby too. So we really have alot in common. I read you have had some complications? What's been happening, is everything ok? Would be great to hear from you! Jess

shelly32 - Friday, 20 June
holy cow i'll go crazy if I have to wait that long!

tuesday - Thursday, 19 June
really good lots of kicking.. how are you doing mama

shelly32 - Thursday, 19 June
how far along were you when you finally found out?

youngashley - Wednesday, 18 June
well it does feel good that someone else feels the same way, though it sucks we are both in this situation. im glad to hear things are starting to clear up for you two. but its not really the fact that he smokes cuz then i would just be being a hypocrite cuz i used to smoke and quite enjoyed it...but now it makes me sick and i can smell the slightest amount of it...if he's at work and lets say took a smoke break or was by someone who smoked...when i see him...i don't even wanna hug him or be by him cuz he stinks!!! ugh! lol

and for the money. that's what we kinda have been doing so far, except for the bank account thing...im just taking his money. i just don't wanna do it for him cuz then ill be mommying him and my therapist says he'll grow to have resentment...you know?

but as far as our arguing...that has just been getting worse. he thinks i blame everything on him, yet he doesn't understand my concerns for his money problems and his drinking. and those are two HUGE things that could hurt me and the baby mentally and physically in the future!!! so idk what's gonna happen...i want things to work out so bad mainly for the baby, but i do miss him and what we used to be.

shelby33 - Wednesday, 18 June
Jessie89, god bless you. I do not even know what to do. I had 2 units yesterday, and I still feel bad. I have aheadache, a dull chest pain, and I wound up with a soar throat and cold. Today (not to be gross) I have went to the bathroom 3 times before noon. I was wondering if this is common?

Do you usually see a reaction right away with a blood transfusion, or do you see a reaction after? What should I look for if I am having a reaction? Thank you so so very much.

youngashley - Wednesday, 18 June
yea. ive heard that from someone else too that they will grow up when the baby is born but idk. things have just been so hard and rough lately i feel like giving up on him.

we've been having financial issues cuz im so good with money and he's not. he has a pretty good paying job yet has no car, no spending money, and no money saved! and it drives me crazy cuz i pay for almost everything and drive us ALL THE TIME!!! i think we have worked most of that out tho for now cuz i am saving his money at my house so he can't touch it.

but then he doesn't appreciate the things i do for him and for us...we wouldn't be able to see eachother as much, if ever, or go places, or he couldn't get to work. on top of that, he doesn't get how i feel being pregnant. he said he'd quit smoking when i quit, but it makes me sick so it was easy for me....its been at least a month now and he still smokes, yet it makes me so0o sick just being by him and smelling the after affects. things like that.

theres a couple other things that we argue about and he is in complete denial. he will ask my opinion about things, but then want to argue with what i sayy?!?! wtf?! lol so once again he doesn't get it or understand!!! and i know im not being unreasonable about things...

but anyway...sorry i totally vented on you but thanks for listening. any advice?

youngashley - Tuesday, 17 June
hey! that's awesome! its comforting knowing im not exactly alone lol...

mind if i ask...but like what's your story...you have a boyfriend or married? i just ask cuz im going through a rough time with my b/f....once again...feeling alone lol.

but congrats on the baby. i bet your crazy excited and i am toooo!!!! : ]

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