MY NAME IS JADA I HAVE BEEN A FAITHFUL USER OF THIS SITE FOR A VERY LONG TIME, EVEN AFTER I HAD MY KIDS...I AM 23YRS OLD AND THE MOTHER OF 2 GREAT KIDS AJ IS 2YRS OLD AND JAILYN IS 18 MONTHS...I AM ALSO GOING THRU A DIVORCE RIGHT NOW, MY HUSBAND ADRIAN AND I HAVE DECIDED TO MOVE ON WITHOUT EACH OTHER, THERE HAS BEEN SO MUCH HEARTACHE, LYING, CHEATING AND PAIN THAT I FELT I DESERVED BETTER, AND WE NEEDED TO BE APART BUT STILL STAY FRIENDS AND RAISE OUR CHILDREN, IM NOT SURE HOW ITS GOIN TO WORK WITH HIM BEING OVER 7HRS AWAY, BUT I KNOW THIS MUCH AJ AND JAILYN WILL BE JUST FINE... I AM ALSO IN THE AIR FORCE WILL BE IN 5.5YRS, IT HAS ITS GOOD AND BAD TIMES BUT I CAN'T COMPLAIN AT THE MOMENT AND JUST HAPPY TO BE GETTING A PAYCHECK...JUST HOPING & PRAYING THIS ECONOMY GETS BETTER SOON!! ITS BEEN HARD.

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Some more info about me I was diagnosed with having an incompent cervix but thanks to the good Lord above both my kids are healthy and doing great and developing right on track...my son was born at 25wks and 1 day he weighed 1lb 11oz (a lil guy) 13.5inches long, he stayed in the NICU for the first 3 months of his life, and a very hard time for me, he was up and down a lot on and off the ventilator and c-pap, but I am so glad I have his lil bad self around and doing great...he is my miracle, now with him coming home from the NICU at 3 months old that very next month I find out I am pregnant AGAIN (AJ is only 4 months old now) YIKES...

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Now my daughter Jailyn was also born prematurely at 29wks and 4days she weighed 2lbs 8oz, 14.5 inches long...(a whole inch longer than her brother at birth) well I received all my steriods with her and they delayed her c-section for 4day so I was in the hospital on bedrest for 4days before they decided she needed to come out, she was breech and her foot was hanging out her sac so when they would check me they could feel her toes...I glad she came when she did though my doc said that very next week he was gonna manually turn her if she didn't turn herself, and that sounds painful...but she was very lucky NEVER needed the ventilator and was on a bottle from day 1 her stay in the NICU was only 30days...she came home at 3lb 15oz (yes so tiny) but she grew a lot a greedy girl and at 18 months her appetite has not died down any...LOL

18 Dec 08 UPDATE

WELL TODAY THE KIDS ARE GREAT, JUST GETTING ON MOMMY'S NERVES SOME DAYS WITH ALL THE FIGHTING...AJ his speaking is really becoming so much clearer my lil man is growing so fast I miss those days when he would just lay in the bed with us and chill or sleep, now he flipping out the bed, smacking us in the face saying "hi mommy", "hi daddy" everything...we have a nickname for Jailyn (Boobalou) just how it looks AJ calls her this all the time its never Jailyn with him anymore and its so cute...Jailyn finally has started walking in Oct right before Halloween, and now she has picked up a lil speed and is trying to run...Last week Jailyn had to have a procedure down to close her heart murmur the hole was a really good size NO OPEN HEART SURGERY they stuck a cathater in the artery in her thigh and up to her heart and had to use a 8mm device to close it...I have pics of the hole and then after the device was in...but just have to figure out how to put them on here for you all to see...I do believe that is all that I have to update for now...so ttyl HUGS and kisses to all and to the preggos hugs and belly rubs!!

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