MY NAME IS JADA I HAVE BEEN A FAITHFUL USER OF THIS SITE FOR A VERY LONG TIME, EVEN AFTER I HAD MY KIDS...I AM 23YRS OLD AND THE MOTHER OF 2 GREAT KIDS AJ IS 2YRS OLD AND JAILYN IS 18 MONTHS...I AM ALSO GOING THRU A DIVORCE RIGHT NOW, MY HUSBAND ADRIAN AND I HAVE DECIDED TO MOVE ON WITHOUT EACH OTHER, THERE HAS BEEN SO MUCH HEARTACHE, LYING, CHEATING AND PAIN THAT I FELT I DESERVED BETTER, AND WE NEEDED TO BE APART BUT STILL STAY FRIENDS AND RAISE OUR CHILDREN, IM NOT SURE HOW ITS GOIN TO WORK WITH HIM BEING OVER 7HRS AWAY, BUT I KNOW THIS MUCH AJ AND JAILYN WILL BE JUST FINE... I AM ALSO IN THE AIR FORCE WILL BE IN 5.5YRS, IT HAS ITS GOOD AND BAD TIMES BUT I CAN'T COMPLAIN AT THE MOMENT AND JUST HAPPY TO BE GETTING A PAYCHECK...JUST HOPING & PRAYING THIS ECONOMY GETS BETTER SOON!! ITS BEEN HARD.

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Some more info about me I was diagnosed with having an incompent cervix but thanks to the good Lord above both my kids are healthy and doing great and developing right on track...my son was born at 25wks and 1 day he weighed 1lb 11oz (a lil guy) 13.5inches long, he stayed in the NICU for the first 3 months of his life, and a very hard time for me, he was up and down a lot on and off the ventilator and c-pap, but I am so glad I have his lil bad self around and doing great...he is my miracle, now with him coming home from the NICU at 3 months old that very next month I find out I am pregnant AGAIN (AJ is only 4 months old now) YIKES...

Now my daughter Jailyn was also born prematurely at 29wks and 4days she weighed 2lbs 8oz, 14.5 inches long...(a whole inch longer than her brother at birth) well I received all my steriods with her and they delayed her c-section for 4day so I was in the hospital on bedrest for 4days before they decided she needed to come out, she was breech and her foot was hanging out her sac so when they would check me they could feel her toes...I glad she came when she did though my doc said that very next week he was gonna manually turn her if she didn't turn herself, and that sounds painful...but she was very lucky NEVER needed the ventilator and was on a bottle from day 1 her stay in the NICU was only 30days...she came home at 3lb 15oz (yes so tiny) but she grew a lot a greedy girl and at 18 months her appetite has not died down any...LOL

18 Dec 08 UPDATE

WELL TODAY THE KIDS ARE GREAT, JUST GETTING ON MOMMY'S NERVES SOME DAYS WITH ALL THE FIGHTING...AJ his speaking is really becoming so much clearer my lil man is growing so fast I miss those days when he would just lay in the bed with us and chill or sleep, now he flipping out the bed, smacking us in the face saying "hi mommy", "hi daddy" everything...we have a nickname for Jailyn (Boobalou) just how it looks AJ calls her this all the time its never Jailyn with him anymore and its so cute...Jailyn finally has started walking in Oct right before Halloween, and now she has picked up a lil speed and is trying to run...Last week Jailyn had to have a procedure down to close her heart murmur the hole was a really good size NO OPEN HEART SURGERY they stuck a cathater in the artery in her thigh and up to her heart and had to use a 8mm device to close it...I have pics of the hole and then after the device was in...but just have to figure out how to put them on here for you all to see...I do believe that is all that I have to update for now...so ttyl HUGS and kisses to all and to the preggos hugs and belly rubs!!

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28 NOV 2009...

OMGoodness its been almost a whole entire yr since I have truly updated u all on my kids/my life!!!! such a raggety friend I am. But here is some scoop on my life and the year I have had... well first AJ is now 3yrs old Jailyn is 2yr and they both go to daycare/school they learn so much AJ can get to G in the alphabet then some run on stuff then Q,R, S,T some craziness then X, Y, Z so he is doing great...still working on this potty training thing its so hard...becuz he knows he just wont say it all the time...and Jailyn the same way potty training to toddlers together is NO JOKE!!! I have to watch Jailyn she think she somebody momma at 2yrs old (I have 3 soon to be step children) I claim them now hell I care and feed and clothe them so they mine too! the youngest is a 7 month old and Jailyn is her mommy let her tell it!! its so funny to watch...My 7yr old Step daughter is such a smart kid...she is great now my 5yr old Stepson is a str8 goofball, and gonna be such a ladies man...NOW My Life...things couldn't be greater (although I am still married to a fool), my divorce is moving slowly but its moving the papers are filed and now I am waiting to find out how and where I do the service by publication by putting it in the newspaper for 30 days...if u ladies know anything about this plz let me know what else I need to do to move this along and get my court date... Well thats all for now I won't wait another yr to update again PROMISE....

16 DEC 2009...

Hey ladies I told ya'll I wouldn't wait that long again for another update...and here is some news I have been working my butt off to get this divorce finalized next month and I am so happy I have like 1.5 weeks left for the ad to be ran in the paper and I am shouting and dancing now as I type this becuz its so close!! My love is also awaiting his courtdate next month so things are moving pretty smoothly now focusing on this Christmas holiday and money issues...we gonna make it work so no worries!! I want to wish you all a Merry Christmas and a awesome New Year 2010 is right around the corner I cant believe it!! 2009 went so fast so much happened this year for me and so much more is yet to come!! BTW the kids are great learning fast in daycare/school and AJ is getting ready for pre-pre school!! So this is exciting still working on the potty business but he does great at school but at home he is a different child!! But hopefully he gets it soon...Again all my mommies have a great holiday season and baby dust to those who need it!!

-Love Jada

4 January 2010...Update

Hey ladies just sending a new update on things in my life...My last week for carrying the ad in the paper for my divorce was last week and I am now just waiting for my affidavit!! Im so excited I hope it comes in the mail today so I can take it to the courthouse tomorrow morning!!! Also HAPPY NEW YEARS to you all wishing you the best in your lives and your families lives...this year my man and I decided not to make resolutions we've done it every year so we are doing things differently...we have so much planned for this year from wedding in July and trying for a baby this year also so we are just going to pray and live or lives if its God's Plan then it will be God's Will and I pray for health for my family, patience, financial stability, and strength to do all I've been doing to keep my family on the right track...I thank the lord everyday for all he has blessed me with and all he continues to bless me with...New Years was a special one this year I was sober (LOL) and I spent it with my man's family (1st meeting...it went great!!) I had a really good time in North Carolina and can't wait to return...the kids had a great new years met new family and played hard (also stayed in their first hotel too) but other than that ladies I am happy and im handling my business!! I can't wait to see what this year has in store for us!! Oh and we moving into our house in June/July!! SUPER EXCITED ABOUT THAT!!!!! But I am sending baby dust to my TTCers and labor dust o my girls u are just tired and ready to have them babies...Indy5225 and 1byprayer(good luck and hope to see them babies soon)!!

~1 LOVE Jada

21 February 2010 Update...

Hello Ladies...I hope everyone is enjoying their Sunday with their families and loving them babies...I am unfortunately at work :-( but I decided I need to drop another update to keep you all informed on my life and the kids... Well first to start me and my boo are still finishing up our divorces and can't wait...My Ex is still the world's #1 A**hole but Im making it without him and so happy and can't wait to be thru with him!! But on a brighter note, the kids are great and getting so big, we are still working on the potty training which is so frustrating but hopefully they both get it and it clicks one day!! My other 3 are good Miyah has her 1st birthday coming up which is really exciting...can't wait to see her dig into her cake!! LOL she is gonna be such a mess...but on to the TTCing, I guess we gonna start sometime after the wedding in July!! Or by the way I ordered my dress and its coming from China and the color will be lavender, I'll be posting a pic of it soon!! I love it and can't wait to get and try it on! I know I am rambling sorry, just letting u know things as it pops into my head!! This is going to be such an eventful year and I'm really excited and cant wait...I wish all my ladies the best especially my girls (Renee and Kwency, Chanel not on the site, but Renee is)that are about to me mommies soon...please cherish every single second with them beautiful babies...they won't be babies long!!