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roosa - Thursday, 8 May
Lauren, yes, it is very helpful to talk to others about what happened, what is going to happen and how you feel. You just need to choose those people you share with carefully - otherwise it will hurt you more than do you good. It is very hard for outsiders to relate and understand and even be comfortable talking about it.
Lauren, you will never fully get over it, but it will get easier. And of course none of us want it to happen again, and so we are anxious about our next pregnancy. That is only natural. We now know that not every pregnancy ends like it is supposed to - with a beautiful healthy baby. But we have to keep hoping.
Be good to yourself. xox Karin

roosa - Wednesday, 7 May
Lauren, your doctor does medical practice - his job is not to relate although it would be wonderful if they did... I am not saying all doctors are heartless but in general they won't understand your fear and concerns. The only people that can understand are people who have experienced a loss. If you need to talk, we are out there! I am one of them.
Again, I am truly sorry for your loss. Allow yourself to feel what you feel and know it is perfectly normal to have fear - fear about what happens next and future pregnancies. Don't hold it all in. Talking to others can be very healing and necessary.
Please take care. Karin

roosa - Tuesday, 6 May
lauren, I think it is different for everybody so it is hard to say what is normal. I have read that some have heavier and longer period, and some have a lighter and maybe even interrupted period. I think you just need to trust your doctor on this one that you are fine.
I want you to know I am truly sorry for your loss. How long ago did you miscarry?
Take care! Karin

roosa - Tuesday, 6 May
I entered the chat just as you exited. I saw that you asked about miscarriage. I wish I could have been there for you! Anything I can do or help you with, please let me know.
Karin

mommauv4 - Friday, 18 April
Call your doctor if you are worried they are used to people not listening happens all the time! Truth is most people don't take their advice about abstaining from sex. You aren't alone.

gladek - Friday, 18 April
Don't be afraid to go to your doctor, hun. Many, many people don't wait as long as the doctor says, and they are used to it. While most likely nothing serious is wrong, you really should have the bleeding checked out.
My doctor only had us wait two weeks (or until the bleeding stopped) when I miscarried and had a D&C at 13 weeks last year.


lannie08 - Wednesday, 16 April
I'm so sorry about your loss. Miscarriage isn't pleasant and I don't really wish it upon anyone. As for your bleedig, I'd suggest that you go to your doctor and tell him anyway. I was told to wait 2-3 weeks before having sex again. We waited almost 2 weeks and I bled a little but nothing severe. But you were further along than I was so I guess your body is taking awhile to heal. Good luck though, and I'll keep you in my prayers.

sissy36 - Wednesday, 16 April
you should call your doctor.I'm sure you are not the only one who didn't follow the orders.I didn't and i did not have bleeding afterwards.just see him so you dont have future female problems




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