Hello , my names Lisa - i joined this site when i found out i was preggers on my 10 year old sons birthday which was on the 7th may !! .. i took a preg test and by my dates i was 5-6 weeks preggers and baby was due 03-01-09 .. i was having pains for a while and was told by my doctor it was normal .. saturday 10th may in the morning i was rushed into hospital i had emergancy surgery - the pain actually was a eptopic pregnancy ... the preg was in my right tube .. it already started to rupture leaking blood into my pelvis. im totally shocked , lost and heartbroken.. im still numb and keep looking down at my belly thinking " im no longer preggers" ... its awful .. i will keep you all informed on my progress - im sorry if i cant keep up to date with messages but you can find me on these places too !! ;-)
feel free to add me to your bebo / facebook .. xxxx
Rach-x - Friday, 30 May To put it politely CRAP!!! lol Glad your on the mend. xxx
Cindie - Friday, 30 May Thank you, and yea... actually I found out that %80 of babies with Down Syndrome are born to women UNDER 35 yrs. old, simply because those women have MORE babies.
We're not worried about his having down syndrome much anymore... other than hoping that mentally he's not too affected. And that he has no physical problems.
Rach-x - Thursday, 29 May hi lisa. thanks for your msg. Hows things going for you? xx
Tastiecake731 - Tuesday, 27 May Hey there Lisa, I'm still waiting for my next sono on Friday, counting down the days..ya know? I'm glad to hear you're doing ok, I've been praying for you. Just take it one day at a time. I did get your other email and I thought I wrote you back. Maybe I didn't? I'm a bit mindless here lately. Very tired on a regular basis, every day by 4 I'm needing a nap. And it's really sad becuase sometimes I've get up late. Well, make sure you stay in touch, and take it easy. Tina =0)
KeishaWoods - Sunday, 25 May sorry to hear about your lose, i know how you feel its been 2 week since my d&C and 4 months since my last preganacy (2 m/c), i cant help but rub my belly to. My prayers are with you... Just keep trying i know i will...
Tastiecake731 - Sunday, 25 May Hey Lisa lisa! I just emailed you directly. I will have your in my prayers for a speedy recovery. I hope you get to feeling better really soon. I know it feels weird to be on here but feel free to stop in anytime. You can email me directly too. BIG hugs and Smooches your way too! XOXOXO take care and make sure you keep in touch.
cathyb - Friday, 23 May Hi Lisa-I hope your hanging in there. I might have miscarried again for the 2nd time. I'm so scard. I had an ultra sound done and just a sac showing 5weeks. I know I'm 8 weeks today. Dr. said I could have miscarried already or I'm wrong with my dates. I'm leaving this up to GOD. But, I won't give up. I will take a break for a few months and then try again. Keep smiling .... things will get better. I will keep you posted. Cathy
Tastiecake731 - Wednesday, 21 May Lisa, I'm SOOO very sorry for your loss. There is nothing anyone can say to make the pain any less, just know that we all would reach out and give you a big hug to make all the pain go away if we could. Please pray and know that somehow things will be alright. Email anytime you just need to talk. Tina =0)
Tastiecake731 - Wednesday, 21 May PRETTIEST MOM Once you have been hit, you have to hit 5 pretty Moms. If you get hit again, You will know you are REALLY pretty! So hit 15 pretty moms on your friends list to let them know they are pretty! Before I was a Mom I never tripped over toys or forgot words to a lullaby. I didn't worry whether or not my plants were poisonous. I never thought about immunizations. Before I was a Mom - I had never been puked on. Pooped on. Chewed on. Peed on. I had complete control of my mind and my thoughts. I slept all night. Before I was a Mom I never held down a screaming child so doctors could do tests. Or give shots. I never looked into teary eyes and cried. I never got gloriously happy over a simple grin. I never sat up late hours at night watching a baby sleep. Before I was a Mom I never held a sleeping baby just because I didn't want to put her down. I never felt my heart break into a million pieces when I couldn't stop the hurt. I never knew that something so small could affect my life so much. I never knew that I could love someone so much. I never knew I would love being a Mom. Before I was a Mom - I didn't know the feeling of having my heart outside my body. I didn't know how special it could feel to feed a hungry baby. I didn't know that bond between a mother and her child. I didn't know that something so small could make me feel so important and happy. Before I was a Mom - I had never gotten up in the middle of the night every 10 minutes to make sure all was okay. I had never known the warmth, the joy, the love, the heartache, the wonderment or the satisfaction of being a Mom. I didn't know I was capable of feeling so much, before I was a Mom. Send this to someone who you think is a special Mom.''
Theresa Barden - Thursday, 15 May Well I'm glad your ok. And I hope from here on out it get's easier for you! You don't need any stress in your life for a while! I think you've had enouph for a lifetime to cover. But, you seem very strong and enthusiastic for someone that had such a horrible thing happen to them. Stay strong hun and keep your head up. Message me anytime and keep me posted on how your doing!!! I'll definately be thinking of you!!! :-)
Glowing-Mama - Thursday, 15 May Hi Lisa. I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. I can't imagine how you must be feeling. I'm sending you lots of warm fuzzy vibes from Australia and hoping that you will be feeling better soon. Thanks for your sweet message too - you're a sweet heart!
mismic - Wednesday, 14 May How terrible for you! How are you doing now? Give yourself plenty of time to heal before trying again, if you are going to. Take care of yourself. If you become pregnant again, ask the doctor to monitor you very closely. Mine is, and it has made me feel much better. Rest...get better. Best of luck to you.
cathyb - Tuesday, 13 May Hi Lisa-I am so sorry you lost you're baby. I know exactly what you're going through. I had a m/c in late February. It was very hard, but I said to myself God knows best. Think positive...wait one cycle and if you're emotionally ready....try again. I will be praying for you. Good Luck!
Theresa Barden - Tuesday, 13 May I'm very sorry to hear that. Everything will go well with you, just keep doing what you're doing and take it one day at a time. That must have been very hard to go through. Yes this is my first pregnancy. I am very excited although I am so young but I believe this is what was meant for me and I hope everything goes well. So far so good. But, definately keep in touch, I want to hear how you are doing/recovering. Thank you for your reply! Theresa
Adriana - Tuesday, 13 May BTW,I now have a 9 month old,Born 7/28/07
Adriana - Tuesday, 13 May I'm so sorry((hugs)).I had an ectopic pregnacy in '06.
missbetfred - Tuesday, 13 May Im so sorry hun i know how u feel i had an eptopic 3 yrs ago in my left tube and lost my tube but just found out im 5 weeks pregnant ( wasnt planned but nice suprise) so there is hope hun keep ur chin up xx
Theresa Barden - Monday, 12 May You guys are a super cute couple and your'e sons are adorable! I hope everything from here on out goes well for you and your'e family.
Rach-x - Monday, 12 May Hi Lisa. I have just read your blog. I'm so sorry you lost your baby. I feel really bad for what you went thrugh. I hknow it takes time but i really hope you start to feel brighter soon. Keep your feet up and take it easy for a while. I'm thinking of you. Take care xxx
chrissy6684 - Saturday, 10 May Yea it still is a shock and I haven't had my first dr. appt. yet and I can't wait for it! It is on the 21st! I still don't believe that I am pregnant because I don't feel any different except my boobs hurt and I haven't gotten my period. Some days I just can't believe it! As far as the due date calendars say online I am due Jan. 5th 2009. So well see what the dr. says but she should be going by the same thing. Yea I am very excited, but my husband and I haven't told anyone yet and it is killing me!! I want to tell everyone but we decided after our first dr. visit we will!! Can't wait!!!! Nice to meet you.....It's cool we are going to be going through this at the same time!!
jamfam - Saturday, 10 May Thank you for your reply. Have an awesome weekend!
Rach-x - Saturday, 10 May Hi. I had alot of cramping yesterday, but none today so far, i was convinced i would wake up this morning and i would be bleeding it was that bad. But hopefully all is ok so far. I'm also sooo tired! xxx
Tastiecake731 - Saturday, 10 May Thanks a bunch, we'll have to keep in touch..it's fun having a buddy due the same time. Other than my hubby I feel rather alone in my joy due to everyone not wanting to be happy for us until I make it past he first trimester. I go for more blood work on Monday and pray that I see my little peanut on the internal sono. Keep me posted on any good new...XOXO Tina