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LovingMommy
Age: 22
Country: US
Province/region: California
City: Hayward
Partner: Daniel (My Husband)
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Due date: 09 0 ,0000
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Hello! Welcome to my page, my name is Nadja! I am a student, studying to be a Registered Nurse (specializing in either Pediatrics or Labor & Delivery, not sure yet). I am currently a Stay At Home Mom! I have one daughter already, who is my absolute pride and joy and she has a super bubbly personality (so much fun)! I just had my second baby, another girl, a month early on January 4th, 2008!! Her birth story is below!


BIRTH STORY:


On January 2nd, 2008 I went along with my normal daily routines, but later in the afternoon I started getting contractions again (had pre-term labor at 31 weeks before, that luckily stopped). I told my husband (since he was driving) about them and he thought if I just rested at home I'd be okay. Well, as a mother I knew something was up. When they started getting about 5-7 minutes apart I told my Husband to drive towards the hospital (since it was 35 minutes away) and on the way there I called my doctor. The doctor told me to come into the hospital and I could go right up to labor and delivery. So we arrived at the hospital and I was sent into a smaller room to be monitored. The baby looked great and passed the Non-Stress Test, but the contractions were being picked up on the monitor. I wasn't feeling good at all, my head hurt and I was getting swelling (something that I normally never had during this pregnancy). The doctor had my blood taken and sent down to the lab and when the nurse came up with the results they told me I had to stay over night because the toxemia level was elevated (hence the headache and swelling and feeling groggy). Well, I was suppose to go to an appointment the next day (on Jan. 3rd) for another Growth Scan and Biophysical profile to see how the baby had grown over the past two weeks and to chec on how she was doing. The doctor at the hospital told me that the Maternal Fetal Medicine Specialist I was seeing would come in to do the ultrasound instead. Well the next day (Jan. 3rd) my Husband and I waited on the MFMS for the ultrasound. She ended up coming in that afternoon around 2pm and checked everything out. She didn't like the looks of things since I was getting really sick and said it looks like we might have to have this baby tonight. I was of course, excited, yet scared since she would be a month early and small (she was diagnosed in utero with Intrauterine Growth Restriction, although she looked really good regardless). The MFMS said my fluid was running low and the baby gained less than the last time, (gained 11 oz last time, this time 9 oz), and since my toxemia levels were elevated she said it looked best to deliver and she would consult with one of my OB doctors on call about delivery. Well, I looked over at my Husband and said I guess she's going to be here now! The MFMS said we might have to resort to a C-Section since the baby was small and might not tolerate labor, so be prepared for it. I, of course, being optimistic, said well lets try for a regular vaginal delivery first and if the baby ends up not tolerating it, then we'll do the c-section. The nurses started me that evening on Magnesium Sulfate to ward off any problems (seizures, coma, etc) that would go with the pre-eclampsia. Mag. Sulf. SUCKS!! I felt horrible on it, drowsy, out of it, I could hardly open my eyes. Worse yet is that when I went into labor they were going to make me stay in the bed (no walking, no tub, no nothing), which would be even harder to do because I wanted to go natural!! So, the OB doctor on call didn't want to do the C-Section on me and said she'd rather induce me with the Cervidil and see how the baby does! I was happy of course and that evening around 7pm they put the Cervidil in. After about an hour it started to give me contractions, more spaced apart and not really long, but painful and crampy (so I practiced my breathing). She said she would be taking the cervidil out the next morning around 6:30 am and will check my then (unless I go into hard labor before that lol). So I didn't get any sleep the entire night because of the cramps and what not and I was so happy when 6:30 rolled around. She took out the Cervidil and checked me and said I made great progress from going from completely closed to almost 2 cm. I of course said "Only 2?, in 12 hours"?? She said that was great and when I go into a regular labor pattern, it might be fast. Wow, was she right! Only 30 minutes later I was having serious contractions and I was transfered over to a big labor and delivery suit. They were coming right on top of each other and man was it painful. I was checked again and I went from a 2 to a 3 in a matter of minutes. They were talking about putting me on Pitocin (which made no sense to me since I shouldn't need it at this point), well since I heard that word I told them I want an Epidural (against everything I told myself I wouldn't get one, I asked). My doctor said since I was a 3, I could have one and ordered for it to be here. Well, the Epi lady came in and started to prep my back (within 20 min - me not even realizing it) and before the Epi was even in I had like 10 serious serious contractions and didn't even know I was an 8!! My husband stepped out (they made him for 20 min while the procedure took place). Once it was in place she called him back in and I laid down (the Epi never worked, at all!!) and I yelled I had to push. lol I was checked and she said I was an 8-9 and called for the doctor. At that time the Epi lady was still getting her things to leave the room!! I had 3 more contractions (still no pain relief, like I said I went way too fast), and he checked me and told me to push. I pushed twice (long hard ones) and her head popped out lol. So she was born on January 4th, 08! With my first daughter I never felt her come out since I had a full Epi that sort of worked, but with this second one I felt it all (it wasn't too bad, just A LOT of pressure) and then her body slid out fast (she was tiny). My Husband was soooo happy, he cut the cord, and it was all over. Our little girl belted out some loud screams and was as alert as a 40 weeker (as my Doc put it). She was cleaned off, handed to me, I kissed her and she was transfered to the NICU. Unfortunately, I couldn't see her until late that night (had to wait until I was off the Mag. Sulf.). When I saw her in the NICU she looked BEAUTIFUL! She had NO breathing problems at all, never needed oxygen. They had her on an IV and an NG tube down her nose in case she had feeding problems. She weighed 3 lbs 15 oz and was 16 inches long, but did everything a 36 weeker did! We named her Jasmine Noelle! *I'll post pictures later!


*Update 2/25/08 - Jasmine is doing wonderfully! She is about 7 lbs now (which is huge from when she was born and catching up well by having growth spurts and always wanting to eat lol), breastfeeding exclusively, starting to smile (soooooo darn adorable), and is so cute with her big doe eyes! I'll be updating with new pics as soon as I can!


You can get a hold of me if you want to talk at yummygirl400 on AIM or add me on myspace at www.myspace.com/binz86


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kayp - Thursday, 3 July
Hi, I was looking through this site for some info and I've come across your page. I have recently been diagnosed with velamentous cord insertion and I wondered if you could give me any advice on what to do, expect, etc. I'm currently 24 weeks and my diagnoisis was confirmed today. Thanks so mcuh in advance! Krista


LookitsErin - Tuesday, 1 July
i think that is the track we are on at this point too... nothing else is seeming to work... although the day at the pool today with chlorine seemed to help a little. thanx for the post


o0kathryn0o - Monday, 30 June
I've heard about people only being able to nurse on one breast and it working for them. But it's great you're sticking with breastfeeding! I really really miss it :( Hopefully you can get rid of the thrush once and for all!


mamacas26 - Saturday, 28 June
That is so awesome...just think, we were both in the same boat and we didn't even know it! Congrats! Thanks for the comment!


blessedbaby2be - Friday, 27 June
Oh thanks, I think i felt something the ovulation calendar said I was nesting so just wondering, lol


blessedbaby2be - Thursday, 26 June
Thanks for explaining that, I was talking about the first one in regards to ovulation. That makes since. Can you feel the nesting?


o0kathryn0o - Tuesday, 24 June
That sucks you have to get new bottles. But then again, who doesn't like shopping for baby stuff! I know I do. I have holes in every pair of socks I own but when we go shopping I always end up with baby stuff and no new socks for me A good thing though, some stores are now letting you take new or used BPA bottles in to exchange for the BPA free ones. Even if they're used!


o0kathryn0o - Tuesday, 24 June
I bet your parents look great too. It's amazing how much our diet and the chemicals in our diet affects everything. A lady I know eats only organic and she's vegan (but a knowing how to eat the proper foods and stay healthy vegan lol) and she's in her early 60's and you's swear she was in her 30's. I'm vegetarian and tried veganism, but it didn't work for me.. I love cheese! I've been doing it for a number of years and when I first started I really felt the difference. So much more energy was the big one. But organic is definately very pricey I agree. Its a sacrifice to give our kids safe organic food, but it's worth it. About the bottles, all the bad bottles are taken off the shelves. Except in super cheap stores like dollar stores. I've complained to the management in a dollar store around here, but they still keep the bottles out. You can tell they're the bad ones when they have the recycle sign on the side/bottom and the have the number "7" in it. All glass bottles are obviously safe, all playtex drop in's bottle systems are safe, Nuby's are safe, Dr.Brown's are safe. I'm sure there's others. Pretty much whatever is left on the shelves at major stores is safe. There's really not a lot to choose from, the botle shelves in the stores are very empty. Actually I just found a list of what brands are safe : http://safemama.com/2007/11/22/bpa-free-bottle-and-sippy-cup-cheat-sheet/ You'll be lucky finding even half those on the shelves right now though. And to get your hands on them, you'll probably have to knock out a couple other moms in the search for these bottles too! hehe kidding


o0kathryn0o - Tuesday, 24 June
That's too bad you have to wean. It took about 2 months or just slightly under for me to do it, and I've almost gained 10 pounds!!!! And it's been a super emotional rollercoaster. All I did was cut one feeding out for about a week, the cut 2 for about a week, then 3 etc etc.... I'm sure it can be done a lot quicker than a couple months, but I wasn't having any problems breastfeeding or anything, we're trying to get prego again. But I didn't get any engorgement at all. If you wanted to do it quicker, just cut a new feeding out every couple days. There might be a bit more engorging that way though, but not like as if you've given up cold turkey. One thing though I found that made it a bit easier is cut out the least favourite ones first. Like the afternoon mommie-baby snuggle naptime was the very last (and the hardest!!) Anyway.. I think I've babbled enough! If I haven't answered something or I've confused you (I tend to do that lol) or if you have any more questions, message me! And good luck


izziebo - Saturday, 21 June
lol its teh only time u can have unprotected sex n not knock them up lol maybe thats it

the idea of sexing anyone but andy makes me feel sick lol n even sexing andy is a bit weird at first when we got back together lol xx


izziebo - Saturday, 21 June
some men are just plain WEEEEEEIRD
or maybe im just uber sexy OR hejust fancies fat birds lol xxx


izziebo - Saturday, 14 June
hehehe thanks, i had to change it andy saw it and wanted to read the website haha so i thought i best remove the slaggings off iv been giving him espeically as were pretty much back on track now lol
xxxxxxxxxxx


amandabaker - Wednesday, 11 June
Hey thank you, Yay the do grow up so fast. My Husband named our last baby I told him to name this one since I named the last 3 so he did and I asked him how did he wanted me to spell the middle name Nicole or Nichole and he Picked Nichole so Jasmine Nichole it is well i talk to you whenever take care


Dorothysmom - Thursday, 17 April
Hey, I'm sorry I missed you today. If you go onto myspace, you will see the updated pics of Dorothy that I put on last night. She is getting so big, she is 11lbs 6oz and 22 3/4 inches long already. When you put her on her stomach for "tummy time" she is trying to scoot. It is hard to believe that a 2 month old is trying so hard to move around already. When you get a chance, read the message I will send you on myspace. I'm glad to see that everything is going well for you. We definately need to keep in touch.

xxxooo

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Photos
Mommy, Jasmine, and Big Sister Mikaela! (2008, 01, 11) A kiss for Jasmine! (2008, 01, 11) I am wiped out lol! (2008, 01, 11) My Two Girls! (2008, 02, 28) Tired after another feeding! (2008, 01, 11) Mommy`s cheeks and Daddy`s nose! (2008, 01, 11) Daddy and Jasmine sleeping! (2008, 02, 28) 22 weeks here with baby #2! (2007, 10, 27) Daniel and I again getting professional pics done! (2007, 11, 16) I think she`ll have to grow into it! (2008, 01, 11) Snoozing away, what a beautiful little girl! (2008, 01, 11) Baby #2 2/d side profile at 29 weeks and 3 days! (2007, 12, 01) Mikaela holding her baby sister Jasmine! (2008, 02, 28) Daniel in 06, something was funny. (2007, 11, 16) Mikaela - 2 Years Old - 08 - Always happy! (2008, 02, 28) Jasmine in her swing, still tiny in it lol - 7 weeks old! (2008, 02, 28) Baby #2 another 3/d picture of her face with her hand once again near her cheek (2007, 10, 28) Click here to see all LovingMommy`s photos

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