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Tuesday, 11 Dec
I guess this marks my official entry into the second trimester. It's much easier to relax knowing the threat of miscarriage is very low now. I was glad to hear the heartbeat at my last visit. We are looking forward to finding out the sex of the baby on Jan 21st (as long as he/she cooperates of course). I'm looking forward to finishing up my Christmas shopping this week so that I can relax and enjoy the last week before Christmas. It's our last CHristmas with just Matthew and I want to really enjoy it!30 weeks have officially passed...only 10 more to go. She has been so active these days it `s unbelievable! Sometimes it will take me by surprise and I `ll make a little noise and the girl on the other side of my cube wall will ask `Hey - What `s going on over there”
We had a great weekend away. We took my son snow tubing and he had a blast with his Daddy. I took lots of pictures. We also went to a few stores that had talking animatronics animals which were a big hit with him! He was such a good boy (just with a lot of energy). He was very interested in seeing his new cousin Riley (especially once she started crying due to a pretty big BM). Matthew wanted to see her getting her diaper changed and he kept saying `Riley sad” and `Big poop `. It was too funny! LOL! Let `s hope he `s as good with his new sister!
I am definitely feeling the pressure to get him moved to the new room now. 10 weeks will just fly by and I don `t want to be doing everything last minute. People have been giving me outfits and such for the new baby and I keep stacking them in a corner of the room until I get Matthew moved...oh well! All in good time I guess!
31 weeks today! YAY! I can't believe that time is flying by so fast. We had a busy weekend getting the last of the clothes out of the guest room. Now I just need to call a local charity to have them pick up the bedroom set and then we can paint the room. I keep telling myself that we have 9 weeks but it seems like she'll be here tomorrow so I am feeling pretty antsy. She's still super active and lately she's been hitting my bladder which makes the bathroom trips all the more frequent! LOL!
Friday, 11 Apr
Well, a local charity came today to pick up our spare bedroom set. Now all we need to do is give the room a good cleaning and a fresh coat of paint and then we can move Matthew in! I hope to get this completed by the end of the month...we'll see. All of the new baby stuff is piling up in the house and I need somewhere to start storing it...argh...I think the nesting instinct is starting to kick in! LOL!
his point of view is... "I can't feed her so why bother worrying about how you feel all the time... your always tired and I can't fix it." Of course I have my panties in a wad when I get tired... so I think.. "I don't give a crap whether or not he can feed the child... he better just appreciate it and SUFFER WITH ME!!!!" LOL I too stay up for the late feed...and now I am just staying up so I can have some personal time... and then pump
I could appreciate a small window of time like that to sleep.
Such a hot comodity these days!!! We new mommy's are appreciative of the scraps of time we get when we see small opportunities.... and our men just squander away sleep time like its overabundant. The inequity of it all
I totally get it!
I SOOOO need one of those nights!!!! When Jay and I go to Camp next week they have a parent date night where they take all the kids for the evening... until 10pm. They serve a nice dinner and have entertainment set up. I can't wait!!! Riley will just be down the hall in the nursery, and Hunter and Joe will be on a overnight! Riley so going to sleep good tonight... she has barely slept all day!! YAH!
She wasn't hungry since I just fed her, so I used some oralgel on her and she was crying even HARDER! So I said
"I will leave the room so YOU CAN SLEEP!" Like I have had more than 12 full hours of sleep in the past 3 days! Although to his credit he worked a 15 hour detail yesterday on his day off.... so he was tired too. She only got up 2 times last night after I got her to sleep... So Jay said "thanks" this morning and made a pass at me... and I said "honey I don't usually give it up when I am THIS tired!" I use the mini pill (but mostly abstinance LOL!!!!!.)right now while breastfeeding. I would like a more perminant form or BC when I stop BFing... and I made the doctors appt for Sept to look into it again. I know a lot of ladies that use both formula and breast milk. We did here for a while when I thought I wasn't producing enough. She took to it fine...for a while and then a few weeks later when I got my production back up I stopped using it. I wouldn't hesitate to start her on formula and keep nursing if you want at the same time for as long as you like. She will be fine with it as long as she gets a taste of it everyday. Although I think I started using bottles with my own milk first and she could get used to the bottle first and then the formula. It all worked well until Riley went on a bottle strike!!! What ever works for you and Alyssa. Every mommy and baby team are different. I think I have kept nursing cause I have my head in the sand about stopping.
Maybe I do about her sleeping in her own room too. LOL I just don't want this baby thing to end and its sad to think of NOT nursing and NOT having them in our rooms. Even if our lives might be easier in both regards. I agreed that after we get back from Camp we will use her crib. I have started to put her down for naps in there so she can get used to it. Oh on another note... I found some left over diapers size 1... but they seem to be larger than the average one made by parent choice that I will be sending your way. Riley is almost out of some of her 0-3's... I know you probably have what you need, but if you need any cute outfits, I do have a few that you would like that will be good. I also have footed pajama's too that are super cute. So if you want some let me know. Hope you have a great day!
But what can you do? I have posted a few more belly pics on my site. I am getting HUGE (or so it feels) LMAO. I just was stopping in to say HI. I will TTYL.
It just stinks cause its always on my days at work. Jay lets her sleep as long as he can get her to sleep on his days off, and I PAY FOR IT all night!!! The sitter has her today, and I told her to give her just one or two more naps if she seems like she needs it, but to keep them short. I am totally USELESS at work when I feel this way.
And its only on my days at work... so it tells me something about what happens at home when I am not home. I know these time don't last forever, but geesh... I am so tired and it makes everything seem so hard. Jay wants to move Riley into her room... and I told him that NOT UNTIL SHE IS MORE CONSISTANT in her sleeping! Cause then my job will be harder, cause I will have to leave my room and take care of her somewhere else... when its been easy to get her settled quickly in our room. I don't want Hunter waking up either with crying so its just easier. I am not making it any easier for him to sleep if he can't keep her damn schedule when I am not there... Its just not going to happen. NOWAY! He can suffer along side me! I am too funny!!
I have also been cleaning the house like a crazy lady. Mike would help I think if I would let him but I will not. I do not know what it is.
Well I have to run. I have an appointment tomorrow so I will let you know how that goes. Also what week does the doctor start to do the internal thing again? I do not remember. TTYL.
I am so happy Alyssa is sleeping !!!! YAH!!! I wish Riley would do a longer stretch... she was up again a lot last night... and what do you know I am at work today SO TIRED
Its been a long time since the two nights in one week she slept through the night... wish I knew what I did to make that happen? Although one of the days was when she got her two month shots. JoNathan is kinda just chilling at home, but he has a summer job through my company that he will be doing he started last week. He is doing GREAT
but of course its the honeymoon stage still and he is JoNathan and not some new kid I don't know anything about.
So I will be waiting for it.
I will probably just wear a nice shirt and some pants for the shower, I am just not feeling the whole dress up thing... maybe cause I am just too tired right now to think about it.
But maybe its a good excuse to take a ride by a store and pick out something nice for myself.
It might add a little pep to my step. 

Can't wait to see you guys next weekend! I can't wait to see Alyssa again... I felt like I saw Matthew only a few times that year he was born and I blinked and he was a toddler.
So it will be good cause I will see her next week, and then again in August.
Hope you have a great weekend! We have a party tomorrow and nothing really on Sun except to drive Hunter down to Manchester. Hunter starts baseball camp in Manchester on Monday at the fisher cat stadium. He is so excited!
this weekend!
Its just so easy to bring her to bed and nurse her at 330 at night. She is so sweet and all curled up next to me
But I do have my rocking chair I can use in there so I will leave my boppy in there.
It seems that Riley will be out of a sleep routine for a few days and then get back into it and I find she is the feeding queen all night long. I hate it when I don't get a few good hours of uninterruped sleep. She is not much of a napper, so when she sleeps too long (more than an hour at a time) I wake her up or else she will be burning the midnight oil.

What time are you suppose to give it to them? at each meal? or do you do it closer to bed time? and do you feed them milk first or after? I am confused as to what to do 


Jay really has been trying to get up with her, but she refuses to take anything from him. This breast feeding thing has its benifits and its drawbacks. I love that I can do it real fast in the middle of the night... but I hate that it doesn't really fill her up enough to sleep through the night. I also don't like being ON DEMAND! She is down to only once a night up at 330.. but she has her nights where its 2 and 5 am... and I am so exhausted. It seems to fall on the nights that I have to work. 

Now if we could have a wardrobe change we might actually be able to wear some of these cute dresses instead of letting her grow out of them. 
So I will bring some your way next time I see you and you can pick some out. Some of the sandles that I got in twos might not fit Riley next summer but may fit Alyssa. Some of them I can give you may fit for the winter months too. But all of them are totally cute and barely used. Gotta run!!
I hope he treats us ok... I mean as good as any angry teen could 

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