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megans mama - Wednesday, 25 June
You should know! lol. Her name will be Megan Elizabeth

deedlinz - Wednesday, 25 June
i know! i am just getting used to the fact that i will be going over my due date, i am not getting my hopes up!

faizam - Tuesday, 24 June
i knowww.....plus i havnt even felt a contraction yet....meaning the cervix has no plans of opening up.... :(

breezy99 - Tuesday, 24 June
Just wanted to say I read your post in plus size forum and I am about the same weight as you. I am embarassed of my weight also but I actually feel more comfortable with my husband now maybe because I can pretend my before pregnancy fat is now baby :) Either way I truly think you are very beautifull. Not to sound corny or anything but confidence really does make you more attractive. I used to make comments about myself being fat and nasty since I put on weight after my wedding and my husband actually said " The only thing that turns me off is when you put yourself down, low self esteem is ugly." Be happy with yourself, you're worth it.

pregnanthairdresser - Monday, 23 June
Im with ya dollface..ive tried everything and had nothing yet... It does blow..im getting more fustrated every day..i walk 4 miles a day..and nOTHING..No dilation..Ugh.. I wanna scream..Labor dust to you dollface!

megans mama - Monday, 23 June
Julietta is a very pretty name!

phillygirl2 - Monday, 23 June
I was just reading your post in the plus size section and trust me you are not alone. I am only at 9 weeks (supposedly) and i weighed in at 231, I am only 5'2, I attribute most of the weight to my braset, that is my story and i am sticking to it. . My husbans always says the same thing to me, it doesn't matter what you weigh, i will love you regardless. I try to explain to him that he can give me all the love in the world but as long as i am not happy with myself an dlove myself then that is irrelevant. Trust me you are not by yourself. At least your almost due, i still have many months of getting fatter and fatter to go

becky-wheatman - Monday, 23 June
Hi Megan, have just read your post on the plus sized page. I weigh pretty much the same as you (if not a little more). I too am embarrased at times by my size. Just wanted you to know that you're not alone!!

Good luck with the birth honey, I hope it all goes well x

juliedue2008 - Saturday, 21 June
FYI on the clothing.. I wore the hospital gown the entire time.. I was there four days csection.. and it was just so much easier I did not feel like getting dressed, they have you on so much pain stuff you dont care.. make sure you pack socks.. and slippers and OH a robe, NICU mine was for a day and I needed a robe to get in there. Just FYI! The bleedin for csection not so bad.. you were this massive pad and the hospital old lady gassy panties.. there were a life savor.. none of my stuff got ruined!

Karen19 - Saturday, 21 June
Hey, I know how you feel about the weight thing. I am almost 20 and I gained 45 pounds when i was pregnant. Now 4 1/2 months later i am still like 25 pounds heavier then before i got pregnant. I tell my boyfriend all the time how much i weigh and he doesnt say anything at all or he just says im not fat which makes me feel worse because I know hes lying. The other night he got mad at me because I deleated a picture of me and my son because you could see my fat. Anyways he got mad because i'm always upset when i see pictures of myself, so it iskinda making our relationship worse. I realized i better stop talking about it. How can he love me if i keep talking bad about myself. I try to go running and exercise but my son always wakes up or i am too scared to go running by myself. This weekend we were gonna go to a water park and I said i didnt want to go because I dont want to wear a bathing suit infront of other people and he said well we will never get to go then and it made me feel like total crap. But they love us no matter howmuch we weigh if not they wouldnt have wanted to have kids with us. Good luck.

MichelleMc - Friday, 20 June
Hi there. I see you already have comments saying this, but you are a very beautiful woman! I'm positive your hubby believes this, too! You have no reason to feel that you're not good enough for him; he must know you're good enough if he married you! Have you talked with him about how you're feeling? I have no doubt he would reassure you about how beautiful you truly are! :)

cathyg - Friday, 20 June
Girl...you have to listen to these ladies! You are gorgeous! If hubby thinks anything less than he is not worthy of such a beautiful woman. In a couple of weeks you will have your angel in your arms and nothing else will matter. Enjoy!

pregomyeggo - Friday, 20 June
I read your comment in the sex section...and I know how you feel I to was also fat before pregnancy 200 pounds now weighing 230 pounds! and are sex life is very different ...I cant even be on top Im so big! and sometimes I just cry too! but you kno what your so pretty ...a least your not ugly and fat ...like me were both not too bad lookin! but he married you 4 sum reason! and your havin his baby your givin up more of yourself for him! u have to let him be there during deliverly..!!! thats crazy that your that insecure that you would leave him out of the most important moment in both your lifes! which he might resent you for later! stay strong and try not to feel so insecure....I knows its so hard but your the mother of his child,he loves you!

cababy - Friday, 20 June
Hang in there!!! I thinkthat you are feeling very overwhelmed right now. Just think the in a few moe weeks the baby weight will be off and you can start focusing on yourself. If you really feel you need to talk to your husband then do so. I was a lot smaller when I met my husband ( had lost 90 before I met him)and over the past 2 years I had put back on 70 of those pounds. Whenever we go to the docs. I wont even let him in the room when I get weighed. I also have thought about delivery, I am ok with him in the room and my mom, but his sister who is the charge nurse of labor and delivery at that hospitol wants to scrub in on my case. I keep thinking if I was back to a 135-140 pre preg I probabley wouldn't care but I am so self concious of the weight I have put on that I cant even look at myself!! And now I have to have an audience whenI am delivering,. This is the one occasion I wish I was top heavy and not carrying all the weight in my hips butt and legs!!! All I know is as soon as baby comes breast feeding pumping an d going to weight watchers!!!! Good luck with your delivery and whatever you choose, I am sure your husband loves you no matter what! We tend to be our own worse critics!!

jeni - Friday, 20 June
Honey, I am not a small girl either... And you know what, when you have the baby you will lose a bunch of weight and begin to feel better about yourself.. I know that it doesn't seem possible right now, but things are not ever as bad as they seem. Enjoy the fact that he can see around the weight issues. Relish the fact that he loves you unconditionally. And just accept it for what it is... I think it is fantastic that he loves you for what is inside of you - not the baby - YOU.
You say that you wish he would cheat on you - that you wouldn't even be mad, but let me assure you - it sucks. It makes you feel even worse about yourself. As for what everyone, anyone or noone thinks - who cares??? Why does that matter? You are about to be a mommy - you love your husband and are in the process of having a beautiful, sweet daughter.
Honey, I am sooo sorry that you are going through this right now - you deserve to be happy and it sounds as though you are in the midst of a very deep depression. I know it is hard, but try to remember that this could be an adverse side effect of the emotional stress of your life... Please try to cheer up and remember - he loves you for you and nothing else should matter... Sending happy thoughts your way...

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