MiniWhooper01
	Age: 22 Country: US Province/region: California City: San Diego Partner: Jonathan, My Baby & My Daughter's Daddy. Children: Yes, 1 Pregnant: Please select Due date: 09 0 ,0000 Occupation: Mommy & Photographer
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{Typed, 9.1.07} Hello … My name is Destiny Swan. My Boyfriend Jonathan & I, are going to have a Baby Girl. We are both 21 years old, both of our Birthdays are in May (1986). We live in South California. My home towns are: Youngstown, Ohio & Altadena, California. I am a Photographer. I use to be a Lingerie & Bikini Model. I’ve always wanted to be a Photographer, since I was 14 years old. Jonathan, is a Student at a University.
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My Pregnancy!

{Typed, 9.3.07} … So we are having a Baby Girl. I am beyond happy & excited. I actually want a Girl. I was going to be happy, regardless of what we have. I just want a healthy Baby. At this time, I don’t want any more kids. I don’t like being pregnant. Our Daughter ~ Will have a Brother, born on January 26, 2007 (My God-Son) & a Brother on her Daddy’s side, he just turned 2 years old. She’ll also have a lot of Cousins, born in 2007 to play with. At this time, I’m not worried about her being lonely.
Our Baby Shower, Photographs.

{Typed, 9.3.07} … MY PREGNANCY WONDERS & WORRIES ARE: (1) With my stomach being so little, I wonder if, she has enough room. My Doctor say, there is nothing wrong with my size & so on, but I sill wonder & worry. Tons of Women stomach’s are bigger than mine. You can’t even tell, I’m the months I am. If you can even tell, I’m pregnant. (2) I wonder, what she’s doing inside her little space. (3) I wonder, who she’ll look like. I think, she’ll look more like Jonathan. I think, she’ll be small, because of my stomach & Jonathan’s Mom, isn‘t tall. (3) I’m worried about our Daughter, being born early. I want her to be healthy. I don’t want to have to, leave her at the Hospital. When I leave, I want to take her home. (4) I worry if, she’s alright.

{Typed, 9.3.07} … BREASTFEEDING: At first, I wasn’t planning on breastfeeding. I always said, I wouldn’t breastfeed. Since I’ve been pregnant, I’ve learned a lot more about breastfeeding. I only really learn about it, at the WIC office. I don’t search it, anywhere else. Last time, I was at my appointment I learned that ~ When you breastfeed, your Child will be more open to eating different foods. That’s important to me. I really don’t want our Child, being picky & wasting food. …….. I’m thinking about breastfeeding. Maybe, I’ll do half & half. At this time, I haven’t taken any classes. I hope breastfeeding doesn’t become hard for me.

The UP’S Of My Pregnancy. {Typed, 9.1.07}

ULTRASOUNDS … Going to my appointment’s, to see our Daughter on the screen, is the high light of my day. Actually, it’s the high light of my life. I truly enjoy seeing her on the screen. It makes me so happy, I’m so excited, beyond. When I see here, she’s always partying. Just kicking & moving around. I’ve also seen her, touch her face & touch her toes. Besides, God, myself & my Doctor ~ The following people, have seen her, on the screen: My Mom, my oldest Sister, my 2 nieces (5 & 1 ½ years old) & Jonathan. ……… My Doctor shows her for a long time, plus she prints me lots of photo’s. I also have her on VHS. I’m not sure if, I’ll be getting the 3D/4D Ultrasound. I’m not sure if, the money is there, for that. I would like to have one. I wish, I could watch her on the screen day & night. I heard getting ultrasounds continuously, isn’t good for your Baby. Have any of you, heard that?

… Our Daughter, moves around a lot & kicks. Her kicking doesn’t really bother me. That lets me know, she’s still alive. I enjoy watching my stomach move. It’s so funny. My stomach is so little & she’s moving around. I believe, she needs more room. Also I see her body parts sticking out. It’s harder for me to sleep, when she’s moving. …….. A lot of times, Jonathan misses her kicks, because I don’t say anything. If I do, he just missed it. He has felt her body, her moving & kicking. Sometimes he knows where she is & I don’t.
It’s like, she’s being good when her Daddy’s around. Because when it’s just me, she’s really kicking & moving. ……..… When Jonathan is rubbing & kissing my stomach, I’m loving it. ………… I read her Children books. I don’t sing to her. Well, I kind of sing her name. I talk to her & rub on my stomach.

… I visit a couple of different sites, where I read about our Baby. It’s very interesting & I enjoy it.

The DOWN’S Of My Pregnancy. {Typed, 9.1.07}

… I use to be 120. As time went on, I gained weight & became about 150. When I got pregnant , I went down to 130 something. I lost a lot of weight, from being so sick. I couldn’t hold any of my food down. I just started gaining weight, in June 2007. I’m now, 141. I still get sick, but not like I use to & I’m glad. I can’t drink juice with my food or I’ll throw up. Our Baby, doesn’t like half of the foods I enjoy. So I can’t eat them. ………… In the beginning, I had to use the restroom, a lot. Beyond. Now, I’m back to doing that. I believe, the beginning was worst. I really dislike going to the restroom, like every 10 minutes. I also dislike my back pains, heartburn & my feet hurting. Sometimes my stomach hurts & I don’t like that either. I don’t like the negative pregnancy symptoms & I can’t wait to not be pregnant.

... PRETERM LABOR: In July 2007, I went into preterm labor. Jonathan & I, where on our way back to his house. I was driving & I just started feeling these pains, in my lower stomach area. My back was really hurting. My cheat, It felt like, I was losing my breath. I couldn’t move. I was beyond afraid & I didn’t know what to do. Nor did Jonathan. I was just crying & yelling, I didn’t want him to leave my side, for anything. The Ambulance, had to come. ………. I didn’t know, I was in preterm labor, until we got to the Hospital. I was giving two shots, to stop my contractions. When I was released, I had to stay in bed, until I saw my Doctor. I still don’t know, why I went into preterm labor. I’m really glad Jonathan, was there for me. I really appreciate him. He witnessed everything, I should have been embarrassed.

… TO TOP BEING SICK: Jonathan, has a 2 year old Son, with this Female. She has been harassing me, since December 2006. She stole my numbers, off his Mom’s Caller ID. She has been harassing me by phone & on myspace.com. Some of her Family members, decided to join her. She lives in Texas, but she’s from California. She comes out here, starts all this mess & keeps it up in Texas. Yes, it’s outrageously ridiculous. They threaten myself & our Daughter. I could go on & on & on. ……… I don’t even know, what she wants from me. She ruined her relationship with Jonathan, years before I came along. She trapped him with their Son & much worst. She doesn’t want to see him happy. I truly do not understand her problem. Instead of her, worrying about us ~ She should be taking care of their Son & herself. She knows Jonathan, doesn’t want her & he’ll still take care of their Son. ……… I'm pregnant & I don’t need any mess, of any kind. Even if I wasn’t pregnant, I still don’t need this. This situation really makes me mad, beyond. Jonathan, doesn’t need this either. If he’s all stressed because of her, he won’t be in his right state of mind. He needs to be focusing on his schooling & so on. We all need him, at his best. ……….. She needs to grow up. I truly don’t believe, she’ll give up.

{Typed, 10.8.07} … Who is “Mini Whooper“? It’s our Daughter’s nickname. My older Sister & I, came up with it one day. I’m sure everyone knows, what the word “mini” means. “Whooper” is our Daughter’s last name. Her Daddy’s friends, call him “Big Whoop”. It’s so hilarious. We just got a kick out of it. At first ~ I didn’t care for that last name, especially since it’s a W. It’s at the end of the list. (ABC’s) So where-ever were somewhere & there going by last names, were basically last. The name “Whooper” grew on me. So that's how we came up with “Mini Whooper“. ………. Of course, I’m not going to call Jonathan, “Big Whoop“. I just call him, by his name or Baby, even Daddy. (LAUGH OUT LOUD)

My Pregnancy Updates:

{Typed, 10.8.07} … At my last appointment, my Doctor told me ~ I could have our Daughter anytime, after October 15th to the first week of November. My next Doctor’s appointment is, October 15th @ 11AM. I’ll be getting an ultrasound, photo’s & I can bring a VHS. I’m able to bring people, but I’ll probably be alone. If I haven’t had her, I’ll go to my Doctor’s once a week. …….. I guess, I’m having a natural birth. I’m "really" afraid of going into labor. I hope labor goes by easy & quick for me. I am truly a difficult person, that doesn’t like pain.

… Awhile ago, I was in the Hospital. I saw our Daughter, on the ultrasound. I didn’t get a copy of the photo’s. That was my first time seeing her, since July 2007. Her head was by my private. She’s ready to come out. Our Daughter, is doing fine. She’s still kicking & moving around. Her body parts are still sticking out. ………… My little Brother & I, finished reading her The Lion King, awhile ago. I just read her, Cinderella. I’m currently reading her, Beauty And The Beast. Next, I’ll be reading her, Pocahontas. I signed up for a Library card & borrowed them. These books all have over 90 pages & reading makes me sleepy.

… Myself, I’m alright. I’ll feel much better, when I’m holding our Daughter. I don’t like being pregnant.
I take no pleasure in being sick & in different types of pains. I’m still having contractions, especially at night. I’m actually having them now. I don’t like them. When there coming, I don’t move until there done. Oh, here’s a new one ~ At times, my lower legs hurt, it’s like there swollen, but when I feel them, there not. I don’t know, what’s up with that.

… Jonathan’s Baby Momma ~ Has been posting outrageous ridiculous things, on her myspace.com page.
That’s nothing new. Well, this is a new one ~ She’s pretending their getting married & their living together. She’s always pretending to be in California, when she isn’t. We all know, including herself that ~ Their not getting married, she isn’t living with him & so on. She continues to post old photographs of them together. ……… I’ve been sick of her & this bull. I’m no longer going to view her mysepace.com & I don’t want to hear/read about it. Me, letting this effect me ~ Isn’t good for myself nor our Daughter. I wish, she’d just give up. Damn! She knows Jonathan & I are together & that I’m having his Daughter. She doesn’t care. WHY DO SOME WOMEN WANT A MAN, KNOWING THEIR WITH SOMEONE ELSE & THEY DON’T WANT THEM?! It’s beyond ridiculous.


… On Wednesday afternoon {10. 10. 07}, I drove to San Gabriel Valley Medical Center. It’s far from my house, but that’s where I’m delivering. I ended up having to stay, because my blood pressure was high.
I didn’t have high blood pressure before that. ………. On my injured arm, I was hooked up to the IV & it was really hurting. I also had that thing-e on my finger. On my right arm was ~ The thing that checks your blood pressure. Mine was being checked every 30 minutes. I had to pee in the stupid bucket. They were saving my pee for 24 hours, to check my kidneys. I wasn’t allow to watch T.V. or talk on the phone long, because the Nurse said ~ It could raise my blood pressure. I was given medicine to help me sleep.

… They took me off the “high blood pressure IV“, early morning. {10. 11. 07} They were checking to see if, my blood pressure goes down. This Doctor that wasn’t my Doctor, came to see me in the morning & he said ~ My Baby was 4 ½ pounds. If they didn’t get my blood pressure down, he’d Indus my labor. At 5PM something ~ The Nurse said, I could leave. So I called my Doctor. She said, she didn’t say I could leave & she was on her way to see me. My Doctor said, I had to stay in the Hospital until I have my Baby, Etc. I was truly hurt, I wanted to cry. I truly dislike Hospitals. My Doctor, is really kind. She let me be without the IV & I no longer had to pee in the bucket. She had asked me, what I didn’t like & I told her.

… {10. 12. 07} I truly didn’t feel good, I had thrown up breakfast & lunch. Every time my blood pressure would go up or I’d move ~ That stupid machine would go off. They didn’t even come to fix it. I’d let it go for an hour or so before I’d press the call button. I was trying to see ~ How long it would take them, before I had to call them. I dislike hearing the machines go off. They can tell at there station there going off. I don’t know why, they don’t come in right away. It’s ridiculous.


… When my Doctor came to visit me, we continued to discuss ~ When was I going to deliver our Daughter. At first, we were going to see if, she’d come on her own, over the weekend. & if she didn’t, I’d have my labor Indus on Tuesday or Wednesday. I had already dilated 3 cementers. Since my blood pressure wasn’t getting better, My Doctor was discussing with myself & my Mom ~ If I wanted my labor Indus that night & I could have our Daughter that night or early in the morning. She recommended that I’d try to have her natural first & so on. We were doing all this discussing around 8:00PM. Our Daughter’s head, had already been low. I got my epidural right before 9PM. I had about 4 different things, going inside of me, by IV. Plus the decaper. (I can’t spell that word.) So I couldn’t get up to pee. I’d rather have the decaper, than the bucket. I dislike wearing the oxygen mask.

… {10. 13. 07} My water broke at 12:35AM. My Doctor, had 3 other Babies to deliver there before ours. The Nurse, had took this long ass break, I was truly pissed. She finally came back in & when she checked me, it was time to deliver our Daughter. She sit everything up, I got more machine. She told me what to do, when I feel the contractions. I was confused, I thought I wasn’t suppose to feel anything. So I’m like ~ I am suppose to feel things & it isn’t suppose to hurt? Anyways, My Mom could already see her hair. The Doctor came in & I had our Daughter at 5:35AM. My labor & delivery went by quick & easy, just the way I wanted it. Thank you, God! It went better than what I had expected. I wasn’t as afraid as I thought I’d be.

… Our Daughter was, 4lbs. 5oz. 18in. I got to hold her, she was smiling, we took photo’s, I got her foot prints & the Man took her to the NICU. I had to wait until the next day to see her. Because I was on this serious high blood pressures IV medicine & I needed to stay in bed & be watched. That’s what they told me. I’d call down there, to check on her. ……….. Our Daughter, was in the NICU, because she was born early, 4lbs. Besides that she was doing well, drinking her bottles & everything. Then she got Jaundice. Monday, I was truly sad to leave the Hospital without her. (I left the Hospital, having to take high blood pressure medicine 2 times a day.) I visited her everyday. The only people that could come in the NICU & visit her were, Myself, Jonathan & our Parents. Seeing her with those blindfolds & under that light, was no picnic. I was trying not to cry. I was upset. I brought our Daughter home on, October 19, 2007. I’m beyond glad, she’s at home with us. We all love her so much.

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Posted On: July 11, 2008

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