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	Age: 22 Country: Province/region: City: Partner: Quentin Children: Yes, 2 Pregnant: No Occupation: SAHM and Justforkix assistant
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I'm a mother of two wonderful little girls. Clare is my oldest, She's 3 years old and talking alot. She knows her colors, animals, counts, abc's, and says so many words both real and not real. She love's swimming and dancing. More info is on her own page if you want to check it out. Kimberly is my second and last baby. Shes 14months old now. Time goes by to quickly and you feel like there is not enough time in one day. She also enjoys swimming and playing peek-a-boo. More info is on her page as well. I'm 22 and my husband is 26. We have been married for three years and together for 5 years. We are very happy with our family and am proud to say we are complete with our two girls. I am open to any questions that anyone may have if your TTC, Pregnant, New mom, or Mom to many. My mom ran a daycare for 13 years from when I was 3-18 so I have seen quite a bit and I'm willing to do research to help also if you don't have time. I also just started my own daycare on February 18th. I only have one daycare child but I enjoy it very much because I'm home with the girls and able to focus on what they need right now. Being a mom has been somthing I've wanted since I was a little girl. I was always playing barbie dolls and house. I just can't get enough of it. I also always wanted girls but thought I was going to have boys so having girls is what I really wanted. I always wanted three girls but my hubby only wants two kids. So I'm content for right now lol. I love meeting new people and I love to share stories as well as hear stories so I'm a message away. Good luck to all and baby dust to those who are trying.

You gave me the strength I didnt know I had

I look at them and I think am I doing a good job? I think about the day they were born like it was yesterday and I can't believe that they are doing all that they are doing. Nobody can tell you what kind of parent you will be or how you will handle the stress of parenting. I know that the way that I feel about my girls is beyond what words can say but there are mothers who take these beautiful blessings and choose that they don't care and that love just doesn't matter. Being a mom is the best thing I have ever done. I can't stand child abuse nor neglect. All I can do is hope and pray that Im doing the best that I possibly can. When I was younger and pictured being married with children. It doesnt even hold a candle to my reality. I just need to sit back and relax knowing that accidents are going to happen and I may hit my last nerve but thats nobodys fault. When I was younger my childhood was a crazy mess. My parents loved us kids but my mom only had us for my dad and it made it hard to make her happy and she was angry a lot. I told Quentin when we were dating that if I ever did that to tell me because I want to be the mom that Clare and Kimberly look back on as the one person who never made them feel unwanted. Because I wanted them, I wanted them more than anything in my life. This isnt a dream its a reality that Im living everyday and you cant take back anything you say or do and there little minds are remembering and learning before birth. People don’t realize or think about that. Hold your children and cherish every moment knowing that all you have is that moment if something happened that is that last memory that will be in theres and everyone elses minds.

Me and my husband on our wedding day

My husband Quentin, Kimberly 7 months and Clare 2 years. November 30, 2007

Quentin and me on January 1, 2008

The first of many 2008 pictures

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Me On October 15, 1987 and Clare on March 18, 2008

~*~My Angel in heaven~*~

July 5- Yesturday was the 4th of July and we had a BLAST. We went to the parade and Clare liked it alot but somthings were to loud for her. Kimberly did great but when she's outside for to long she starts to get mad and hot. So when we got home we ate a quick lunch and put the girls down for a nap. Clare only took an hour nap so I took her to the park and she got her face painted and she did spin art. We had a great time. We then headed back home to get My husband and Kimberly because she took a longer nap. We got to my parents and I had a few friends coming over too. We ate and the girls went swimming. Clare didn't want her butterfly to come off so she didn't get her face wet (how funny) we then started talking about games and so we did the three legged race lol. I told Clare she could choose between Mommy, Ericka, and Jimmy. I truly thought she would pick me you know cuz I'm her mom lol. But NOPE she chose ERICKA witch ment I was with Jimmy (my old boss and dear friend) I introduced Ericka to Jimmy!!! They have almost been together a year now. I'm so good ha ha ha ANYWAY Jimmy and I were doing really good but I let my daughter win because her and Ericka were at a slite dis advantage. Then we started playing with a ball kinda like a mixture of Vollyball, tennis, and croquce *crow K* not sure how to spell it. We then were on our way home and we saw THREE horses at a house IN TOWN a few houses down. I knew the family and since Clare LOVE'S horses so I walked over with Clare she was petting the horse and had the BIGGEST smile I'd ever seen. I told the girl on the horse that I've been wanting to take Clare horse back riding. She then scooted back a bit and said put her up. Clare rode up and down our block 3 times. I took 4 pictures Clare kept saying I like the horse mommy and when we left she kissed her goodbye (the horse) and told the nice girl thank you. It was so neat to see Clare so happy. It was also Clare's 4th 4th of July i think it ROCKED!!!

July 1- So Kimberly is taking more steps everyday, but still crawls most of the time. I'm working hard on Clare understanding when you do somthing wrong you go to time out. I even have a time out rug. When Quentin and I were dating/ engaged. He got his own place and since he collects Monopoly games (Don't ask me why and i hope I spelt it write) I got him a bathroom set of Monopoly. We still use the towl and bath toys for the girls lol. But one of the rugs was a Go To Jail and so thats the new Time out rug. I think its SOOOOOO funny and the rug works out well because she knows she has to stay there. I'm also doing flash cards working on 11-20 and puzzles. I'm trying to read to her more as well. I used to read to her ALL the time but since I had Kimberly its slowed down so I'm trying to have special reading time ALONE with both girls. I'm really trying to help my girls be as smart as they are. Clare has slowed down with spelling her name because she can't get the a and she has a few in her name Clarissa Elizabeth But for right now we are just working on her first name. But I'm also going to teach her e so she can spell Clare as well. Anyway any advise on things I can do to make learning fun WOULD BE AWESOME!!!

June 19- I was watching the girls pick up toys and I had just finished my bike ride and so Quentin was helping Kimberly pick up the toys. He stood her up and she was standing there so I said COME HERE KIMBERLY COME TO MAMA and she took a step and then fell. I was so exited I felt it was a tiny step closer to her walking, running, and exploring her world. I can't wait to see if she gets closer tomorrow!!!

June 16- I can't believe that Kimberly is now 14months old now! It feels like she was just born to be honest lol. I weighed myself and... I gained 4lbs but things are getting baggy. I think I gained muscle so hopefully soon I loose these Darn LOVE HANDLES I really HATE them lol. I'm doing side crunches but i'm not sure if i'm not doing enough, or if I'm doing them wrong but I'm going to keep at it. I did bike ride today and did my side crunches!!! I'm tired and think I'm going to be heading off to bed here soon, but I will be on tomorrow. Lots of love you all you mommies.

June 12- Lots of things going on but hopefully things start to slow down. I'm now doing Pilates everyday. I also take the kids for a walk to the park and let them play then we walk home. Its a great way to use up enegy and work out all at once. The girls are doing great! Clare went poopy all by herself today. It was so exiting. I gave her two M&M's and told her how proud I was because I want her to keep doing it. Kimberly also has been standing up by herself ALOT more now, but she still has her moment when she is just wanting held. I'm so proud I even FINALLY got a Picture of her standing. She's not looking at the camera but you take what your given lol. I'm getting exited about dance I start picking out the dances and costumes here in the next few weeks. I'm going to be the teacher for the first few months while the director Is recovering form her C-section. I'm trying to get back into shape so I look good and feel better about being a mommy to Two beautiful girls and being 22. I'm going to add a little to both girl's pages and I will be posting pictures this weekend of all the work we have been doing with the house and of the girls! I will let you ALL know when I do so as well.

June 10- Today I went roller blading while pushing the stroller with two kids lol. I didn't make it to the Park but I went the long way and made it over half way. I was so proud. I then speed walked the girls to the park. I felt awesome! We played for awhile and then walked home again the long way. We got home and we took the girls out for Ice Cream. I gave most of mine to Kimberly but only ate half. I also am working really hard to not eat past 8. Thats really hard but I'm trying not to snack and when the girls get there morning and afternoon treats I just eat my fruit. I'm also drinking alot more water. I'm not weighing in till next MONDAY so we will see if my hard work is paying off. I hope to get our pool set up tommorrow. I still hope to take the girls for walks everyday, plus ride my bike, and DRINK LOTS OF WATER! I'm just trying to get healthy for my girls! Kimberly is so cute she's saying all kinds of things but my favorite things she does is when she drops somthing she says uh oh and she thinks everything is a phone and she will hay hi. Clare is doing great she's talking more and loves singing and dancing. We are working on her phone number and what to do in an emergency. She really likes stop drop and roll. I'm so proud of my girls but they do have their moments when I think WHY IS THIS COMING FROM lol. But its a stage that every child goes threw.

June 9- I've been wanting to loose 75lbs for a while. I've already lost 25lbs leaving just 55lbs left to loose. I held the same weight over the fall, winter, and some of spring since its been really rainy here I haven't been able to bike ride. BUT I looked at a picture of me and realized how BIG I really look. So today I really started to work hard to loose weight I just got done working out for a little less than a half hour and feel great and am taking a small break and then hope to go back for another 10-20 more min. I'm also working on potions. Tommorrow I play to roller blade while pushing a stroller and haveing a 20lb baby on my back lol. Lets see how well I do. Its just hard for me to speed walk with a two kids in a stroller and a 3 year old walking beside me. I'm really hoping to loose the weight before the new year. I need lots of support and ANY in home things I can do that you do. Would be great for me because I'm home alot. I'm also trying to do my stairs ALOT during the day. It goes to our basement but I think that it is a good work out. Well its getting late so I better get back and then head to the shower and bed lol.

June 6- I'm just so frustrated today. Kimberly was standing on her own and trying to make steps but now all she wants is me to hold her. She has a tooth coming in for a while now and It hasn't popped threw. I have been trying to keep her mind stimulated and play games with her but all she wants is me to hold her. I just feel like I'm doing EVERYTHING wrong. Clare is talking better now but still has her moments that she just jibber jabbers. She also is not listening to me. I try not to yell and I don't spank or slap. I just tell her ok time out time and she will thow a fit and I have to carry her to the corner. I think she acting out for attention. If anyone has any advise to what I can do to get my kids back to were they have been PLEASE do I need help.

May 24- I'm now a proud mom to a 3year old and a 1 year old. I'm just loving everything right now with my family and my life. I have made quite a few changes and they are 100% for the better! Now that the girl's birthdays are done I should have more time to talk to you other moms. Its one of my favorite things having all of you to talk to since I have only a few friends who have kids since I was the first to be married and still the only one to have gotten married. I'm SO glad that Potty Training is over. I still remind her when she hasn't gone in awhile but she's still doing WONDERFUL. I really had to relax and understand that accidents happen and its not worth getting upset about because in 3 more years BOTH girls will be potty trained and I will look back and say I'm glad thats all over lol. Well anyway I better get going but I will be posting Birthday pictures soon!

May 21- I don't update as much now that they changed the site and I've been really busy with Three kids (one being daycare) We are enjoying the nice weather and try to go for a walk everyday, we also go swimming 5 days out of the week. Since we have a membership and all its easy we are also hoping to replace our out door pool because our other one ripped last year. I enjoy staying home and taking care of these little angels. I truly feel that each child is a tiny miracle and I love having three in my life. I'm also trying to cook more and working on fixing up our house when we repaint and make the closet I will post before and after pictures. I can't wait till We get that ALL done. But we aren't doing it till the weekend before fathers day. Oh yeah what are you guys doing for you husbands for Fathers day? I'm trying to think of somthing cute does anyone have any ideas a 3 and 1 year old could do? Oh and Today is his birthday he's now 26 :) Well I better be going I have alot to do for tonight.

Apirl 16- My little angel Kimberly Rosanne turned 1 today! It was fun and we had a family party today and having a friends party on Saturday. I will have to post pictures when I get some time. I can't wait for regular nice weather and not this here and there stuff.

March 25- Easter went well and I will be posting pictures soon. I was able to see all of my sisters and my brother. My niece Alina is getting so big she's doing so many new things. I can't believe she's almost 2. Oh and I put a video on Kimberly's page I hope it works so you can all see it.

March 19- Yay happy moment in my house hold today. I have had a full house all week and Clare has been going poopy on the potty for EVERYONE but ME. I was very sad that she would hide from me and not tell me till after she went in her panties. So I told her no M&M's till she went poopy on the potty and she would get TWO. Well today she was playing and she came to me and said she had to go potty I rushed her to the big potty and asked if she had to go poop and she said YES! I didn't get my hope up because somtimes she says that and doesn't do anything so I just waited and She pushed a little bit and then I heard it PLOP. She pooped on the potty. She said mommy I get two M&M's and I said what colors hunny and she said BLUE. No suprise since that's her favorite color. I hope that this is a good sign for the future.

March 13- Well from tomorrow and next week Monday threw Friday I'm watching two more kids. One is only a week younger than Kimberly the other is 4 1/2 But she gets along with Clare really well. So its going to be crazy but FUN!!! I'm getting everything ready and can't believe that Friday is here. Oh and I got some exiting news but its more for Clare so I think that info will be on her page because she's super exited and I think it should be on her page. But to continue Clare's ear is getting a little red and I hope its not infected. I have been cleaning it three times aday like I'm suppose to and turning the earing. I make sure I clean it after her bath and we haven't gone swimming but I would clean it then too. So I'm just going to keep cleaning it and maybe it just got rubbed or bumped on somthing. So yeah there are updates on both girl's pages. I'm a proud mommy to both girls :)

March 8- Both girls have pretty pierced ears now. Clare chose the September birthstone and Kimberly got the October birthstone. They both didn't cry. Clare smiled the whole time and even after she didn't say a word but WOW mommy I love it. Kimberly fussed a little bit but not a single tear feel from her eyes. We then chose to go to McDonalds instead of Ice Cream because it took longer than we thought and so it got to close to lunch. I can't wait till spring when the girls can wear summer dresses, skirts, shorts and all that fun stuff. I will post pictures as soon as I can. I have to get them off the Camera and everything.

March 7- Well the Justforkix director is pregnant and due in September. I'm way exited and can't wait I so think she's having a girl. Quentin is going to be helping me out with the daycare when she has her baby since I will have to be there for ALL the classes not just the younger one's. I have had a very crazy week and its been filled with high's and lows. If you want to know I can tell you but I don't want to spend forever typing it out. So to make myself feel better I'm going to post some of my favorite pictures.

How time flys when your having fun

Clare March 2008

Kimberly March 2008

This is a picture of Megan (one of my sister) when she met Kimberly for the first time. Clare 2 years Kimberly 1 month and Alina (my niece Megan's daughter) 1 year

February 27- Well I sent out my best to all and Lily Hope your delivery goes smooth. Yesturday was a CrAzY day for me. I worked three jobs But didn't have to watch Zavier but still got paid :) But yeah today when Quentin gets home I have to go to the pool to get my check and so I can day Hi to a few people then get back home because Wait never mind lol. Zavier is getting picked up a little early today so I won't have to go right when Quenin gets home. That will be nice well anyway I worked at the pool for three hours yesturday and had DaNcE! So yeah I was busy even though I didn't have Zavier. So everything is going well and I still want this snow to MeLt. Well I've got to feed Kimberly and then Zavier so gotta go but I will be on here and there.

Febuary 21- Well I must say that Monday and Tuesday were hard for me. Zavier is great and so are my girls but all four of us are used to different things and so we all have to find a happy medium. Today has been great so far and I haven't even thought for a second that I made the wrong choice. At first I thought What am I going to do? but now its all wonderful. My hours I think was my hardest change. I went form working part time hours to now an 11 hour day plus. Its no lie that SAHM work two full time jobs I so believe it now. Kimberly has never had a need to hold her bottle but yesturday and today i have been working on her Walking, upper body strength, and holding her bottle. I've also been working on saying please in sign language. She used to cry when she wanted somthing now she waves her had witch is some what close to please in sign language. Zavier and Kimberly are eating every three hours but thank God that its not the same every theree hours. Kimmy goes an hour before him. I really enjoy staying home and can't believe its taken me 2 1/2 years to do it. I CAN'T wait for the weather to get nice that my next countdown. We will be able to go for walks, go swimming, and everything else that comes with spring and summer. Just two more months and my baby girl will be 1, and that's when the weather will be getting nicer. I'm happy and sad at the same time.

February 18- Well Valentine's day was a BUST both girls were really sick they got what I had. So we will do Valentine's day when they get better :) I'm now a SAHM aka Daycare provider. I LOVE it and can't believe I'm doing what I always wanted. I miss my old job and my boss who became a good friend of mine but because of his girl friend he can't talk to me anymore. She's my ex friend and thinks I want to be with him but I'm happily married and she doesn't get that. So any way on my last day my boss got me two balloons one says bye gonna miss you and the other says thank you twice. It also came with a card and my hubby sent me flowers at work and on Valentine's day I called in sick so I could take care of the girls and so I got 6 red roses sent to my house. Here are some pics and when we do the girl's Valentine's day I will post those pictures as well. The little boy I'm now watching is named Zavier and he's a little cutie. I will post a picture of him if I get his mom's permission.

February 16- Ok ok I know its been awhile but I've been busy and trying to get everything ready for Monday. So anyway I mainly just wanted to tell you about how Kimberly is now 10 months and I will tell you about Valentine's day and My last day at work when I get more time. BOTH girls are sick and I only have two hands and LOTS to do so my babyies need me but I will post stuff asap.

January 16- I keep the girl's pages cought up on things that happen day to day dealing with them. Today we went sleding and I pulled the girls all over our yard. It was alot of fun and I would do it all day no matter how tierd I got. They love being outside and playing together. Clare went over night without wetting her pull up. I'm so proud and hope that this will continue. Here are some little pictures from today just incase you don't get a chance to look at Clare and Kimberly's pages.

January 16, 2007

January 1- HAPPY NEW YEAR and I have a feeling that this year will be just as great if not better than 2007. I will be a stay at home mom in February, I have my family complete, I will be going on my first cruise in less than a month and can't wait. I'm very focused and determined to loose the rest of the baby weight form my first pregnancy. I have lost 21lbs already but have 50lbs left to loose. I have a new look that I love and its so different for me that I don't see myself going back lol. The girls have alot of exiting things coming up in the new year also. Such as a 3rd birthday and a 1st birthday. Learning new things and knowing the world around them more. I'm very happy to have all of you other mommies to share, vent, and relate to.

December 25- This is my first Christmas in 3 years that I'm not pregnant. lol It went great and the girls were awesome. I loved getting to see Alina and so did Clare. Kimmie wasn't sure but stayed in good spirits the whole day. I posted a few pics and hope to post more of the girls wearing and playing with there new toys and cloths. Quentin gave me some sunglasses for our Cruise. What a suprise a Cruise he also gave me a willow tree sculpture called Quietly- Quietly encircled by love. I will post a pic of that plus my other ones. I loved it! my favorite gift the girls got was from my Mother aka Mama Mary. A locket for both girls one that says Big Sis for Clare with a picture of Kimmy inside and one that says Lil Sis for Kimmy with Clare's picture inside. It brought me to tears just knowing that my every dream came true this year. I have daughters and nothing will ever change that. I will also post pics of the girls wearing them too.

Christmas eve and Christmas morning 2007

December 4- Well we are making a BIG progress on potty training. Clare is so close and only has 1 or 2 dirty diapers a day. I can't wait till she's out of diapers. Kimberly is sitting up so well and almost crawling. We are very exited about her first Christmas and hung up our stockings on December 1st.

November 12- Well today the three of us girls got our flu shots and Kimberly had to go back to get her second set on December 12th or around there. Clare went on the potty 5 times today. I'm so proud of her and hope tomorrow we have the same results. The girls are also taking baths together and they love it. Clare loves helping wash her sister and being mommy's little helper. I'm so happy to be a mom to my girls they are so beautiful and sweet. I couldn't have asked for a better family.

July 13-I can't help but feel like I can't love my girls anymore and then I see how other people treat their kids and I realize just how much I love them more everyday. I thank God for my two beautiful girls. Clare does more and more things to show me how big she's getting and I forget she is two and everyday she is one step closer to being 3. Kimberly is so sweet, she is getting really long and smiles all the time I don't know what I did to deserve such amazing girls. I truly thank God everyday for them. I think its really neat all of us moms what all we do for such a little person and yet we would do it all over again to get the same little blessing.

July 8- I know several couples who got married on 7-7-07 and my sister was one of them. I was a beautiful outside wedding on the beach at a lake. For the unity candle part the had blue sand for Jamie (my sisters husband) and white sand for Malinda (my sister) and they poured the sand together and put sand from the beach on top of it. It was so neat. and for the guest book they had everyone sign a mat for a picture and So it looked really cool with everyone's little comments. It was beautiful I will put a pic up as soon as they get developed. I'm so happy for my sister and Jamie and hope they live happily ever after.

July 4- Today is my oldest sister's birthday and she is also getting married this weekend 7-7-07 so yeah for her. We had a really bad storm hit and we just got Kimberly to sleep and she was awake till like 1:00a.m today. So that’s what I'm doing up right now lol. I got a golden pig and hope to figure out how to post pics on my page. If I can't I will add it to my slide show and/or put a picture of it in my photo book. Well HAPPY 4th of JULY everyone, and good luck to all those mommies due this month. Its your month to shine. Oh and if anyone has any questions about anything just ask. I love meeting new people and talking about pregnancy, baby, kids, ect.

June 30- Congrats to all the women who had their little miracles this month. I enjoy every moment I get with my girls and understand that one day they will be grown and go off and show me everything that I taught them. These are the future doctors, nurses, computer programmers, life guards, singers, writers, and so many more things that our beautiful world offers out there for future jobs. I only pray that they will be happy and successful in life and overcome all things that stand in their way.

June15- BABY BOOM I knew two people who where due at two different times. One expecting a boy on June 17th and one expecting a girl on July 9th and today they both had there babies. My friend who had her little boy went last night having contractions and my friend who was due in July was low on amniotic fluid. Sorry for my bad spelling. I'm so happy my one friend lives in Hawaii so I will only get to see pics of him, and my friend who had a little girl lives in my town. I'm so happy I just love babies.

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elizhay - Tuesday, 8 July
Hey everyone, just a quicky update. Olivia has an appt yesterday with the Physio Dept at the hospital. we got a new brace or her that we can take on and off as we please which is great. her feet will be normal soon. we had the option of leaving well alone but i didnt want to take the risk of her not being able to walk properly, there would be a chance that she would walk on the side of her foot instead of flat footed. as mothers, we dont want there to be any reason for them to be picked on so we chose to use the brace. i havent uploaded a pic of the new one yet as i havent been feeling well. depression is setting in along with the anxiety. somedays it all seems too much!! Anyhow, we go back to the Physio on the 21st and to teh Audiology for more hearing tests on the 24th. wish us lucky. take care all!! love amanda

patriciamtz - Monday, 7 July
Hey everything is going well.. Its barely starting to sink in now that I will have a lil' one here in less then 23 days...My fourth was good I went to my boyfriends family reunion, how about yours? did your girls enjoy the fireworks? sry if I take so long to write back im awful at replying but I eventually get to it :)

brittany-moore - Monday, 7 July
hey thank you I was trying to look sexy and feel it..LOL

mommyto5 - Monday, 7 July
thanks hun how are you?

maureen_hel - Monday, 7 July
kaylee is doing great shell be 18 months on the 12th she is up to 16 teeth but she has such a temper im scared for when shes older lol

*pinkneptune - Monday, 7 July
Finally uploaded a few pictures of Dasia ... (for my chrissyboo ... lol).

munkobaby - Sunday, 6 July
LOVE THE NEW PIX! They are so darn cute! You are such a busy girl... do you have that chicken paper down yet? You have a lot more energy than I do darlin'! How was your holiday weekend? Did you take the kids for any fireworks shows. Our girls loved it so much, but have been wasted tired since. There's nothing like two grumpy girls to set the mood, right? Anyway, I better go and get ready for the day. Hugs! xoj

*pinkneptune - Sunday, 6 July
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to everyone my friendsnetwork:

I had my babygirl 5 days ago ... Now I see why everyone commends a single mommy. It's tough work (and I have help from family & friends)!! I haven't even had time to upload any pics or respond to most of messages. My body is trying to put itself back together ... hips are swore, legs are still a little swollen, my back aches, and it SUCKS having to bleed again! Anyway, I'm good, baby is good -- and pictures are coming!