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Mommy.D has 151 days to go and is now in week 18
	Age: 19 Country: Private Province/region: Private City: Private Partner: Children: Pregnant: Yes Due date: 18 Oct ,2008 Occupation:
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So let's see I found out I was pregnant a week after my missed period and also two weeks after my boyfriend dumped me. He and I arn't together anymore...he actually doesn't think i'm ready for this. Besides that i'm happy to have a baby and have the support of my family. I have been really really tired lately though. I'm about 8 weeks pregnant making my due date October 18, 2008.

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Friday, 14 Mar

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Friday, 14 Mar

Ok so lately I have not been feeling well at all. It seems the slightest thing will just make me want to run for the bathroom. Thankfully and successfully i `ve only thrown up twice and i `d like to keep it that way but I just feel sick to my stomach like all the time and always feel like gagging. This is totally not fun. Not to mention i `m tired all the time and seem to have no energy. I `m practically falling asleep at work. I just hope it gets better soon.

Saturday, 22 Mar

So the feeling of being very tired has come back once again. Today has just worn me out. Now at 10 weeks I can `t wait for all this to stop. Other than that still dealing with the ex and whatnot. I `m thinking he `s trying to play the whole I must have cheated on him and the kid `s not his now card. So iono. It `s really wearing me down. But other than that i `ve just been working and working.

Saturday, 22 Mar

Yup the BD is now claiming the baby is not his because the first day of my last period was January 12 and he says we weren `t together then so it must not be his. I `ve already explained to him that you `re pretty much already two weeks pregnant by the time the baby is conceived which for me was around the first week of February and he and I were together. He `s not claiming it `s not his. The last person I slept with was back in August 07 so if it were someone elses i `d be like 8 months pregnant by now. This is pissing me off.

Tuesday, 25 Mar

Been pretty stressed out. Quit my job today because they had absolutely no respect for me and expected me to be a slave. So now it `s on to find a new job before I start showing and then no one will hire me. Besides that the BD hasn `t been giving me too much trouble lately. I guess he `s going into the army or something. If he does that will make it a lot easier on me and plus I can plenty of child support out of his ass. He threatens me all the time. Like the other day he `s like I said I would help you out but now no. He was just talking about giving me money, which he `s going to have to do anyways. Hopefully he doesn `t die before then. But for some reason the thought of him no longer existing brings peace to my mind. Maybe I am a little crazy. So besides that my belly is starting to get a little bigger...pants are starting to become uber tight. I `ve also been trying to watch my diet and eat lots of fruits and stuff lately...really hard. But besides that still working on the insurance to try and go to a doctor. WISH ME LUCK WITH EVERYTHING!!!!

My first doctor's appointment is: APRIL 22 at 8:30 a.m.

So I had my first appointment this morning and I got an ultrasound taken(only one baby yes!). She's going to keep my due date the same. Besides that they just did a lot of tests on me. Will post these pics soon!

May 06, 2008
So I finally started my new job last week and it's been going really well actually. I'm just more worn out than usual. My ex will one day tell me that he wants to help and the next he doesn't. So finally I just told him that I don't want him there for the baby. Mostly because he can't stay in one relationship for more than a month. But i'll get his help one way or another. He still is going around saying that the baby isn't his. I just don't understand that, but ok only the DNA test will say he is. I'm not worried about it at all. But things at home have settled down with my parents, we arn't fighting nearly as much. Oh and I still haven't had to buy maternity clothes. Although in June i'm going to go and buy bunches of baby stuff. I won't find out the sex til i'm 22 weeks anyways.

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Steffy-cant-wait-for-June!!! - Tuesday, 18 Mar
it really depends on the person... some people like to work until right before the baby is born so they can spend as much time as possible with the baby before they have to go back to work... at the latest i would say 2 weeks before your due date... are you going to be working once the baby is born? if so how long is your maternity leave??

Steffy-cant-wait-for-June!!! - Tuesday, 18 Mar
GOTTA LOVE THOSE PREGO HORMONES! I remember crying and then getting mad because i didn't know i was crying... that will start to calm down pretty soon though... once you hit the second trimester in a few weeks life should start to go back to normal... you're not worried so much because chance of miscarriage drops significantly, and your hormones start to go back to normal which means you wont be so tired all the time and morning sickness gets much better... then you just have to be ready for the headaches, and getting bigger and more uncomfortable. :) The joys of pregnancy!! haha!! So where are you from???

Steffy-cant-wait-for-June!!! - Tuesday, 18 Mar
that's how i was in the beginning too... but it really does fly by.... before you know it you will feel huge and be telling people you are 6 and 1/2 months prego... it's insane... you are feeling well though???

Steffy-cant-wait-for-June!!! - Monday, 17 Mar
hey!! how are you doing??

my-lil-miracle - Thursday, 13 Mar
At this point your 8 weeks so you should have your first appt. around now (if u havne't already), their gonna' draw blood (most drugs only last at most 1 month in your system/ except exstacy which lasts around 3 months) if they were to find TRACES of drugs in your blood at this point just be honest and tell them before they find out through the blood because they will find out. The farther along you get the less forgiving the dr's will be... If you have the baby and one or both of you test posotive for drugs there will be a CPS report filed if they don't just end up taking the child away immedietly for safety reasons.

my-lil-miracle - Thursday, 13 Mar
To be honest, yes if you test posotive for drugs when you give birth (they test both you and your baby) then it is a real possability they will take him away from you... As far as testing posotive your first dr.'s appt, I wouldn't worry too much about that, but they can tell the last time you used something through the ammount that's in your body. Every time you get your blood drawn they also test for drug use....

kla2200 - Wednesday, 12 Mar
He cant just walk into court and tell them he deserves full custody just because. He must be able to prove with good reason to the court that you are unfit to be a full-time mother. If you are doing nothing wrong then you have nothing to worry about. Dont let him threaten you...

Red-Yoshi - Wednesday, 12 Mar
I think in my state you can have parental rights removed if the father fails to take care of you during the last 6 months of pregnancy. I'm not sure what this does for child support. Unless you are proven unfit, I believe it will be very hard for him to do. I would see a lawyer. I believe social services can help you with child support enforcement, but an attorney can help you have at least a temporary order for custody present as soon as you give birth.

brown-eyes - Wednesday, 12 Mar
to steffy man just love to bring the money up in that subject. my ex did threat me with the same that he could provide for our child better cuz of that! he can use the microwave thats what he can do great provider lol

Steffy-cant-wait-for-June!!! - Wednesday, 12 Mar
the courts will ALWAYS lean towards the mother. The only way he could get custody would be to prove that you were unfit. Meaning neglectful with the baby, abusive, on drugs.. something like that. That is the only way a court would awar him custody... and he would need to be able to prove it. The court systems tend to feel that children belong with the mother, so there has to be something majorly disfunctional going on in the home for them to go the other way. To give an example, when my parents got divorced and i was young, my parents went into a custody battle. My mom didn't make much money in her job and my dad made really good money. His argument was that he could provide for us better than my mother could. Both of my parents were and continue to be good people. The judge understood that my mom didn't make much money, but saw no reason why she would be unfit to take care of her children. She was awarded sole custody. You really have nothing to worry about. I'm sure your ex is just trying to be a jerk. Let him know that he can be involved with the baby after he/she is born... but that you will be the primary care taker. If he wants to take you to court, then let him... but he wont win.

my-lil-miracle - Wednesday, 12 Mar
ALSO another reason why a man will say that is in order to gain CONTROL...

my-lil-miracle - Wednesday, 12 Mar
well it doesn't seem like he would have much of a chance to get the baby actually NONE AT ALL... courts favor mothers firstand foremost as long as there are no harmful things going on. Is he paying child support for his other child??? If not he FOR sure has no place trying to get another child when he can't even help to take care of his first... Just try to relax and just to warn you ' you may get extremely emotional about this situation in a few weeks, just because of hormones, But reassure yourself he has no chance in hell getting that little baby away from you for the reason 'that's how he want it', I don't know if you work or what your financial state is but I am On Welfare and Foodstamps, my baby's dad is in the NAVY and makes good money and very stable, but a court would not grant him custody over me if it were to go to court... The first thing they would do is have him provide a Nice child support check each month and if I blew that money off and was to neglect the basic needs for my little son THEN the baby woud go to my baby's dad... go to the single parenting forum and make sure you ask somany questoins on there , there are a lot of women who know a hell of a lot more about child support laws,and custody... but still keep updated too... On to better things, how is your little one??? ur not showing yet i'm sure but i know your feeling it... My first trimester all I did was eat and sleep and have headaches and throw up.. it's great, really. Better things to come, just another month and a half or so for you and you will feel soo much better, also a tip Drink 32 oz of water a day, that's 4 water bottles that are 16 oz each... make sure u take your prenatal pills too... take them with food though at the time of the day you are least sick.

Steffy-cant-wait-for-June!!! - Wednesday, 12 Mar
you can have a court ordered paternity test to prove that he is the father. But if he goes to court to try and get custody, then he would most likely have to prove paternity anyway... and then when he loses his case, hit him up for child support!

Steffy-cant-wait-for-June!!! - Wednesday, 12 Mar
Honestly, i wouldn't worry about the threats. Most likely him taking you to court would be a total waste of time. Unless you are unfit to be a parent, (drug addict, etc.) then the judge will give you custody... and then nail him for child support!!! congrats on the pregnancy!!! how is everything else going?

my-lil-miracle - Wednesday, 12 Mar
OH lord... is ur babies dad older like mid 20's or more???, I am 18 and have heard in many'a'disagreements with my baby's dad (27) the whole custody threatening thing... You have to be a PRACTICING Drug Addict, an Alcoholic or do drugs or alcohol while pregnant or put yourself and your baby in harms way for him to even have leverage against you... Even if you are not financially stable, he has to have a better reason to obtain custody... Send me back a message and let me know his age and why he thinks he'd be able to get custody... I can help you more if I know that... for now DO NOT WORRY YOURSELF ABOUT IT. you still have 32 weeks left... :)

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