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Mommyof2boysDee
Age: 38
Country: US
Province/region: maryland
City: elkton
Partner: Joe Happily Married
Children: Yes, 3
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Due date: 04 Nov ,2007
Occupation: Nurse
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Last updated: 28 days ago.
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Joseph and Dylan roasting marshmallows in the fireplace, for those of you with no boys, prepare :)

Here's my story: My Husband and I decided to try for a child right away figuring that it would take months (we had dated for 14 years before marrying in1998) To our surprise we got it RIGHT AWAY and we had Joseph New Years Day 1999. In 2001 we decided again to try for a baby and once again we were pregnant on the first try. I have always used a calendar method and mark every period even if I am not trying. My Dylan was born in July of 2002. In 2004 we decided we'd go for one more and again RIGHT AWAY pregnant went for my first appointment at 11 weeks and Bam NO heartbeat but baby fully intact in sac. I was devastated never dreamed that this would happen to us and had a D&E the following morning but was depressed for months. With a new home coming up in 2005 we decided now to wait on trying. In Oct of 2006 we tried again and once again PREGNANT right away. To my surprise at 5 weeks I had some minor brown discharge and I was told as time went on it was ectopic. We didn't make any plans to try again I had one period In Jan 2007. Here I was in March feeling weird took a test just for the heck of it and Here I am Due in November. You see I am not really excited and I have told nobody (except DH) we have been keeping it to ourselves. I feel like I can't believe anything yet. At 6 weeks a heartbeat was seen, at 9 weeks a heartbeat was seen. I am still depressed, worried and figuring it isn't gonna happpen. I signed on to this site hoping to get a little excited for something I want so bad and feel like I am not going to get. I can't wait each day to get up take my vitamins and pass another day. Now I am considered "AMA" and am faced with all these possibilities of what could be wrong. Had labs the other day and plenty of them, next week I am scheduled for the U/S blood test for defects. I will keep you posted hopefully I will get a little more positive.


Birth Story

So I go in on November 6th at 9:30pm, I am a half an hour late. Because we got our son off the bus and he had a double ear infection so there went my evening of rest......Had to beg my way into the Dr and run around for medications and stuff. I couldn't leave until I knew he'd be alright.

I get there and within an hour or so the Resident came and put in my foley bulb.......within 2 hours it fell out which meant I was 3 cm dilated, no pain yet I couldn't rest or sleep they were checking my blood sugar every 2 hours which were good.

Come 5am on the money they started the pit, I was doing great Joe and I were laughing watching a movie etc....every hour they would come and increase it by 2mg per hour.........Dr came at 8:30 said I was a good 5cm and broke my water, I had the epidural first and then she broke the water at 9:20 at this point I am fine, know I am having contractions yet No big pain.........Until around 9:45/10:00 am I start feeling horrific pain in my lower right quadrant the baby was always sitting in that spot. I had never pushed the button on the epidural so I figured I 'd push it and be out of pain right? WRONG....The pain wouldn't stop, it wouldn't go away I am dying at this point begging the nurse to get that anesthesiologist back, she came and gave me something else in that bag, I am outta pain? WRONG again......It just intensifies I am moaning at this point it is like 11:30 and I am suffering BIG TIME. I never knew what labor pains were til this third baby. Contractions were not coming all around the uterus, they were isolated in that lower right area. I didn't know how long I had to go but I thought HOW am I going to go on? Could it be hours? I couldn't bare the pain, I was holding on for dear life. I was saturated my hair, my gown and I was yelling....Ow, ow etc....My husband had rags on my head, I was thinking I was going to die etc.....Then all of a sudden the nurse started breaking down the bed, she checked me and said you are fully but there is a little lip on the cervix left,,,,,,we'll sit you up some so the head can open that up. Nobody is really telling me I am at the end and we'll push at this point, here comes the dr, she's gowning up and donning gloves etc....I said to myself I guess this is it, It is about 11:45 at this point. All I am thinking is HOW AM I GOING TO PUSH? So they tell me to grab my legs I said I can't, so they thought I couldn't cause the epi made me numb.......NO it was because I was dying in pain..........I just gave it a push and felt like nothing, Pushed a second time and felt like I couldn't do it.......I said "can't you just pull her out?" Dr. said No you'll have to push ...... So on the third push I made three lil pushes and holding her in place I gave it everything I got and bam she flew right out............whew was I beat. Dr. said oh she's perfect.
Adriana Sofia was born at 12:05 pm November 7th 9lbs even, 22 1/4 inches long and face up.......

This was the worst birth I ever had, I am so in love with her I am starting to forget.......I only have a second degree episiotomy and you can't even see where she repaired it it looks so good LOL.





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niseybear - Sunday, 20 July
Hello everyone!

I just wanted to let you all know that I won't be on as much. Nothing is wrong, I just do better when I visit here every 4 days or so instead of everyday. We are well with the exception of my husband working 6 days a week and not having any family time. Today (sunday) is supposed to be our day together, but he's at work. I'm hoping he's feeling okay when he gets off and maybe if it's not too late, he, Mo, and I can go for a drive and then later him and I to a movie. Work is cool and I'm only one month away from starting school. I know what I want to be when I grow up....A TEACHER! I don't want to be a server when I'm 50. I only need 4 courses for my AA and then I can start my work for my BA in elementary education. I'M SCARED TO DEATH, but I know if it's meant to be, G-d will see to it. Mo is 7 months old now and is an official crawler! He only scoots every now and again. He was standing up in his crib this morning and I just about died! He was more on his toes, but it was so cute! Looks like he may be walking soon. I haven't breastfed in nearly a month and a half and it's odd, I do miss it. What a closeness Mo and I had while I was doing it. We still have that bond, but breastfeeding made it even more special. I haven't had a period in about 3 months now, but I did bleed for about a day and a half last month. I'm going to talk to my OB if I don't see a cycle once I hit the green pills on my BC. Of course I'm not pregnant, no signs whatsoever. And I know what they mean when they say, once you've been pregnant, you know instantly the next time you are. I took 2 tests over 2 months and of course BFN and I'm okay with that. I want to enjoy Mo for a little while longer. And this house just isn't big enough for another little one. Our stimulus check arrived on July 7th and it was SO NICE to finally receive it. Money was low and now we're on the high end once again and I'm hoping it stays that way for a bit. Well, let me go, my little man has been in his activity center long enough watching Baby Einstein. He's such a good boy...even if he does wake up at 2:45 in the AM and doesn't go down again til nearly 4AM! Oh I was MAD this AM because I was SO tired. I put him back in his crib because I was upset and a few minutes later hubby stepped in and took over. I didn't hear him again til 6am and I was okay with that. Got him a bottle and he fell asleep about 30 minutes later and we BOTH slept til nearly 8:30!
Hope all you guys are well. Be blessed and take care!


niseybear - Monday, 7 July
Mo turned 7 months on the 4th of July! Where the heck did the time go??? He's such a BIG boy now! Although we had trouble in the Walmart buggy today. Don't think mommy had his little belt placed correctly. He fell to the side twice, but luckily never hit his head. He's in his new Britax car seat and it's SO much easier getting him in and out. I wanted to buy myself something for my birthday on Friday, but Walmart didn't have the DVD I wanted so I purchased some more clothes for Mo. If I can't buy for me then I will ALWAYS buy for Mo. I got him a puzzle that makes sounds when you put the pieces back in. It's so neat. It's called Farm Animals Puzzle. Got it for $10 at BELK'S.
I hope all of you are well. Take care!


kettynyc - Saturday, 28 June
 Ooooh what a beautiful family! Adrianna is so big already! Wow! I'm so happy to hear from you again. Gianna will be 6 months in about 2 weeks (July 7th) and I am having so much fun with her. My oldest graduated and is now going to high school that's another of the milestones that I am going through. They keep me very busy but I'm loving it.


niseybear - Friday, 27 June
Just wanting to say hello to you all. I hope each of you are well. Mo is no longer in an infant carrier. We moved him to his big boy car seat this week and I LOVE it! It's a Britax Diplomat and it's one of the best investments we've made! I went to the Sheriff's office to have it checked out and was told to follow Britax's instruction on forward and rear facing. I'm going to be turning Mo around VERY soon. It says to do it when he's over 20 pounds. The officer told me at first to keep him rear facing as long as possible but when his assistant read the side of the car seat he said nevermind follow Britax's instructions, they know that they're talking about! Took Mo shopping at Walmart yesterday and for the first time he got to sit in the buggy in the front! WOW! Such a big boy!! He reached for everything on the shelves. Even got a loaf of bread down when mommy wasn't looking! I had one of the buggy covers in it and it has toys on there for him, but Mo was more interested in what was on the shelf.

Well, I hope all of you are good. I haven't received messages in about 3 days and I hope everything is okay.

Blessings to you all!

Denise


niseybear - Monday, 16 June
New pics of Mo on my page! I hope all of you are well!
~~~PARGY---CONGRATS on the birth of your little angel! Can't wait to hear from you. Thank you Paul for updating!


niseybear - Monday, 16 June
Automatic update: niseybear added a new blog: Father's Day


niseybear - Wednesday, 11 June
Just wanted to see how well this works! I've been looking for this feature for awhile now and Dirk finally added it!

I hope all of you are well and I really enjoy getting your messages! Be blessed my friends!


niseybear - Wednesday, 11 June
Automatic update: niseybear added a new blog: Nothing from Grandma!


kettynyc - Wednesday, 21 May
PRETTIEST MOM
Once you have been hit, you have to hit 5 pretty Moms.
If you get hit again, You will know you are REALLY pretty!
So hit 15 pretty moms on your friends list to let them know they are
pretty!
Before I was a Mom
I never tripped over toys or forgot words to a lullaby.
I didn't worry whether or not my plants were poisonous.
I never thought about immunizations.
Before I was a Mom - I had never been puked on.
Pooped on. Chewed on. Peed on.
I had complete control of my mind and my thoughts.
I slept all night.
Before I was a Mom
I never held down a screaming child so doctors could do tests.
Or give shots.
I never looked into teary eyes and cried.
I never got gloriously happy over a simple grin.
I never sat up late hours at night watching a baby sleep.
Before I was a Mom
I never held a sleeping baby just because I didn't want to put her
down.
I never felt my heart break into a million pieces when I couldn't stop
the hurt.
I never knew that something so small could affect my life so much.
I never knew that I could love someone so much.
I never knew I would love being a Mom.
Before I was a Mom -
I didn't know the feeling of having my heart outside my body.
I didn't know how special it could feel to feed a hungry baby.
I didn't know that bond between a mother and her child.
I didn't know that something so small could make me feel so important
and happy.
Before I was a Mom -
I had never gotten up in the middle of the night every 10 minutes to
make sure all was okay.
I had never known the warmth, the joy, the love, the heartache, the
wonderment or the satisfaction of being a Mom.
I didn't know I was capable of feeling so much, before I was a Mom.
Send this to someone who you think is a special Mom.''


kettynyc - Saturday, 10 May
Hello there, it was so nice to hear from you. How is Adriana doing? She must be so big by now... well Gianna and I are doing well. She is already 4 months old and I can't believe how fast that past. Well, I hope to hear from you soon again.

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Photos
Dylan kissing baby 37.5 weeks (2007, 10, 24) Joseph Age 8 (2007, 08, 21) Adriana 3 weeks old, right after her first bath (2007, 11, 30) Joseph and Dylan Rudy`s little Italy NYC (2007, 08, 21)  (2007, 11, 30)  (2007, 11, 30) Dylan`s 5 (2007, 08, 21)  (2007, 08, 21) I just came out :) Adriana Sofia  (2007, 11, 30) Adriana 2 weeks (2007, 11, 30) My Nana Going On 98 (2007, 08, 21) Joseph and Dylan Easter 2007 (2007, 08, 21) Disney World 8-07 28 weeks (2007, 10, 24) This is all day everyday (2007, 08, 21) Nana helping with the room (2007, 10, 24)  (2008, 06, 28)  (2008, 06, 28) Click here to see all Mommyof2boysDee`s photos

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Joseph-Potenza (1999) Dylan-Salvatore (2002) Adriana-Sofia (2007)

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