| MorganM | |
![]() | Age: 40 (as of June 2007) Country: Private Province/region: Private City: Private Partner: Mark Children: Yes, 3 Pregnant: Not anymore Occupation: Social Worker |
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It's a GIRL!!
Picture is me & my great nephew who was born at 30 weeks. He is a gift from God!! I also have 3 other great neices, & another great nephew...odd that I would be having another when the latter generation is conceiving...My Mom & Dad have always said I do things my own way!! PS ~ we are somewhat "enlongated" in this picture. It didn't post right & I am not savvy enough to fix it.
At the "tender age" of 39, I find myself with a girl in my belly!! After 2 boys (Josh 19 & Drew 15) I am feeling quite inadequate!! Give me a boy, I know what to do...not so much with a girl. My significant other did not believe he would be able to have children, so I guess in a way, we are both first timers. We are very excited to spoil & love this little gift that God has chosen to give to us to watch over & teach.
Week 24 (&4 days):
I completed a Level II ultrasound & was releived that out of the 15 "markers" they check to rule our chromosomal/genetic defects, our girl had ZERO!! This significantly reduces Gracie's chances of having defects from 20% down to 5%. That is good news. I have been very stressed out over this pregnancy because of my age. I know more & more people are having children at an older age, but I wasn't planning on being one of them!! I will go in for another ultrasound between weeks 28 & 32 to make sure that she is growing okay. The doctor that read my ultrasound said that Gracie was "small" for her age. I thought that was weird since she measured at 1 lb 3 ounces, & the "stats" for this week are around 1 lb 2 ounces. Hmmm. I go to my regular OB on Friday to go over everything. That will be nice. I have been having terrible heart burn, sleepless nights though I am completely tired! & just have no energy to do anything...even the simplest of tasks. My house is a disaster, laundry piled up, & hubby in Montana working for the summer. I can't wait until the "nesting" stage when I can get all of this done!! Right now it is all I can do to stay at work for the full 8 hours. Then home to relax! Weight gain is also concerning me just because of my age & how much harder it will be to get rid of it than when I had my first 2 children. As of this date, I have gained about 22 lbs. Oh well, what do you do???
26 weeks, 3 days ~
Had another doctor's appointment last week. I lost one lb. Doctor wanted to know if this was a weight loss program ~ when I want to loose 20 lbs, get PG. He is kind of harsh at times. I think he is trying to be funny, but NOT. I told him that my begging weight until now (appointment day) I have gained 17 lbs (officially), so I am well within the "limits". I started overweight & then I gained so much in the begging. I have a hard time eating because it is so blasted hot here!! Also, Gracie likes cold veggies, fruit & some sweeter things (ice cream or slushies). It's not like I am not eating, I am just dictated by my little sweet heart growing inside of me. Mark getting annoyed because he wants to make me suppers (he loves to grill) & I never know what I can eat until it is time to eat it. I think I am giving him a complex, I just keep telling him that he doesn't understand....Gracie decides when, what, & how much I eat, not me!!! Everything seems to be going well. I will have another ultrasound in 6 - 7 weeks to make sure she is growing the way she should. At my level II ultrasound, that doctor kind of stressed me out because he stated that Gracie was small for her development. I spoke with my primary about it, and he said she was only one ounce under, not to worry. They will check my placenta for issues (due to my age & that I smoke) to make sure that it is not faulty & is giving Gracie what she needs. So, that's the update for now. Hope everyone is doing good ~ getting plenty of rest as I know we are all extremely tired!!!!
August 1, 2007
Last Trimester!! FINALLY. Heading to the finish line. I believe this may be the longest trimester yet!! I am already uncomfortable, can't harly bend over, & loose my breath really easily. I got on my hands & knees last night & scrubbed my kitchen floor because it was so NASTY, took everything I had to finish it. No energy, just want to sleep whenever I get home from work. I have my next doctor's appointment on August 9th...will find out then when he wants to do the last baby "checkup" ultrasound. It will be nice to see our little Gracie again. It feels like it has been forever. I can't wait to meet her, but first I really need to clean my house!! I have a dog, cat that don't stay off the funiture ~ pet hair is a commodity at my house!! & other people living in the home. It seems I get one room cleaned, go to the next, & the first one is messy again! This weekend, planning on really cleaning the house good. Need to enlist help from the sisters. I think I may be nesting!!
August 31, 2007
I had a doctor's appointment on August 29. I am now sporting high blood pressure & edema. The doctor has given me one week to 'fix it'. I have been told that I can go to work, then home to REST. Dr. offered to write me a RX for a bell to ring when I am on the couch & need anything. I have to lay on left side as much as possible, & keep feet elivated above my heart as much as possible. My hands, wrists, arms & feet HURT! If it is not better by September 6th (my next appt) then Dr. stated he was putting me on bed rest. That really sucks since I only have about 2 months worth of vacation time built up for maternity leave. It's just money, right? The needed entity in life, but the root of evil? Anyhow, will post how things go after my appointment.
September 5, 2007 (32 weeks, 4 days)
Well, I go to see the doctor tomorrow to see if following his orders most of the time worked, or if I have to stop working so much (or all together) until Gracie makes her debut (yes, I flubbed a little, but NOT much~ too hard just to lay around when you don't want to or feel like you HAVE to). I have been feeling really crappy this past week. I get dizzy real easy, am eating my heart burn medication like candy (that's an exageration, but feels like taking a lot more than I should have to), my feet, hands & arms still hurting after I have been up & moving around for a few hours. I get dizzy when I try to walk too much (no shopping anymore, I end up crouched down with my head trying to get between my legs, which is impossible because there is a stomach in the way). But you know, even with all of this, I feel her move inside me & I know that this too will pass. The blessing I have in me may make my life difficult right now, but I will cherish & love her so much when she comes to see us!!!
September 6, 2007 (32 weeks 5 days)
Doctor's appointment went good today. My blood pressure dropped from like 172/90 to 147/80. I get to stay at work, but have to keep on 'bed rest' at home & no extra activities. Gracie is doing fine, moving like crazy, heartbeat racing at 144 pbm. I can't wait to meet her, but am happy that she & I am doing okay & I guess I can wait to meet her (for another month).
September 14, 2007 (33 weeks, 6 days)
Well, had a doctor appt today. Everything looks good. I gained another 3 lbs...IN ONE WEEK. He told me to "watch the weight gain" ~ funny, in the begining he was telling me the opposite!! He said Gracie was about 5 lbs now & measuring fine. He will check my cervix at week 36. I have to go & see him in one more week. Blood Pressure still up there, but not as bad & edema is way better. Dr. said that they deliver babies locally at the hospital I will go to at 35 weeks. I hope she does come early, but healthy. Well, that's all for now.
September 20, 2007 (34 weeks & 5 days)
Not able to sleep anymore. I get up between 4 & 4:30 am & can't go back to sleep. Getting a lot of laundry done! Getting to work early (which is NEVER common for me!). My little girl is already dictating to me when I sleep. Isn't enough that these little ones have taken over our bodies & brains, now they tell us what to do? I can't wait to meet my little one. 37 days left until my due date. Doctor's appointment tomorrow ~ will get checked at NEXT weeks appointment. My hands still hurting real bad. Also, cankles are ever present. I have a 'ripping' sensation in my Va-j-j & a worker told me today that it looks like I have dropped. As far as I can tell, my girl is still laying kind of crooked in my uterous (feet up by my right ribs, head down by my left hip). I wish it was next week already so the doctor can tell me if my body is getting ready at all for delivery. ANXIOUS TO MEET HER!!!
September 27, 2007
Went to the doctor...zip, ziltch, notta, nill, nothing. She has dropped & is at a +1 stage...no effacing, no dialating. SUCKS! Well, I guess I will jsut have to wait until my next appointment on 10-8 to see if My body is cooperating. Just so anxious to be done!!
October 20, 2007
Wow, it has been a busy Month!! I had weekly doctor's appts due to HBP. Went in Oct 8th for a normal appointment...BP not getting better. Not dialated, no efface. Was put on Bed rest. Another appt on October 10th, was admitted into the hospital. Was transported 90 miles away due to no neonatal unit at our hospital & no OB/GYN. Gracie was delivered by C section on 10-11-07. She is a beautiful addition to my already gorgeous family!! She is very loved by Mom, Dad & big Brothers. I hope everyone else has a safe, fast, labor & delivery. This site was a welcome part of my pregnancy. I appreciate everyone's comments, support, & advice.