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MorganM
Age: 40 (as of June 2007)
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It's a GIRL!!

Picture is me & my great nephew who was born at 30 weeks. He is a gift from God!! I also have 3 other great neices, & another great nephew...odd that I would be having another when the latter generation is conceiving...My Mom & Dad have always said I do things my own way!! PS ~ we are somewhat "enlongated" in this picture. It didn't post right & I am not savvy enough to fix it.

At the "tender age" of 39, I find myself with a girl in my belly!! After 2 boys (Josh 19 & Drew 15) I am feeling quite inadequate!! Give me a boy, I know what to do...not so much with a girl. My significant other did not believe he would be able to have children, so I guess in a way, we are both first timers. We are very excited to spoil & love this little gift that God has chosen to give to us to watch over & teach.

Week 24 (&4 days):

I completed a Level II ultrasound & was releived that out of the 15 "markers" they check to rule our chromosomal/genetic defects, our girl had ZERO!! This significantly reduces Gracie's chances of having defects from 20% down to 5%. That is good news. I have been very stressed out over this pregnancy because of my age. I know more & more people are having children at an older age, but I wasn't planning on being one of them!! I will go in for another ultrasound between weeks 28 & 32 to make sure that she is growing okay. The doctor that read my ultrasound said that Gracie was "small" for her age. I thought that was weird since she measured at 1 lb 3 ounces, & the "stats" for this week are around 1 lb 2 ounces. Hmmm. I go to my regular OB on Friday to go over everything. That will be nice. I have been having terrible heart burn, sleepless nights though I am completely tired! & just have no energy to do anything...even the simplest of tasks. My house is a disaster, laundry piled up, & hubby in Montana working for the summer. I can't wait until the "nesting" stage when I can get all of this done!! Right now it is all I can do to stay at work for the full 8 hours. Then home to relax! Weight gain is also concerning me just because of my age & how much harder it will be to get rid of it than when I had my first 2 children. As of this date, I have gained about 22 lbs. Oh well, what do you do???

26 weeks, 3 days ~

Had another doctor's appointment last week. I lost one lb. Doctor wanted to know if this was a weight loss program ~ when I want to loose 20 lbs, get PG. He is kind of harsh at times. I think he is trying to be funny, but NOT. I told him that my begging weight until now (appointment day) I have gained 17 lbs (officially), so I am well within the "limits". I started overweight & then I gained so much in the begging. I have a hard time eating because it is so blasted hot here!! Also, Gracie likes cold veggies, fruit & some sweeter things (ice cream or slushies). It's not like I am not eating, I am just dictated by my little sweet heart growing inside of me. Mark getting annoyed because he wants to make me suppers (he loves to grill) & I never know what I can eat until it is time to eat it. I think I am giving him a complex, I just keep telling him that he doesn't understand....Gracie decides when, what, & how much I eat, not me!!! Everything seems to be going well. I will have another ultrasound in 6 - 7 weeks to make sure she is growing the way she should. At my level II ultrasound, that doctor kind of stressed me out because he stated that Gracie was small for her development. I spoke with my primary about it, and he said she was only one ounce under, not to worry. They will check my placenta for issues (due to my age & that I smoke) to make sure that it is not faulty & is giving Gracie what she needs. So, that's the update for now. Hope everyone is doing good ~ getting plenty of rest as I know we are all extremely tired!!!!

August 1, 2007
Last Trimester!! FINALLY. Heading to the finish line. I believe this may be the longest trimester yet!! I am already uncomfortable, can't harly bend over, & loose my breath really easily. I got on my hands & knees last night & scrubbed my kitchen floor because it was so NASTY, took everything I had to finish it. No energy, just want to sleep whenever I get home from work. I have my next doctor's appointment on August 9th...will find out then when he wants to do the last baby "checkup" ultrasound. It will be nice to see our little Gracie again. It feels like it has been forever. I can't wait to meet her, but first I really need to clean my house!! I have a dog, cat that don't stay off the funiture ~ pet hair is a commodity at my house!! & other people living in the home. It seems I get one room cleaned, go to the next, & the first one is messy again! This weekend, planning on really cleaning the house good. Need to enlist help from the sisters. I think I may be nesting!!

August 31, 2007
I had a doctor's appointment on August 29. I am now sporting high blood pressure & edema. The doctor has given me one week to 'fix it'. I have been told that I can go to work, then home to REST. Dr. offered to write me a RX for a bell to ring when I am on the couch & need anything. I have to lay on left side as much as possible, & keep feet elivated above my heart as much as possible. My hands, wrists, arms & feet HURT! If it is not better by September 6th (my next appt) then Dr. stated he was putting me on bed rest. That really sucks since I only have about 2 months worth of vacation time built up for maternity leave. It's just money, right? The needed entity in life, but the root of evil? Anyhow, will post how things go after my appointment.

September 5, 2007 (32 weeks, 4 days)
Well, I go to see the doctor tomorrow to see if following his orders most of the time worked, or if I have to stop working so much (or all together) until Gracie makes her debut (yes, I flubbed a little, but NOT much~ too hard just to lay around when you don't want to or feel like you HAVE to). I have been feeling really crappy this past week. I get dizzy real easy, am eating my heart burn medication like candy (that's an exageration, but feels like taking a lot more than I should have to), my feet, hands & arms still hurting after I have been up & moving around for a few hours. I get dizzy when I try to walk too much (no shopping anymore, I end up crouched down with my head trying to get between my legs, which is impossible because there is a stomach in the way). But you know, even with all of this, I feel her move inside me & I know that this too will pass. The blessing I have in me may make my life difficult right now, but I will cherish & love her so much when she comes to see us!!!

September 6, 2007 (32 weeks 5 days)
Doctor's appointment went good today. My blood pressure dropped from like 172/90 to 147/80. I get to stay at work, but have to keep on 'bed rest' at home & no extra activities. Gracie is doing fine, moving like crazy, heartbeat racing at 144 pbm. I can't wait to meet her, but am happy that she & I am doing okay & I guess I can wait to meet her (for another month).

September 14, 2007 (33 weeks, 6 days)
Well, had a doctor appt today. Everything looks good. I gained another 3 lbs...IN ONE WEEK. He told me to "watch the weight gain" ~ funny, in the begining he was telling me the opposite!! He said Gracie was about 5 lbs now & measuring fine. He will check my cervix at week 36. I have to go & see him in one more week. Blood Pressure still up there, but not as bad & edema is way better. Dr. said that they deliver babies locally at the hospital I will go to at 35 weeks. I hope she does come early, but healthy. Well, that's all for now.

September 20, 2007 (34 weeks & 5 days)
Not able to sleep anymore. I get up between 4 & 4:30 am & can't go back to sleep. Getting a lot of laundry done! Getting to work early (which is NEVER common for me!). My little girl is already dictating to me when I sleep. Isn't enough that these little ones have taken over our bodies & brains, now they tell us what to do? I can't wait to meet my little one. 37 days left until my due date. Doctor's appointment tomorrow ~ will get checked at NEXT weeks appointment. My hands still hurting real bad. Also, cankles are ever present. I have a 'ripping' sensation in my Va-j-j & a worker told me today that it looks like I have dropped. As far as I can tell, my girl is still laying kind of crooked in my uterous (feet up by my right ribs, head down by my left hip). I wish it was next week already so the doctor can tell me if my body is getting ready at all for delivery. ANXIOUS TO MEET HER!!!

September 27, 2007
Went to the doctor...zip, ziltch, notta, nill, nothing. She has dropped & is at a +1 stage...no effacing, no dialating. SUCKS! Well, I guess I will jsut have to wait until my next appointment on 10-8 to see if My body is cooperating. Just so anxious to be done!!

October 20, 2007
Wow, it has been a busy Month!! I had weekly doctor's appts due to HBP. Went in Oct 8th for a normal appointment...BP not getting better. Not dialated, no efface. Was put on Bed rest. Another appt on October 10th, was admitted into the hospital. Was transported 90 miles away due to no neonatal unit at our hospital & no OB/GYN. Gracie was delivered by C section on 10-11-07. She is a beautiful addition to my already gorgeous family!! She is very loved by Mom, Dad & big Brothers. I hope everyone else has a safe, fast, labor & delivery. This site was a welcome part of my pregnancy. I appreciate everyone's comments, support, & advice.


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butterfly123456 - Saturday, 6 Oct
hi thanks for your message. it is still in the back of my mind that maybe she wants out sooner. right now my contractions are gone so i will see what the day brings. today is housecleaning day. and doing the finishing touches for her. tomorrow is thanksgiving. i would really like to be at my parents house having turkey dinner. instead of in the hospital. but if it happens it does. i'm very excieted to meet my little girl. with my first i never really started labour on my own. the morning i was going in to be induced i noticed i was having contractions but small ones and that was it. so it would be a big surprise to start them all on my own.


kymmer - Thursday, 4 Oct
Hi...If you go to the VIP search tab at the top of your page, click on it. Type in Dirk in the search field and it should take you to an icon for his page. Hope you can retrieve your missing info. :o)


soto - Tuesday, 2 Oct
thank you and good luck! not much longer for you to go!


BrandyWitTwins - Monday, 1 Oct
well when i went i was dilated 6 so they kept me,induced contractions and i had them at 4:17 and 4:22 they were 5 12 and 5 7 im soooo happy to be done


vanessa83 - Sunday, 30 Sep
Yes.. I still look at her and I can't believe I'm finally a mommy the feelings are so strong I get the urge to cry!! Thank you, I wish you the best!


vanessa83 - Saturday, 29 Sep
Hi!!! Yes I did.. I just posted my birth storie in week 36.. Go check it out. We are both finally doing good. Thanks for asking.. How are you 2 ladies doing?


novmom2be17 - Friday, 28 Sep
when did you first start having braxton hicks that you were sure about?


wisfarmgirl - Friday, 28 Sep
Hey Marcy, you're in MN and I live on the MN border in WI! Thank you for your comments on my poll about being 50% effaced, 0 station, and 0cm dilated. My doc is so brief I wanted some advice! :) I don't look like I've dropped b/c people keep commenting that I haven't, but I can breathe a little bit easier, but it wasn't a big noticable shift. So when the head is -2 that's when it's engaged? I couldn't find anything in my quick search about that. Congrats on your baby girl. I don't know what I'm having!!!


Prettybaby - Wednesday, 26 Sep
Hi Thank your for your comment and great appreciated your prayers for my little boy! He was born 36 weeks. Im trying to hold it till my 38 weeks so he wont be born are premature but I guess my boy cant wait anymore. Lucking his lungs are working really good. Yesterday Im so happy cuz he can breath on his own w/out any tube and can eat little by little. God is good! I got to hold and kissed him last night for the first time and put him in sleep. I can say he's so happy tht finally we have a little bonding togething. Today we are celebrating his first week! Thank you and I hope everything's ok with you and ur baby. Just hang on there you'll meet ur baby soon!


Annette - Wednesday, 26 Sep
he didn't measure me. im only 11 weeks and every1 things im showing already. but he wouldn't no.i live in Australia we dnt need insurance. and far out. i noticed other ppl have said this but for a mother of almost 3 you dnt look like you have aged.


nzmum.no.5 - Monday, 24 Sep
p.s you don't look forty


nzmum.no.5 - Monday, 24 Sep
thanks for replying to my poll, I have chosen to ignore what they say, feeling much better. cheers


KRiSTi LEE - Monday, 17 Sep
aww ur sons so adorable congrats!..and thanks for commenting on my poll..the pains are starting in my lower back and i just called my doc,..waitin for him to call me bach..hopefully this is it =]


msc - Tuesday, 11 Sep
I get curious about the dialating also. Last Thursday i was closed. I go in this Thursday and am going to be checked again. I had an emergency c-section with my oldest at 34wks so i didnt go into labor (had preeclampsia). With my 2nd I never had BH except for the day i was in labor. however it was back labor which I actually had never heard of so i just thought I pulled a muscle. It wasnt until 12hrs later when I was awakened by a REAL contraction, u remember, the kind that make u swear your going to die...LOL...I went to the hospital right away and was a 4 and 100%. Odd thing is that I had seen my dr the day before because i was throwing up and having pink discharge, he told me I was closed and had the flu..um..I have a different a Dr this time :)


msc - Monday, 10 Sep
Hi, I have BH also. I had a few during my appt on thursday so the Dr sent me to L&D to be monitored. They came every 3-5minutes for the 2hrs I was hooked up to the machine. They gave me a shot to stop them and sent me home. They havent stopped!! Relax and drink plenty of water, it really can make a difference. I get about 5/hr but am not worried because I know what real labor feels like it and it isnt this,lol.


vanessa83 - Thursday, 6 Sep
Hey sorry for the late reply I was in the hospital all day! I lost my 'mucus plug' this morning and I'm 1cm dialeted!! I guess I should relax about having everything huh? I just need my stroller and my crib matress but I'm freaking out!!! Maybe I just can't wait.. As far as you hanging up your uterus!!! :) I think you are still young!!! Don't be silly... and with a younger hubby!! You never know Grace might have more sisters!!!


bsmith2007 - Wednesday, 5 Sep
Oh gosh I hope that your blood pressure goes down..thats scary! Mine has always stayed pretty low so I've been lucky as far as all that goes. Hopefully everything will go good for you and that you are able to get your blood pressure down...& I hate it for you that you're swelling too. My hands are the only thing that swells on me! I'll let ya know how it goes next week...Im excited to go to the doctor now because they're actually helping me! Best of luck to you!!!!


bsmith2007 - Wednesday, 5 Sep
I am doing really good, at least I think lol But I have been having contractions still but taking it easy. My new doctor was awesome today.. he did a test that my other doctors office never mentioned which tells them whether I am at risk for preterm labor or not. He said that the symptoms I had been having could mean soo many things.. because he's seen some come in with contractions that he thought was going to go into labor and then they ended up going overdue...and then also had others come in with the same symptoms who go into preterm labor. So this test will tell us a lot!!! I go back next thursday to get the results from the test back and just another check up soo Im getting really excited about everything... 7 more weeks to go!! How have you been feeling/doing???


vanessa83 - Tuesday, 4 Sep
I love Grace.. And if Anthony means that much to him then name her that! As far as it being weird for a girl, uhm I've heard way more weird names!! So your good :) so no more babies for you? How is your nursery coming along?


LauraH - Tuesday, 4 Sep
Morgan, I am in the same boat with the age.. I am 41 almost 42 and was completely unplanned. I am thrilled now although at first it was a huge shock. I had the amnio and all came back great so took a huge weight off my shoulders about any chromosone potential issues. I ma so sick of being pregnant but take heart ... when i asked my Dr last week what my chances if going early he said REALLY good. One was my old age ( he didnt say old age but I knew what he meant, ha ha) and the other this is my 3rd pregnancy. So keeping my fingers crossed. Hang in there !!


msc - Monday, 3 Sep
just read your blog. My hands and feet hurt really bad as well. Listen to your Dr about trying to relax!! I had high BP and swelling with my 1st (hes 9) and he was born by emergency c-section at 34wks!! However, he only stayed in the NICU for 1 wk. They are pretty healthy at that stage


msc - Monday, 3 Sep
thx for responding. I never had them with my boys. Maybe its a girl thing ;) I have c-sections so if I am dialiting they will deliver her early to avoid active labor. Thats why I asked about dialting.


vanessa83 - Monday, 3 Sep
Thanks for your advice... I have my dad and my 2 older bros.. So she will definately have a male figure in her life. Your right doctors don't know everything! I wish you and your hubby all the luck with your lil princess.. Any names?




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Hello world! (2007, 11, 15) Lots of kisses! (2007, 11, 15) Pretty little Princess!! (2007, 11, 15) Mommy`s hands (2007, 11, 15)

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