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My2nd
My2nd has 126 days to go and is now in week 22
Age: 26
Country: South Africa
Province/region: Western Cape
City: Cape Town
Partner: Jacques
Children: Yes, 1
Pregnant: Yes
Due date: 25 Mar ,2009
Occupation: Clinical Trials Administrator
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Last updated: 5 days ago.
Member since: 82 days
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I am a mother of one, at present and hopefully soon, mother of two. This is my second child that I am expecting as you can see from my nickname. My first child was an out of wedlock pregnancy and I recently married in November 2007. My husband accepted my child with open arms and my son loves him dearly. We have been together for about 3 years now and my son really grew out of his baby years to know my husband as his dad. I am a bit nervous now with the second child as I am scared my husband's family may favour the 'bloodline baby' but my fears may be ungrounded. My husband hoped for a girl but more lately a boy, he said that we already have a boy and that it will be nice to have one of each, but we will see.

I am excited because this time I am legitimately pregnant! I have a ring on my finger this time around and I really love my husband and for once, everybody is overjoyed for us instead of talking behind their hands about me not being married like they did 6 years ago :-).

I had my first ultrasound on 16 October 2008 and according to that u/s I was 17w1d pregnant. It was the greatest experience of my life! I was really excited to see the baby for the first time. I cannot wait to find out what we are having in 5 weeks time!

I will probably have another C-section, seeing as my son was a C-section. I am a bit overweight, but I try my best to eat healthy foods and walk as much as I can. I doubt that it will make a big difference though. I just hope that all goes well this time around as well, even though I am a bit heavier than the first time around.

I very much look forward to meeting new friends on this site and chatting with co-mom and moms-to-be! Thusfar, this site has been a treat! I have really enjoyed seeing two of my friends on here actually go from pregnant to mommy! Time does fly, doesn't it? I can't wait till my day either. :-)

Predicted a boy!

Is this your first pregnancy?:

No, 2nd

Was it planned?:

Yes, 10 months since I went off the birthcontrol injection, in the same month that we moved to a new house :-) New house, new baby!

What was your first reaction?:

Disbelief...only believed it once confirmed

Who was with you when you found out?:

No one initially, just me

Who was the first person you told?:

Indirectly, the chemo nurse at my office, she read the blood results for me. Officially, my best friend, then my husband!

How did your parents react?:

happy for us

What was your first symptom?:

Sore breasts and extreme fatigue!

What is your due date?:

March 25,2009

Do you know the sex of the baby?:

Not yet, maybe on 20 Nov!

How much weight have you gained?:

7kg! Ouch!

Do you have stretch marks?:

pre-existing ones only at this stage...lol

Have you felt the baby move?:

Yes, almost 4 weeks already if not more.

About the birth

Home or hospital birth?:

Hospital

Natural or medicated birth?:

c-section

Who will be in the delivery room with you?:

My husband only

Will you breastfeed?:

For as long as I can!

Do you think you'll need a c-section?:

Yes, this would be my second.

Will you cry when you hold the baby for the first time?:

That is a given!

Would you let someone videotape the birth?:

If it were allowed, doubt it though~! It is not on our agenda to do that, pictures, yes!

Are you excited about the birth, or scared?:

Both!






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LizetteCheree - 17.8 hours ago
HI LEKA OM VAN JOU OK TE HOOR.JA HEL EK RAAK NOU BAJA ONGEMAKLIK,EK WAS NOG NOOIT OOR 55KG NIE SO MY ARME BENE WIL NIE MEER NIE.EN WEES PREPARED VIR AAKLIGE RIBBEPYN.EK IS MAL OORI NAAM ZANDER MAAR SOOS EK GESE HET EKS SEKER DIS N KLEIN MEISIE SO-EK STEEK VAS OM DIE NAME SHANELL,MICHELLE,CLAIRE,ANDRIETTE,ANUSHKA EN ROXY.KANIE WAG OM TE HOOR HOE DIE SCAN GEGAAN HET DONDERDAG NIE.


13yearsapart - 38.3 hours ago


Hope you all have a good week!!
~Candy~


firsttimemom8122 - Sunday, 16 November
 Gosh he's a gangsta I would date.lol.. cutie pie! I would so spoil him if he was my little boy


LizetteCheree - Friday, 14 November
AG DIS MY PLESIER MAIQ.EKS G@TVOL OM ALTYD MY MOND TE HOU,GAAN NIE LAAT MENSE OOR MY OF OOR MY VRIENDE LOOP NIE.LEKA NAWEEK JONG


13yearsapart - Friday, 14 November


I hope you all have a great Friday!! And thanks for all the support and caring you have shown me in the last few days! You are all AWESOME!! ~Candy


no2intheoven - Friday, 14 November
I just realized you lived in South Africa!!! I've always wanted to visit Cape Town. Have you lived there all your life? I told myself that once my son graduated I was going to take a trip there, but now that I'm pregnant, I'm going to have to wait another 18 years!


LizetteCheree - Thursday, 13 November
HEY TJOMMA EKT DAAI BOODSKAP VAN HAAR GEKRY,SO TOE LOS EK MAAR N SNOTTY BOODSKAP OOK DAAROP EN GLO MY AS SY WEER DAAR INGAAN GAAN SY WEET VIR WIE DIT IS.DIE VERMEUTELHEID!!!LEKA AAND


LizetteCheree - Thursday, 13 November
NO PROBLEM.BLERRIE TERT,SYT DIT SEKER DELETE WANT EK SIEN DIT NIE DAAR NIE.EK HET GEWORRY OOR JOU VANDAG TOE EK HOOR VANI OORSTROOMINGS DAAR.NEEM AAN JY IS OK?.LEKA AANDJIE.


Flower101 - Thursday, 13 November
O ok. My verloofde is n millwright. Ons akies ma net so af di kant hoor. Di myn n@I sy mense deuri ore. Verder gaan dit goed met my. Danika is perdfris en gesond. Sy skop my al ini ribbes. Nogal seer. Hoe ganit met jou?


dizzysue - Wednesday, 12 November
hi everyone. thanks for keeping in touch. i hope everyones pregnancy is going well and just wanted to say hello and take care. regards. dizzysue :)))


expecting greatness - Tuesday, 11 November
hey due date buddy. How are you and the baby doing?


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Photos
Stepdad and Son (2008, 09, 01) Cutting the cake (2008, 09, 01) Helping mom unpack (2008, 10, 01) Squinting ringbearer (2008, 10, 01) Mommy before us...much thinner :-) (2008, 10, 01) Nicker Ball Boy (2008, 11, 04) 17w1d on 16 Oct 2008 (2008, 11, 04) 17w1d Spine Shot (2008, 11, 04) 17w1d ribs & head down (2008, 11, 04) Mommy`s Concert-Gangsta Boy! (2008, 11, 04)

Children
Schalke (2003)

Latest blogs
19-11-2008 - Oh, MY hormones, really?
18-11-2008 - Some good news!
17-11-2008 - 3 days till the big u/s!
14-11-2008 - A thought for today...
12-11-2008 - Vent-o-rama!
07-11-2008 - Tough love update...
06-11-2008 - Tough Love & half way...
04-11-2008 - Good News & U/S Pics up!
30-10-2008 - Bug after bug!
20-10-2008 - First Ultrasound!
13-10-2008 - Weird and Wow!
08-10-2008 - Excellent doctor!
03-10-2008 - Estrogen vs Testosterone!
02-10-2008 - Wish I COULD snap out of it!
02-10-2008 - Hormones!
30-9-2008 - Medical Aid Hick-Up
19-9-2008 - Cravings! Normal so early?
08-9-2008 - Progress 080908
04-9-2008 - Big fat pig
01-9-2008 - First Entry 1 Sept

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