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Pregowith3
Pregowith3 has 160 days to go and is now in week 17
Age: 22
Country: US
Province/region: Tennessee
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Partner: Adam
Children: Yes, 2
Pregnant: Yes
Due date: 15 Feb ,2009
Occupation: Stay at home mom
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I'm Nicki, I am a 22 year old stay at home mom. I am married to Adam.We have been together for 5 years, married for 3. We have been blessed with 2 beautiful children, Alexia,3 yrs old, she is a handful but there's never a day that she doesn't put a smile on my face. Then there's Corbin,7 mnths old, who never quits smiling. He is a total mommy's boy. We are expecting our 3rd child, due Feb. 15, 09. Corbin and this baby will be 13 months apart, and I think I have my hands full now..lol. I can handle it, I know I can.

I feel like everything happens for a reason and that God doesn't throw to much at you if he knows you can't handle it. It will be hard but there's always a lesson to be learned from everything.=) I am adopted along with 5 other siblings. 2 brothers and 3 sisters, 2 of which are blood-related. My other brother and sisters are no different to me than my REAL brother and sister. I love them like they are blood as well as my adoptive parents, they are MY PARENTS. Adam, comes from a smaller family having only one brother. We bought a house last year and it is big enough for our little growing family. I'd say we are doing pretty good.=) I love staying home with my babies, even though sometimes I feel like I could pull my hair out, I wouldn't trade it for the world. The best feeling in the world is being able to watch your children grow and learn new things.=)

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FIRST TRIMESTER
1-4 Weeks = 1 Month {Finished}
5-8 Weeks = 2 Months
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9-13 Weeks = 3 Months {Finished}
SECOND TRIMESTER
14-17 Weeks = 4 Months {In Progress=)}
18-22 Weeks = 5 months
23-27 Weeks = 6 Months
THIRD TRIMESTER
28-31 Weeks = 7 Months
32-35 Weeks = 8 Months
36-40 Weeks = 9 Months

PREGNANCY JOURNAL

June 10,2008- Was suppose to start my AF today and didn't. I have been getting serious headaches and heartburn like crazy, and serious back pain! So I knew something was up!

June 12,08- Finally got the nerve to take pregnancy test. Adam was at work so I decided to go ahead even though he wasn't at home. Turned out positive, Took 2 more to be sure and sure enough all three positive. Explains alot! Adam is really shocked cause we just had our son 5 months ago. They will be 13 months apart. WOW!

June 16,08- Morning sickness never fails! It has kicked in today! and the heartburn hasn't given up either!

JUNE 17,08- Called my dr. today and We have our first prenatal dr.'s appt Monday at 11:40AM! I am super excited!

JUNE 17,08- Okay so the dr.'s office just called and wanted to know if I would like to come in this week, So of course I said heck yeah! so we now have an appt for Thursday at 1:40PM.YAY!!! I am more excited now!

June 19,08- Went to dr today and we are scheduled for our first ultrasound July 3rd, So I am super excited

June 20,08- We had to take my 5 month old to see a urologist in Vanderbilt Childrens hospital and he is going to have to have surgery to fix his hernia! The surgery is scheduled for August 1=(

June 28,08- We had my daughters 3rd birthday party today and it was great, although I am sick from being outside all day!

July 1st, 08- I have been sick the last two days with a severe sinus infection..really stinks! I have also had a extremely bad headache as well! I feel BLAH! Morning sickness has kinda eased up the last few days but that could be cause I feel so bad with my allergy problems that I havent been focusing on it!

July 3rd 2008- We went to have our very first ultrasound today! The baby is doing great the heart beat was at 173, so maybe its a girl! LOL. Either way we will be happy=) i understand at this time everything is so high anyways that the actual rate of the heart will not be good now to determine whether it is a girl or boy! However, we found out some not so good news! The found a hemmorhage on one side on my uterus where the placenta has separted itself. I have had slight spotting which I have never had before the dr wants to keep and eye on it to make sure it doesnt completely come apart! They also found some sortof of cyst on my left side of my uterus. A Corpus Luteam Cyst ...the dr. wants to watch that as well! So good and bad news=)=(

July 15,08- So my husband and I decided to take a trip to Gatlinburg,TN this past weekend hoping to relax, well my in-laws went and let's just say I would've rather stayed home! Anyways, I guess from all the walking around it has caused me to spot more. I tried to take it easy like my dr. said but with a 3 year old and a 6 month old, its a little bit harder to do that. My husband thinks that I can run run run and when I am more active is when the spotting occurs. I have placed a call with my dr. hoping that nothing has gotten worse. I am really worried at this point because like I said this has never happened before so its all new.

August 1st,08- We went back for our dr's visit yesterday, we got to listen to the heartbeat, and had regular rountine pap smear, and the dr. said everything looks great..we go back in 4 weeks, however, my son had surgery today so needless to say I am very stressed and about to go crazy seeing him in pain. It was a hydrocele/hernia repair surgery and deflux surgery. Poor baby!

August 27,2008- We went to dr today and everything was okay I guess, I had noticed that I had been leaking some clear fluid for about 2-3 weeks now, so the dr. did a bacteria test and came back fine, he said he didnt see that there was anywhere was leaking or whatever, he seems to think that my bladder is just really weak from getting pregnant so soon after my son, my body didnt have time to recooperate..lol. Anyways I have been having this spells of being dizzy, my heart feeling like it is going to explode, feeling like I am going to pass out, hot flashes and get to where I start shaking really bad, so my dr. is wanting to sending me to a cardiologist to make sure its not just part of pregnancy. He said he has seen it sometimes in pregnancy but with the way I had explained what was happening to my heart, he thinks my blood pressure maybe going down, he wants me to be on a 24 hour heart moniter to see if there is anything irregular there. We got to hear our beautiful baby's heart beat and it was strong. We go back September 25 to find out what we are having...yay.. I am so excited. Well, thats it for today..

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mamamia76 - Thursday, 4 September
I'm guessing things have been quiet?!?!


tandiann - Monday, 1 September
Our hospital is very good about protecting their new mothers rights. Keep them in the loop as to how you want those first few hours to go and don't be afraid to call a nurse in if they disturb you and hit her with a secret code word to get her to tell them to leave. Plus, I want to say you can lock the door. Not totally sure though. You could even have a good friend whom you trust act as a bouncer at the elevators and confuse their direction then give your nurse a heads up. Idunno, just thinking that they can't be mad at you if the nurse tells them to get lost cuz the new family needs time alone and rest. Thats what I am using. There are 2-3 family members that I loath and I intend to allow them in and to stay and possibly hold the baby for 10 minutes to a half hour then telling them to leave cuz I am tired or need to feed her or whatever. I just hope they only come visit the one time. And I would much rather have the ease of kicking them out of the hospital cuz at home they tend to linger. My one SIL smokes tho and exposure to the chemicals increases your babys risk of sids so I don't know that I want her to even be near the baby. But we'll see if DH agrees or not. Gee, death or a mad sister? I would bet money he chooses possible SIDS over offending her. Crazy right? Well, you have a bit of time to figure out how to manage your mil and hopefully something will work out and one birth can be remembered as going according to your wishes. Best of luck.


tandiann - Saturday, 30 August
I can't believe you put up with this for so long. Your mil sounds a bit like my mil and grand mil combined. I have had pictures 'disappear' from the house and then get mailed back months later after copies were made. I feel like you on the matter of having special pictures that are unique to your collection. And the hospital and family time thing, too. If it comes down to it, the hospital will 'escort' unwelcomed visitors. Talk with them as you get nearer and are pre registering. The L&D nurses are very protective of their new mommies so you should be very honest with them and tell them you want not one person to know your room number or anything for a set amount of time. I have even considered giving them a printout with all their pictures on it so they know who to look out for. lol. Play the respect card. Use it sparingly and only when it is very important to you. Tell her, 'I can tell that you feel very strongly on this and I appreciate your advice/experience/concerns BUT I hope that you will respect OUR desision to......' It can be very powerful especially if you have DH tell her. We used it in this exact situation as I wanted no one to get to see our baby until I got to hold and nurse her. (I am a planned c-section and last time there were like 40 ppl in the hall watching my son thru a window for a good hour, while I was put back together and in recovery) They have all agreed to not even sneak a peak. When I explained why I felt like I did and how it was important and that we put a lot of thought into it, they were better but when we asked their respect, it totally changed their tone. I hope it works with your mil. Just be sure to never just complain about her personally, stick to the issues to that your DH stays on your side. If he gets to thinking that you just are being a butt cuz you don't like her you'll lose that one support you need the most.


Moni7 - Friday, 29 August
You're welcome. Have a great weekend.


Moni7 - Friday, 29 August
My brother in law's mom is like that too... but she had even told him how to stress is wife (my husband's sister)out so much to cause a miscarriage b/c she said that he would have to share his “toys” if he ever had a kid. She is the devil. They made my SIL’s life miserable for the first 3 years of their daughter’s life. SIL is starting to stick up for herself now and so the MIL is backing down, but it takes being REALLY STRONG.She had been a horrible mother and taught all her kids that “love” is all in material things. Never gave them hugs or kisses or was ANY kind of maternal. Yet he is still protective of her and does everything he can to please her… I think he’s trying to feel loved by her in any way he can. It’s SAD! Good Luck!!!! Try Sear for photos.


Moni7 - Friday, 29 August
Don't tell her about the next time you're going to have pictures taken. And make sure your DH doesn't either. That way they can't just show up and be in all of them or take them either. Don't even give her any for a few motnhs... and then just say you had forgotten all about then... like almost a year later.


mandyw0213 - Friday, 29 August
I understand that everybody is entitled to their own opinions and I hope that I don't offend anybody by saying this but I think that that is a very noble and brave thing to say. No joke. In my mind, a child with a disablity is just as able to be an amazing human being as one without one. Granted, it will be more difficult for both parent and child, but I can't imagine some of the things we could be missing out on without children like that in the world. :)


lin - Friday, 29 August
oh lol...I just posted in adoption again after your post. I totally didnt know it was you! now i understand. I thought it was someone new who was somehow taking offense to what I had wrote. Thinking that I was saying selfish, when i was saying selfless.....lol. Sorry...just ignore my comment.


courts1s - Thursday, 28 August
The downs test is optional... and there are occasions of false positives... BUT... if your baby does test positive for downs then they can have the proper precautions in place for what might be necessary. For instance, a lot of downs babies are born with heart defects... so if you're baby tests positive, then they'll have a neonatal doc on hand, and if he/she isn't needed then all the better...Thats just my advise, I wouldn't do anything differently if my downs test came back positive, but I would want my docs to know and be ready in case. Good Luck.


Aliwitbaby - Thursday, 28 August
my dr told me with the downs testing there is a false positive rate of 30%. I always turn it down and my doctor agrees its a good idea since, it can scare alot of people. Doesn't matter anyway right? We'll love the baby either way! It's up to you, just warning you that if you do it , you could get a big scare. Blessings!


mandyw0213 - Thursday, 28 August
This was what my doctor recommended to me on all the testing for mental or physical disabilties : Only take the test if you would consider aborting the baby if it was in fact handicapped. If you wouldn't consider it, then don't take it. I don't think I would consider not carrying the child to term so I'm not going to. I want to love the baby no matter the form it comes in!
Now that's just an oppinion but I thought you might find it helpful! :)


lin - Tuesday, 26 August
oh my god!!!! My mouth is hanging open right now!! I cant believe someone would write that!! I am sure glad she got booted!!


lin - Tuesday, 26 August
agreed!!


sally84 - Tuesday, 26 August
Thankyou so much for that information thats has put my mind at ease, thanks xx


MommyKruse - Tuesday, 26 August
My pregnancy is going pretty good. How is yours? Completely different from my first pregnacy 4 years ago. Nothing has been the same. lol. Get to find out the sex of the baby hopefully on Sept. 15! Can't wait. Well. good luck and hope all is going well.


lin - Tuesday, 26 August
some people can be so rude! Mine was meant for nessha (i think, was she the one saying that 2 out of 10 adoptions are sucessful?) I didnt find your posts offensive at all! Dont worry though...about a week ago this person was posting in a forum, one lady was saying how she was craving a beer and this girl replied that she should go on and have one cause her baby would be "retarded" anyhow. Then she proceeded to say that she hoped all our babies died and told me to "fuck off" it was quite interesting! So dont take the mean posts to much to heart!!


Mrs.Godwin - Tuesday, 26 August
Exactly it's not like he didn't know! lol


lin - Tuesday, 26 August
my post on the adoption forum was not at all directed towards yours...It was i think directed to the one before yours.


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