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Pregowith3
Pregowith3 has 88 days to go and is now in week 27
Age: 22
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Partner: Adam
Children: Yes, 2
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Due date: 15 Feb ,2009
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Hi I am Nicki, I am a 22 year old stay at home mom.I am married to my high school sweetheart, Adam. We've been married 3 years now in September, together for almost 5 years. We have 2 beautiful children, Alexia who is 3 and Corbin who is 10 months old. We are expecting another little girl due Feburary 15th,2009. Alexia kept telling us that she wanted a baby sister, we'll see how that goes when she gets here. We decided to name her, Madilyne Grace, Madi for short.Corbin and this little girl will be 13 months apart. I know it will be hard with 3 but I can handle it, cause children are blessings and are so worth everything!=) I cant wait to have our new little girl home with her little family. I am so excited.

I'm adopted, as well as 5 other siblings, 2 being actually blood related. I don't look at any of them any different than my blood-related brother and sister. Nor do I look at my PARENTS and different. They are my mom and dad, they took care of me. My life is pretty simple,I don't party or drink. I don't smoke. I get to stay at home with my children and thats pretty much it. We do EVERYTHING as a family, my babies go where I go as well as my husband. We don't have many friends, but its okay with us cause family comes first. After this baby, Adam says this is it. We'll see how that goes in the long run. lol.

I am planning to go to school after this baby for nursing. I had started the enrollment for nursing school before we got pregnant with Corbin, but he kinda put a damper on things, which is quite alright. I dont regret that at all. I plan to start the enrollment process after this baby is born. I know that God has a plan for my little growing family, and our lives, and I just have to let God do what he plans, and take it day by day and everything will be fine!

How`s my pregnancy doing? Lilypie 1st Birthday Ticker

Lilypie 4th Birthday Ticker


FIRST TRIMESTER
1-4 Weeks = 1 Month {Finished}
5-8 Weeks = 2 Months
{Finished}
9-13 Weeks = 3 Months {Finished}

SECOND TRIMESTER
14-17 Weeks = 4 Months {Finished=)}
18-21 Weeks = 5 months{Finished}
22-26 Weeks = 6 Months{COMPLETE}

THIRD TRIMESTER
27-30 Weeks = 7 Months {In progress}
31-35 Weeks = 8 Months
36-40 Weeks = 9 Months

PREGNANCY JOURNAL

June 10,2008- Was suppose to start my AF today and didn't. I have been getting serious headaches and heartburn like crazy, and serious back pain! So I knew something was up!

June 12,08- Finally got the nerve to take pregnancy test. Adam was at work so I decided to go ahead even though he wasn't at home. Turned out positive, Took 2 more to be sure and sure enough all three positive. Explains alot! Adam is really shocked cause we just had our son 5 months ago. They will be 13 months apart. WOW!

June 16,08- Morning sickness never fails! It has kicked in today! and the heartburn hasn't given up either!

JUNE 17,08- Called my dr. today and We have our first prenatal dr.'s appt Monday at 11:40AM! I am super excited!

JUNE 17,08- Okay so the dr.'s office just called and wanted to know if I would like to come in this week, So of course I said heck yeah! so we now have an appt for Thursday at 1:40PM.YAY!!! I am more excited now!

June 19,08- Went to dr today and we are scheduled for our first ultrasound July 3rd, So I am super excited

June 20,08- We had to take my 5 month old to see a urologist in Vanderbilt Childrens hospital and he is going to have to have surgery to fix his hernia! The surgery is scheduled for August 1=(

June 28,08- We had my daughters 3rd birthday party today and it was great, although I am sick from being outside all day!

July 1st, 08- I have been sick the last two days with a severe sinus infection..really stinks! I have also had a extremely bad headache as well! I feel BLAH! Morning sickness has kinda eased up the last few days but that could be cause I feel so bad with my allergy problems that I havent been focusing on it!

July 3rd 2008- We went to have our very first ultrasound today! The baby is doing great the heart beat was at 173, so maybe its a girl! LOL. Either way we will be happy=) i understand at this time everything is so high anyways that the actual rate of the heart will not be good now to determine whether it is a girl or boy! However, we found out some not so good news! The found a hemmorhage on one side on my uterus where the placenta has separted itself. I have had slight spotting which I have never had before the dr wants to keep and eye on it to make sure it doesnt completely come apart! They also found some sortof of cyst on my left side of my uterus. A Corpus Luteam Cyst ...the dr. wants to watch that as well! So good and bad news=)=(

July 15,08- So my husband and I decided to take a trip to Gatlinburg,TN this past weekend hoping to relax, well my in-laws went and let's just say I would've rather stayed home! Anyways, I guess from all the walking around it has caused me to spot more. I tried to take it easy like my dr. said but with a 3 year old and a 6 month old, its a little bit harder to do that. My husband thinks that I can run run run and when I am more active is when the spotting occurs. I have placed a call with my dr. hoping that nothing has gotten worse. I am really worried at this point because like I said this has never happened before so its all new.

August 1st,08- We went back for our dr's visit yesterday, we got to listen to the heartbeat, and had regular rountine pap smear, and the dr. said everything looks great..we go back in 4 weeks, however, my son had surgery today so needless to say I am very stressed and about to go crazy seeing him in pain. It was a hydrocele/hernia repair surgery and deflux surgery. Poor baby!

August 27,2008- We went to dr today and everything was okay I guess, I had noticed that I had been leaking some clear fluid for about 2-3 weeks now, so the dr. did a bacteria test and came back fine, he said he didnt see that there was anywhere was leaking or whatever, he seems to think that my bladder is just really weak from getting pregnant so soon after my son, my body didnt have time to recooperate..lol. Anyways I have been having this spells of being dizzy, my heart feeling like it is going to explode, feeling like I am going to pass out, hot flashes and get to where I start shaking really bad, so my dr. is wanting to sending me to a cardiologist to make sure its not just part of pregnancy. He said he has seen it sometimes in pregnancy but with the way I had explained what was happening to my heart, he thinks my blood pressure maybe going down, he wants me to be on a 24 hour heart moniter to see if there is anything irregular there. We got to hear our beautiful baby's heart beat and it was strong. We go back September 25 to find out what we are having...yay.. I am so excited. Well, thats it for today..

September 11,08- I have started to spot again. Last night was my first time I spotted since week 8 when they found a hemmorage to the placenta, it stopped and I havent spotted for a really long time, and now last night I started to spot again. It was just a little bit but enough to cause worry. The night before I spotted I had been up all night throwing up with such a severe headache that I couldnt sleep,and tylenol wasnt working and when I laid down on my left side my right side had this unbearable pain in it, when I rolled over on my right side it stopped, So I dont know if these are connected but I have placed a call with my dr. and waiting on a call back so I hope that they can get me in and call back soon. We are due for an ultrasound on the 25th but I just dont think it needs to wait that long. I have never spotted with my other two and the one time I did with this baby it turned out something was wrong, I am kinda scared but am really ready to find out what is up. On another note we went to cardiologist on Friday and they put me a 24 hour moniter and I had one minor episode not a full with all the symptoms but some, my heart rate is really high when I am not having one of the heartrate problems, so It has me wondering what it would be when I feel like its about to beat out of my chest, anyways it is causing the cardiologist a concern, he wants to send me to have a ultrasound on my heart, he said it sounds like a pinched/collapsed or clogged valve, he said medicine will treat it but he doesnt want to put me on it being pregnant. However, they want to put me on another 1-2 weeks moniter I have to wear to see exactly what my heart is doing, then get me in for the ultrasound. Dont have the appointment yet due to a waiting list, so when I get more info I will post and let everyone know. And about todays visit as well.

September 12,08- SO...I had to go to dr yesterday due to some bleeding and some severe pain in my right side, turns out I have managed to tear something on my right side that is causing the pain and bleeding. Tuesday Night I was up all night with a really bad headache, that was so bad that it cause me to throw up really hard. Causing something on my ride side to tear. The dr, ran a bunch of test and stuff to make sure that it was not the baby trying to come out,which thank God my cervix is closed and that it wasnt a bacteria and stuff like that, took blood to make sure my blood count wasnt down, and took urine to make sure that I had no protein in my urine, I havent heard back about my blood work or urinalisis yet but should hear something back today. It hasnt done any harm to baby and it wont, in fact I am carrying this baby really low, my nurse practitioner says she can bet its a boy with how low the baby is. She didnt say it was but pretty good chance it is.. we find out in 2 weeks.We go to hear the heartbeat which made me extremely happy knowing that it was still there and that this hasnt affected the baby. However, the dr. said that while I am pregnant I should never have a severe enough headache to be vomitting, so she has put me on rest for now, not bed rest but to take it easy. She said its from a lack of sleep which now a days seems impossible for me to get any of. She told me to take a whole day, get a benadryl and go to sleep, and let Adam take care of the kids so that I can rest. She said that I would be amazed how much better I'd feel with just that one day. She also is running test on my appendix since that is the area it is hurting in our ultrasound in 2 weeks to make sure that it isnt inflammed or something. She said had it ruptured I wouldnt be able to stop throwing up.

September 26,08- We had our scan yesterday and we found out we are having a little GIRL!! The baby is doing great for the most part, she has an irregular heart beat right now, the dr. is going to moniter her heart beat and make sure that it doesnt get worse. Her heart rate is in the 150's but is dropping down in the 70's and then skipping a beat. Something else to worry about=( But on a good note, the cyst and hemmorage is gone.. yay! We still havent heard from the cardiologist on our appointment for that u/s so we are stuck waiting.

October 27,2008- Had my glucose test today, and everything is great with that, however my iron is still extremely low, even after taking iron pills. I still haven't heard back from the cardiologist on the date for the ultrasound, I would have already had the baby by the time they get back to me. But anyways everything is doing good so far, they are atill monitering her heart rate. so far ntohing has changed, which is kinda scary. Adam finally got to feel her move for the first time and actually see her move. I have now gained 4.5 pounds and starting to feel exhausted again. But for the most part we are doing good!

NOVEMBER 9,2008- Just a little update on how I am feeling.. Large.. lol. I am starting the really uncomfortable stage now. I can't sit in any position and be comfortable. Rolling out of bed is becoming more and more FUN, lol. We've started buying more stuff for the new baby which is really exciting. Indigestion has kicked my butt. And the Cravings..aww man! Where do I begin? I have started getting really bad Braxton Hicks Contractions to the point I almost feel like its a real contraction. The dr. is wanting to make sure they don't get stronger and mroe frequent but they have and they are driving me NUTS! I am feeling tons of movement now and Adam has gotten to feel her a couple times. Alexia isn't so sure about this whole growing belly thing yet, she knows that there's a baby involved but she seems like she has turned from an angel to a little terror in the past few weeks. She wont go potty in the potty, keeps using her panties instead. She isn't listening very well either! I don't know what's up. I mean I can't help but feel sorry for her at the same time cause she isn't the baby anymore and she knows that. I hope things start to straighten out with her. For the most part, I am feeling okay.. Exhausted but we have been going non-stop and having a ten month old cutting 4 teeth at once isn't helping as far as sleeping. We are going to Flordia in December and maybe I will be able to just go with the flow and relax. We'll see! I'll keep you all posted. Next dr's visit is the 24th of this month.

Mommy's Growing Belly

Pregnant Belly at 11W 3D

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15 weeks and one day(174 days to go)

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19W and 1 Day(146 days left)

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24 weeks and 4 days pregnant!

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25 Weeks and 5 Days

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ULTRASOUNDS

7 weeks and 4 days

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19 weeks and 5 days...ITS A GIRL!!

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her face,abdomen and elbow

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Her little feet pulled up beside each other

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Definitely a GIRL!





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lin - Tuesday, 26 August
agreed!!


sally84 - Tuesday, 26 August
Thankyou so much for that information thats has put my mind at ease, thanks xx


MommyKruse - Tuesday, 26 August
My pregnancy is going pretty good. How is yours? Completely different from my first pregnacy 4 years ago. Nothing has been the same. lol. Get to find out the sex of the baby hopefully on Sept. 15! Can't wait. Well. good luck and hope all is going well.


lin - Tuesday, 26 August
some people can be so rude! Mine was meant for nessha (i think, was she the one saying that 2 out of 10 adoptions are sucessful?) I didnt find your posts offensive at all! Dont worry though...about a week ago this person was posting in a forum, one lady was saying how she was craving a beer and this girl replied that she should go on and have one cause her baby would be "retarded" anyhow. Then she proceeded to say that she hoped all our babies died and told me to "fuck off" it was quite interesting! So dont take the mean posts to much to heart!!


Mrs.Godwin - Tuesday, 26 August
Exactly it's not like he didn't know! lol


lin - Tuesday, 26 August
my post on the adoption forum was not at all directed towards yours...It was i think directed to the one before yours.


Mrs.Godwin - Tuesday, 26 August
Really thats awsome!


Mrs.Godwin - Monday, 25 August
Yea we went to womb with A view to find out, and my doc confirmed it at my 21 weeks apt so yea. Im glad we are going to have one of each after he is born im done for awhile. Im getting the IUD! 5 yrs till our next if e decide to have more.


MamaMia76 - Monday, 25 August
I just read on the adoption page that someone put a mean comment on your page. The nerve! I read what you wrote and thought it came across exactly as you meant it- that your adoption, and adoption in general, is a positive thing. How could someone take that the wrong way?!?!


Mrs.Godwin - Monday, 25 August
I got big fast this time too! i think our body knows what to do know lol. When are you going to find out what you are having?


Mrs.Godwin - Monday, 25 August
I totally agree with you! Mine is going great so far just starting to become uncomfortable! especially at night but i knew it would happen so im not letting it bother me! Have you felt your baby yet? Im just starting too.


Mrs.Godwin - Monday, 25 August
Oh ok lol. That means i have to memorize the weeks lol. This will be fun. So this is your third? How far apart are they?


Mrs.Godwin - Monday, 25 August
depends on how you feel. I dont find it offending, but i also could never give up my children either. And i know how you feel with the knowing of not being able to give our kids everythign but we give them everything we can. My daughters only 2 but shes happy and that makes me happy!


kellsbells - Friday, 22 August
she sounds like a pile of crazy! i would let her just find out when she get there. that way instead of having to deal with retaliation before hand she wont be able to reach you once you are in the hospital to berate you. it will be like a mini-vacation! when i found out we could have nurses kick people out i was almost disappointed we lived so far away and had no one to black list!


preggers87 - Friday, 22 August
Gosh! I think they are so much alike. My MIL is the same way with buying stuff from the dollar store. She is like oh look at this cute outfit and I am like yeah well it feels like cardboard! lol And thats usually where she gets her toys too. I am nto against the dollar store, but you just have to watch what you get there you know? I think me and you could compare stoires forever you know. I really try not to think about her but I get so mad b/c anything something good happens to me or us I am like oh gosh what is she going to do and where is she going to be. Not oh well everyone will be happy. Like when we called and told everyone we will were pregnant she had to come over that second and give us a hug, never gave us a hug had to come see Sophie. Like I just wish she would be truthful. And one of the things this is probably the hardest thing ever is that sometimes like I know she is the crazy one and its not me, but I feel like when I talk to other people they think I am the crazy one because it is just petty stuff they cant understand you know. Do you ever get this feeling? She is mild now, but there for a while she was going around to her friends and people and talking about us and they would see us and pretty much act like we were devil children for not listening to everything she said. Her and my mom both smock for my daughter and they have this shop they go to. Well my MIL goes to church with the lady and had obviously been in talking about us and out of nowhere one day my mom was in there and this lady was like do you ever take pictures of Sophie in her dresses for my MIL and my mom was like no I am a horrible picture taker and usually leave it to my daughter and she was like well you know these grandmothers they can never have too many pictures or see them enough in their dresses. And that pissed me off b/c even though that lady goes to church with my MIL my mom had been going to that store for like 5 years buying material and stuff, and then just b/c my crazy MIL went in there and was bad mouthing us the lady was rude to my mom. I begged my mom not to ever go back in there. Then one time my MIL said something about the store and I said yeah well I told my mom not to go back there and that there are plenty of other places to go. And she said oh why and I said well the lady was really rude to her and was getting in my family business that had nothing to do with my mom and I just feel it was rude after mom has been going there for so many years. My MIL was dumbfounded, but of course got a killing headache and started crying. Very typical. Oh and by the way she was abused as a child so whenever we get in fights she will yell at everyone else, but we are not allowed to yell at her b/c it brings back memories. Not that I am belittling being abused, but every time she mentions this the abuse gets worse, and sometimes she has a habit of believing things the way she wants them to be and not the way they really happened if that makes sense. Like a couple of weeks ago she was trying to sympathize or it was when she said she was being sincere and she said its ok if you dont want to leave sophie and I know we need to give you time. She said I dont think I left my boys anywhere until they were like 5...I told my husband and he laughed because he was always in daycare! She just definitely has a lot of issues and they all come out on me b/c now she is not the only girl. Sophie is her granddaughter, so she wont have an issue with her, mu husband is obviously her son, so there is no issue there, but me well I just walked in 6 years ago and you get the picture. Also when she called that day she was like I finally realized you are family. I am like we have been married for 3 years and have a 16 month old and pregnant again and you just now realized it? I never believe she is sincere, because she always reverts back to her old ways, ALWAYS. She will always tell me she is sorry. Or even worse the only reason I think she called and had that conversation was because we are pregnant again and she thinks oh well when this one gets here I can help more with Sophie. Heck no- I got news for her. I know it may be hard, but like we both have discussed I stay home for a reason. And on top of that I love kids, love, love, love kids. I know there are stressful days, but I always remember the good memories not the ones with me pulling my hair out you know? I dont know she is just frustrating and I just really feel like people think I am the crazy one b/c she does talk about us! UGH! MIL's!


kellsbells - Thursday, 21 August
you can put in your birthing plan that you dont want anyone allowed in the room besides your children and DH till you give the says so. nurses LOVE that! they are never going to see those people again and they get to be mean! it is like xmas for them! but make sure you made it clear the YOU have to give the ok. otherwise the DH might cave an in will bust the dreaded MIL!


preggers87 - Thursday, 21 August
Oh and how dare your MIL think your parents are not really grandparents. How hurtful, why would you even think that. That is a complete insult and I am sorry she has told or acted that way!


preggers87 - Thursday, 21 August
OMG! I swear our lives are the same. Everything you said reminds me of how my MIL tries to be. She is honestly crazy and get this she is a licensed counselor! HA! You would think she could learn how to handle me if she can tell other people their problems. My MIL used to always call me and ask if I wanted to go to dinner and I would tell her I had something cooking or had other plans and then she would call my husband and ask him and he would say something like I don't see a problem with it or something and then say he had to talk to me and then from then on she would call a few hours later and say oh well he said we were doing dinner and turn the whole thing around to make us fight and make me mad. The day we came home from the hospital she wanted to come over that night and I said if she was coming she at LEAST needed to bring dinner or something to help out b/c I can sit there and hold my baby just fine without her asking to get her every 5 minutes. Anyway she comes in with his dad, brother, brothers gf, brothers friend, and 2 great grandparents! I was furious. She said they would bring dinner and we took it as MIL and FIL not the whole gang! I was furious. And you know what is more frustrating some people just dont understand at all. Like last week she was like we want to give ya'll our entertainment fund and send ya'll out every friday night and we will keep Sophie. And some people might like that,but I am like I love my daughter. I am an honest believer and old fashion mom who loves staying at home with her kids and cookign doing all that and first off I dont want someone planning out my every move you know! Like some people if I tell them things like this think oh she is so generous and I am like no she is so controlling and getting her way! And you know as for the delivery room. I think the worst part was after like she actually went up to my grandmother and then another lady from our church who came to visit and said it was grandma's turn and I am like those are people she will not see of if she does see will be every once in a while and not always get to hold her. Made me so freaking mad. She is so freaking self centered. That is all there is to it. Everything surrounds her and her scheduled and what works for her and when she can do things and I have just put a complete stop to it. We didnt even live at their house and she wanted a high chair, nursery, car seat, pac-n-play, etc everything. And I just told her one day well if we ever need you to watch her you can just borrow ours! lol I mean my mom has 5 grandkids and none of that and she has one soon to be two. She has finally backed off a lot but I still have a lot of mixed feelings toward her and she is the only person in the world I swear who can make me this mean. I honestly think she prays for me to die (I know this is horrible), so that she can take over with Sophie and I hate thinking about things like that, but I have begged my husband that if anything ever happens to not move in with them. He now sees that she is a nut, but like I said I know that sounds crazy but when you are a mom you think about those things like what woudl your kids do without you and I am just thinking if it were up to her call her mom and never think about me. She is the same way about junk. I know grandparents are supposed to spoil their grandchildren, but thats to a certain extent and giving junk and omg she finally quit buying toys and clothes b/c they were junk. Not that I have to have the nicest stuff, but you know buying things that break and take up half of her room are unacceptable and so I started putting things in the attic or giving them away and I think she got the picture. She called me like two weeks ago and said that she was being "sincere' and that she loved me and wanted things to be better for us and that she finally understands she is not going to be the grandma that is there for everything and the one I always call. Well I thought it was sincere, but then my daughter started going to school two days a week for a few hours at our church and the first day she went had a horrible day well she calls that night and says we are fixing to come by and I was like I am sorry we are fixing to eat and she said oh us to it will be a bit and I finally just said look it has bee a rough day for us all I dont think tonight is good. Come to find out she has the tits to call my husband and tell him that earlier and said she would call me and let me know and give me notice, which she did like 10 minutes UGH! I just cannot stand it like I said she wants to do things when it is convient for her. Anyways so then she was like well we can just do something this weekend! Enough is enough you know how nconsiderate I am cooking holding a baby that didnt get enough nap and all you are concerned over is keeping her or playing. She is so freaking competitive I just wished she would drop it. My daughter is 16 months old and they were over here last night and it was a civil visit I just kept my distance and anyway I could hear Sophie telling her no like she is like freaking crazy playing with her like has to entertain constantly to make sure sophie loves her mom than my mom and yes she has compared that before in a 16 month old. It is just all petty things that I should not care about, but for some reason when someone stands over you for 6 years and beats them into your head you eventually start to care!I am just thankful my husband no sees through it. I know it has to be hard on you that he still sides with them some and we used to go through it, but I promise you he will see their true colors in the end. Anyway my parents are alot likes yours they never buy crap b/c I dont want them to. I like doing thigns myself. That is one thing my husband used to say is well thats one less thing we have to buy whats the big deal, but I like doing those things you know. My daughter had a cyst removed when she as 8 months old and I told them no one was allowed at the hospital. But just so you know it was not always this easy she used to show up every where after i specifically said no. The reason all this is better is b/c after the letter was found my husband kept Sophie not me doing it but him from them for about 6 weeks of nothing and then when we did get together over the next few months it was at a meeting location nowhere else and I think that showed her that yeah hes your son but i come first and that opened her eyes. P.S. I think I read something about how your DH has a brother, so your MIL has two sons...same situation here! UGH! I just dont see many MIL who have daughters acting this way. There is a reason they say a son is a son until he takes a wife a daughter is a daughter for life. I mean my MIL did not go around her in laws, but yet i am supposed to be around her all the time! How stupid! Oh and yeah I know I already told you about her acting sick,but she is a total like here let me take a percocet for my headache or lortab or xanax, she is a pill popper and I think it is unhealthy and she is a hypochondriact* as well. If I have a headache then she has a brain tumor it is always that way and UGH! Just UGH! Well this is enough for now maybe for you to relate! Oh well one more thing about the hospital room after sophie was here like they were there constantly we called them and said we were going home and invited them to see us out and help us out and they didnt leave, but in the letter she wrote was complaining, and it was six months later, about how i had taken so much from her and how she couldnt believe she wasnt invited to go home with her SON and granddaughter. once again what a biotch!


preggers87 - Thursday, 21 August
I am exactly how you are there are no words, but yet when someone asks, because most people know we don't see eye to eye, how we are doing with each other it is like a war has begun! She used to want to stop by every day. Well let me back up my husband and his family always had their grandparents(her parents) living with them or right next door their whole life and so she automatically thought when Sophie got here that she would see her first everything. My husband used to be the same way thinking I was just like crazy or something and that they didnt mean it and its just the way they are until like October and we went over there on Halloween to show Sophie off and all, and my husband got on their computer and there was a 9 page letter venting about me saying how embarrassed she was of me, that I was ashamed of my daughter, that I was jealous b/c Sophie looked like her and not me, and that she is high up in the community and I should respect her like other people do, and just OMG off the wall stuff. Stuff that had never even been mentioned by me...sophie was like 5-6 months old at the time and she was like you dont get her to say my name I was like WTF! You know...anyway my point is I am sure your DH will eventually see their true colors. Just do things the way you want and stay strong b/c after we found that letter and it was right there, there was no snooping involved, and of course she never apologized just said it was not meant to be found. biotch! anyway i do love her, but she makes it really difficult! But my husband now agrees with everything I want to do and they are not allowed to stop by, like they can call and ask but we dont feel bad about saying no even though she totally has a manipulative way of making you feel guilty and that you are doing her wrong. Anyway all I can say is that I totally know what you are going through and I hate it for you! Thats so funny about the delivery room having your mom. I begged my husband to let me have my mom, but that was before everything happened and he was like not wanting to cause conflict, but I wish I could. But we had been in the hospital a day and were having trouble breastfeeding and so we asked everyone to leave so it would be less stressful on us and she got on the elevator with my best friend and started crying saying she wasnt wanted.

Oh and get this she is like notorious for writing me letters, but that stopped after the last time, but like a month after sophie was born she called me and said we needed to talk and i just sat there and took it and she told me i didnt understand how much of an emotional roller coaster being a grandparent was. Can you believe that?! I told my husband this is it that was my last time to sit there and take it!! UGH! ridiculous! how are you with leaving your kids with them? I have issues just b/c of the way they treat me. She has never stayed the night or anythign I refuse and has babysat only a handful of times b/c of the childish way she treats me. I sometimes feel bad that sophie doesnt play over there much by their house is not baby proof at all like sizzors laying out dog crap (gross I know) etc and I just am kind of like you know when you respect me you can watch her but she has not shown that to me yet. And another thing nothing is ever good enough. Like one visit isnt enough its like what are you doing tomorrow and three days from now! UGH. Sorry girl I know this is long, but I know you understand!


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