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Pregowith3
Pregowith3 has 88 days to go and is now in week 27
Age: 22
Country: US
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Partner: Adam
Children: Yes, 2
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Due date: 15 Feb ,2009
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Hi I am Nicki, I am a 22 year old stay at home mom.I am married to my high school sweetheart, Adam. We've been married 3 years now in September, together for almost 5 years. We have 2 beautiful children, Alexia who is 3 and Corbin who is 10 months old. We are expecting another little girl due Feburary 15th,2009. Alexia kept telling us that she wanted a baby sister, we'll see how that goes when she gets here. We decided to name her, Madilyne Grace, Madi for short.Corbin and this little girl will be 13 months apart. I know it will be hard with 3 but I can handle it, cause children are blessings and are so worth everything!=) I cant wait to have our new little girl home with her little family. I am so excited.

I'm adopted, as well as 5 other siblings, 2 being actually blood related. I don't look at any of them any different than my blood-related brother and sister. Nor do I look at my PARENTS and different. They are my mom and dad, they took care of me. My life is pretty simple,I don't party or drink. I don't smoke. I get to stay at home with my children and thats pretty much it. We do EVERYTHING as a family, my babies go where I go as well as my husband. We don't have many friends, but its okay with us cause family comes first. After this baby, Adam says this is it. We'll see how that goes in the long run. lol.

I am planning to go to school after this baby for nursing. I had started the enrollment for nursing school before we got pregnant with Corbin, but he kinda put a damper on things, which is quite alright. I dont regret that at all. I plan to start the enrollment process after this baby is born. I know that God has a plan for my little growing family, and our lives, and I just have to let God do what he plans, and take it day by day and everything will be fine!

How`s my pregnancy doing? Lilypie 1st Birthday Ticker

Lilypie 4th Birthday Ticker


FIRST TRIMESTER
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9-13 Weeks = 3 Months {Finished}

SECOND TRIMESTER
14-17 Weeks = 4 Months {Finished=)}
18-21 Weeks = 5 months{Finished}
22-26 Weeks = 6 Months{COMPLETE}

THIRD TRIMESTER
27-30 Weeks = 7 Months {In progress}
31-35 Weeks = 8 Months
36-40 Weeks = 9 Months

PREGNANCY JOURNAL

June 10,2008- Was suppose to start my AF today and didn't. I have been getting serious headaches and heartburn like crazy, and serious back pain! So I knew something was up!

June 12,08- Finally got the nerve to take pregnancy test. Adam was at work so I decided to go ahead even though he wasn't at home. Turned out positive, Took 2 more to be sure and sure enough all three positive. Explains alot! Adam is really shocked cause we just had our son 5 months ago. They will be 13 months apart. WOW!

June 16,08- Morning sickness never fails! It has kicked in today! and the heartburn hasn't given up either!

JUNE 17,08- Called my dr. today and We have our first prenatal dr.'s appt Monday at 11:40AM! I am super excited!

JUNE 17,08- Okay so the dr.'s office just called and wanted to know if I would like to come in this week, So of course I said heck yeah! so we now have an appt for Thursday at 1:40PM.YAY!!! I am more excited now!

June 19,08- Went to dr today and we are scheduled for our first ultrasound July 3rd, So I am super excited

June 20,08- We had to take my 5 month old to see a urologist in Vanderbilt Childrens hospital and he is going to have to have surgery to fix his hernia! The surgery is scheduled for August 1=(

June 28,08- We had my daughters 3rd birthday party today and it was great, although I am sick from being outside all day!

July 1st, 08- I have been sick the last two days with a severe sinus infection..really stinks! I have also had a extremely bad headache as well! I feel BLAH! Morning sickness has kinda eased up the last few days but that could be cause I feel so bad with my allergy problems that I havent been focusing on it!

July 3rd 2008- We went to have our very first ultrasound today! The baby is doing great the heart beat was at 173, so maybe its a girl! LOL. Either way we will be happy=) i understand at this time everything is so high anyways that the actual rate of the heart will not be good now to determine whether it is a girl or boy! However, we found out some not so good news! The found a hemmorhage on one side on my uterus where the placenta has separted itself. I have had slight spotting which I have never had before the dr wants to keep and eye on it to make sure it doesnt completely come apart! They also found some sortof of cyst on my left side of my uterus. A Corpus Luteam Cyst ...the dr. wants to watch that as well! So good and bad news=)=(

July 15,08- So my husband and I decided to take a trip to Gatlinburg,TN this past weekend hoping to relax, well my in-laws went and let's just say I would've rather stayed home! Anyways, I guess from all the walking around it has caused me to spot more. I tried to take it easy like my dr. said but with a 3 year old and a 6 month old, its a little bit harder to do that. My husband thinks that I can run run run and when I am more active is when the spotting occurs. I have placed a call with my dr. hoping that nothing has gotten worse. I am really worried at this point because like I said this has never happened before so its all new.

August 1st,08- We went back for our dr's visit yesterday, we got to listen to the heartbeat, and had regular rountine pap smear, and the dr. said everything looks great..we go back in 4 weeks, however, my son had surgery today so needless to say I am very stressed and about to go crazy seeing him in pain. It was a hydrocele/hernia repair surgery and deflux surgery. Poor baby!

August 27,2008- We went to dr today and everything was okay I guess, I had noticed that I had been leaking some clear fluid for about 2-3 weeks now, so the dr. did a bacteria test and came back fine, he said he didnt see that there was anywhere was leaking or whatever, he seems to think that my bladder is just really weak from getting pregnant so soon after my son, my body didnt have time to recooperate..lol. Anyways I have been having this spells of being dizzy, my heart feeling like it is going to explode, feeling like I am going to pass out, hot flashes and get to where I start shaking really bad, so my dr. is wanting to sending me to a cardiologist to make sure its not just part of pregnancy. He said he has seen it sometimes in pregnancy but with the way I had explained what was happening to my heart, he thinks my blood pressure maybe going down, he wants me to be on a 24 hour heart moniter to see if there is anything irregular there. We got to hear our beautiful baby's heart beat and it was strong. We go back September 25 to find out what we are having...yay.. I am so excited. Well, thats it for today..

September 11,08- I have started to spot again. Last night was my first time I spotted since week 8 when they found a hemmorage to the placenta, it stopped and I havent spotted for a really long time, and now last night I started to spot again. It was just a little bit but enough to cause worry. The night before I spotted I had been up all night throwing up with such a severe headache that I couldnt sleep,and tylenol wasnt working and when I laid down on my left side my right side had this unbearable pain in it, when I rolled over on my right side it stopped, So I dont know if these are connected but I have placed a call with my dr. and waiting on a call back so I hope that they can get me in and call back soon. We are due for an ultrasound on the 25th but I just dont think it needs to wait that long. I have never spotted with my other two and the one time I did with this baby it turned out something was wrong, I am kinda scared but am really ready to find out what is up. On another note we went to cardiologist on Friday and they put me a 24 hour moniter and I had one minor episode not a full with all the symptoms but some, my heart rate is really high when I am not having one of the heartrate problems, so It has me wondering what it would be when I feel like its about to beat out of my chest, anyways it is causing the cardiologist a concern, he wants to send me to have a ultrasound on my heart, he said it sounds like a pinched/collapsed or clogged valve, he said medicine will treat it but he doesnt want to put me on it being pregnant. However, they want to put me on another 1-2 weeks moniter I have to wear to see exactly what my heart is doing, then get me in for the ultrasound. Dont have the appointment yet due to a waiting list, so when I get more info I will post and let everyone know. And about todays visit as well.

September 12,08- SO...I had to go to dr yesterday due to some bleeding and some severe pain in my right side, turns out I have managed to tear something on my right side that is causing the pain and bleeding. Tuesday Night I was up all night with a really bad headache, that was so bad that it cause me to throw up really hard. Causing something on my ride side to tear. The dr, ran a bunch of test and stuff to make sure that it was not the baby trying to come out,which thank God my cervix is closed and that it wasnt a bacteria and stuff like that, took blood to make sure my blood count wasnt down, and took urine to make sure that I had no protein in my urine, I havent heard back about my blood work or urinalisis yet but should hear something back today. It hasnt done any harm to baby and it wont, in fact I am carrying this baby really low, my nurse practitioner says she can bet its a boy with how low the baby is. She didnt say it was but pretty good chance it is.. we find out in 2 weeks.We go to hear the heartbeat which made me extremely happy knowing that it was still there and that this hasnt affected the baby. However, the dr. said that while I am pregnant I should never have a severe enough headache to be vomitting, so she has put me on rest for now, not bed rest but to take it easy. She said its from a lack of sleep which now a days seems impossible for me to get any of. She told me to take a whole day, get a benadryl and go to sleep, and let Adam take care of the kids so that I can rest. She said that I would be amazed how much better I'd feel with just that one day. She also is running test on my appendix since that is the area it is hurting in our ultrasound in 2 weeks to make sure that it isnt inflammed or something. She said had it ruptured I wouldnt be able to stop throwing up.

September 26,08- We had our scan yesterday and we found out we are having a little GIRL!! The baby is doing great for the most part, she has an irregular heart beat right now, the dr. is going to moniter her heart beat and make sure that it doesnt get worse. Her heart rate is in the 150's but is dropping down in the 70's and then skipping a beat. Something else to worry about=( But on a good note, the cyst and hemmorage is gone.. yay! We still havent heard from the cardiologist on our appointment for that u/s so we are stuck waiting.

October 27,2008- Had my glucose test today, and everything is great with that, however my iron is still extremely low, even after taking iron pills. I still haven't heard back from the cardiologist on the date for the ultrasound, I would have already had the baby by the time they get back to me. But anyways everything is doing good so far, they are atill monitering her heart rate. so far ntohing has changed, which is kinda scary. Adam finally got to feel her move for the first time and actually see her move. I have now gained 4.5 pounds and starting to feel exhausted again. But for the most part we are doing good!

NOVEMBER 9,2008- Just a little update on how I am feeling.. Large.. lol. I am starting the really uncomfortable stage now. I can't sit in any position and be comfortable. Rolling out of bed is becoming more and more FUN, lol. We've started buying more stuff for the new baby which is really exciting. Indigestion has kicked my butt. And the Cravings..aww man! Where do I begin? I have started getting really bad Braxton Hicks Contractions to the point I almost feel like its a real contraction. The dr. is wanting to make sure they don't get stronger and mroe frequent but they have and they are driving me NUTS! I am feeling tons of movement now and Adam has gotten to feel her a couple times. Alexia isn't so sure about this whole growing belly thing yet, she knows that there's a baby involved but she seems like she has turned from an angel to a little terror in the past few weeks. She wont go potty in the potty, keeps using her panties instead. She isn't listening very well either! I don't know what's up. I mean I can't help but feel sorry for her at the same time cause she isn't the baby anymore and she knows that. I hope things start to straighten out with her. For the most part, I am feeling okay.. Exhausted but we have been going non-stop and having a ten month old cutting 4 teeth at once isn't helping as far as sleeping. We are going to Flordia in December and maybe I will be able to just go with the flow and relax. We'll see! I'll keep you all posted. Next dr's visit is the 24th of this month.

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24 weeks and 4 days pregnant!

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19 weeks and 5 days...ITS A GIRL!!

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dannii - Thursday, 31 July
see there are no pics of the MIL lol what a witch she wud drive me insane stand ur ground girl xxx


finkleberry - Thursday, 31 July
Just read you MIL posts. You really don't need this kind of stress while your pregnant. i know her type of person. You need to be assertive and let her know exactly where the line is. This is YOUR life and she needs to step off. I would make it clear to her and the hospital staff that you don't want any visitors except your husband and your children for at least the first day. (you don't have to explain yourself) Don't let her bully and frazzel you. When I had my first son (different partner) i was very young and submissive and hated confrontation and I let people really trample on me (especially the in-laws i felt very intimidated) . But then i realized that I was setting a poor example to my son and started putting my foot down. Every snide comment and malicious action got dealt with on the spot. I absolutely adore my new in-laws but if anyone tries to stand in the way of me and my right to parent my children my way (hubby included)..well let's just say that hell hath no fury like a mother scorned!


baby-bunny19 - Thursday, 31 July
thank you so much on the info on the ligament pains! i asked another person what the pains were and they said they were more then likely that but they didnt really know what exactly caused them or anything. u have helped me so much! i have them quite often and it gets pretty painful sometimes but now that i now how to kinda avoid them it will be much better. thank you so much again!


lains - Thursday, 31 July
Hello ... Saw your post! My In law is also, well "demanding" . But I have told her straight out that my mum willbe with me for the birth and once baby is born my husband will call her and tell when she can come in. I want at least a few hours without visitors (depending on time of birth) Write it in your birth plan that you do not want visitors for a set period of time and make the nurses enforce that. It means if anyone visits the nurses actually tell them you've made a request for not visitors until such and such a time! If they get angry TOO BAD ! xxx Its your baby, your birth and your life! x


apilalas - Thursday, 31 July
lol we're talking about mil's from hell but i bet when our kids get married and have kids they wont "love" us lol


lukxyz294 - Thursday, 31 July
wow...i've got to say i absolutely understand your frustration with your MIL!!! I've also had to deal with a similar situation for years...but it was mostly my SIL that caused all my misery...MIL was not nearly as bad. I would get so frustrated 'cuz nobody would understand which made me feel like i was a liar or i was making a big deal out of everything. Hubby and i would get into fights about his family all the time after we had our son! And like your in-laws, my husbands family also spoils their kids rotten and has absolutely no rules, manners or consideration for other ppl! But the difference with my situation and yours is that his family does not realize that they're being rude and that they don't do it purposely (not that it makes it any better!). So everytime i bring it up to my husband, he would say "oh, they didn't mean it... that's just how they are." But after years of not saying anything, i couldn't bite my tongue anymore once they started to tell me how to raise my kid...i made my husband talk to his family about how they spoke to me. I mean, we see them like every other weekend and they seem to think that they know more about my son than i do! Everytime i step in their house, literally before i even get a chance to take my shoes/jackets off...they would tell me..."Feed him, he's hungry!" and this is EVERY TIME we go over there!! i think i know when to feed my own son! and they would always comment about how "skinny" my son is and when he spends a weekend over there with them, they would be like..."see, look how much healthier he looks!" as if 2 days was really gonna fatten him up! lol and talk about tryin to discipline my son around them...that's a joke! my SIL, to this day, still always butts in to our business! The other day she tried to give my son candy while he's in time-out!! and when i tell her not to, she keep insisting that "it's okay! she already opened the wrapper!" i mean, wth is wrong with her? Just wrap the @#@* back up! i'm the mother, i said it's not okay but she just keeps on handing it towards my son. Thank goodness i'm much firmer with my husband's family now. I remember several years back, i would always bite my tongue, trying not to disrespect them while they were disrespecting me! It definitely helps when the hubby understands the situation and sees things in your shoes though. But even with him understanding my situation, my husband never stood up for me because he didn't want to upset his family. So finally, i just gave him an ultimatum...either he talks to them about it or i will and sure enough he did after a gazillion arguments! lol well, sorry this is so long...but just wanted to let u know that ur not krazy or wrong for wanting a little respect! if u need to vent, just drop me a line btw...CONGRATS on your pregnancy!!


cherbearsk - Thursday, 31 July
Thanks! It helps to put my mind at ease that I'm not the only one! I have had 2 miscarriages in the past so I'm a nervous person! lol.....trying NOT to be but easier said than done! Thanks again! Hope everything is going well with you!


apilalas - Wednesday, 30 July
that sounds like a good idea..doing it at your house, so you can say and do what you want! i hope it goes well, tell me how it ends up. im actually curious on how it will go lol im almost positive we'll both be posting more in the mil forum


apilalas - Wednesday, 30 July
yeah, you dont need anybody treating you that way specially your inlaws. you need to do whats best for you and the up bringing of your kids...and its not having them see the inlaws treat you like crap and walking all over what you believe


apilalas - Wednesday, 30 July
i feel the same way when she does something nice i cant appreciate it, but my prob is when she does something nice i know its because shes trying to make up for something we havent found out about yet!! my mom raised me with rules and all that too and when i became 18 we fought all the time i moved out and wanted nothing to do with her..well since she raised me right i seen i was wrong now we talk everyday and i even find myself asking her advice on my daughter lol. mil's dont think we can raise their grandkids your right, but as long as we know we can i think we should be ok. you seem like a strong smart 21 yr old i know you can do it.


apilalas - Wednesday, 30 July
wow, thats messed up! i think more mils need to be like my mom lol states away but loves to help! idk how you've survived this long, i would have probably left because of her. speaking of which i told my fiance if his mom doesnt grow up then im leaving, going home to fl. its sad when mil's drive the moms away its horrible


apilalas - Wednesday, 30 July
no that isnt bad. i mean cmon YOUR the 1 with IV's and monitors and pushing a baby out..you should be comfortable doing it! i would say if they dont like it tough. its not as bad as what im doing..me and corey live with his mom (we're trying to get out but she keeps making us go broke..long story) well she stole money from his brother..lied about it then lied about lying about it. that was the last straw, i blew up on her and told her what ive been holding in for 2yrs. well she called ME the liar and thief..any1 who knows me knows thats bull&%#$. corey came in the room where i was with the baby because i was feeding her..he said "when shes done eating will you let her hold her" i said "after what she did and said to me HELL NO" shes done alot worse to her kids and i strongly believe she will be a bad influence in my daughters life and idk what to do, to not let her see her or what


cmmbear - Wednesday, 30 July
Where is the MIL section, lol? That's pretty bad that they have there own section!!!


apilalas - Wednesday, 30 July
you said they manipulate the situation...so does my MIL. only thing i can think of is when you say yes or no and she says the opposite. try to tell your kids that mommy is boss not grandma. because when i was growing up if my nana or papa said i could do something i always knew to ask mom too to make sure i REALLY can. you know what else is crazy, my mil is determined to get my daughter a pink dress like im a bad mom because i didnt. im not going to dress her in dresses until she is old enough to say because i HATE dresses and she might too you never know. and like you said being a young mom doesnt mean we dont know what we are doing and that they know better then we do. id say keep putting your foot down, thats what i did yesterday with my mil and she 100% hated it. in the long run, you'll get respect from them!


apilalas - Wednesday, 30 July
omg i read every word about your MIL, my "MIL" calls my daughter "her baby" but my fiance put a stop to that real quick!
i agree with you 100% as i dont know how to get it to stop but i know what your talking about. like yours my "MIL" just takes my baby from me without asking too....if anybody tells you how to stop this crazy stuff PLEASE send it my way lol


Ema uk - Wednesday, 30 July
cheers for the advice...I don't think they'll come to England though..I just saw something in my local paper today about terriffic tots..so i'll take him for some pics..see what happenes..lol...cheers again..Xx


LeahsMommy28 - Wednesday, 30 July
Congrats on the pregnancy!!! I would love to have another soon!


Ema uk - Tuesday, 29 July
 wow..she's beautiful....how did you get her into modeling?..everybody tells me I should with my son..but I don't know where to start..congrats on your kids and the bump..xx


mandyw0213 - Tuesday, 29 July
I looked up round ligament pains on another website and it really does sound like that's what's going on. I'll still talk to my dr about it when i go in, but thank you! That's a big relief to at least have an idea about what's going on. :)


TanyaT - Tuesday, 29 July
You are quite welcome!!!! Let me know how your appt goes:)


Elizabeth Carrie - Tuesday, 29 July
Thank you! that really helps alot actually! ill check them out!! thank you sooooo mcuh for the help!


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