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PrettyBlueEyes
PrettyBlueEyes has 194 days to go and is now in week 12
	Age: 27 Country: Province/region: washington City: south east washington... Partner: 29 Children: Yes, 2 Pregnant: Yes Due date: 01 Jun ,2009 Occupation: at home mom/ nurse
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Hello Ladies, I am almost 28 here in a few days (eek)

A lil about me- I have 2 kids, a little girl who is 10 and a little boy who is 13 months! My Girl lives with her father most the time in the south. I had her at 17 and she has been with her father (who is much older) since she was 3. I see her every chance I get..Holidays, summer. I have a wonderful husband who has been my rock and best friend now for 7 1/2 years. We had our son in August of 07 and are very excited to have this new addition now...nope this one was not planned but God knows what he's doing. I have 100% faith in him.

Well Ladies I enjoy talking to yall and am excited to go on this journey of pregnancy togther!

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About You
Name?: Meggan
Age?: 27
Height?: 5'6
Pre-pregnancy weight?: normally 145 but i just had a baby last year so I was 170
About The Father
Name?: Isaac
Age?: 29
Height?: 5'10
Are you still together?: but of course
About Your Pregnancy
Is this your first pregnancy?: oh no, I'm a pro this is my 3rd
When did you find out you were pregnant?: last week
Was it planned?: noooope
What was your first reaction?: I cried
Who was with you when you found out?: my man, he was sure happy....sucker had it planned i think
Who was the first person you told?: I forgot
How did your parents react?: I don't have parents, but my dad RIP would be happy my babys due the day died..he died june 1st 08
How far along are you?: rite now 6 weeks
What was your first symptom?: bloating of stomach sore tits and pains in pelvis
What is your due date?: june 1
Do you know the sex of the baby?: nope i hope it's a girl
If so, what is it?:
Have you picked out names?: gabrielle or gabriel
If so, what are they?: uh duh....
How much weight have you gained?: nothing yet, I jog everyday i hope i gain none
Do you have stretch marks?: keepin it real yea...my first one i gained 75 pounds she got me good!
Have you felt the baby move?: i think so but people say its impossible
Have you heard the heartbeat?: nope not yet
About the birth
Will you keep the baby?: of course..unless the gypseys want it..JK gosh what a question
Home or hospital birth?: hospitol
Natural or medicated birth?: give me drugs!
Who will be in the delivery room with you?: my man maybe my daughter if she can hang
Will you breastfeed?: yes
Do you think you'll need a c-section?: no way
Will you cry when you hold the baby for the first time?: most likely
What's the first thing you might say to him/her?: welcome to the family...
Would you let someone videotape the birth?: yes
Are you excited about the birth, or scared?: oh I aint scared, my last baby i popped out in 5 hours it was a breeze

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heidikolter - 42.6 hours ago
WOW I had i worst night ever l think i got like only four hours of sleep, i just could not get comfortable it was so AWFUL girls, and every time I'd move I'd get a cramp and that hurt so so so bad. I feel like such a zombie and my little 16 month old is gettin ready to wake up. Today is gonna such so bad. I wish i could just not do a dam thing all day :( It's really hard being pregnant and takin care of a really hyper toddler.

debberzz - Sunday, 16 November
Hey there...took me 2 1/2 hrs to get home last night! It was awful!!! Thanfully I'm not affected directly cuz my city is safe. We're having bad wind gusts and stupid people probably started these fires. i was able to come to work today the regular way..only took 35mins.
Yeah, he sure took a long time getting married. He was so scared cuz he's seen lots of failures of marriages and the aftermath of splitting up stuff and kids...it's prevelant in law enforcement. It's not an excuse since everyone is different and makes their own choices, but he's seen guys lose everything cuz of splitting up and he didn't want to risk that happening. It would upset me cuz I'd think he didnt trust me, but I realized it was a real fear he had within himself and he was able to face it and realize I'm not here for his stuff, I'm here to share a life with him.
I agree with you on the drinking thing. 2 of my uncles died from liver disease from drinking and I saw how painful it was for them. I personally don't drink and I have personal convictions about it. That said, I know having a drink in and of itself doesn't make a person not a Christian, but I know my body is a temple that I'm supposed to take care of and I should live in a way that would please God. If I had a friend or loved one who's weakness is alcohol, imagine drinking in front of them? It could set them back and hinder their progress if they were trying to stop. My husb likes a beer now & then, but I've never seen him drunk. Thankfully he got that out of his system in his younger years before we got together. I wouldn't have be able to hang if he liked drinking & going out alot since drinking/partying/clubbing isn't my scene either.
Glad you're not feeling so icky anymore. I've just had a bad pain in my left thigh and butt area. The chiropractor helped, but it comes back. I'm goin back tomorrow for a "tune-up." Then I get to see the u/s again on Weds. I can't wait. So the 12 week thing makes me feel good. More safe. I get to quit the progesterone on the 23rd. The official end of 1st trimester. I hate those things, but am glad for it doing its job. Almost as annoying as the million trips to the bathroom!!! I get so tired of going all the time, especially when it's just a little bit then I hafta go again 5 minutes later. Never fails, for each u/s so far I'm supposed to have an empty bladder, so I pee right before I go into the exam room, then when they look they say my full bladder is in the way and they have to maneuver around to find the uterus/baby. I always thought it was supposed to be full, but I guess that's only later on when baby's bigger. Well enjoy your day!! I'll be here til 630 tonight & I hope my regular freeway is open so I'm not traveling so long tonight. Wish me luck!!!!

chanelle - Sunday, 16 November
I know I am going crazy just thinking about all the craziness coming my way!!!!! I keep thinking god knows what he is doing but I think he did this for some laughs on me!! LOL! Oh well Im sure that it will all work out. I was looking into getting my tubes tied when we found out about all this so I think Im still in shock. My hubbys happy so I wonder...... LOL Hope all is well with you!!

DEBBERZZ - Sunday, 16 November
Yeah, the cancer thing scares me too, but my mom is 100% better & has been for over over 11yrs now. Thank God! I guess it's ok to be kinda scared so I keep up on my self-checks & stuff. So yeah, I grew up in church, but it was probably after my mom's cancer when I really made the commitment on my own, and it wasn't cuz of the cancer, it was lots of stuff going on inside of me & I had to look inside & decide for myself how I wanted to live my life. I am so fortunate to have been raised by Christian parents, but ultimately it comes down to not riding their coat tails & making some serious choices of my own. I'm so glad I did the right thing and have been blessed. It's not without bumps in the road and dry spells, but all in all I'm happy with the way my life is and that I have Christ in the center. It's so nice to know that He always welcomes us with open arms and doesn't pick us apart and stand with lightning bolts waiting for our natural human screw ups. I hardly think having a beer will separate you from His love, but if it's something you have been personally feeling God is moving you to do & that you want to give up, then do it and see how God blesses you. It's amazing sometimes how the smallest things end up being huge lessons & opportunities for God to show up something about our relationship with Him.
I think my man will come around too. It's gonna be such a dramatic change, but I know God is giving us this gift and I'm excited to see what life has in store for us. I met him when I used to work at the prison back in '97. We finally were married last year. He was always so afraid to make the final commitment but admits he did the right thing. (at least he'd better say that!!!)...he's honest & says it's easier to be alone instead of dealing w/stuff sometimes, but then he realizes those times pass and we're better off w/each other than alone. He's a good guy with a good heart, but getting married at 38 yrs old was tough for him since he always got to run things the way he wanted and didn't answer to anyone. I didn't move in until we were married. We really butted heads when I moved in even though I was there alot, it's not the same as 24/7 with someone. He's a NEAT freak!! No dishes in the sink, ever! A place for everything. I'm clean but not organized. I'm a germaphone, but as far as collecting stuff, I can't help it. As long as it's sterile and smells like disinfectant I'm ok...I could care less if the junk drawer is crammed with paperwork. He goes crazy!!!! I'm glad he's the type to help w/dishes when dinner's done and will do the laundry if I don't get around to it. For those reasons he's great to have for being so independent for so long. He didn't "need" me for those things but he still chooses me in his life for companionship. He can't be all that bad, right? He's a loyal friend to those he lets into his close circle and I know I trust him completely with my heart. I'm just nervous about how our life is going to change with the baby coming, but I'm sure it will be a good thing for us and we will have many more things to learn from each other.
So, have you heard about these huge wildfires here in SoCal? I'm working and stuck here. LITERALLY!! All the freeways leading to my house are shut down. I'm gonna have to figure out a way to get home on side streets!!! It's gonna take hrs to get home. I'd better make sure I don't drink anything before I leave so I don't hafta pee on the way home. I don't even know if I'm gonna be able to get home & I have my hormones I've gotta take every night. I feel bad for all the people who's houses are burning down. It is bad. Lots of our personnel live in Yorba Linda, which is where most of the fire is and they are getting evacuated. I keep getting 911 calls from people thinking it's made it to our city but it's just residual smoke and wind that's pushing it over here. What a crazy day!! It's been non-stop since 7am and the fires started around 9am. The day started with lots of arrests and tons of hectic stuff going on in here, but it helps time pass by fast. I'm seriously starting to stress about how i'm gonna get home!!!! I've gotta figure out my plan...it'll be HOURS to drive home tonight!!

Debberzz - Friday, 14 November
Ok...so you're definitely not alone w/the TIRED thing!!! Today has been the worst ever!!! I slept ok last night, got up & made lunch b4 my husb had to leave for work, then I couldnt wait for him to leave so I could stop for a nap. It was People's Court when I closed my eyes & by the time I woke up Oprah was almost over!! around 2 1/2 hrs I was down & had to force myself to get up cuz I had to go to Target & also to pick up my prescription for the Progesterone I'm on. I waited til the last possible day & regret that I had to go to the hospital pharmacy for it. So out of the way for me. Now I'm getting my stuff ready for work tomorrow so I'm not rushing before I leave. It's gonna be a rough week I can feel it already!! Wish me luck cuz I'm feeling the "sleepies" like you and already dread waking up for work in the morning. Waiting for laundry to get done so I can go to bed. Hope you're ok and getting some much needed rest. Take care.

chanelle - Thursday, 13 November
Hi I am having my 3rd baby ( the surprise baby lol) Thought we were done bur guess not ! I have a 13 month old as well along with a 3 year old. Are you worried that your 1 year old and new baby are going to be hard to manage since they are so close in age? Im starting to worry that Im not going to be able to handle it all!!! Some of it could be that Im just freaked out at the idea of another baby lol!! Hope all is well with you!!

Debberzz - Thursday, 13 November
Ur funny. Don't beat yourself up. I know you've done the mommy thing b4, but i'm learning so much from this website and books and we have a lot going on inside us that really wears us out. I slept in and took a nap and had to get a pedicure cuz I couldn't go another week without one and the 1st thing the girl says, "Oh Honey, you're looking so tired!! You working today? You look so so tired!!!" I guess all the sleep in the world doesn't help sometimes cuz I still looked like crap. Then I went to church for Bible Study and kept yawing over and over. Poor pastor probably thinks he's boring me. So, there's hope for my man & the baby thing? I sure hope so. Today he rubbed my tummy and said it's getting firm..of course not firm like nice abs or something, but filling out from below. I was a little taken back that he would do that cuz like I said, he's really hesitant about the pregnancy thing. I know he'll come around eventually probably when he sees the baby for himself and tries to hold him/her. Oh, and he swears for some reason that it's a girl. He told me he can even describe what she's gonna look like. I'm thinking he's crazy or something but he says he just has a gut feeling and says she's gonna be light complected like me and have curly light brown hair. I sure don't have a wave to my hair so who knows??? It kinda blows me away when he comes out of left field and says stuff about the baby cuz I'm always afraid to talk about stuff and jinx it or get him nervous about the inevitable. Dont get me wrong...I'm 100% happy about the baby and I know he'll be very much in love w/the baby when he/she is here, but he always said he didnt think he'd ever be a dad and if it hadn't happened when he was younger than he didn't want to have any kids. Well, like I said before, God had other plans and the 1st time I was on b/c pills and miscarried, then I told him I wasnt gonna take them anymore cuz I thought it caused the m/c or did something screwy to my hormones, plus my mom had breast cancer and I dont wanna increase my chances. Well, I guess all for the best cuz here we are, parents to be and all for the better I think. I know this child is a gift straight from God and I can't wait to meet him...or curly haired "her."

MARYANNE114 - Thursday, 13 November
A. YOU CANT BE A SIZE 12!!!! U look tiny!!!! lol.

B. My jeans dont fit me either... my maternity jeans do, but mind you they were recently stretched out since i just finished being pregnant a year ago. lol.

Debberzz - Wednesday, 12 November
Thanks. I can totally relate to feeling like blah...and not wanting to participate in the outside world very much cuz I'm so beat. I worked 4 shifts this week so I've been trying to catch up on my sleep on my days off. I hate it though cuz I'm at the stage where i hafta pee so bad I can't sleep and then I'm all screwed up all day. I did take a nice little power nap but coulda used some hibernation time. When I work I only sleep around 4 hrs at most. I'm up @ 3:30 in the am and get home around 7:30 at night. When i get to work I'm already tired and drag all day long. I look forward to stuff happening like a good felony traffic stop or crime in progress. It's like magic. Suddenly you're not tired and ready to take on the world. Now it's when I drive home that I'm dozing off. Dangerous but what do you do? I try to call my mom or sister to keep me awake til i get home but it's tough. Other than tired like you say, I'm doing ok. I'm working on not being nervous cuz my boobs don't hurt like they used to. They quit last Weds. and haven't started up again, but I did see the u/s on Weds and saw a swimming baby. I go back next Weds for another quick u/s so I will really feel better then. We're pretty much in the "safe" zone now, aren't we? almost 12wks along?? I try to reassure myself it's fine but since it's so early and we don't "feel" anything it's hard to believe it's real to me unless I'm looking at the u/s screen.
Your husb sounds sweet with his "orders." Poor guys, they don't know what to say or do sometimes when we're not up to doing the stuff we normally would. I know it drives mine crazy when I'm moody or not up to being more energetic, but he tries in his own way. I know this whole pregnancy thing scares him and he's in for a life changing experience. It doesnt help that the guys @ work are telling him what he's in for like it's a bad thing. Men!!!! I know the same guys though and I also know they couldn't live without those kids for a second. Well, God made us all different creatures and I wouldn't trade him for anything, but I have to have patience with his reasoning sometimes when he says stupid stuff and doesn't seem to get where I'm coming from. We can't expect the guys to understand like our best girlfriends do. That's why it's good to have a nice balance of support around us during this time and talk about the stuff we go thru so we don't feel so alone in our struggles and joys too. He might not get how EXCITED I felt to hear the heartbeat. He'll say it's cool or whatever but doesn't get just how wonderful and life affirming it is for me. I can't fault him for it because he's not wired like me and as long as he doesn't piss on my parade we're ok. Does it make sense? I dunno...sometimes I think differently and wonder if I'm the only one.
Well, enjoy your time out of the house and find some cute stuff for winter weather. I just bought some cute tennis shoes and now I need more "yoga" type pants for when I just want to be comfy. I found a cheap pair at Motherhood. Only like $20 or so and nice waist you can fold in half for early stage and post-partum....take care and talk to you soon.

kady-x-x-x - Sunday, 9 November
hello everyone me again.... just thought id message everyone. uno on profile pages above all the messages theres that advert box, that i usually find annoying. but one of the adds on there is called pregnansee or something like that, its black with a woman and a 3d baby in her belly, u probs no the one i mean, well i actually looked at it today and went to the site, its actually really cool. u give your duedate and it shows u what week your on and info about your baby, like normal, but also a video of what your baby looks like at that stage on a 3d scan, well obviosuly not your baby, but a baby. i thought it was pretty cool :) im hoping i wont get a million pop ups now i done that or junk mail sent to me but ooh wel too late now, lol.

alsooo, i think this site is punishing me for sending that messagew about blogs, cos now i dont get any notification that i have a new blog msg lol, not even on my new ones, nothing!!! i should of kept my mouth shut haha, anyway im gonna try to stop messaging and blogging every 5 mins. have a good day everyone xxxx

kady-x-x-x - Sunday, 9 November
Pics of my cot with the bedding are up now, on the last page, there are only 3..

had a stress with the bumper, it doesnt go on right!!! the end of the cot doesnt have bars its all block wood so theres no where to tie it, so i looked at the pic and its on the same cot as i got but theres looks perfect, mine just wont go on !!!! :( xx