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QweetNC21
QweetNC21 has 36 days to go and is now in week 34
	Age: 21 Country: Province/region: City: Partner: Sedrick Children: Pregnant: Yes Due date: 25 Dec ,2008 Occupation: Banking
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Hi, my name is Quanese, but friends call me Qweet. I am 21 and pregnant with my first child. This wasn't planned nor prevented but Im excited just the same. My boyfriend of 6 months on June 20th is 25. This is also his first child. While he is hoping for a boy, I am praying for a girl (we do not need a John the 5th). I graduated back in 2005 and did some online classes but stopped. I have been contemplating lately about going back, but I barely have enough time in the day as it is. But we'll see. I work for a bank 8-5 and then lay around from 5-10pm until I go to bed. Hopefully, things will get better and things will speed right alone because I really want too know what Im having so that the fun can begin (SHOPPING).

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KelliMG (Spunky) - Wednesday, 17 September
I'm not sure...you may want to call the office and tell them what your symptoms are, and that you are aware that it could be symptoms of Anemia (that way they figure you may just know what your talking about)

, then ask them about maybe getting your iron levels checked before your glucose test (which usually invovles a CBC which would give them that info). Can't hurt, and yes, it very well could be that. I have noticed that my heart palpitations are getting better with the extra iron.....although if I overdue the sugar...it goes a bit crazy again. Good luck!!!!

KelliMG (Spunky) - Tuesday, 16 September
So sorry to hear about your uncle.

As far as the breathing. Shortness of breath is fairly normal, but I was having horrible bouts of it recently, then started having terrible heart palpitations....I have been prone to panic attacks in the past (and not recently), so I thought maybe that was the issue. Come to find out, I was borderline anemic!!! The 2 symptoms I was having were main symptoms of anemia (trouble breathing and palpitations or fast heartbeat).....is there ANY way you could be anemic??? have you had your blood tests yet for glucose etc??? This is usually when they also check for anemia.

Just a suggestion.

jodiie - Monday, 15 September
thats a really good idea id love to have ago at something like that i just hope im creative enough for that lol id hate to start something and mess it up lol

caramelone - Wednesday, 3 September
nash general... okay i will take note. thank u for replying

CyndiG - Tuesday, 2 September
Hey Lady, just wanted to give you some advise...I too was in a similar position as you are naming the baby...with that said, I would suggest you give your baby YOUR lastname. You can change it down the road. Trust me! My 1st daughter, I made a huge mistake and gave her her father's last name...then I regretted it. My second daughter I gave her MY lastname and she still has my maiden name, which I love and am very proud of. I am now married to the love of my life and our son due in Dec will have our last name. He would love to adopt my daughter and give her our last name but her father loves her and is very active in her life so we are just leaving it as it is, BUT understand that if he weren't around and my husband could adopt her, he would and she would have our last name. For now, things work, not a big deal but also know that when your kids have their fathers names and you are not married, there are legal issues you could face down the road if the father feels like getting froggy. Better to give them your maiden name until you are married and an adoption can take place but also know that the childs biological father must terminate their parental rights before anyother man can adopt them. Let me know if you have any other questions.
I know that in the moment of feeling in love, you want to do the right thing and make your loved one happy and feel special but you need to be smart and just give your kids your own last name.

Angie- - Tuesday, 2 September
Regardless of what last name you decide on....you can always change it. It may cost a around $30 or so when you do it but for now if you cant decide...stick to both yours and babys dad. Once you get married you can always change (if you want to).

stacy313 - Tuesday, 2 September
I am not sure how things are where we live if u are married at the time you give birth then ur husbands name automatically goes on the baby's birth certificate. Unless ur husband disagrees and all. Then later on down the road if the biological father wants to step up it is up to a judge to decide if he can have a parternity test. In ky I guess they figure that if ur happily married it cuts out of alot of expense and red tape of adoption. lets face it ur husband is there everyday and is a major part of the baby's life. Also here if ur trying to get a divorce and ur pregnant the courts wont allow it till after the baby is born. But I think if he is going to adopt ur lil one cut out the red tape..... give him ur last name. My ex husband remarried recently and now my 3 daughters have the same last name as thier step mom and it drives me crazy cause I dont care to much for her. My husband would like to adopt my girls but my ex doesnt want him to only because he wont get the tax credit every other year!!!! Sad! But my girls call my husband daddy and thier real dad by his name and they never get to see him because he feels as long as his child support is in the mail his job is done. My husband makes up for it though.......

davitta - Tuesday, 2 September
well, honestly, since you're not married to EITHER guy, and you do need to make sure that you put you and baby first, you do what you want about the names, it should be completely up to you. You're right about your bf having to just get over it. He might want a baby, but he has to realize and respect that at this point he does have certain boundries when it comes to this baby since he isn't the bio-father, especially if the baby's father is going to be involved. Follow your intuition and do what YOU think is best. I know it's a touchy situation, so I hope you figure things out

davitta - Tuesday, 2 September
about your little boy's last name, if you really think the father would be involved, you could just give him the father's last name as a last name now, and when/if your boyfriend adopts him, then his bio-father's name could become his middle name. He might end up with 4 names but its a way to keep both father's last names. I would NOT recommend hyphenating because i did that when I was married and its a pain in the arse

arist0tle21up - Tuesday, 2 September
I thought I would try and help... the only way your bf now (pierce) is goin to even be able to adopt is if the father agrees to give up his rights. Avoid all the name change deal, and ask the father if he would give up his rights now and have the boyfriend have his last name right? I dont know all the legal stuff, I do know that the father has to agree to the name change and all that stuff. Cause when your boyfriend adopts that means HIS name goes on the birth cert.

kaylabranscum - Thursday, 28 August
hey guys updated my page.. finally figured out how to do it! haha only took 5 months =] so check it out lemme know what you think! oh and i also got some U/S pics up of my little man! leave me love ladies!!

xoxo
Kay<3

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