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Laura Ward - Wednesday, 5 November
Message to all: Message to all: Because of the controversial opinions and thoughts, please do not continue to discuss politics on the site. This includes private or public messages, comments, quotes, etc on ALL pages of the site, whether it be a weekly or monthly forum, your personal page or a friends page. If you choose to continue posting once this message has been posted, your account will be deleted from the site. Please report any member that continues to post these messages. Thank you all for your cooperation and help keeping this site friendly for everyone!

Laura Ward - Monday, 6 October
Message to all This may be interesting to some of you. Seema`s email is seema.modhvadia@rdftelevision.com

Hi there,

I work for a television production company based in the UK . We are currently making a documentary for ITV1 exploring the issues surrounding pregnancy and eating disorders. The film will be a thoughtful and insightful look into this extremely sensitive subject.

We’re in the research stage of our production and very keen to chat to women who are, or have been, pregnant whilst having an eating disorder.

If you’re interested in having a chat or finding out more about our documentary, it would be really great to hear from you. All communication would be in complete confidence.

You can contact me on: seema.modhvadia@rdftelevision.com

Sx

redmama - Wednesday, 18 June
How are you doing? Just wanted to check on you?

lp - Wednesday, 18 June
rainaj
babe i totally feel you. you will be fine. after you get over the stress of everything else you can think about you and the fact that you made a little you! do you have family near you that can help be supportive? or a small group of girls? or better yet men?! to be a good support group for you? no matter what you do or decide you just have to be okay with it and move on ya know? you know your not a bad person no matter what you do. its your life. as for you boyfriend. he can do what he wants. im sure hes totally scared. i feel like the second a man sees his child it all changes. it becomes real and he finds a completely different level of love in himself and you. its nice that he wants to work on your relationship. but i think hes probably just overwhelmed. i think any man is overwhelmed the second he knows hes going to be a father. whatever you decided never look back on it.

firsttime - Tuesday, 17 June
Whatever decision you make, just make sure YOU are able to live with it. I always say listen the the "little gut feelings" a woman has - womens intuition or conscience or whatever you want to call it. Its there for a reason!

mamabear36 - Tuesday, 17 June
Well that is just it. I mean being pregnant can deff. make us over react to certain things for sure. And being a women and a mother the thought of having an abortion is something I am gonna over react to for sure!(exspecially since we had this discussion when I was about 7 weeks pregnant and crazy anyway) But like you I brought it up bc I wanted my husband to react positive to it" say I want this baby, we can do this!" but he didnt it was the opposite reaction I was hoping for! But no matter what with a man envoled or not you have to decide for you(just like you did) Then if he is willing to be with you and the baby then thats great! Itsa win win situation. In my experience,since all of our babies werent planned pregnancies men seem to take a minute to adjust in weeks to come you will start showing and he can see that there is a precious life growing inside of you Im sure things will change ALOT! Just hang in there chick! kit

mommyoftwo* - Tuesday, 17 June
we where thinking about it with the one that i am pregnant with now becasue i got pregnant when my daughter was 6 months old. i had a very hard pregnancy with her and she was born prematurly by emergancy c-section. you know what changed my mind and i am soo happy it did? .. i went threw the TTC section and read some of those womens profiles and saw how hard they where trying to get pregnanct and all the heart ach they where going threw and that just made me think of how bad of a person i would be to throw away this life that these women where trying so hard to get and it was given to me. i am not saying you are a bad person at all because i dont no you i just thought you might like to know what me and my husband where going threw and what we where think ing at the time. we love our son soo much and cant wait for him to be here is 6 weeks. wishing you alll the luck in the world!!

mamabear36 - Tuesday, 17 June
I also just read your post.... I am23 working on baby number three. Me and my husband have been together since I was 13 but actually when we found out that we were pregnant with this last one he was in total shock. We didnt have sex,hardly talked nothing. Then I finally talked to him about things and he told me that people he knew were suggesting abortion. That totally PISSED me off beyond belief! I packed up our kids and left for about a we. I just couldnt believe that he would even have that in his mind! I understand why bc of finacial crap but this is a child-our child. It took me sometime to get over that. He is happy with evrything now(but men can be jerks) I guess bc they dont notice any changes at first they can talk about doing that easier. But its our bodies and emotions that have to go through with it all. I personally couldnt ever do it. A close friend of mine had a abortion with her third baby and even though she feels like she made that right decision at the time she thinks about it alot, and even wants more kids. Idk I hope this helps you some....... message back if you feel like it! Your baby is a wonderful gift to you & you should cherish it!! Good luck with everything!

amandag7 - Saturday, 14 June
I'm from week 35 and I just read your posting. I hope everything works out for the best for you three. I am 19 and I was in my first semester of college when we discovered we were pregnant. Neither of us had a job and we're still so young (my husband is going on 21) but honestly, this is the most WONDERFUL thing I have ever gone through. I love this baby boy inside of me more than anyone in the world already. It's an amazing experience the first time you feel a flutter, the first time you hear their heartbeat, the first time you SEE a kick and I can only imagine the first time you see that little baby in your arms. I am not religious at all so I'm not preaching here at all, but I can honestly tell you that things happen for a reason and babies are no accident, they're a gift. :) I wish you all the luck in your decision.

BostonMom - Thursday, 12 June

I read your comment in week 4.. All I can say to you is this. Think really hard about the decision you're going to make. Do you think in a year from now, or even a couple years that you will regret it?? If you said YES then have this baby. It's NEVER going to be a right time to have a baby. There WILL always be something!! It's amazing how you JUST make it work... Somehow, some way it all works out even if you think it's not going too.

Best of LUCK to you!

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