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Laura Ward - Monday, 6 October
Message to all This may be interesting to some of you. Seema`s email is seema.modhvadia@rdftelevision.com

Hi there,

I work for a television production company based in the UK . We are currently making a documentary for ITV1 exploring the issues surrounding pregnancy and eating disorders. The film will be a thoughtful and insightful look into this extremely sensitive subject.

We’re in the research stage of our production and very keen to chat to women who are, or have been, pregnant whilst having an eating disorder.

If you’re interested in having a chat or finding out more about our documentary, it would be really great to hear from you. All communication would be in complete confidence.

You can contact me on: seema.modhvadia@rdftelevision.com

Sx

Carmione - Sunday, 20 July
My last two days have been nothing but sleep sleep sleep. I had a big burst of energy the Thursday, but that was it. Now all I want to do it just rest. I don't think I'm getting ill or anything like that. Maybe just resting up for a big day coming really soon.

Holly28 - Thursday, 3 July
Oh sweetie. I know what you are going through. My husband did the same thing, only it was his boss that he left me for. It took over two months for him to finally move out and that time of being in limbo was excruciating. When he left I completely shut down, my world came to an end. I worked on auto pilot and spent the rest of my time in bed. I didn't have the extra stress of carrying his child. So, here is my advice. KICK HIM OUT! Yes, you will be lonely and yes things will be rough financially without him there but ITS WORTH IT. I am having to declare bankruptcy and am so far behind in my bills that it isn't even funny. But, I am more than happy to deal with this stress given the rewards that having him out of my life has given me. As for the baby, that is a tough one. I mean its his child too. However, if you think having him in the room is only going to add to your stress when you are already going through what is probably physically the roughest thing you will ever go through then tell him he needs to wait outside. TELL THE NURSES AND THE DRS AS WELL. so that they can help you make sure this happens. You need to do whatever is best for you and this baby...not whatever is best for his selfish, idiot ass. Lemme know if you ever want to talk. Believe me hun, I know how much pain you are in. In all honesty though, for me, in the end him leaving was the BEST THING that ever happend to me. It will take time, and a lot of healing but you too will get there. You have my thoughts, my prayers and my love.

AlishaMommyof2 - Thursday, 3 July
I am so sorry for what you are going through. I would tell him he ABSOLUTELY can NOT come in the delivery room with you while you have the baby. I would also let him no you won't play games and ask him for a divorce. I know so many people that have played games for YEARS because of emotions and a baby will make it so the emotions won't go away near as fast. I hurt for you!!! Be strong and turn to everyone you can for support because you need it.

BamaBaby - Thursday, 3 July
I am so sorry you are going through this!! Thius should be the happiest time in your life and your husband is being a idiot!!! No it is not selfish to not let him in your delivery room....do you think he thought of you when he laid down with this other woman NO!!!!! Give him a piece of what he has given you and about his family....do they know he is having an affair? I suggest you hire yourself a lawyer. I say be nice to his family but let them know what is going on. Be Strong for yourself and your baby. I will be praying for you!

suziewin - Thursday, 3 July
I really feel for you. I split up with my sons father 2 weeks before he was born and it was really hard emotionally. I decided I didnt want the father in the delivery room with me as I wanted support and felt because of everything we have been through he wasnt the person that could give me what I needed. Dont worry about being nice to everyone - you have to be selfish and think of what is best for you and your baby. I was a single mom for 15 years and have had a very successful career and several properties during that time. You are going through an emotional rollercoster at the mo but you will come out of this experience stronger. Surround yourself with supportive people and let them pick up the slack. Feel free to message me if you need any support. x x x

bethobaby - Saturday, 21 June
Hi Ruby! Believe or not, I haven't checked this sight in a month! I'm glad to see your reply. Sorry things are so messed up. Try to stay positive for your baby though. That is so important. One of the sad things is that your husband will probably want to be a part of your child's life and you're so mad at him, you might not want that! That's how I felt. I didn't talk to Rob for 6 weeks and then he came to my work and fell on his knees and begged me to forgive him. He said that he was under stress and didn't handle himself well and he could only hope that we could move on. I gave it a few more weeks to see his behavior and now we are trying regroup and pull it together. But, that doesn't mean that I am not prepared to do this myself because I am. You should be too. No one ever knows when a relationship can break up, not even the "healthiest" relationships. Is your husband planning to continue on w/his new girl? What is he thinking? Actually, it doesn't matter. You need to be strong for your baby. Once you realize your own strength, you will feel so much better. I had a couple of months to realize mine and now, I could actually take him or leave him. I ultimately want my son to enjoy his dad and we did plan this together, so I will continue to try. But if it's not going to work for me, I will seperate from him again. I hope you hang in there. When is your baby due? Mine is due 8/8/08!

kerry1983 - Monday, 28 April
hi just wanted to say how sorry i am for you that your husbabnd as decided he doesnt love you anymore huni if you need any support or just a chat message me i will get back to you xxx

Laura Ward - Sunday, 27 April
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