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Shan-Enterprises
Age: 28
Country: AU
Province/region: New south wales
City: Sydney, australia
Partner: Daniel - Husband
Children: Yes, 3
Pregnant: No
Due date: 09 0 ,0000
Occupation: Full time Mummy and Wife, part-time mind-reader and head case.
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Last updated: 8 days ago.
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I sit here and hear the latest news of another small child losing their life to water and it brings back memories of the day we lost our first son, Dion. You'll be suprised how many of these children lived in homes where there was a pool fence and the child simply climbed over and went straight into the water. It not only happens quickly but it happens silently! Since Dion's accident in January 2007 there have been way too many more children's lives lost. Considering it is the number one cause of deaths in children under the age of 5 years old why are parents not taking action and fighting to preserve their children's future. It should also be part of our children's education. Jayden will learn to swim before he learns to walk and has been doing swimming lessons since he was 3 months old. He loves the water and already knows his cue for holding his breath before he goes under the water and he's only 5 months old. The toddlers who attend the centre who started at Jayden's age are swimming unaided from their mums to the side of the pool and the eldest is only 2 years old. The cost invloved doesn't compare to the heart ache of watching helplessly as your child slowly slips away in your arms. Clearly Jayden wont be able to swim by himself in the water for some time yet, but I guarentee by the time he's old enough to climb pool fences that swimming will be second nature to him. Please, I beg anyone who reads this, SWIMMING IS AN ASSET TO YOUR CHILD'S LIFE, DO SOMETHING NOW BEFORE IT'S TOO LATE AND YOU END UP LIVING THE PAIN MY FAMILY AND I FEEL EVERY DAY.

I've been blessed in my life with three beautiful children (Angie, Dion and Jayden). Sometimes in life things happen that we cant explain and there's no reason and answers to why. Angie is my first born, 15.12.2000. She was our first little suprise and early Christmas present in 2000. She's now 7 years old and the sweetest little girl you'll meet. Dion is our 2nd born, 20.12.2002, who would have been 5 years old now but was taken from us in January 2007 after a tragic drowning accident. His death shattered our world but brought us our 3rd little angel. Jayden is our latest and final addition to our family born 01.02.2008. He is such a beautiful soul and has brought us a little slice of peace to our family. As a mother I have been through the highest of highs and been emotionally dragged through the depths of dispair. I've had my heart melt over 3 sweet babies and shattered over the loss of a son. I'm only 28 years old but have decided that I have done my part in this world with having children and after Jayden was born had my tubes clipped. My heart still has a few cracks through it but is learning to adjust to this new life.

MY 3 LITTLE ANGELS






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wiccanmommy - 33.9 hours ago
Lol Thanks...I didn't mean to sound like a bitch earlier I was in a really foul mood LOL...I just don't have a lot going on that brings out the positive side in me right now. Hopefully I will have some of the shite sorted out before Molly is born. I understand the emotional side perfectly I have experienced a lot with this pregnancy.


wiccanmommy - 37.2 hours ago
Yeah she'll be here soon. Right now I could care less about her being here but thats because I have other stuff on my mind. lol....Anyway hope ur doing fine.


lorijuan1024 - 40.8 hours ago
Thanks...Well lol at the moment I feel I dont want no more Its like I just want to spoil my daughterbut who knows I have the mirena birth control I can keep it in for 5 yrs maybe after I take it off i'll want more..how about you?


Nicole2216 - Wednesday, 23 July
I want her off this site. She drives me crazy. How can we boot her off?


lorijuan1024 - Wednesday, 23 July
your kids are all so cute!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


candace3 - Wednesday, 23 July
Hey...thanks for your compliment on the baby. she is so good. Very content. I know...puberty...I will have to by stock in tampons and pads....lol. It is not much differetn so far with 4 kids...I am sure in a few months it will be a little different....how are you doing?


sweetgamom - Wednesday, 23 July
So how are you and your family doing? does your lil girl start school soon?


libbysmama - Tuesday, 22 July
Let me know if you find her again. I will report her if she continues to lie and manipulate moms on here. I'm doing well, just about 5 weeks left! Getting excited How are you feeling? Thanks for getting back with me, I'll talk to you soon!


ashleym - Sunday, 20 July
What a great idea about the pool alarm. That could save so many lives. You know when I read what you wrote about why he went in the pool it brought back a memory. When I was about 5 we had a pool and I knew that I had to have my floaties on but took off and ran and jumped in anyway. I remember standing on the bottom of the pool looking up at my brother who had not yet seen that I was there. I waited for a while but I was not scared at all, not one bit. Maybe if I had been he would have heard me and grabbed me sooner. I remember that well. I may have been younger actually because we were not in that house before kindergarten. I just wanted you to know that I was not scared, not one single bit. I hope some peace has found you. You are a strong woman and I know you will continue to be, bless you and your family!


GinaMummy - Saturday, 19 July
It is a big task, I just cant wait to get on and do it now though!
I hope that you manage to get sum sleep soon hun, I love sleeping so much but since Ive had Alexandra Ive learnt what it is like to go without! Just got her into a good routine then I go and get pregnant ready to do it all over again!!!!

Speak soon hun!


ashleym - Saturday, 19 July
Your kids are beautiful. I am so sorry about your son. I recently saw a news cast of a story of dry drowning. When I saw you and that you are an advocate of children I thought I would share this with you as I think more people need to be educated on this subject as well. A little boy had been swimming in a pool and as little kids do often he got some water in his throat and coughed a little bit and that was it. He played some more, walked all the way home with his mom, then when they got home he said he was sleepy. The mom just thought he was tired form the long day of play so he took a nap and that was it. I am a nurse and was not even aware of this possibility. There are signs that parents should be made aware of after a kid has been in the water I had never known. I have not researched it yet, but plan on it and trying to spread the word. I am sure you have touched so many people with your story and knowledge. I will join you in spreading the word! You are an inspiration.


Jadens*MaMa - Saturday, 19 July
Anyway, We are doing great... Jaden is kinda crawling.. It is hard to explain, I have been so busy but maybe tommorrow I can put up a video of him... I will let you know when I do! He is definetly gettin around..LOL!! how is your boy doing?


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Photos
25 Weeks pregnant (2008, 02, 08) 31 weeks 3 days (2008, 02, 08) 33 Weeks & 5 Days (2008, 02, 08) 36 Weeks & 1 Day (2008, 02, 08) Before and after (2008, 02, 12) First photo with eyes open (2008, 02, 12) 38 Weeks & 5 Days (2008, 02, 08) Me and my munchkins (2008, 03, 29) Just wait a mintue I`m thinking...... (2008, 02, 12) Jayden & Charley (2008, 04, 14) My Big Boy 15/06/08 (2008, 06, 18) In memory of a tiny super hero - Dion 20/12/2002 - 15/01/2007 (2008, 06, 18) ME (2008, 03, 20) This looks like a tasty thing to much on...mmmmmmm (2008, 06, 29) My Angie Bear (2008, 06, 29) OMG what a mess...lol (2008, 06, 29) 5 1/2 months old (2008, 07, 10) Click here to see all Shan-Enterprises`s photos

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Dion (2002) Jayden (2008) Angie (2000)


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