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Shans-Water-Babies
Age: 28
Country: AU
Province/region: New south wales
City: Sydney, australia
Partner: Daniel - Husband
Children: Yes, 3
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Due date: 09 0 ,0000
Occupation: Full time Mummy and Wife, part-time mind-reader and head case.
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I sit here and hear the latest news of another small child losing their life to water and it brings back memories of the day we lost our first son, Dion. You'll be suprised how many of these children lived in homes where there was a pool fence and the child simply climbed over and went straight into the water. It not only happens quickly but it happens silently! Since Dion's accident in January 2007 there have been way too many more children's lives lost. Considering it is the number one cause of deaths in children under the age of 5 years old why are parents not taking action and fighting to preserve their children's future. It should also be part of our children's education. Jayden will learn to swim before he learns to walk and has been doing swimming lessons since he was 3 months old. He loves the water and learnt his cue for holding his breath before he goes under the water in the first class. The toddlers who attend the centre who started at Jayden's age are swimming unaided from their mums to the side of the pool and the eldest is only 2 years old. The cost invloved doesn't compare to the heart ache of watching helplessly as your child slowly slips away in your arms. Clearly Jayden wont be able to swim by himself in the water for some time yet, but I guarentee by the time he's old enough to climb pool fences that swimming will be second nature to him. Please, I beg anyone who reads this, SWIMMING IS AN ASSET TO YOUR CHILD'S LIFE, DO SOMETHING NOW BEFORE IT'S TOO LATE AND YOU END UP LIVING THE PAIN MY FAMILY AND I FEEL EVERY DAY.

I've been blessed in my life with three beautiful children (Angie, Dion and Jayden). Sometimes in life things happen that we cant explain and there's no reason and answers to why. Angie is my first born, 15.12.2000. She was our first little suprise and early Christmas present in 2000. She's now 7 years old and the sweetest little girl you'll meet. Dion is our 2nd born, 20.12.2002, who would have been 5 years old now but was taken from us in January 2007 after a tragic drowning accident. His death shattered our world but brought us our 3rd little angel. Jayden is our latest and final addition to our family born 01.02.2008. He is such a beautiful soul and has brought us a little slice of peace to our family. As a mother I have been through the highest of highs and been emotionally dragged through the depths of dispair. I've had my heart melt over 3 sweet babies and shattered over the loss of a son. I'm only 28 years old but have decided that I have done my part in this world with having children and after Jayden was born had my tubes clipped. My heart still has a few cracks through it but is learning to adjust to this new life.

MUMMY'S LITTLE ANGELS

  • ANGIE - DOB: 15/12/00

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  • DION: 20/12/02 - 15/01/07

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  • JAYDEN - 01/02/08

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  • TEACHING YOUR CHILD TO SURVIVE THE WATER

    **I can’t stress enough that a good teacher is a confident one. If your not 100% confident in teaching your child to swim THEN DONT!!!!

    • Get them use to the water from the start. My Jayden is a water baby and has been since he was 3 months old.
    • Gain their trust in the water so they're relaxed. You can take some bath toys with you so it's a fun experience for them.
    • Make every water experience a good one. If your child is afraid of the water then start by only going into the water for 10 minutes at a time at first then gradually extend their time in the water. **Don’t think for a minute that a child who is afraid of the water won’t end up there at some stage.
    • Once you have their trust in the water the next thing to teach them is how to jump in the water and swim back to the edge. Vary how they get into the water but start off with them jumping in feet first then grab them under the water, turn them around and help them get back to the edge and climb out. Give plenty of praise. Keep this up until your child is jumping in willingly. **They will still need your help getting back to the edge and climbing out until they can swim alone.
    • Next step is to teach them how to float. Hold them with one hand over their chest and the other under their lower back and rest their precious head on your shoulder with your cheek pressed against theirs and slowly walk around the pool with them. Talk to them or sing to them and even give them a toy to hold. Do what ever it takes to help or keep them relaxed.
    • Once your child gets confident doing this and can respond to a command (so they're about 18 months old +) extend your hand from their chest to under their neck so your holding them faced away out in front of you but keep your face close to theirs so they don’t feel like they're going to fall.
    • Once your child is happy to do this then progress to just having one hand under their neck. It's important that they push their chest up and face the roof as this will make it easier for them to float. When your child gets better down the track and with heaps of practice they may be happy enough to float alone to the count of 10, but dont push them as all children are different with how long they take.
    • Once your child is confidently floating by themselves (as in without your assistance but with you close by in the water) try and get them to come out of the floating position by tucking their knees in and help them get to the edge of the pool. This will give them the skills to rest before getting back to the edge if they're tired.
    • Then when they can jump in the water and get themselves back to the edge you know you've done the basics for them if your back should be turned long enough that they gain access to the water.

    **Please note that I am not a swimming teacher and these tips come from personal experience with my own children's professional swimming lessons**

    There are many other ways a child can drown, the toilet, a bucket, a shallow puddle, the bath anywhere that water can gather. Where there's water your child is at risk.

    More water safety tips

  • Always maintain constant visual contact while you child is in the water.
    • Older children should not be left to supervise younger siblings.
  • On rural properties where it is unrealistic to fence off large lakes, rivers and dams, create a fenced in, child safe area close to your home.
  • Familiarise your child with water – take your child to infant aquatics classes so they can develop water confidence.
  • Fence your pool – a pool fence is essential as a barrier between the water and your child.
    • In Australia – Swimming pools must at all times be surrounded by a child-resistant barrier conforming with Australian Standard 1926
    • In New Zealand – All home pools including spa pools must comply with the Fencing of Swimming Pools Act 1987
  • Inflatable toys are not life saving devices and do not keep your child safe.
  • Ensure there are no power lines or other electrical equipment near or around the pool or swimming area.
  • Water quality – check the water is safe and clean.
  • Nappies should not be worn in the water as they are unhygienic and can weigh the child down.
  • Check that the depth of the water is marked and be careful when jumping or diving into water.
  • Beaches and swimming holes can have hidden dangers such as rips and deep holes. Always go into the water with young children.
  • Young children in boats of any sort must always have a life jacket on.
  • Learn resuscitation – every member of your family should learn this lifesaving skill.
  • Remember to empty bathtubs, nappy buckets and put the lid down on the toilet seat.
  • At parties and gatherings nominate a person to be the designated child watcher, so there is no confusion. If that person leaves, they must nominate someone else.






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    delilahspregnantagain - 12.4 hours ago
    Hi I came across your profile. Your story has really touched me. I am definitely putting my son in swimming lessons right away.


    mom-to-many - Monday, 17 November
    hi ladies sorry i havent reply i have a very busy weekend i will get back to all of you as soon as i can


    xO-BRiANNA - Thursday, 13 November
    Hello Ladies! I got some news for you all!

    Last night I was in the emergency room again for my kidneys, UHG!
    They did an ultrasound since that's all they can do with me being pregnant.. The little bit of blood I told all of you about was from a kidney stone, the baby is PERFECT.

    Now time for the SHOCKING news..
    My mom came into the ultrasound with me and asked the ultrasound tech if she could see her grandsons penis, ahaha!
    Well the lady kept looking around for his bottom, found it, and well to everyone's surprise.. IT'S A GiRL!
    There was NO penis, 3 little lines! All of those tests, Intelligender & My first ultrasound where false!
    I was a little upset because I was so excited for a boy and have so much boy stuff but i'm still happy because the baby is healthy and weighs a pound! =]
    She was kicking and drinking the amniotic fluid, It was so precious. I'd laugh everytime she'd open her mouth and swallow. Her cheeks would look like they got huge when she closed her mouth to swallow. The lady got a pic of it, it looks like she was blowing up her cheeks and sticking her lips out! haha
    I'll post it on here =]

    So thats my news for the day, my kidneys are okay, just a stone! They gave me some pain medicine and sent me home, the medicine made the baby kick me harder than she ( feels weird to say she ) Has ever kicked before. haha. =]

    ttyl ladies! Take care!


    ZMiracleBoy - Thursday, 13 November
    Hey girl! Thanks for the compliments on my page about my kiddos! I can't believe how fast they grow either! We are doing good! Zayden is walking more than he is crawling now so this has been wonderful! As Zayden gets older it makes me want to have another one but my hubby still say's NO! LOL! Are you going ot have anymore?


    liz82 - Wednesday, 12 November
    hello ladies how have you all been when i got online i had 83 messages thanks for all the messages i hope i got back to everyone but if i didnt i am sorry . this week has been super busy for me . i hope all you ldies are doing well . take care and rop me a line


    ll bree ll - Monday, 10 November
    oh no she doesnt yet. thank god, cus i havent lowered her crib yet. im going to next month i think. i dont want her pulling herself up for the first time in her crib and fall over


    ll bree ll - Monday, 10 November
    no, she doesnt stand by herself, only when she holds onto the coffee table.


    slg3233 - Sunday, 9 November
    Hey, I have a recent pic of Faith up now. You can go and look if you want. That is the most recent one of her that is already on the computer. I am not good at putting pics on the computer from the camera so as soon as my husband has some time I will ask him to upload some pics on the computer for me and then I will add them.


    ll bree ll - Sunday, 9 November
    she stands and holds onto furniture now, but obviously doesnt take steps around the furniture. i dont know how far she is now, but at 2 weeks they said she was a month ahead, but now im sure its more because everyone in her month is like shocked and so is her doc. it makes me so upset her being so early :[


    jessy613 - Saturday, 8 November
    Hey babe, how are ya? I'm doing good actually! Christopher is now 7 months old and is getting huge! I hope you and the family is doing well..hope to hear from you soon! Jayden is HUGEEE and Angie is just darling as ever.


    xO-BRiANNA - Saturday, 8 November
    Yeah, If it kept happening I wanted to ask but I just wanted to see it happened to anyone else before I called and flipped over one little drop of blood. haha


    ll bree ll - Saturday, 8 November
    im not quite sure, cus i dont really have anything to compare her progress to, but isnt it a little early to be mobile? shes 5 months and 2 days, so barely 5 months.

    sometimes, my hubbys voice is nice to forget. hahh. i love him but man sometimes he can be so..UGH


    Imanistar - Saturday, 8 November
    thank you so much. He was laughing and drowing throughout the whole session! You have 3 beauitful children.


    xO-BRiANNA - Friday, 7 November
    Hello Ladies!
    I have a question for you all.
    I'm in my 22nd week of pregnancy, 23rd on Sunday and when I just went to the bathroom I notices a small tiny drop of blood.
    I'm sure it's nothing to worry about but I can't help it but worry about everything =[
    Has this happened to any one?
    No pain or cramping.. just a small drop of blood.


    mom-to-many - Friday, 7 November
    i dont know aparrently she is hungry i dont know why cause she eat pretty good yeah i feel tired that's why i'm thinking a lot the fact of addding another baby to my already large family!


    slg3233 - Friday, 7 November
    Hey girl!! By the way I love your default pic!! Super cute!!! everything is hgoing good actually! The girls are doing good and my little baby is 5 months old now!!! They grow so fast, don't they? I have just really been busy working and all!! But we are doing great!! Thanks for writing!!! How are you and your babes doing?


    ll bree ll - Friday, 7 November
    i dont even remember what my bfs voice sounds like, and i saw him 3 hours ago. hahah. bad, huh? hah, now im sitting here trying to think about it.


    mom-to-many - Friday, 7 November
    it look like i am very patient lol but sometimes and puling my hair cause i dont know what to do especially when i cant sleep cause my baby girl doesnt sleep thru the night and she is 9 months!! i'm so glad you re doing good with your son death i hope you found peace i know that doesnt matter where hi is he is happy...


    ll bree ll - Thursday, 6 November
    i cant even remember what she looked like at birth until i look at pics. its sad :[ hah. oh well.


    ll bree ll - Thursday, 6 November
    hah i barely take pics these days. i used to take pics like every 3 days, but now i only do when theres a reason :/ i guess thats how it always goes though.


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    25 Weeks pregnant (2008, 02, 08) 31 weeks 3 days (2008, 02, 08) 33 Weeks & 5 Days (2008, 02, 08) 36 Weeks & 1 Day (2008, 02, 08) Before and after (2008, 02, 12) First photo with eyes open (2008, 02, 12) 38 Weeks & 5 Days (2008, 02, 08) Me and my munchkins (2008, 03, 29) Just wait a mintue I`m thinking...... (2008, 02, 12) Jayden & Charley (2008, 04, 14) My Big Boy 15/06/08 (2008, 06, 18) In memory of a tiny super hero - Dion 20/12/2002 - 15/01/2007 (2008, 06, 18) ME (2008, 03, 20) This looks like a tasty thing to much on...mmmmmmm (2008, 06, 29) My Angie Bear (2008, 06, 29) OMG what a mess...lol (2008, 06, 29) 5 1/2 months old (2008, 07, 10) Click here to see all Shans-Water-Babies`s photos

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    Dion (2002) Jayden (2008) Angie (2000)


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