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Virgel
Age: 30
Country: UK
Province/region: England
City: London
Partner: lovely Elie(Hubby)
Children: Yes, 2
Pregnant: No
Due date: 26 Jan ,2008
Occupation: Computer Engineer
Online: 24 hours ago.
Last updated: 25 days ago.
Member since: 319 days
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Now @ 5 month, i'm learning to read my Winny de pooh Books, yeahhh!!!, love it.

@ 4 month, i'm starting the reality life, eat with spoon, drink juice, roll, rock, playing, & many more, look at me!!! love that.

james Harvey@ 3months on 26 of April 2008 & weighting 17Lbs 17oz.

James sucking his fingers now!!!

Look at our sweetheart!!!woowww...

I will always LOVE u!!!.

James enjoying he's Dad.

James Harvey @ 2 months on March, 26 2008 big guy; now, mouth is open all the time.14Lbs 14oz

My First Month yeah!!!! on Feb, 26th 2008. weigth: 12lbs 140z can you beleive that? We love you!!!.

James Harvey was born on jan. 26th 2008 @ 5:29pm

weighting 8lbs 14oz , 2 weeks later, love you my treasure.

I love those eyes.

James Harvey Birth Story.

Well, we watching TV when my water broken on jan 24th 2008 (thursday) evening; i told my hubby that it's time for the baby to come out and we started laughing because it was like i pee on myself on sofa. He ask me if we can go to the hospital and i answer no, just wait a little longer, time for water to come out enough, it was 10 to 7pm. Then after a couple of hour, he call the hospital and the told us to come to avoid the infection if all water is out.

We leave home at 10pm after 20mn drive, was received by one lovely nurse who show me my room for check. then she said: " i was still 3cm dilated" and have to go back home wait. I was so miserable to hear that :(

On friday 25th evening, the contrations became really intense, bad we go back to the hosp, they decided to let my labor progress and control. It was so difficult want to go to bed and sleep, the nurse checked me, i was 3cm dilated like last night nothing change, asked me to walk around to get the baby awake all the time to come fast or go back home again, and i say: no way home..., but after hour of walk, as the time went by they checked me again, i was 4 cm GUESS WHAT???? just 1cm.

At 1am on morning the give me bed to sleep short time, then my hubby go back at home and come early on morning.

Between 1am-11am next day on Jan 26th(Saturday), i was so uncomfortable, the contractions were hurting more and more longer, stronger and close together, at 4am asked something can help me to reduce pain, the nurse give me 2 paracetamol, but no change the baby pushing to come out and i guess finally was so tired (when he pushing i feel he's head down with enough pressure and my tummy was vibrate).During all the night my water continu to come out and change pads everytime.

At 12pm, when the next team came to check, the nurse i've got put me on monitor and said: "something happening down here", repeat the monitor for 1 hour nothing change then call quickly the Dr. She come, ask to change me the room and told me hubby that it's not good news. During this time they put me on oxygen to help me control the contraction, even if when the baby pushing the pain increase and the monitor show how the baby heartbeat go down.

At 2pm after another monitor (2nd) for 1 hour again, nothing great, monitor show that the contractions doesn't copy at all the baby heartbeat , and it's not good for the baby, because he work since and look tired at this time; they have to faster get him out, or we can loss the baby or the mother. Imagine my hubby at this time???!!!! we're all scared to hear that because we didn't planed before. She try to help me have a vaginal birth but nothing; after one hour decided to do the C-Section to save the boy, i was soooooo tired.

At 4pm time to sign every paper, make me being sure, confident, my hubby too, prepared for the surgery .

we enter in the operation room at 4:45pm, they trying another Vaginal Birth by many positions to know more what happen, move my legs up, down ,left, right on every sense; separed the table in two pieces to have my legs well open put hands inside and try to get the baby head, but nothing after pushing two time, the Dr said she feel the baby pushing but the Pelvic floor muscle wasn't release enough (stay close) and the baby couldn't come out. At this time i was 9cm dilated; finally we have to pass by c section fast the time flying. Put me an epidural injection, just 10mn later, i didn't feel any contractions after that but a lot of pressure down on my legs and become so cold and heavy, a CD music to help me relax.and enough bravery,tchatching...

I didn't care about what they do on my body at this time, just want to save my little bunny, hold him on my arms and kiss him, finish with this difficult chapter.

Staff start the operation and finally at 5:29pm exactly, i hear the baby crying, all staff laughing, smiles and congrats us for that, i was so happy to have my boy save, my hubby started crying me too and he said: "he's so big, cute",one nurse give him a cold glass of water with tissue to relax. It was so Emotional phase of this birth story.

Thanks so much GOD to help me have my baby at this stage after three day of suffering and intense pain.

When they finish, after couple of hour high work, on that they moved me on own room to enjoy, have pleasure of my little one. I bravery all mommies and thanks every one on this site.

We all discharged 3 days later after general checking. He 's very Healthy baby boy.





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excited-1st-time-mom - Wednesday, 23 July
Well ladies this will be my last message before Aniya gets here. I went to the doctor and she said my fluid was low, so I will be admitted tonight.

Keep me in your prayers and until next time "Be Blessed and Have a Wonderful Week".


queen - Tuesday, 22 July
WOW HE HAS TEETH!!!!
MY GOODNESS FEELS LIKE WE BOTH ARE GROWING TOGTHER.!! HOW ARE YOU? I STILL CANT BELIIEVE JAMES HAS 2 TEETH!!!MY GOODNESS. BE4 YOU KNOW IT HELL BE 10 YEARS OLD...HAAAA.LOL LOVE YOU BOTH....AND I HOPE ALL IS WELL


nancy26 - Tuesday, 22 July
Hi Virgel! Sorry it's taken so long to come back to you! We're doing great thanks! Slevin has quite a temper on him when he wants to, but is otherwise a complete angel - I'm just really tired, and struggle to get it together enough to go to the store to buy milk... Speaking of which, I should probably go and sleep a bit - he's sleeping now!

How are you and James doing? and the teething? XX


niseybear - Sunday, 20 July
Hello everyone!

I just wanted to let you all know that I won't be on as much. Nothing is wrong, I just do better when I visit here every 4 days or so instead of everyday. We are well with the exception of my husband working 6 days a week and not having any family time. Today (sunday) is supposed to be our day together, but he's at work. I'm hoping he's feeling okay when he gets off and maybe if it's not too late, he, Mo, and I can go for a drive and then later him and I to a movie. Work is cool and I'm only one month away from starting school. I know what I want to be when I grow up....A TEACHER! I don't want to be a server when I'm 50. I only need 4 courses for my AA and then I can start my work for my BA in elementary education. I'M SCARED TO DEATH, but I know if it's meant to be, G-d will see to it. Mo is 7 months old now and is an official crawler! He only scoots every now and again. He was standing up in his crib this morning and I just about died! He was more on his toes, but it was so cute! Looks like he may be walking soon. I haven't breastfed in nearly a month and a half and it's odd, I do miss it. What a closeness Mo and I had while I was doing it. We still have that bond, but breastfeeding made it even more special. I haven't had a period in about 3 months now, but I did bleed for about a day and a half last month. I'm going to talk to my OB if I don't see a cycle once I hit the green pills on my BC. Of course I'm not pregnant, no signs whatsoever. And I know what they mean when they say, once you've been pregnant, you know instantly the next time you are. I took 2 tests over 2 months and of course BFN and I'm okay with that. I want to enjoy Mo for a little while longer. And this house just isn't big enough for another little one. Our stimulus check arrived on July 7th and it was SO NICE to finally receive it. Money was low and now we're on the high end once again and I'm hoping it stays that way for a bit. Well, let me go, my little man has been in his activity center long enough watching Baby Einstein. He's such a good boy...even if he does wake up at 2:45 in the AM and doesn't go down again til nearly 4AM! Oh I was MAD this AM because I was SO tired. I put him back in his crib because I was upset and a few minutes later hubby stepped in and took over. I didn't hear him again til 6am and I was okay with that. Got him a bottle and he fell asleep about 30 minutes later and we BOTH slept til nearly 8:30!
Hope all you guys are well. Be blessed and take care!


HaveFaith050108 - Friday, 18 July
She is doing well girl! She's in that everything in her hands goes to her mouth stage - LOL! How's your little man doing?


1st-pregnancy - Friday, 18 July
Hey Virgel..Nehemiah is sitting very well with support. He's a big strong guy too with a big feet..he's wearing a size 3 going on size 4 right now. I'm feeding Nehemiah stage I baby food, he loves sweet potatoes, carrots and squash. He also loves plain oatmeal cereal in his formula, because of his reflux..I started using the cereal in most of his bottles to thicken the formula, and that's when he started gaining so much weight. I also put some type of sweetner in his cereal...l started using karo syrup this week. When Nehemiah see anybody eating, he wants to eat what we're eating...so this week my mom feed him mash potatoes which he loved. Bottom line...Nehemiah loves to eat...(smile). I'm kinda worried that his weight may get out of control because Nehemiah height and weight wasn't proportion at his last doctor's visit. He's probably going to be short like his dad, and he's was like in the 30% above average in weight, and not average with his height. Anyway, we'll see. I'm going to have to get him off the sweetners and that's a struggle, because he won't take the formula without it being sweet. I just saw the picture with Henry looking at the book...he's definitely going to be something else!!...Take care of your gorgeous, precious lil man.


chanel - Sunday, 13 July
OMG i'll be the big ''25'' on tuesday


HaveFaith050108 - Friday, 11 July
Here is a pic of Kamryn at 2 1/2 Months - Such a Happy Baby!



1st-pregnancy - Thursday, 10 July
Hey..Virgel..that's okay..I know sometime we get busy..and I know you're busy with two little ones...anyway, have you tried the Humphrey teething tablets yet?...they work a little, but something is better than giving tylenol so much....Nehemiah is teething really bad..he keeps his hand in his mouth constantly..anyway, thanks for stopping by, I thought my lil man was big...how much does Henry weigh right now? Nehemiah is 5 months and at 20 lbs...*whew*!!


queen - Wednesday, 9 July
IM SORRY TO HERE ABOUT THE TREETHING:( IM SURE IT WILL PASS SOON. WE ARE OK VIRGIL, I AM JUST GETTING TO THE POINT OF EXHAUSTION.UNSURE. IM SOO TIREED AND GOING TO SCHOOL FULL TIME IS KILLING ME!!!I JUST WANT TO REST BUT ALL I HAVE IS 5 WEEKS LEFT...TAKE CARE...


queen - Wednesday, 9 July
IM SORRY TO HERE ABOUT THE TREETHING:( IM SURE IT WILL PASS SOON. WE ARE OK VIRGIL, I AM JUST GETTING TO THE POINT OF EXHAUSTION.UNSURE. IM SOO TIREED AND GOING TO SCHOOL FULL TIME IS KILLING ME!!!I JUST WANT TO REST BUT ALL I HAVE IS 5 WEEKS LEFT...TAKE CARE...


debra haynes - Wednesday, 9 July
not a problem love,he is so darn cute and i know about the teething,well i hope he feels better but the worst ones are the i teeth,oh Alycia was in a lot of pain when there were coming cuz four of them at the same time,well all is well here can't complain,well hang in there it will get better,ttyl.


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