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mzblondex - Thursday, 19 June
haha. thx. ill definitely keep you in mind when i need some parenting advice. im sure ill be asking you millions of questions as time passes....i seem to be curious ab everything, even pregnancy subjects that dont even pretain to me. lol

mzblondex - Thursday, 19 June
awe. whats so hard to realize an understand now is that there is nothing else you can do. youve done it all. youve loved him with all your heart and gave him everything possible! its not for you to figure out what he wants, its him that needs to figure that out. you trying to do so, will get you nowhere. men are complicated as it is...trying to figure out what they want from you and life itself is a never ending maze! youll be upset with him for a while. cause i imagine youre feeling ALOT of emotions right now at once. and youre very confused. you say you dont know what to do anymore, all you can do now is make yourself strong for you an your babies. let him live his life the way he wants..you cant control him. you obviously need time without him to get things straight in your mind of what you really need to do. an what you really want. i dunno if hes wanting to call things off in the marriage or has any idea you want to, but in my personal experience, if you decide to give him another chance, youll never be able to trust him again. youll always doubt him. im not saying dont give him another chance bc thats for you to decide on what your mind an heart wants an needs. youve given him your all an your not receiving his all in return...theres only so far you can let yourself go for someone that doesnt go that far for you! youll make the right decision an if not, youll just work with what life gives you an youll survive. bc your babies need you to be strong an get through this. they dont understand anything yall are going through right now. all they know an should know is that mommy an daddy love them!

mzblondex - Thursday, 19 June
lol. i sure hope so. mama says i worry about everything! cant help it...

mzblondex - Thursday, 19 June
yeah. thats what i would do for the time being is just try to get life straightened out. get settled somewhere and then if you feel youre even ready to step into another relationship, maybe ease into one. i just know that getting out of a long serious relationship and jumping into another so soon most times just leads to another heartbreak. cause youll have trusting issues with the new guy. not meaning you will, but a person in general. lol. if ya know what i mean. its just hard trusting someone after youve been hurt like that an given so much of your life to one person for so long! i really hope things work out for you! i definitely wouldnt try to get into a relationship before you an richards divorce is final bc then he can sue you for adultry. an if you have proof that he is cheating, you can sue him for adultry. an that will help out with money on getting you an your babies a place. when filing for a divorce, id sue for custody an child support! but if you get child support, he has visitation rights...dunno how you feel ab visitation rights or whatever. i would just definitely talk to a lawyer without "anyone" knowing an see where you stand with the law and what you can get out of him. then set up a plan to get out of there, like you said ab your mom...and once you got all your facts...file for that divorce girl and move on!

mzblondex - Thursday, 19 June
lol. well thats what they say...feeling the warmth of the momma can put the baby at ease. even putting him/her against your chest so it can hear/feel your heartbeat is good too because its basically all its known for 9 months! its soothing to the baby. i just hope i make a good momma. an make the right decisions when it comes to my babies, my family, an my boyfriend!

mzblondex - Thursday, 19 June
alot of times when a guy is guilty of something, he will turn things around an make you out to be the "bad guy". like if hes really cheating or trying to an you confront him with it...he will turn things around an say youre the one cheating or that you dont love him anymore nor trust him! some guys that are doing wrong will try to turn things around an make you feel bad ab something youre not even guilty of just so he comes out looking like a good guy an everyone will sympathize with him. its ridiculous. but seems to work from time to time! an getting away an getting close to your mom will probably help in alot of ways, it will help you get stronger an stand on your own two feet without him! an it will benefit you as in helping you get over him better...an open up doors for you to meet someone more deserving of your love. cheaters arent "just" cheaters..they are liars, deceivers, backstabbers, an alot are good at what they do. an thats why we end up feeling so horrible. like we werent good enough or whatever! when hes the one thats not good enough. stay strong girl! you just do what you have to ta take care of you and your babies!! let richard do his thing. if he wants to screw different women, let him. someone will come along that will treat you right and love you like you deserve to be loved, an when richard realizes what he's lost..itll be too late an your babies will be callin someone else daddy!

mzblondex - Thursday, 19 June
yeah. i hear the first is always the hardest cause you truly dont "know" what to expect. an getting use to everything is so hard. so i know im gonna need my mamas help. his momma is alot older then mine an she doesnt move around real good. so i know it would be real hard for her to help out real good. ya know. theres alot im gonna have to learn when it comes to taking care of the baby. i know nobody is born knowing how to raise a baby, an that you cant learn every little thing you need to in order to raise a baby, but having my momma around...will definitely help!

mzblondex - Thursday, 19 June
oh i have faith an fully believe that we will make it. i just know its going to be tough. considering we're having a baby before we live together an being an hour away from each other. neither of us have a car. i never could afford one, parents would buy me one since i dropped out of high school. an he was in a horrible accident an totalled his truck. an for the time being he borrows his parents in order to come see/get me. i know that when the baby gets here he's gonna want me to come stay with him at his parents til we are able to get out on our own...but i seriously dont want to be that far away from my mama so soon after giving birth! im gonna need her. being my first baby, i know its not gonna be easy

mzblondex - Wednesday, 18 June
ive lived in vicksburg my whole life. but since ive been with my boyfriend, who lives in brandon mississippi, i go stay with him for wks at a time. im currently looking for a job, but it seems almost impossible. we are trying to get out on our own...but at the moment neither of us can afford bills...so we kinda stuck! lol. id love to even have an apartment. i just hate that we live a hour away from each other..its gonna be hard on us an the baby! well i hope yall are able to work things out with findin a place an him a job.

mzblondex - Wednesday, 18 June
ive lived in vicksburg my whole life. but since ive been with my boyfriend, who lives in brandon mississippi, i go stay with him for wks at a time. im currently looking for a job, but it seems almost impossible. we are trying to get out on our own...but at the moment neither of us can afford bills...so we kinda stuck! lol. id love to even have an apartment. i just hate that we live a hour away from each other..its gonna be hard on us an the baby! well i hope yall are able to work things out with findin a place an him a job.

mzblondex - Wednesday, 18 June
thank you an youre right, im dieing to find out what my little one is!! [= congrats on your girl! i know you cant wait to have her. the survey in my blog i found here: http://bzoink.com/S13457/Pregnancy_Survey.html as for the frequently asked questions on my main page i just put a bunch of questions together that alot of ppl have asked me on here. youre welcome to add them to your page with your own answers of course. lol. i dont mind. [= ill see what i can find as for the graphics go. ive been planning on adding a blog entry for graphics an stuff. once its up, which itll be soon, ill definitely let ya know! congrats on your pregnancy. keep in touch! [=

liz82 - Wednesday, 18 June
u 2 nighty nite

preciousbabybump - Wednesday, 18 June
I will let you know when he comes for sure!!!!! CANT WAIT HEHE!!!!!

xobettexo - Wednesday, 18 June
i know i love going to the dr.
i go on the 24th. i cant wait!!! and i really cant wait to meet my baby boy.


how the family doing?

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