Hi!

My names Becky Hill and I live in the West Midlands in the U.K.

I gave birth to my first baby via C-Section on 24th April 2008, a little boy going by the name of Asher Savini Hill :-) He is amazing! And such a tarte with the ladies! Lol. We love him with all our hearts :-) My 2nd son was born on 7th August 2009 and we called him Vincent Romero Hill. He's just trying to walk currently and is such a little relaxed fellow compared to his big brother! Lol.

We caught with Asher straight after my Husband and I were Handfasted in 2007 by a close friend. I'm Wiccan, but would love to be friends with people of all religions, as I feel we can all offer each other support - I have some soul mate Christian friends and respect anyone who 'preaches' love, respect and helping others! And just for the record I don't do any naked dancing round my garden - that would not be fun for anyone involved! Lol. I did do a spell to banish my periods for my second baby and that seems to have worked. I'll definitely do that one again anyhow! Oh please don't worry - I've mentioned my faith here just so you all know a bit about me, but its not something I talk about that much - you wont get creepy emails! Lol. XX

We knew what work awaited us after the birth of Vinnnie, as we had a baptism of fire with Asher, he was a NIGHTMARE, and pretty poorly at the beginning. Fortunately, Vinnie gave us a pretty easy ride! Lol.

I work in Admin at a local Children's Centre, and returning for my first day tomorrow. Nervous and I know I'll miss the boys, but the time I spend with them will be all the more special. Besides, I've got my third baby planned already! Lol. Not for a while, but I want to be considering getting pregnant for the third, and last time towards the end of 2011.

I'd love to hear from anyone really, either trying for a baby or pregnant, esp. any folk who know they have got to have a c-section - I think I could provide valuable reassurance! I know some people dread them but my own opinion based on the experience I had is......THEY ROCK!!!!!!!

If I'm honest I never though I would have children. I suffered from severe depression in my teens/eary twenties as well as bulimia and heavy drinking. I basically convined myself I was dying and lived with a HUGE fear of hospitals and childbirth - even the thought of carrying a baby scared the living daylights out of me! Rich was ready for children years ago, and stuck by me even though I was unsure as to whether I'd ever even have them. Finally aged 27 I realised I had to take action, I was obsessed with death and dying and even though I'd won some battles myself I couldn't rid myself of all my demons alone. I attended Hypnotherpay and a clinical psychologist for almost 3 years. Both were helpful, but the hypnotherpay saved my life. I finally gained the courage to try for a baby....the rest as they say is history! I did bow out of the childbirth bit and was granted an elective c-section, which was great. So I killed 2 birds with 1 stone, faced my fear of acrrying a child and surgery! Whoop! Lol. If I can be of help to anyone it would be a pleasure.....my faith helped me a great deal, but other tactics helped too! Lol.......XXX