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25 weeks
Thursday, 8 Nov
MY PREGNANCY STORIES
"I think im pregnant"...I noticed my cycle was a week late but who cares sometimes she's late && sometimes she's on time. Im having cramps but not as severe as my cycle cramps. Let's jump on the internet....time to look up pregnancy symptoms!!! I only had two symptoms a late cycle && cramps that also resembled my cycle could possibly coming on. Another week went by && no sign of my little red friend....I told my boyfriend that I suspected that I was pregnant from the two symptoms I experienced. He replied, you've been late in the pass maybe it will come on later. Noone knew we thought I was pregnant but us. One night my boyfriend got off work && called me to say "i'll be over there but im bringing you a present." Im thinking what in the world could it be...dont I need to take a shower....get dressed...smell good....could it be jewelry!!! All kinds of thoughts ran through my head. He came in the house && we were talking about everything but the suspected pregnancy issue....so me all hyped up "wheres my present, where is it?" He whips out a pregnancy test on the kitchen table....OMG!!!!!
A First Response Early Pregnancy Test....I couldnt do anything but smile because I was so shocked that this was my present. "What do you want me to do with this" noway im taking this im too scared. My boyfriend said just take it it'll be the only way we can be sure.....off to the bathroom with my boyfriend just staring at me as if his heart was in his thoart. I went into the bathroom && a urinated on the stick without reading the directions....stuck it in the applicator and jumped back as if it was about to explode. It seemed like I was in the bathroom forever just standing there scared to read the results. So I peeked at the results wow one dark line && I know from commercials two lines mean your pregnant...so i grabbed the test. YESSSSSSSSSSSS im not pregnant...hold on wait there is another light line on the other side. I ran into my room to show my boyfriend we both begin to smile...okay lets read the directions (my boyfriend say you didnt read the directions) I told him I was too scared. The directions read one line will appear anyway to show you've done the test right....another will appear if you are pregnant this line will be lighter than the other one (WHAT IN THE WORLD) only one line if your not pregnant. Lord help me now...I went to the front porch where my older brother && two of my cousins were. I asked one of my cousins who had been pregnant what does this mean...she read it && said oh girl you suppose to have two dark lines...then I told her to read the directions. She said Idk but I think you'll be fine just go to the doctor if your not sure....I said okay. But as me && my boyfriend sat around we started thinking if I wasnt pregnant than only one line would appear no matter if the other one was light or dark. What are we to do....then the next night I asked my friend who was currently pregnant && a mother of a three year old girl what to do. I told her about the test && she said hers was exactly like mines one dark line && one light one. She said you might be....go to the Health Department pregnancy test are free. I went to the Health Department early as soon as they opened that monday morning....they told me I had to make a appointment but since it was a open spot at ten I could come back then.
I went back to the Health department at ten....I took a test also I wrote down the first day of my last cycle && had to wait in the waiting room while the whole time texting my boyfriend because he was at work. The lady took forever to come back && bring me into the room. Finally she came, I seen the clipboard but it didnt have many papers && I thought I couldnt be pregnant because she would have a lot of papers && brosures. She sat me down...showed me the paper && said at the same time "Yep congratulations you are positive....5weeks 4 days!!!!" I said "whoo" I almost fell out the chair, she asked if I was okay, needed someone to talk to, or did I need a ride home. I told her I was okay just had to tell my boyfriend, mom && grandma. She understood, but told me she was trying to have a child for a couple of years now && took a test to very same morning which was negative...she told me this was a blessing from god no matter what way I wanted to look at it. She asked me what was I gonna do...i said no ********* here.


24WEEKS
I texted my boyfriend and told him the results....he replied stop playing. But I wasnt playing at all. We both were sad...but a sudden happiness came inside of me. Idk what he felt because he was still at work. Still texting he didnt have much to say because he was shocked. I got home called my brother who was at work also....I told him yep im pregnant. He said so you are pregnant wow ima call you back to see what ma says lol. I told me ma to come in my room because I had something to tell her...I texted my boyfriend to tell him I was about to fill my mother in. I closed my room door && begin to tell my mom....she was so happy screaming yesssssssssss, I knew it!!!! I began to cry...she told me not to cry she was happy && not disappointed but she already had a feeling. One down one to go but my grandma was the one I really was scared of telling for the fear of hurting, disappointing, && letting her down.
my mom sat down to think of ways to tell my grandma...while I talked on the phone to my boyfriend telling him I told my mother. My mother yelled congrats papi to my boyfriend...he replied with a dim "thank you". My grandma was cleaning up talking on the phone...my mother told me to just walk in there && blurt it out. I tried four times but it wouldnt come out. I told my ma I still had the pregnancy test...she told me to hand it to her but yep I chickened out again. My gma was on the phone while cleaning up...so my ma ran in the dining room && placed the test by the cup of MT DEW my grandma had on the table. My grandma was so busy on the phone && cleaning she didnt even notice it. After she got off the phone me && my mother decided to go in the living room because my grandma was taking too long to recognize the test. She was talking to us about her conversations && we was half listening because we knew we had the test on the table. She asked me a question && I told her before you get the answer you have to go take a sip of your drink. She laughed and said dag I have to have a drink gosh the answer must be no. She finally seen the test && said "OH GOSH" my mother yelled its not mines lol. My grandma asked me if it was mines... I said yes. She replied your pregnant...i said yes.
She took it way better than I thought she would....she started talking about things she would buy. Someone is gonna be spoiled!!!! Thats the journey I took finding out about my little man. At this point (Nov 14, 2007) Im five months...not sure how many weeks because they keep changing my due date. First the due date was March 19...then March 21...now March 18 so who knows. Not big is many...but my Prince is healthy && getting big fast. Im just glad both sides my family && my boyfriends family are happy. Everyone is excited. My grandma has been to every visit with me because my boyfriend cant go he's only been to one but knows everything about my pregnancy. Im glad I have support also glad about how excited my boyfriend is about the pregnancy && he is getting him a lil man. Im glad GOD chose me to give an angel....he must trusts me with his gift!!!!
Baby's Conversation with God
A baby asked God, "They tell me you are sending me to earth tomorrow, but how am I going to live there being so small and helpless?"
God said, "Your angel will be waiting for you and will take care of you."
The child further inquired, "But tell me, here in heaven I don't have to do anything but sing and smile to be happy."
God said, "Your angel will sing for you and will also smile for you. And you will feel your angel's love and be very happy."
Again the child asked, "And how am I going to be able to understand when people talk to me if I don't know the language?"
God said, "Your angel will tell you the most beautiful and sweet words you will ever hear, and with much patience and care, your angel will tea ch you how to speak."
"And what am I going to do when I want to talk to you?"
God said, "Your angel will place your hands together and will teach you how to pray."
"Who will protect me?"
God said, "Your angel will defend you even if it means risking its life."
"But I will always be sad because I will not see you anymore."
God said, "Your angel will always talk to you about Me and will teach you the way to come back to Me, even though I will always be next to you."
At that moment there was much peace in Heaven, but voices from Earth could be heard and the child hurriedly asked, "God, if I am to leave now, please tell me my angel's name."
God said, "You will simply call her, "Mommy."


24 WEEKS
Monday, 12 Nov
TODAY ! HAD A L!TTLE SCARE BECAUSE ! WASNT FEEL!N MY L!L PR!NCE L!KE ! N0RMALLY D0. THEN HE STARTED M0V!NG ALL AR0UND && K!CK!N AL0T. N0W MY ST0MACH !S HURT!NG AT AND AR0UND MY BELLY BUTT0N BUT IM N0T G0!N T0 JUMP T0 C0NCLUS!0NS BECAUSE ! TH!NK !TS JUST STRETCH!NG PA!NS. 0THER THAN THAT !M EXC!TED THAT !M HALFWAY THERE T0 MEET!NG MY PR!NCE CHARM!NG!!!! !M T!CKLED CUZ AS ! TYPE MY L!TTLE MAN !S K!CK!NG M0MMY....! D0NT TH!NK HE L!KES WHEN ! T0UCH MY 0WN ST0MACH CUZ HE STARTS T0 K!CK. L0L....HE'S A CHARACTER!!!
!M LOV!N MY PREGNANCY....MY L!L MAN M0VES AR0UND A WH0LE L0T. ! D!DNT KN0W AT 5 M0NTHS ! W0ULD BE ABLE T0 FEEL H!M M0VE S0 STR0NGLY && K!CK V!G0R0USLY. ! CANT BEL!EVE H0W FAR !VE C0ME....&& H0PE G0D HELPS ME W!TH THESE NEXT F0UR M0NTHS. ! CANT EXPLA!N H0W ! FEEL && NEVER KNEW Y0U C0ULD L0VE S0ME0NE S0 MUCH THAT Y0U'VE NEVER EVER SEEN UNT!L ! G0T PREGNANT W!TH MY L!L MAN!!!!
Friday, 16 Nov
T0DAY WAS A GREAT DAY...! WENT T0 CHURCH!!!! WENT 0UT T0 EAT...LATER 0N WAS TREATED T0 !CECREAM FR0M C0LDST0NE. MY L!TTLE MAN K!CKED & JUMPED AR0UND T0DAY. T0DAY ADDED AN0THER DAY THAT ! L0VED MY UNB0RN EVEN M0RE!!!!
T0DAY, MY L!TTLE 0NE !S JUMP!NG && K!CK!NG ALL 0VER THE PLACE. ! L0VE H!M T0 DEATH...HE MAKES M0MMY S0 HAPPY. MARCH ISNT GETTING HER FAST ENOUGH, !M N0T RUSH!NG !T CUZ MY L!TTLE 0NE NEEDS T0 C00K ALL HE CAN...JUST WANNA SEE MY L!TTLE MAN. T0N!TE HASNT BEEN A G00D N!TE S0 FAR !TS N0T MY PR!NCE'S FAULT CUZ HE'S BEEN M0V!NG A GREAT DEAL. !M JUST D0WN AB0UT MY RELAT!0NSH!P...! TRY T0 D0 ALL ! CAN D0 T0 BE THE BEST G!RLFR!END ! CAN JUST T0 GET L!ED T0, CHEATED 0N, && HURT. ! D0NT KN0W WHAT T0 D0...! TALK T0 H!M EVERYDAY ALLDAY L!KE WE ARE ST!LL T0GETHER BUT !TS N0T HE SAME. ! WANNA BE W!TH H!M BUT N0T THE L!ES && CHEAT!NG. !F WE D0NT BE T0GETHER AS A C0UPLE WE ARE G0NNA BE AR0UND T0 RA!SE 0UR CH!LD T0GETHER. ! JUST D0NT WANNA BE A S!NGLE M0M & Y0UNG AT THAT...BUT ST!L L0V!NG MY L!TTLE MAN W!TH ALL MY HEART.
YESTERDAY...MY L!TTLE MAN K!CKED && PUNCHED ALL DAY L0NG. HE PR0BABLY 0NLY ST0PPED F0R 20-30 M!NUTE !NTERVALS. !T WAS S000 CUTE...! TR!ED T0 TAKE A NAP && HE WAS JUST K!CK!NG && PUNCH!NG AWAY. !M N0T EXC!TED AB0UT G0!NG BACK T0 SCH00L T0M0RR0W AFTER TH!S L0NG BREAK ! HAD...BUT EXC!TED AB0UT MY 24WK D0CT0R V!S!T 0N N0V 28TH.
WE G0T THE F!RST C0AT 0F PA!NT 0N THE NEW R00M T0DAY...T0M0RR0W WE W!LL GET THE SEC0ND C0AT. !M S0 EXC!TED AB0UT TH!S CUZ WE'RE GETT!NG A M0VE 0N W!TH THE R00M. ! HAD MY GMA T0 MAKE ME S0ME C0RNBREAD T0DAY...!T WAS S0 G00D!!! MY L!TTLE MAN !S S0 ACT!VE T0DAY...!T FEELS L!KE HE !S TAK!NG H!S ARM G0!NG STRA!GHT ACR0SS MY BELLY. HE !S S0 CUTE ALREADY !N THE W0MB...! TH!NK HE CANT GET C0MFY CUZ HE !S M0V!NG ALL AR0UND. ! L0VE MY L!TTLE 0NE S0 MUCH...THREE M0RE M0NTHS!!!
P.S ! TH!NK !VE SP0TTED THE START 0F MY F!RST STRETCH MARK...!M FREAK!NG 0UT 0MG S0MEB0DY HELP ME!!!
HEY...!M HAPPY T0 BE !N THE TH!RD TR!MESTER. !M REALLY EXC!TED AB0UT THE D0CT0R SW!TCH!NG MY APPT T0 EVERY TW0 WEEKS. ! W0NDER WHAT THEY W!LL D0 AT MY 30 WEEK V!S!T. ME && MY BD WATCH S0ME ACTUAL B!RTHS 0N Y0UTUBE && !T REALLY FREAKED THE B0TH 0F US 0UT. S0 N0W !M REALLY SCARED, NERV0US, && D0UBT!NG MYSELF AB0UT DEL!VERY. !M VERY SMALL FRAMED S0 S0ME PPL ARE SAY!NG THAT !M G0!NG T0 GET A C-SECT!0N BECAUSE MY PELV!C B0NE M!GHT BE T00 SMALL. !M S00 MAD && SCARED `! D0 N0T WANT A C-SECT!0N ` N0NE WHAT S0 EVER. T0N!TE ! WAS HAV!NG S0ME L!GHT PA!NS. !M TH!NK!NG !TS JUST PRESSURE BECAUSE THEY WERENT HARSH EN0UGH F0R ME T0 W0RRY. MY L!TTLE 0NE !S ST!LL MAK!NG M0MMY HAPPY. H0PE ALL !S WELL W!TH ALL THE 0THER M0MS.

WENT T0 MY 37 WEEK CHECKUP (2/28/08)...N0 D!ALAT!0N, N0 EFFACEMENT, N0TH!NG. SAME WE!GHT, PRETTY G00D S0UND!NG HEARTBEAT. WHEN THE D0CT0R CHECKED ME, ! STARTED T0 BLEED (TM!) BUT ! GUESS !T WAS N0RMAL BECAUSE MY NURSE SA!D AS L0NG AS !TS N0T HEAVY ! `LL BE F!NE. K!ND 0F SCARED ME TH0UGH. S0ME M0MS 0N THE S!TE WANT THERE BAB!ES 0UT...! MEAN ! T00 AM T!RED, ACHY, ANX!0US T0 MEET THE L!TTLE 0NE, ETC. BUT ! KN0W ! CAN WA!T T!L H!M && G0D !S G00D && READY. AFTER ALL HE M!GHT NEED T0 STAY !N THERE UNT!L H!S DUEDATE 0R WHATEVER. ! L0VE MY L!TTLE GUY, CANT WA!T T0 SEE H!M, && ! ALWAYS W0NDER WHAT HE W!LL L00K L!KE. ! AM TRULY BLESSED!!!!
WENT T0 MY APPT T0DAY(MARCH 13TH) MY BL00D PRESSURE WAS F!NE, T00K THEM A WH!LE T0 F!ND H!S HEARTBEAT BUT WHEN THEY D!D !T WAS ANGEL!C L!KE ALWAYS(S0 V!BRATE && STR0NG), ! WE!GH 138 N0W. !M ST!LL 1CM BUT MY D0CT0R SAYS !F ! D0NT HAVE H!M TH!S WEEK END HE W!LL !NDUCE ME 0N THE 18TH (THATS MY DUEDATE). ! D0NT KN0W H0W ! FEEL AB0UT BE!NG !NDUCED ! S0RT 0F WANT H!M T0 C0ME 0N H!S 0WN BUT THE BR!GHT S!DE !S ! `LL BE MEET!NG H!M S00N. !M S0 THANKFUL THAT G0D C0NT!NUES T0 BLESS US && !M HAPPY MEET!NG MY L!TTLE 0NE !S JUST AR0UND THE C0RNER.
LEADING UP UNTIL THE BIRTH STORY
March 13th...Was a ordinary day like any other day. Got up with some pains but didnt pay them any mind. The pains really didnt hurt me but they was something that I noticed from the night before. As I begin to get ready to take my shower I notice these pains didnt go away and they had a pattern. I told my grandma and she begin to count them. We noticed they were like seven minutes apart. I took my shower and begin to get ready for my appt. I went to the doctor still 1cm with no effacement. I mentioned to my doctor that I was having these pains. My doctor sort of brushed what I was saying off and told me if I didnt have my baby by the weekend I was to come in on Monday and be induced that tuesday. Well I went on with my day...me and some friends went to the park to walk, although I didnt walk. I had took my chihuahua with me so he enjoyed himself at the park. My two friends claimed they were gonna make me have my baby on that night so we went to the mall. We walked around in the mall not really having much to do. Not long after leaving the mall I noticed those pains from earlier were back. Me and my friends was recording on a piece of paper everytime I had got a contractions. I told my friends but I also DIDNT want to go to the ER for the fear of them just sending me home. I called my cousin that had two babies to ask what to do, she was so frantic yelling GO TO THE ER and she asked if I was bleeding. I told her I was coming over because where she stayed wasnt far from the mall to check to see if I was bleeding. While at her house I was experiencing the pains so I didnt even make it to her bathroom. Me and my Friends decided to leave and I refused to let them of take me to the ER. I decided if I was gonna go in tonight I needed to get me something to eat. We went to Bojangles and I had two pieces of chicken, a biscuit, and some dirty rice. I still decided that I wasnt gonna go to the doctor even after I called my gma to ask her if I should go in, like everyone else she said go in. We was on our way to the country which is like 20 minutes away from the hospital. Almost half way there the pains started to hurt...I called my mother which stays in New York to ask what she thought. She told me to go in and while I was on the phone the pains were getting close and I was scared because I knew I was on my way to have a baby. I begin to cry and my mother convinced me how this was the best time in my life. She said I was about to become a women and everything would change for the best. It really touched my heart. So my friend did a Uturn in the street and took me to the ER.
B!RTH ST0RY
Got to the ER, registered, and was on my way to Labor && Delivery!!!! I was glad I got something to eat because you cant eat anything until after you have your baby. Me and my two friends was in the room when I got hooked up to monitors and got checked to see if I had dialated any. I had dialated to 3cm!!!! Soon after my grandma, cousin, and brother came. The nurse said my doctor was on the way to see how im progressing and he would let me know if I would stay but she had a good feeling I would. It took my doctor 20 minutes to come in to check me. He said I was so pleasant and that it didnt look like I was in pain, and I told him thats because Im not having a contraction right now. He checked me...I had dialated to 4cm in 20 minutes!!!! He said he felt the head, he felt the bag, and he would come back in to break my water. I WAS STAYING!!!! My two friends had to leave because one of them had to go to work. My boyfriend was at school one hr away, I told him this is it and he was on his way. Soon the doctor came in a broke my water. Contractions KEPT coming...I wanted a epidural but I decided to get pain medicine in my IV. OMG I WILL NEVER DO THAT AGAIN. I was talking out of my head and I couldnt open my eyes because of the medicine the nurse put in my IV. Everyone said they was laughing at me because I was telling them everything that happened that day and I was saying I couldnt open my eyes. My boyfriend got to the hospital in 40 minutes when it normally takes him 1hr. He got by my side and held my hand as I was in pain. He said he didnt like seeing me in pain. I asked him a few times to open my eyes for me lol. The pain medicine in the IV didnt work well with my body so I had to get a Epidural and it didnt hurt at all and I really didnt feel the needle. Within two hrs I was 6cm and then in another two hrs I was 8cm. About 30 minutes later I was 10cm and 100% Effaced. THE THEY ME THE GAS MASK AND !T WAS TIME TO PUSH!!! My brother, cousin, and my boyfriend stayed in the Delivery Room. My brother holding one leg and my boyfriend holding the other. I pushed for about ten minutes and out came my son!!! My boyfriend cut the umbilical cord and my little man was set free...he didnt cry until they ruffed him up a little bit tryna get him somewhat clean. He weighed 5lbs 2oz, 18inches, and his name is Ka'Mari....It was so amazing and everything I went through was well worth it. I love being a mother and my son us the best thing that has ever happened to me. I cant stop THANK!N G0D F0R THE M0ST BEAUT!FUL BLESS!NG !N THE W0RLD...G0D MADE ME, BUT HE MADE ME WH0LE WHEN MY S0N CAME. !M S0 !N L0VE...THANK Y0U G0D!!! In labor for a total of 9hrs. We both got to leave the hospital the next day. Me and my son are doing great...he has gained 4oz and im recovering!!!!
