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bigmuma has 146 days to go and is now in week 19
	Age: 31 Country: AU Province/region: western australia City: mandurah Partner: Andrew Children: Yes, 2 Pregnant: Yes Due date: 15 Jan ,2009 Occupation: self employed
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Hi I am a mum of 2 but i also have twin angels watching over me that i miscaried at 12 weeks when i was 16. It was the most horrible thing that ever happend to me and the fact that i was so young added to the stress because i thought i had done something wrong. I now have 2 great kids (girl) aged 13 and a (boy) 8 and hubby and i have been TTC for 7 months. It hard to think that your body is failiing you when you really want another baby. If i do have another one it will be fantastic but if i dont then i will be happy with the 2 i have becasue they are great kids. (besides the 13 yr old girl hormones lol)

Please feel free to ask me anything as im really open and love to give advice. I am a bit of a guru when it comes to babys. If my sisters are having problems getting theirs to sleep its aunty issa's turn to bring in the big booby pillows and get those babys down for a nap lol. I must bore them or something.....

Baby dust to all and good luck with your pregnancys or TTC.

Just a quick update so you all dont feel mad if i dont get back to each and every one of you. I went to the hospital yesterday with brown discharge which turned pinky and they got me onto a sailine drip as i was dehydrated and gave me maxalon for the nausia. I had a scan done and it says 6weeks and 4days. So i was put back 8 days but i never go on what they say because every time they have dated me early on in the piece its turned out that i was right to start of with lol. Crossing my fingers that it all stays good. I feel a but wierd though because i had talked myself into thinking there was nothing there and that i would feel good again. I know it sounds harsh but its hard to explain. I think my head medication is messing me around. My feelings are all over the place And i am happy but i feel so sick that its making it hard to be really happy. I sounds ungratefull for the blessing i have been given but i am going to try to stay strong. Im a wierdo i know lol. Thanx so much for all of you caring you guys are my life line.

http://youtube.com/watch?v=N1uKCchuIjM&feature=related This is awsome!!

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Tess42 - Wednesday, 2 July
Hello dear. I thought about you today and I hope everything went and is going well. Stay strong mommy Mel!

Allioop - Wednesday, 2 July
Hey lady! Just stoppin' in to see how you're doing! I hope your feeling better soon! I'm finally starting to turn the corner (I think!) although I hesitate to say so! When are ya coming to week 12? I got moved up 4 days and now I miss all the girls in week 11!!!

liquidxx - Tuesday, 1 July
hehehe its always nice to know i'm not the only one

Tess42 - Tuesday, 1 July
Keep trying, Mel. Your sister loves you -- even if she gets annoyed if you tell her to not bring cigarettes over (see my post in tobacco). Remember how you felt when you heard people you knew well who quit. Let's be truthful we were partly jealous and irritated because WE were not wanting to quit. If you read some of people's stories under the Freedom from Tobacco section on whyquit.com (it's at the top right of the page), you will discover many who struggled through really terrible personal circumstances while quitting, but they were able to hang on. I would have thought reading that sort of thing would have bothered me, or made me feel demoralized (like I don't have the strength), but, oddly, I found little snapshots of folks stories really inspiring and it kept me wanting to go on. Maybe it'll help you. Good luck, sweetie!

mommyxs3 - Monday, 30 June
Hi! Just wanted to give you some positive feedback from your recent post in the "tobacco" forum. This girl you speak of can recover. I am a molestation victim myself. I was 13 when it started and 14 when it ended (I left the house). I had issues for awhile on healing and moving on. It was hard to feel like I was worth more than what my body had to offer. Now, after a few years of counseling and alot of God, I'm fine. Do I still think about it? Rarely. Does it still bother me? Only when I see other girls going through what I went through. However, I can relate to them and help with their healing process. I've done this many times. It's an unspeakable thing but it doesn't have to ruin her life. She can heal and recover from it. It will take time and understanding. She will have to know it's not her fault and there's nothing she could have done to prevent it. That will be the biggest concern. I'm 28 years old now and still speak to the person who violated me. He is my father. 4 years after it happened I let him walk me down the isle. He has spent the last 14 years trying to make up for what he did. He knows it was wrong and knows I will never allow him to be alone with me or my daughter. That trust will never be but I will allow him to have a relationship with them as he is their grandfather. See, typically people who do these types of things are sick themselves. Chances are it happened to them for a long period of time and they were not allowed to speak of it. My father was molested for several years..by a man. His struggle was proving he wasn't gay. That doesn't make what he did right..nor does it excuse it but it's that type of thing that drives the train. He was also an alcoholic so this also contributed. He quit drinking and got help. It no longer runs my life and I'm not held back by it. Just wanted you to know that it may seem like it's not repairable but it definitely is. She can overcome this..with lots of love and support. Good luck with quitting. Remember that there will always be things keeping you from quitting. There will always be something to overcome. You can do this. It's in your best interest and your baby's best interest and you are strong enough. Best wishes!

Natos - Monday, 30 June
Lol it did freak me out at first but here im am nw excited and wanting 2 feel it again and again and again. Lol in kinda weary if s/he wil kick while im doing the baby dance. Lol that would feel awkward.

stacidrake - Friday, 27 June

very sparkly :)

izziebo - Friday, 27 June
good luck with the big fat quit!!! im sure ull be fine:D xxxxxx

Hopeful22 - Friday, 27 June

Congratulations and I wish you guys the best!

Natos - Friday, 27 June
Chocolate. Yum. Hav sum 4 me 2.

Tess42 - Friday, 27 June
Hi Mel! How are you doing today, any better? I know you're beating yourself up right now, but how about some real incentive to stop smoking? If you stop, there is a very good chance that Taylor will only have a dim memory of you smoking, and Blake will most likely be unable to remember what you looked like smoking at all within 2 years. That's right, before they graduate high school. Isn't that incredible? Here's something else that I think is great about that: since you and I are highly addicted, we are astoundingly sensitive to the smell of cigarettes. Our children won't be able to get past the front door without our knowing they've smoked. Mel, all this pain, agony and struggle is useful and it will, as you make your way through it, serve you and others in multiple ways. You will be able to tell Taylor, Blake and your newest little one, with all credibility, what taking up bad habits do to you and how hard it is to break them. You can use it to remind your children and others that most great things come from great sacrifice and struggle. Finally, you will have lengthened your life. You are worth it. We want you in this world longer Mel.

izziebo - Thursday, 26 June
hahahaha i hope its a boy if it is im calling him joseph if its a girl andy likes amy louise but i dont i like amilia rose but he wants amy so we have to come to an agreement lol
im having a huge stress about money at the moment coz of the move tomorrow i dunno how im gonna afford my bilsl as my maternity allowence hasnt coem through yet n from what everyones saying its gonna take AGES longer

im now really worried
andrew said he will help me as much as he can but i cnt just use his money to pay for me to live. i just wuish hed move in with me n we cud be a proepr couple lol

Allioop - Thursday, 26 June
Hey! Glad things are starting to get a little better for you! I was starting to feel a lot better and then WHAM out of nowhere I puked my guts up last night! LOL Ahhh....what we woman deal with! If a man had to go through this they would never be able to do it!!!!

Natos - Thursday, 26 June
Im very happy that you are better. What about appitite? U cn eat comfortably?

lannie08 - Thursday, 26 June
Hey, just thought I'd reply to your message on the TTC forum. No, it wasn't a positive. There was no line in the test window, and only half a line in the control window, so I'm disreguarding the test because the control line wasn't proper. If I don't get AF on Saturday, then I will hopefully test either Sunday or Monday. I'm preparing myself for her to show her much unwanted face, but I don't think she'll be making her arrival this month, but only God knows the answer - I just hope it's the answer I'm hoping for.

izziebo - Wednesday, 25 June
ooo why a boy? i had awful morning sickness which points to a girl apparently lol but im carrying all out front (iv put a big on my sides n i thionk my sexy bums grown a bit but not much) which points to a boy apparently.

i just had a 2 hour nap i didnt mean to i jumped in to bed coz i was chillie n iv woken up and its nearly half 7 lol oops hopefully ill ahvea better sleep tonight last night was a piss take i thuink i was just happy lasdt night coz andy had been all suggly and nice hehe im so easily pleased.

but im dead happy he wants to be with me after spending 6 months pregnant and single lol u forget how much u love snogs and cuddles untill u dnt get them anymore hehe but now i do n im loving it. xxxx

izziebo - Wednesday, 25 June
andrews convinced iv found out what it is and not telling him coz i keep refering to the baby as "he" lol. he wants a boy one now too coz he says they are easier lol like hed know hes never ever changed a nappy!! hehe

i cudnt sleep last night

n i woke up all ready how crap is that! ill hopefully sleep tonight! i think dirty sex made me un able to getany shut eye hehee

what u up to? xxxx

izziebo - Wednesday, 25 June
lol it sucks

im so exahsted but i just cnt sleep
my backs hurting and my tummys hurting i blame andy for making me do sexy time hes too sexy to say no to haha
n i blame been starviong iv just demolished a huuuuuuuuge corned beed sarni lol maybe that wil help me sleep?
lol

hows everthing going tho? u doing okay? xxx

izziebo - Wednesday, 25 June
hey lover hows it all going? i cant sleep n im hungry and tired how does this work lol

MicheeMoon - Tuesday, 24 June
We know how you feel... hang in there... it really helps reading the blogs and knowing that mostly everyone else is feeling the same.

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