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bigmuma has 96 days to go and is now in week 26
	Age: 31 Country: AU Province/region: western australia City: mandurah Partner: Andrew Children: Yes, 2 Pregnant: Yes Due date: 15 Jan ,2009 Occupation: self employed
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MEL'S WORLD ITS A BOY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hi I am a mum of 2 but i also have twin angels watching over me that i miscaried at 12 weeks when i was 16. It was the most horrible thing that ever happend to me and the fact that i was so young added to the stress because i thought i had done something wrong. I now have 2 great kids (girl) aged 13 and a (boy) 8 and hubby and i have been TTC for 7 months. It hard to think that your body is failiing you when you really want another baby. If i do have another one it will be fantastic but if i dont then i will be happy with the 2 i have becasue they are great kids. (besides the 13 yr old girl hormones lol)

Please feel free to ask me anything as im really open and love to give advice. I am a bit of a guru when it comes to babys. If my sisters are having problems getting theirs to sleep its aunty issa's turn to bring in the big booby pillows and get those babys down for a nap lol. I must bore them or something.....

Baby dust to all and good luck with your pregnancys or TTC.

Just a quick update so you all dont feel mad if i dont get back to each and every one of you. I went to the hospital yesterday with brown discharge which turned pinky and they got me onto a sailine drip as i was dehydrated and gave me maxalon for the nausia. I had a scan done and it says 6weeks and 4days. So i was put back 8 days but i never go on what they say because every time they have dated me early on in the piece its turned out that i was right to start of with lol. Crossing my fingers that it all stays good. I feel a but wierd though because i had talked myself into thinking there was nothing there and that i would feel good again. I know it sounds harsh but its hard to explain. I think my head medication is messing me around. My feelings are all over the place And i am happy but i feel so sick that its making it hard to be really happy. I sounds ungratefull for the blessing i have been given but i am going to try to stay strong. Im a wierdo i know lol. Thanx so much for all of you caring you guys are my life line.

http://youtube.com/watch?v=N1uKCchuIjM&feature=related This is awsome!!

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Allioop - Monday, 7 July
Aw, your welcome! It is nice to have people on here that are there for you, isn't it? I'm so glad you are finally starting to feel better!
Have you always had heart problems or is this something new? Either way I hope it's all under control so you and baby can be happy and healthy and enjoy finally feeling a little bit better! Let me know how the echo goes!

Bek 30 - Sunday, 6 July
Hi, I am so sorry it has taken me a while, my kids have been so sick then my computer crashed... they say everything happens at once...lol. I'm sorry to say, nothing is gonna help ure son except for a circ. Dylan got 1/2 a circ and was completly fine afterward, he had never felt such relief in his life. It's more painful for then to have phimosis then it is having a circ. Afterwards he was a bit shy, he was always asking why his nephews were different to him ( they have a full circ), but once I showed him the pics of before he had the op, he fully understood. I would suggest u get ure son done asap and talk to ure dr about 1/2 circ. It's not like they need a full one anyway, they just need to take enough skin away so he can pee normally. Good luck with it all and I hope everything works out well for u both.

Allioop - Sunday, 6 July
Hey bigmuma! Glad to hear you are starting to feel a little better. Hope it keeps going that way!!!
Good luck with your echo--I hope everything is okay. Keep me posted:)

Tastiecake731 - Friday, 4 July
I read your post about the stuffy nose and not sleeping and I'm right there with you. Last night I was tossing and turning, my hips have been bothering me for a while (suppose they're preparing EARLY) and my back hurts if I lay on it too much. Oh almost forgot to mention my shoulders and arms go numb if I lay on my side too long. Just can't seem to get comfortable. I usually drift off by the time I'm exhausted. And as soon as I lay back I can't seem to breath. I've been using vicks like crazy, it helps a bit. Hope all is well on your end many blessing to you : wub

littledebbie99 - Friday, 4 July
Thanks for checking out my belly shots! I hope you are doing well. Have a wonderful day.

-Debra-

Tess42 - Friday, 4 July
Hi Mel. Hope you're doing alright and I know your battle to stay off the smokes feels like a losing one. It might help you to know that it takes most ex-smokers a couple of tries to quit for good. Good luck with everything.

JUDE 2 - Friday, 4 July
Hi mel its nice to met you. I live in DALBY its a small town about 3 hours from Brisbane and the Gold coast so im far away from you but compared to some we are close. Youve probably never heard of it as most people who dont live near by havent. With my first 3 my sickness only lasted untill around the 12 weeks but my last i was sick all the way through but then he was 2 pounds heavier than the others and alot longer so he was squashing my stomach. But its worth it in the end. jude

Kelly-Ramirez - Friday, 4 July

babybirdsmom - Friday, 4 July
Glad you popped into week 12 I was missing seeing your comments and chatting! Hope you are doing well. I am doing good, just a little chest cold, and I guess this evening I am learning what heartburn is....yowsers it hurts! Instead of heartburn they should call it stabbing pain your in your chest that makes you want to scream and curl up in a ball and cry. hehehehe, the things we do for the babies we love!

luckywhite - Thursday, 3 July
yeah thats what im thinking hopefully tomorrow will be a better day.. im going to go home after work and scrub my house clean cause ive been so knackered its disgusting!! harrys room is just terrible and he has an ivory carpet as well.. EEEEEKKKK

x

luckywhite - Thursday, 3 July
yeah im still a bit queasy but my sickness seemed to last for the last two weeks so thats not too bad.. ive been feeling really happy and upbeat, until last night i had to go see scotts mum for the first time, and although she never gave me a dressing down she did say some things that ive mabye been over senstitive to and i just went for a shower and went to bed. scott was asking what was wrong and i couldnt explain..

luckywhite - Thursday, 3 July
hey lady! i was going to message you yesterday to see how you were.. oc course you havnt.. i am totally unoffendable!! hee hee

how are you feeling now.. i saw you have been a bit down..

xxx

hightshuebaby - Thursday, 3 July
thats so strange. I stopped biting my nails too but havent stopped smoking yet.

JUDE 2 - Thursday, 3 July
Hi im new here and i just wanted to say hello and im from australia also ive been reading the posts since you were TTC and became pregnant and i just thought id stop by. Congratulations on the pregnancy i hope it goes well for you.

30YrOldNzGirl - Wednesday, 2 July
There are some things you can do to try and stop your heart racing when it is happening. Such as closing one eye and rubbing your eyeball fairly hard through your eyelid. Pinch your nose and blow for as long as you can hard but without bursting your eardrums! Try that and let me know how you get on, k. Hey are you feeling any better these days? My morning sickness is easing but I still get it around dinner time right through the night. Cant wait for it to be over. Karen

Allioop - Wednesday, 2 July
LOL Seriously. At least we know there is an end in sight at some point! I was pretty sick with my first 2. I felt better after 16 weeks but I would still throw up from time to time with little warning! I hope you this doesn't last 9 months for you though!

Tess42 - Wednesday, 2 July
Hello dear. I thought about you today and I hope everything went and is going well. Stay strong mommy Mel!

Allioop - Wednesday, 2 July
Hey lady! Just stoppin' in to see how you're doing! I hope your feeling better soon! I'm finally starting to turn the corner (I think!) although I hesitate to say so! When are ya coming to week 12? I got moved up 4 days and now I miss all the girls in week 11!!!

liquidxx - Tuesday, 1 July
hehehe its always nice to know i'm not the only one

Tess42 - Tuesday, 1 July
Keep trying, Mel. Your sister loves you -- even if she gets annoyed if you tell her to not bring cigarettes over (see my post in tobacco). Remember how you felt when you heard people you knew well who quit. Let's be truthful we were partly jealous and irritated because WE were not wanting to quit. If you read some of people's stories under the Freedom from Tobacco section on whyquit.com (it's at the top right of the page), you will discover many who struggled through really terrible personal circumstances while quitting, but they were able to hang on. I would have thought reading that sort of thing would have bothered me, or made me feel demoralized (like I don't have the strength), but, oddly, I found little snapshots of folks stories really inspiring and it kept me wanting to go on. Maybe it'll help you. Good luck, sweetie!

mommyxs3 - Monday, 30 June
Hi! Just wanted to give you some positive feedback from your recent post in the "tobacco" forum. This girl you speak of can recover. I am a molestation victim myself. I was 13 when it started and 14 when it ended (I left the house). I had issues for awhile on healing and moving on. It was hard to feel like I was worth more than what my body had to offer. Now, after a few years of counseling and alot of God, I'm fine. Do I still think about it? Rarely. Does it still bother me? Only when I see other girls going through what I went through. However, I can relate to them and help with their healing process. I've done this many times. It's an unspeakable thing but it doesn't have to ruin her life. She can heal and recover from it. It will take time and understanding. She will have to know it's not her fault and there's nothing she could have done to prevent it. That will be the biggest concern. I'm 28 years old now and still speak to the person who violated me. He is my father. 4 years after it happened I let him walk me down the isle. He has spent the last 14 years trying to make up for what he did. He knows it was wrong and knows I will never allow him to be alone with me or my daughter. That trust will never be but I will allow him to have a relationship with them as he is their grandfather. See, typically people who do these types of things are sick themselves. Chances are it happened to them for a long period of time and they were not allowed to speak of it. My father was molested for several years..by a man. His struggle was proving he wasn't gay. That doesn't make what he did right..nor does it excuse it but it's that type of thing that drives the train. He was also an alcoholic so this also contributed. He quit drinking and got help. It no longer runs my life and I'm not held back by it. Just wanted you to know that it may seem like it's not repairable but it definitely is. She can overcome this..with lots of love and support. Good luck with quitting. Remember that there will always be things keeping you from quitting. There will always be something to overcome. You can do this. It's in your best interest and your baby's best interest and you are strong enough. Best wishes!

Natos - Monday, 30 June
Lol it did freak me out at first but here im am nw excited and wanting 2 feel it again and again and again. Lol in kinda weary if s/he wil kick while im doing the baby dance. Lol that would feel awkward.

stacidrake - Friday, 27 June

very sparkly :)