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| christi123 has 58 days to go and is now in week 31 | |
![]() | Age: 16 Country: US Province/region: Florida City: Ft. lauderdale Partner: nope i will be a single mommy Children: Pregnant: Yes Due date: 23 Sep ,2008 Occupation: STUDENT |
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HI!MY NAMES CHRISTIANA IM 16 AND I AM PREG WITH A LITTLE GIRL:) HER NAME WILL BE KRISTAL MERIE,NAMED AFTER ME AND HER GRANDMA:) SHE WILL BE BIRACIAL!!! NATIVE AMERICAN(ME) AND JAMAICAN(HER FATHER)! :)
Madame Zaritska, our resident clairvoyant, wants to help you prepare for the arrival of your child. Here she does her best to predict certain aspects of your labor and birth experience.
What she senses for you
The day you deliver, outside will be warm. Your baby will arrive in the morning.
After a labor lasting approximately 7 hours, your child, a girl, will be born. Your baby will weigh about 8 pounds, 12 ounces, and will be 20 inches long. This child will have dark brown eyes and dark hair.
How far along are you:: 21 WEEKS Cravings so far:: PICKLES Things that make you sick:: STRONG PERFUMES ECK Boy or girl:: GIRL!! Babys name:: MY BABYGIRL KRISTAL MERIE Advice for other pregnant women:: LOTS AND LOTS OF COCO BUTTER!!! Baby Daddy:: SEAN(AKA LOSER) His reaction:: HE WAS OK WITH THIS 1!! Greatest memory so far:: FINDIN OUT I WAS PRG HAHA Biggest fear:: SPIDERS Strange symptoms:: A WEIRD TASTE IN MY MOUTH Advantages of being pregnant:: NO WAITING IN LINES OR CARRYING ANYTHING!! Weird dreams:: RUNNING AWAY FROM A TALKING WORM LMAO Emotional outbursts:: YES MANY!!LOL Breast changes:: HMMMM LETS JUST SAY I WENT UP A CUP LOL Waist changes:: I DONT HAVE A WAIST ANYMORE!! Things you quit for baby:: PARTYING!! Most uncomfortable time:: B.H!!! Worst part of being pregnant:: GETTING FAT DUH Best place for maternity clothes:: BIRLINGTON! Taking parenting classes:: YESSUR Pregnancy necessities:: A JAR OF PICKLES,TWO TONS OF COCO BUTTER,AND REALLY COMFORTABLE SHOES!! Grandparents reaction:: MY PARENTS WERE SHOCKED,HIS PARENTS WERE ANGRY!! Aunts? Uncles?:: MY SIS IS EXCITED HIS BROS WERE ER ACCEPTING THE SITUATION!! Godparents:: I HAVENT PICKED YET!! Where will you deliver:: A HOSPITAL When:: WHEN MY WATER BREAKS!!LMAOOOOOO Will you breastfeed:: YES ITS BETTER AND ITS BONDING TIME!! Will you use cloth diapers:: OMG NO WAY Books you're reading:: HARRY POTTER AND THE DEATHLY HALLOWS(LOL I LOVE HIM!!!)
5/14/08
okay this will be aloooot of typing
this is how everything started..
sean and i met awhile back..we were basically flirting for two months.we began dating two months after we met.he seemed like a really cool guy.even though he was in an er "group" i was not scared off by this,even though sometimes i wish i had been.eventuallly i got pregnant with TWINS.yes we were astonished,the "pull-out" method had worked before.this was only about five months after dating did i get pregnant.i did have plans on keeping the twins,but things happened.during that pregnancy he moved to california,which i was against.he was already doing the "oh its not mine" and "go find the dad" and so on and so forth.after about a month of living in california he did eventually come back!by then things were sour between us and after receiving judgement and opinion and pressure from everyone including family,friends,etc i got the abortion.during this time we must have broken up and gotten back together a million times,but we managed to make it thru that hard time,even though he never really understood my pain of that abortion.
(might i add, i found out recently when i was about three months pregnant with Kristal that he has another 2 year old daughter living in texas,who hes not allowed to see,for many good reasons.)
i should mention...he was actually double timing me from the beginning,which i found out awhile later during one of the times we were broken up,but me being very naive,got back with him anyways,even staying through the cheating WHILE i was pregnant with his kids,but i could only think of making it work for my babies.
fast forward...we were trying to start new,and forget the past.now i have beeen taking bc faithfully every single day and using protection every time...i wasnt taking any chances again.but i guess i fell into that 1% category....i got pregnant again in mid december last year.~dec18.well,he took it a little better than i expected.my family my goodness were just basically speechless,and my mom was the first to come around and accept,and eventually everybody else did.
what i didnt expect was for his NOSY friends to put in their two cents about the situation.they told him everything:that i was a h**,(excuse my language),its not his,im pinning another guys kid on him,im trying to ruin his life,blah blah blah,they filled his head with everything.and i was just heartbroken to see he was actually listening to him and began to turn his back against me.he also began to call me some of the filthy names and would just not claim this baby.
it broke my heart and because of him my pillow was wet with tears at night almost daily.
we drifted apart i began to grow "stronger" and basically told him if he doesnt want to be in my bbys life thats fine he'll never get the chance 2 b the father he never had and he'll be the 1 missing out not kristal.
i guess after hearing this little speech it really hit home.
he began to change his attitude around and began supporting me:) i was very happy.even though we werent 2gether i thought we'd make it being parents and raise a wonderful lilttle girl.
well,out of the blue today,he goes and calls me and says hes moving over a thousand miles away to new york.he is telling me this rght b4 he gets on the plane!! i was completely shocked!so for the second time i felt like he was walking out on me!i am asking him why,whys he doing this im prg with his kid with less than four months to delivery and he doesnt give a clear reason;just that he needs a CHANGE.whats more change than bringing a new life into the world???he says sorry but he has to go and he hangs up.ive been feeling quite depressed by this situation.if he wanted to leave like this why couldnt he do it earlier,no while im so far along and already have feelings 4 this bby.i am stilll in complete shock.all i can think is how can he do this to me,after all we been thru yea it was tough but still he couldve at least stayed for his kid,whos completely innocent.my friends have tried their very best to console me and have mentioned child support but idk i just dont know what2do,other than prepare myself 2 being a single mom.idk if i want him pay that anyway as id rather want his time to be with her than his money.im just so confused right now:/
| Pregnancy Survey | |
| About You | |
| Name?: | CHRISTI |
| Age?: | 16 |
| Height?:5'6 | |
| Pre-pregnancy weight?: | BOUT 115 I THINK |
| About The Father/sperm donor | |
| Name?: | SEAN |
| Age?: | NEARLY 18 |
| Height?: | LIKE 5'10 |
| Are you still together?: | NOPESS!!! |
| About Your Pregnancy | |
| Is this your first pregnancy?: | NO |
| When did you find out you were pregnant?: | IN DEC |
| Was it planned?: | NOOOOOOO LOL |
| What was your first reaction?: | SHOCK!! |
| Who was with you when you found out?: | THE BESTIE!! |
| Who was the first person you told?: | THE BESTIE DUHS |
| How did your parents react?: | I CANT DESCRIBE THE LOOK ON THIER FACES LOLLLL |
| How far along are you?: | 21 WEEKS |
| What was your first symptom?: | NAUSEA!! |
| What is your due date?: | SEPT 23 |
| Do you know the sex of the baby?: | YESS A GIRL!! |
| If so, what is it?: | GIRL LOL |
| Have you picked out names?: | YES |
| If so, what are they?: | KRISTAL MERIE |
| How much weight have you gained?:LIKE 15 IBS | |
| Do you have stretch marks?: | NO THANK GOD LOL |
| Have you felt the baby move?: | YES I LOVE IT!!! |
| Have you heard the heartbeat?: | YES!! |
| About the birth | |
| Will you keep the baby?: | OF COURSE |
| Home or hospital birth?: | HOSPITAL!! |
| Natural or medicated birth?: | I WANT EVERY SINGLE MED THEY HAVE IN THERE!!!LOL |
| Who will be in the delivery room with you?: | WELLLL,MY MOM,MY BESTIE,AND SEAN WAS GOIN 2 B THERE BUT OH WELL!!HIS LOSS!! |
| Will you breastfeed?: | YES |
| Do you think you'll need a c-section?: | MAYBE SHE SEEM LIKE SHE GOIN 2 BE BIG LIKE HER DADDY |
| Will you cry when you hold the baby for the first time?: | YES FROM THE PAIN OF CHILD BIRTH LOL |
| What's the first thing you might say to him/her?: | THATS MY BABY!! |
| Would you let someone videotape the birth?: | YES SO I CAN SHOW HER THE PAIN I WENT THROUGH AND WARN HER ABOUT TEEN PREGNANCY!!ITLL SCARE HER TO REMAIN A VIRGIN HOPEFULLY!!lOL |
| Are you excited about the birth, or scared?:MOSTLY EXCITED | |
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