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clarejustin
clarejustin has 37 days to go and is now in week 34
Age: 18
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Partner: Justin
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Pregnant: Yes
Due date: 23 Jun ,2008
Occupation: childcare
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March 25th

ITS A BOY!!! So happy to find out I'm having a little boy! We went to the 3d ultrasound and got some good pictures but not to many of the face because his head was down so we get to go back for a complimentary one to get some better pictures in two weeks. I'm actually happy his head was down since that means i get to see him again in 2 weeks and that will probably be the last time til I give birth.

I had my baby shower this weekend and the show up was great. It was so disorganized and hardly anyone r.s.v.p.ed . Really the only ones that did were the people saying they weren't coming. So we had no idea who was coming and if there would be enough food and games and such. BUT the show-up was good. About 30 showed. I got a ton of things so it takes alot off my list. I know I only had my shower at just 27 weeks but I'm happy I had it that early since it gives me alot of time to get the things I didn't receive at the shower.

February 2nd

My sister told my family that I am pregnant so they finally know. They took it sooooo well. i honestly thought they would want nothing more to do with me and i would be suck with no support from my family but they are excited. they want me to come back home. I live on the other side of Canada. They can't wait to see me and I feel great. A great weight from my shoulders has been lifted. So i think i am going to move back home. i will be leaving justin for a bit but i think he understands. i miss my family way too much. and i found out my sister is pregnant. about a month behind me so i can go through the achs and pains of pregnancy with her. Something else that made my day better is i felt the baby kick three times. right when i got justin to feel it the baby stopped. What a great day!

February 1st

I went for my 20 week ultrasound and the baby was curled up in a ball so I won't get to find out the sex for at least another month and a half. It is kind of disapointing because I was counting down the days til this ultrasound. I wanted to start buying baby clothes and things for the baby room. But at least I got to find out that the baby is doing great and is very healthy. I still haven't felt the baby move but for both the ultrasounds that I have gone to it was pretty lazy so i probably won't feel it for another month.

January 2nd

So i went to my first ultrasound today and saw my little guy!..finally! I've never had a bigger smile on my face then when i saw him/her. i went in thinking i was on my 14th week but got lucky and found out im on my 15th week! im booking another appointment for week 18 (in 3 weeks) to find out the sex of the baby!! so excited!

December 31st

So its been a month since my last post and its definitly been a a slow month. Justin and I told his parents on christmas day with a bib saying i love my grandma and i love my grandpa. i thought they would take it very hard since me and justin have only been dating half a year and we aren't married but they are so excited. they can't wait and are hoping for a granddaughter. they both cried when they found out which made me cry then justin cry. it was a pretty emotional time. I haven't yet told my family but plan on telling them in the next month with a package in the mail. I'm going for my first u/s in 2 days on Jan. 2nd. so excited! I don't think its really hit justin or even me that we are having a child so this u/s will definitly get things going.

December 31st

Pregnancy Survey:
About You
Name: Clare
Age: 18
Height: 6ft 2inches , yes im very tall
Pre-pregnancy weight: 155lbs

About The Father
Name: Justin
Age: 22
Height: 6ft 2 inches
Are you still together: very much so

About Your Pregnancy
Is this your first pregnancy: Yes, very nervous
When did you find out you were pregnant: 20th Oct 2007
Was it planned: No
What was your first reaction: shocked
Who was with you when you found out: On my own
Who was the first person you told: Justin
How did your parents react: Haven't told them yet but justins parents are very excited
How far along are you: 13 weeks, 3 days
What was your first symptoms: sore breasts
What is your due date: 29th June 2008
Do you know the sex of the baby: Not yet... Definately want to find out!
If so, what is it:
Have you picked out names?:
not really
If so, what are they: Alexis or Taylin for a girl and Tayson or Daxton or Kaj for a boy..still thinking up more days..Taylin I kinda just out together
How much weight have you gained: Fortunatly we don't have a scale here but i know ive packed on a few.
Do you have stretch marks: I have them on my thighs and a little bit on my hips..have to start using that stretch cream
Have you felt the baby move
: No..pretty sure its all gas
Have you heard the heartbeat: not yet..go for my first u/s in 2 days.

About the birth
Will you keep the baby: For sure
Home or hospital birth: Hospital
Natural or medicated birth: I want it all natural but know it will be a medicated birth
Who will be in the delivery room with you: Justin and just maybe a friend
Will you breastfeed: I think I will
Do you think you'll need a c-section: I'm not sure but im going to try to avoid it
Will you cry when you hold the baby for the first time: Most likely
What's the first thing you might say to him/her: I don't know...
Would you let someone videotape the birth? the before and after but not during
Are you excited about the birth, or scared: Both

December 1st

Hello everyone! I am now in week 9 of my pregnancy and found out I was pregnant at week four so this pregnancy kind of feels like it's dragging on. When I found out that I was pregnant, I was devastated because coming from a very religious family being pregnant and not married don't go together. I'm pulling through it though and getting more excited to bring this child into this world everyday. I haven't yet told my family about this but plan on doing so after christmas in a month or so. I'm not as worried about being pregnant as some teenagers may be because I have an amazing boyfriend that is just as excited to have this child as me and fiancially Justin is well off. I've been caring for children since I was a child coming from a family with 7 siblings and now working in a daycare where I love going to work each day.I'm very happy to discover this website and read your stories so I don't feel so alone through it all.


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noodle - Saturday, 1 Mar
All sounds very normal to me. Enjoy and congrats! I'm experiencing the same stuff...and have 5 times now. (:


ourlovetoken - Friday, 29 Feb
WISHING YOU AND YOUR BABY A WONDERFUL DAY :)


ourlovetoken - Friday, 29 Feb
Re: the cheating issues...I had a similar situation happend to me during our vacation about a year or so ago...We were in Hawaii and my hubby kept texting to this one girl from work, long story short...I confronted him and had a conversation with her over the phone and showed up at his work while she was there.
I wish I could tell you not to read the emails but at the same time he has no right or business emailing some other women specially now that he is about to be a daddy. There is not such a thing as a women 'friend'. He shouldn't be talking to her at all.
I know reading his emails might mean breaking up or setting yourself up for disappoinment but you are better off finding out now and not when the baby is born.
I am so sorry you're going thru all this, specially while you're pregnant :(


ourlovetoken - Friday, 29 Feb
CLAREJUSTIN -
That is very normal...movement, placement are different with each day. I used to freak out so much about my boy not moving as much at times but after watching him moved up, down, sideways,hiccups, etc during my ultra sound without feeling a thing I came to the conclusion that it is normal.
Some days he moves so much it makes me nauseous but some other days he'll move only once if any.
Don't be alarm...Your little one will move when you least expect it :)


cherbear - Thursday, 28 Feb
Hello-- My advice-- trust your instinct. You know that something is wrong. Have you talked to your boyfriend about the messages? Does he know that you want them to stop? If he does, and he keeps at it anyway-- both you and your child deserve better. It is great that you have family support. You're a young beautiful girl-- don't let him ruin your self esteem!


preggoteacher - Wednesday, 27 Feb
So has everything worked out for the better with your boyfriend? I sure hope so, i don't think any of us need any extra stress right now.


laceyj - Wednesday, 27 Feb
congrats xxxxxx


janbob - Wednesday, 27 Feb
Hey, how is all going? How's it going with Justin, are you starting to relax a bit more hun?


kara8385 - Tuesday, 26 Feb
I have a doc appt. on Thursday so I guess I will talk to her about it then. I mean I have had shortness of breath, but that was like 40 minutes of trying to relax to catch my breath. Now for some reason I feel like crap. Thanks for your comment. I appreciate it. How are things going? I think the last time I read one of your comments, you thought your b/f was cheating on you? Everything good now?


preggoteacher - Tuesday, 26 Feb
I know exactly what you mean about things that get to you when you are pregnant! Things that normally would have rolled off my back just put me over the edge. My sister says that I am the meanest pregnant woman she has ever encountered.


~:!*CrYsTaL*!:~ - Tuesday, 26 Feb
ok so we r 23weeks preggers and next week we will be 24weeks witch means we r 6 months?? right!! HOLY SHIT YOUR 6'2..WOW THATS TALL...


septmommy - Tuesday, 26 Feb
Clare,
1st I want to say congratulations. I too am having my first child and I am not married and completely unhappy most of the time because I want my old life back and I can not handle being sick all of the time. Either way inreference to your post, we are not alone. I am not sure how to be happy again but I do know that if I am going to be happy I am because I want to be and I need to work for it. I came to your page to comment and I noticed that you are having some issues with the BF.
Now, I am not an expert but you both are very young and if you do not trust him there is something seriously wrong. I am a firm believer of follow your gut, and first of all (I learned from experiance) if he has the balls to reply to a girl in front of you knowing that you have a problem with it then, he has no respect for you. You do not need this stress along with everything else being pregnant. You need to get to the bottom of this and tell him how you feel and if you have to tell her to back off. You should never fight for a man but always fight for your respect. Good Luck.


preggoteacher - Monday, 25 Feb
I've learned to just ignore it when people say they are six months. I've tried to explain it too, but it never works. I don't think that they understand that you don't just go from 5 months to 6 months just like that...it's 5 months and then 5 months and 1 week and so on. I think that the most confusing thing for me is that all these sites say that the months begin and end at different weeks...like the one I went to says that the sixth month is weeks 22-26...weird.


~:!*CrYsTaL*!:~ - Monday, 25 Feb
you r tecnaly preggers 4 10 months!!=)


teenMOMMIE - Monday, 25 Feb
aw that sucks! well if you have a good tech then you should be fine if the baby moves a lot. when i found out, the guy was like insanely mind boggled how much she was moving, and we got her goods fasttt lol. she wasnt even in position and we saw her lol.


Tori(a.k.a. Tinkerbell) - Sunday, 24 Feb
idk if my BF really loves me,but i hope because i really love him


teenMOMMIE - Sunday, 24 Feb
yeah. i wish this was over. im tired of being pregnant. are you going to find out the sex?


mrshogg - Sunday, 24 Feb
Hey there Clare. Congrats on the pregnancy and sorry to hear about your stressful situation. One bit of advice though, don't feel that because he's the father, you need for things to work out. If he's cheating, you can probably do better. I was raised by a single parent and after seeing my friends screwed up families, I can say that it's definately better to be raised in a loving home with one parent, and the support of a loving extended family, then growing up in a house where the parents don't belong together. Either way, talk to your boyfriend. Stewing about it will cause anxiety.


teenMOMMIE - Sunday, 24 Feb
my brother was mad because i stole the limelight from him. he got married in the summer, shes only mad about that. as much as it sucks, i wouldnt worry about your parents. its all about you and your baby now. theres other things to stress about, ya know?


teenMOMMIE - Sunday, 24 Feb
heh. my mom has known ive taken a billion pregnancy tests beforehand, so i told her i had something to talk to her about, and she rolled her eyes and said 'you think your pregnant' thinking i thought i was, but wouldnt really be. so i told her i really was pregnant. she was just being a mom and telling me what to do next [[doctors and such]]. and my dad was just acted like 'the deed is done' kind of thing. nothing else you really can do about it. since theyre so religious, abortion was out of the question, and to them adoption is too. so here i am lol


teenMOMMIE - Saturday, 23 Feb
heyy. i read your post. i grew up in a very religious family too, so it was kind of weird lol. want me kick your bfs a$$ for you? :P


happy.e - Wednesday, 20 Feb
Hi being pregnant doesnt help you cause your head and body changes so much and its hard to explain to a man who will never know how it feels , there isnt even anything you can put close to it to explain to them , hope your feeling better after chat with him , and just look out for you and your wee baby , things will work out for you's all , :) x


vanessahataway - Wednesday, 20 Feb
well, just inquiring about a doctor they shouldn't know because it's not like you would fill out paperwork, but even if you did, just tell them you and your b/f split up and your not moving or something like that.


vanessahataway - Wednesday, 20 Feb
For the doctor situation, I would just NOT tell them your not going to be here for the delivery and then switch when you get ready to leave.


M2 - Tuesday, 19 Feb
I have a big dog as well so I can relate to your concerns about your baby. My dog is a big softie and I was careful to try and socialize him around kids and babies as much as possible - he's 8 yrs old now. Has your dog been around kids and babies much? Also, consider that making your dog be an outside dog might frustrate the dog and cause behavioral problems! Especially if the dog is used to being more of a 'family' dog. Best of luck!




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