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dianac86
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Partner: Bobby ... Together 4 yrs.
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Birth Story:

At 4:30 am on October 4, 2007 I arrived at the Hospital for a scheduled induction. I was 38 1/2 weeks pregnant. I was checked into my room around 5am, hooked up to the fetal monitors and had an IV started. I was 2cm dilated and 85% effaced. I was having mild contractions, but nothing that was unbearable.

Around 8am Dr. Cole came in to check my progress, I was 4 cementers dilated. She told me that she was going to come back around 9am to break my water. About 10 minutes after she left my water broke on it's own. A huge uncontrolable gush of fluid came rushing out and soaked my bed sheets. (makes me happy that I was at the hospital and not some where in public. That would have been embarassing.) After my water broke, My contractions were getting more intentse. Thats when I called for the anesthesiologist and my epidural. To my surprise the epidural was painless I didn't feel a thing.

After my epidural was in place, they attach a fetal heart monitor to the top of my babys head. It was more efficient then the heart monitor around my tummy. I had a foley catheter put in. I thought it was going to hurt, but it didn't. I couldn't even feel it. It was nice not having to get out of bed every 5 minutes to use the restroom.

At 10am the nurse came in and checked me again. I was almost a full 6cm dilated. After she checked me, another huge gush of fluid came rushing out, It was like my water broke again... this would happen another 2 times before I finally gave birth. It was weird. I was filled with tons and tons of extra fluid. Since I was progressing so fast, I started calling all of my friends and family to tell them ok any time now. HAHA lol boy was I wrong. Pretty much after I called everyone, I stopped dilating. From this point on I just did a lot of waiting. During my time of waiting, my epidural kept wearing off so I had to keep calling the anesthesiologist for more shots of pain medicine. I probably got about 5 shots of extra pain medicine through out the day. The pain just kept comming back. The only bad part about the pain medicine was, it made me very nauseous for about 5 minutes and I would throw up everytime. But it was worth it, it was like a gift from heaven. Instant pain relief and it made me feel so relaxed but also very sleepy.

Ok so around 8:45 pm after several hours of waiting I was finally 9cm. The nurse had me start pushing, so I could start moving my baby down the birth canal. I had been pushing for a while and I wanted to give up, I had horriable prssure pain and was so tired. When Dr.Cole arrived, I asked her to please do a C section. She agreed but reminded me that it was major surgery and the recovering time would be a lot longer. Dr. Cole left and my best friend Mr. Anesthesiologist came in and gave me more pain medicine. ahhh the pain was gone again. Dr. Cole came back and since my pain was subsiding again, I started to have second thoughts about the C section. I talked myself back into having my baby naturally. I kept telling myself, I can do this. So finally around 9:20pm I was almost a full 10cm and it was time to really start pushing.

I pushed and pushed. And just when I thought I was pushing as hard as I could, the nurse was encouraging me to push harder. Saying you can do this Diana, you're doing a great job. It was actually a very good motivator. I pushed for about 45 minutes. So it was a total of about 2 1/2 hours from first push to last push. Finally at 11:17 pm out popped my little girl. Or I should say my BIG girl. Sydney Nicole McAndrews weighed in at 9lbs 13oz and was 22in long. I had just given birth to a giant. I had to get an episiotomy but it wasn't bad, I was still numb from the epidural so I didn't feel a thing. lol My recovery was fast and painless, things have healed up quite nicely and I'm feel pretty much back to normal. Holding my daughter for the first time was one of the most exciting and joyous times of my life.

Sydney Nicole McAndrews: minutes after she was born:





Sydney starting to crawl:








LABOR YIKES!!
Where you induced or did you go natural:: Induced
Where did you start labor:: At the Hospital
How did you know:: Started having contractions & my water broke
How long were you in labor for::
21 Hours
Did you end up getting any drugs to ease the pain:: Oh YES, Epidural and extra doses of pain medicine
Natural or c-section:: All Natural Baby : )
Who was in the room with you::
Bobby and the hospital staff
Who annoyed you the most:: The morning nurse, she had no clue what the hell she was doing. She recently just graduated from nursing school
Anything to help keep your mind off it:: Yes, lots of drugs
Were you excited that your baby was finanlly on its way:: Oh yes, I couldn't handle being pregnant much longer
How long did you push for:: almost 2 hours
Now About The Baby!!!
What day did the baby arrive:: October 4, 2007
How much did the baby weigh:: 9 Pounds 13 Ounces
What time did he/she makes it way:: 11:17pm
Any problems with the baby::
Nope, she was prefect. Scored a 9 on the apgar
Did the baby tear you or did you get cut:: CUT.. but I was so numb from the epidural I didn't feel a thing
Did you have the baby stay in your room at night or the nursery:: Nursery, I needed some sleep.
Did lots of people come visit you::
Oh yes
What did you name him/her:: Sydney Nicole McAndrews
How old is your baby today:: 2 Months and 1 day
Any special things they do::
She smiles and coos all the time
Does their smile/laugh just make you melt::
Omg yes, then i always have the urge to kiss her. I just can't help myself
Arent your just completely in love with your little baby:: More so than ever, I couldn't imagine my life without her.


**Before Sydney was born.. Read Below**

Your 1st trimester: January 05, 2007 to April 05, 2007. (0 - 12 weeks)
Your 2nd trimester: April 06, 2007 to July 19, 2007. (13 - 27 weeks)
Your 3rd trimester: July 20, 2007 to October 12, 2007. (28 - 40 weeks)

I have had a wonderful pregnancy so far.. I only had some killer morning sickness during my first trimester, other than that... just the normal pregnancy symptoms.

I found out May 24, 2007 that we are

Bobby and I are sooo excited about having a daughter. All Bobby can talk about is, how he can't wait to hold his little baby girl for the first time.
I am . Bobby and I will be baby on OCTOBER 12, 2007. She will be here just in time for HaLLoWeeN. I can't wait!! We have went through many names, but we finally found one we can agree on. We decided to name our baby girl















My pregnancy story so far...
Well, I guess my whole journey started off one night when my boyfriend (Bobby) and I went out and had a couple of drinks came home and well, weren't as careful as we should have been. Now, I don't know the exact date of which this happened, but I can almost guarantee thats how this pregnancy got started. The "pull out" method had failed us. haha lol ~ (just a side note): Bobby and I have been together for the last 3 1/2 almost 4 years and we have lived together for the last year and a half. So it's not as bad as it sounds.. It actually makes me feel bad that I was able to get pregnant so easily.. I mean, I see all these women on here TTC, having to take fertility drugs and mark out on there callendars ovulation days. The're really struggling and emotionally and physically drained.. And here I am some 21 year old, who wasn't even trying to get pregnant and was being careless.. and opps i'm pregnant. I just wish I could give my baby making abilities to all the women who are hoping and praying to get pregnant.. So baby dust to all who are TTC. So bascially what I'm tring to say here is that our daughter was not planned. In fact I was in shock that i was pregnant! But, reguardless of how our daughter started her life in this world, Bobby and I couldn't be happier with the outcome. She is our new pride and joy and we already love her to death.

During the first trimester..
I had horriable morning sickness.. bascially I compare this to death. I seriously felt like I was going to die and not make it through this pregnancy. I was sick ALL of the time - morning, afternoon and night. I lost like 10lbs at the begining of my pregnancy due to the extreme vomiting. I couldn't eat and I could barely drink.. I was so miserable. To make things worse one of my friends was pregnant at the time.. and she was always telling how great she was feeling. grrr i wanted to punch her in her face : ). Plus on top of feeling sick, i was always sooo damn tired. I could not get enough sleep for the life of me. I would come home straight from work and sleep until the next morning, until had to get up for work and do it all over again. I feel like I missed out on three months of my life due to vomiting and sleeping. Everyone kept telling me it would get better, oh course I didn't believe them, but eventually it did get better. What they say is true, well true for me anyways.. Was that one day you will wake up and be hungry and the morning sickness will have just went away.. It's like it never happened. Thats when I knew I was on to my second trimester.

Second trimester here I come...
During my second trimester I started feeling really good. I got a lot of my energy back, which was great. I finally started to grow a pregnant tummy and not just a fat one. I got to find out the sex of our baby and I finally was able to feel her move and kick. I have to say the middle of my pregnancy was really good, I didn't mind being pregnant. I think really the only complaints had during my 2nd trimester were.. the growing pains of my uterus, thoes were not fun. Oh and for like a week every night I would wake up with this pain in my side, but a little bit more towards my back. Well this pain would wake me up and bring me to tears.. it hurt sooooo bad. I still have no clue what was the cause of it but, I hurt something awful. I also read a ton and I mean a ton of pregnancy books... seeing as my boyfriend is the general manager of a books-a-million he was always bring me home more and more books to read. So i kinda feel like i'm an expert on this pregnancy thing.. lol if your interested in reading some books just ask me and i can give you a few that were very informative and interesting. Currently i'm reading the book first time parents by: Dr. Miriam Stoppard.. I really like this book. Because not only does it describe things it will also show you pictures of what the're describing. Near the end of my 2nd trimester is when I started to really put on weight. This is when i started to crave sour stuff, I just remember being more hungry during this time in my pregnancy.

Finally 3rd trimester.. I have made it...
Well currently I am in my final strech of pregnancy. I am soo HAPPY that I have made it this far. Looking back several months ago.. I thought I would have never made it this far. I honestly can say that I am done being pregnant. I am getting so sore all over, nothing helps sitting, standing, walking, sleeping, breathing, yawning... it all hurts. Plus I am just getting so anxious to meet my little girl. Yesterday she kicked her daddy in the face. He LOVED it! He just thought it was the coolest thing, so he kept trying to make her do it again.. but her already being like her mother was being stubborn and decided that one time was enough and she didn't feel like doing it again. lol My doctor is concerned that i'm gaining to much weight, I agree I have been eating pretty much what ever I want.. not making as healthy choices as iIshould be.. so with these last few weeks I have left.. I'm making a promise to myself that I'm going to make healthier eating choices and drink more water. cut down on some of the carbs. B/C thats mostly what I have been eating... yummy yummy carbs.. oh how I love them. Plus no more cheese enchiladas : ( I love them soo much. I want some right now. It has been a long long journey and soon it will come to an end.. and I'm sure I'm going to miss it, So i'm just going to try and really enjoy these last few weeks of pregnancy and try and enternalize the feeling having my little one growing and living inside of me. remember the kicks and rolls, and the aches and pains.. b/c before i know it she will be here.. then she will grow up and be out on here own starting a family one day. (tear) lol awwww I am SOO excited, I can't wait for her to get here. : )

Pregnancy Survey

About You
Name?: Diana
Age?: 21
Height?: 5'6
Pre-pregnancy weight?:uuhh..enough! : )
About The Father
Name?: Bobby
Age?: 22
Height?: 5'10
Are you still together?: Oh Yes.. forever and ever
About Your Pregnancy
Is this your first pregnancy?: Yes
When did you find out you were pregnant?: around Valentine's day
Was it planned?: oops..no
What was your first reaction?: I said the "F" word really loud and then started crying
Who was with you when you found out?: Target customers.. I was in the restroom at target.
Who was the first person you told?: Bobby
How did your parents react?: Shocked and dissapointed but the're both happy now.
How far along are you?: 31 weeks 6 days
What was your first symptom?: nausea and tiredness
What is your due date?: October 12, 2007
Do you know the sex of the baby?: yes
If so, what is it?: Baby Girl!!
Have you picked out a name?: yep
If so, what is it?: Sydney Nicole McAndrews
How much weight have you gained?: I would say.. about 500lbs. Or so it feels that way.. actually like 30 lbs..uggh
Do you have stretch marks?: yes : (
Have you felt the baby move?: all the time.. she likes to kick me in the ribs! : )
Have you heard the heartbeat?: Yes, every doctors appt.
About the birth
Will you keep the baby?: Of Course.. thats a dumb question
Home or hospital birth?: Hospital
Natural or medicated birth?: Give me DRUGS!!
Who will be in the delivery room with you?: Just Bobby
Will you breastfeed?: I'm going to try.. not sure if I can, b/c i had my nipples pierced. hmm we'll find out.
Do you think you'll need a c-section?: I sure hope not
Will you cry when you hold the baby for the first time?: oh yes and so will bobby.. he'll probably cry more than I will, which then will make me cry more.. wow we're GAY!
What's the first thing you might say to her?: I LOVE YOU!! and what took you so long
Would you let someone videotape the birth?: Umm NO. not for me
Are you excited about the birth, or scared?: I'm starting to get scared now.. but also very excitied.






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Rachel918 - Saturday, 12 Jan
Hey! Thanks. Your daughter is beautiful!
well my pregnancy so far, was sick from 6 weeks till 2 weeks ago,and i dont mean throwing up every morning, i would throw up all day long, have been to the er for ivs and meds, I get awful headaches all the time and now just starting today i am getting these awful bach pains lower and upper one shooting in my spine and shoulder blades.. seriously does it get better!!!!!! Tomorrow i have my bridal shower so i went out and got a nice outfit which made me feel better hehe. Thanks for the message. I hope the 3 of you are doing great and im sure its all work it in the end:)


katenyc - Saturday, 12 Jan
Yes I can't wait to dress her up...I want to meet her so badly!! Ahhh just 4 1/2 more months... tic toc!!! Hahaha


katenyc - Saturday, 12 Jan
 AHHHHHHH! LOOK AT THAT FACE!! Hahaha I love it!!!!


MeganDanielle - Friday, 11 Jan
I accidently deleted your comment. I'm sorry! Lol
Today was suppsed to be a good day, however I get to the doctor & they've rescheduled my ultrasound for Monday so I'm like extremely dissapointed.


Sydney528 - Friday, 11 Jan
heyy girl!!thanks!!Sydney is sooo cute and has the best name ever!!!shes gotten so big!!!Jade will be two weeks on sunday!!shes growing so fast!!!and i love being a mom!!how are things going with you and your family???


khylie - Friday, 11 Jan
Hey thanks for giving me all this information.
Its really helping me a lot.
Its making me not worry as much.
I have no idea how long my baby is or how much she wieghs they don't tell me anything.
At my next appointment Im going to ask, and hopefully they'll have an answer for me.
How are you and your boyfriend doing with your new baby :]


dani-and-baby - Friday, 11 Jan
aww i really like your story, it makes me happy, thank you for your message! and i've had no morning sickness.. what does that mean? i heard that when you do have morning sickness its a bigger chance of the baby being a girl?? i know i shldnt base me feelings and emotions on what others think, but when family means a lot, their opinions matter.. ughh... its just hard.. but its such a beautiful thing.


khylie - Friday, 11 Jan
hahaha thats a funny dream :]
Dang that popping noise is going to freak me out with the epidural. Yeah I tell my boyfriend all the time ' It's easy for you to say because your not the one doing it '
But he doesn't care.
Im sick of all this stress. I just want her to be here.
My ligament pain is so bad It hurts to walk or roll over in my bed. I don't know how much more I can take.
When the nurse did the squirt bottle thing to you did she do it when you were in the bed or did she make you go in the bathroom and sit on the toilet to do it to you?
This is too much stuff that they do. Weren't you freaking out. I know I'll be.
With the epidural did you feel the baby come out at all?
Was it harder to push since you were numb?
Did you hold your legs up or did they do that for you?
anddd... the epidural does it make you calm, relax or sleepy or just numb


BrittanyNmatts1st - Friday, 11 Jan
your welcome! yeah i am deff starting to show its so exciting! not to many peopleare noticing me but thats ok i notice it so thats all that matters! how is your little baby girl doin?


dawn2820 - Thursday, 10 Jan
lol @ licking the floor = i put rhiana on her belly when i change her outfits, especially if i have to do up her buttons and she will do that for a couple of minutes at a time


dawn2820 - Thursday, 10 Jan
oh yea she does that, she has always been a strong baby and has been able to hold her head up from a week old. how long does your daughter have tummy time ??


dawn2820 - Thursday, 10 Jan
what time is it there then chick? its 7.03pm here!! whats tummy time chick?? Rhiana is just getting over chicken pox, just put her in bed she looked really tired


dawn2820 - Thursday, 10 Jan
hi chick how are you and the little one


khylie - Wednesday, 9 Jan
I dont know why it sent my last message private


BriBri1978 - Wednesday, 9 Jan
I want it to go under 'Photos' where yours are just above the box, so please can click and see them bigger if they want to... This must be completly aggravating to you... I just don't have an 'add photos' or anything like that... Thanks for your help!


BriBri1978 - Wednesday, 9 Jan
When I upload in the photo's page, it keeps them on that photo page and not on my personal page... how confusing!


BriBri1978 - Wednesday, 9 Jan
Hi there -

How do I put photo's in the photo section? I like all your lil' pics, but I can only figure out how to change my main pic. I want that one to stay the same...


khylie - Wednesday, 9 Jan
Im really glad I found you to talk to. Normally when I ask people stuff they reply in just one sentence and that frustrates me because my mind is racing with questions. Feel free to tell me anything even if I don't ask because Im probably wondering. Why did you have to stay in the hospital so long, I thought we got to go home the next day? Another question I am not very comfortable with the thought of all these nurses and a doctor down there looking, did it bother you or were you just wanting the baby out? And did you know they cut you when they did it or did they not even tell you until after? What all do they do to you after the babys out? Like right after they pull her out of you and cut the cord what happens?


MeganDanielle - Wednesday, 9 Jan
I was really depressed about it at first, but I just don't have the enegry to care about his drama right now, you know? & I know he's got a lot going on with him right now as well, so I'm trying to give him his space & he's giving me mine (much more than I'd like but hey, can't complain) lol so I think he'll come around =] if not, I'll punch him in the face & I have told him MULTIPLE times when he pulls the age card that if he's old enough to have sex, he's old enough to face the consequences.


BriBri1978 - Tuesday, 8 Jan
Yes, that is definately creepy... how did you figure that out!!??


khylie - Tuesday, 8 Jan
Hey don't worry about anything being to much info because I need all the information I can get, Did you just have to stay one night? and were you able to put your clothes back onafter you had the baby or did they make you stay in the gown? Why do they take your baby away for a while after you have it I though it stayed in the room with you the whole time?


MeganDanielle - Tuesday, 8 Jan
Lol my weekend was just as blah! I layed around and watched tv. Got out of bed to pee and eat! :] I've been having weird dreams since the beginning but none concerning the baby yet, they've all been about the babys father and me killing him .. (whoa, wishful thinking) lol

the whole job issue, yea I worked there 2 and a half years, I had JUST stepped down to Senior Manager instead of the Store Manager, & Tennessee is a 'will to work state' so any employer can fire you at anytime and is not required to give you a reason. However, they screwed up in the fact that on my termination paper, they listed reasons, but they weren't valid reasons and none of the reasons were against company policy and for them to fire me & give reasons they have to be validated reasons & my employee file HAS to back up those reasons & my file doesn't, so it was false accusations. They've pretty much screwed themselves. Not only did they fire me though, they fired 3 other people, 2 were Managers that worked below me but in the same store & another girl simply because she was my friend. So .. they won't like me, or any of the other girls after this is all said and done.


khylie - Tuesday, 8 Jan
 awww she's so cute!


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oooh pretty waterfall.. (2007, 11, 29) Hello everyone (2007, 11, 29) Ohh.. pretty animals (2008, 01, 01) I love to chew things (2008, 01, 01) I`m happy now.. but you just wait. (2007, 12, 19) St. Pratrick`s Day!! (2008, 03, 19) Feeding herself (2008, 02, 17)  (2008, 01, 13) I love u mommy (2008, 01, 01) I can hold my bottle (2008, 01, 01) My Princess (2008, 02, 27) Daddy and Sydney Sleeping. (2008, 02, 17) I love this thing.. (2007, 11, 29) I had a long day (2008, 01, 01)  (2007, 11, 12) I`m such a cutie. (2007, 12, 19) Sydney and daddy (2007, 10, 14) Click here to see all DianaC86`s photos

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