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I dont think any event in life can prepare you for the loss of an unborn child. How is one supposed to cope after seeing their little miracle moving around, heart beating strong to loosing them so suddenly. I look at the ultrasound pictures daily to remind me not to take anything in life for granted. I wonder if I made the right decision by having the D&C done so quickly. I yearned for the day I could hold my precious miracle and count his/her toes. I yearned for the day I could feed my baby from my own milk. Now I have to somehow deal with the fact that it will not happen, not this time. One day your pregnant, buying baby things and maternity clothes. Your glowing and happy and your belly is showing. Then the next you are no longer pregnant, your belly has gone down, you have lost your glow, and now despite all the pain you are feeling you have to tell everyone who knew you were pregnant that you lost your baby.

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beerandi11 - 5.1 hours ago
I seen your comment about the test and wanted to share some info. I also had that same test and they are checking the tissue to see if the chromosomes are normal. I have had two miscarriages and I know how devestating this is. Be aware that test doesn't give to many answers. If they come back not normal it would give you an explanation why your body miscarried. Many times it comes back normal, mine did and it leaves you wondering why then. All I can tell you is keep your faith, stay strong and you will have your baby one day. Take care Brandi

lv2bamommy - Friday, 9 May
I have had 7 M/C over the last 8 years. This last one was in December and I made it 9 1/2 weeks. Which is the farthest I have ever made it. So we are trying 1 more time.
Have a good weekend. Enjoy those 2 little boys. Talk to ya soon!!!!

lv2bamommy - Friday, 9 May
Every one of those emotions are exactly what I went through! & sometimes I still go through. There was a time when I was so mad at god, I thought how could something like this happen? How could he give me something so precious, and then take it away from me? I questioned whether there even was a god. & then the most amazing thing happened! I hope I don't sound too strange, But, I had a dream one night. I was in this room and everything was white, and then out of nowhere a bright light appeared and a man holding a baby in his arms came walking towards me, and he said" we just wanted to say goodbye, and everything is going to be Ok" The baby was smiling and content. After that I knew evrything was going to be ok, even if my babies aren't here with me, I know that they are being taken cae of, and I will see them someday!

lv2bamommy - Thursday, 8 May
Oh Sweetheart! I know exactly how you feel. Right now I'm having troubles with mothers day! Please know that if you need to talk, yell, scream, whatever, I'm here. All the emotions you are going through are absolutely normal and part of the grieving process. Saying a prayer for you! ~God Bless~

number5forme - Thursday, 8 May
Hi,

I hope your days are getting a little better and that you are healing...

Sending hugs your way.

Peachysoft - Sunday, 4 May
My thought and prayers go out to you. I recently loss my baby too at 9 weeks in Feb 08. Its still hard. Thoughts and Prayers go out to you.

baby5 - Wednesday, 30 April
Hope u r ok. I have been through the same as you last month, i understand how u feel. Take care xx

littledebbie99 - Wednesday, 30 April

God Bless,

-Debra-

littledebbie99 - Wednesday, 30 April

I am so sorry for your loss.

-Debra-

lv2bamommy - Wednesday, 30 April
It's from photobucket! If you want you can click on mine and it will take you to the page where you can copy for yourself. Please know that you are not alone. If ever you need to talk i'm hear. ~God Bless~

number5forme - Wednesday, 30 April
YOU ARE NOT ALONE. A problem shared, a problem solved (well sort of...) as terrible as it seems, it DOES make us feel better when we know that others have gone through what we are going through. This forum is the best place to share your thoughts and feelings with those that TRULY UNDERSTAND.
I (and many others) are here for you if you need to talk.
Take care.

GLADEK - Wednesday, 30 April
I know no words can make it easier, but just know you are not alone. I lost a baby at 13 weeks in December, and It took a long time for me to even function again.
As for the testing the doctor is doing, it is like the others have said. They are just ruling out any obvious reasons for miscarriage such as chromosonal abnormalities.

roosa - Wednesday, 30 April
Read your post in the miscarriage forum. I am so very sorry for your loss. I lost my daughter about a month ago at 19 weeks. The pain is so overwhelming. You are right that no one around you understands the pain, only people who have gone through a loss can understand. Unfortunately there are quite a few of us who have so please know that you are not alone. If you need to vent or just talk, you can always send me a message. Be good to yourself and allow yourself to feel what you feel. Thinking of you, Karin

navywife0407 - Wednesday, 30 April
Read your post, I had 5 miscarriages. They send the tissue to pathology and it can tell them, like tired preggie said, if the pregnancy failed due to chromosonal abnormalities, if the umbilical cord was a 2 vein instead of 3 vein, and also if there was nothing wrong it can lead them to some answers about your own body so you dont have to endure this again. Youve got a wonderful dr, mine wasnt willing to test until i had several miscarriages, i am so very happy to hear your dr is proactive instead of playing the wait and see game thats emotionally draining and youre already dealing with a loss. Letting you have 2-3 more before trying to see if there was an issue is harsh im my opinion. Good luck

tirednpreggy - Wednesday, 30 April
Sometimes they can tell if the baby miscarried becaue of chromosomal issues... That's likely what your doctor wants to discuss. I'm so sorry for your loss :(

belle1198 - Wednesday, 30 April
I'm sorry that you had to experience losing something so precious. Isn't it amazing though how we can love our babies so much and not even have held them? Motherhood is incredible! I will pray that you are healed from the pain of your loss and that God gives you the peace that he has given me. Our babies are being well taken care of..I have no doubt!!! God bless you.

jaydsmom - Thursday, 24 April
I'm so sorry..... :o(

TickledPink- - Thursday, 24 April
Hello~ How are you doing?

jaydsmom - Thursday, 24 April
I am so sorry for your loss... That makes no sense to me either. How can the baby grow with no heartbeat? Are they going to check again?

jaydsmom - Wednesday, 23 April
I am 12 weeks today and have had the exact same bleeding as you. Went to the ER cause i was freaking. Dr did an ultrasound and baby was just fine. Moving all over and strong heatbeat. Said light bleeding is very common and nothing to worry about.

12.31.08 - Saturday, 12 April
Aww no problem! The site just changed a week ago! this is a whole new layout..
At the top right corner under MEMBERS there will be links to help you with your whole page.. The one that says edit profile will allow you to write on your page.. And tell your story or keep a journal.. however you want to decorate it!
everythign else if you click it under members.. just explore.. but they al;l have to do with editing your page..

All the tabs at the top are sections to the site..
Let me know how it goes!

kash

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