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heatherdanay
	Age: 18 Country: Private Province/region: Private City: Private Partner: Charles (The love of my life) Children: Yes, 2 Pregnant: Not anymore Occupation: student
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Your name?: Heather
Fathers name?: Charles
Are you still with him?: Yes!
Were you trying to get pregnant?: No

When you found out
When did you find out?:The Day after my missed period.
Were did you find out?: At home
How far along were you?: 4 weeks If I'm not mistaken
What was your reaction?: shocked/scared
Who was the first person you told?: My grandmother! lol Because my bf was still sleeping.
How did you tell the father?: I handed him the digital pregnancy test!
What was his reaction?: shocked/scared

All about your pregnancy
When is your due date?: Jan. 26, 2008
did you have any morning sickness?: no, not at all.
What are your fears?: Miscarriage..I've had a few.
What are you most happy about?: The fact that our little bugger is healthy so far.
Did you want a boy or girl?: I want a baby boy, but either is GREAT.
What did the father want boy or girl?: He wants a boy
Do you know what your having?:I'm hoping to find out in 2 weeks.
Do you have a name picked out?: We have a few in mind.
How much weight have you gained?: about 10 lbs
Have you felt the baby move?: YES!!! Last night, alot!

When you have the baby
Are you keeping the baby?:Of course.

Do you plan on a natural or medicated birth?: probably medicated
Are you scared about labor?: Not yet but the closer it comes I will be.
What do you think will be the worst part of labor?: The pain, but it's worth it.
Have you taken any classes?: No
Who will be in the delivery room?:My boyfriend!
Are you having the birth videotaped?: I might.
Do you think you will cry when you see the baby for the first time?: I know I will.
What do you think the fathers reaction to the baby will be?: I think he might get emotional or pass out!
How do you think family and friends will feel?: Thrilled

Baby shower gifts for Eva!

Eva Wiggling

BEFORE I WAS A MOM

Author Unknown

Before I was a Mom
I made and ate hot meals.
I had unstained clothing.
I had quiet conversations on the phone.

Before I was a Mom,
I slept as late as I wanted
And never worried about how late I got into bed.
I brushed my hair and my teeth everyday.

Before I was Mom
I cleaned my house each day.
I never tripped over toys or forgot words of lullabies.

Before I was a Mom
I didn't worry whether or not my plants were poisonous.
I never thought about immunizations.

Before I was a Mom
I had never been puked on
Pooped on
Spit on
Chewed on
Peed on
Or pinched by tiny fingers

Before I was a Mom
I had complete control of:
My thoughts
My body
And my mind.
I slept all night.

Before I was a Mom
I never held down a screaming child
So that doctors could do tests
Or give shots.
I never looked into teary eyes and cried.
I never got gloriously happy over a simple grin.
I never sat up late hours at night watching a baby sleep.

Before I was a Mom
I never held a sleeping baby just because I didn't want to put it down.
I never felt my heart break into a million pieces
When I couldn't stop the hurt.
I never knew that something so small
Could affect my life so much.
I never knew that I could love someone so much.
I never knew I would love being a Mom.

Before I was a Mom
I didn't know the feeling of having my heart outside my body.
I didn't know how special it could feel to feed a hungry baby.
I didn't know that bond between a Mother and her child.
I didn't know that something so small
Could make me feel so important.

Before I was a Mom
I had never gotten up in the middle of the night every 10 minutes to make sure all was okay
I had never known the warmth
The joy
The love
The heartache
The wonder
Or the satisfaction of being a Mom.

I didn't know I was capable of feeling so much before I was a Mom.

A baby asked God, "They tell me you are sending me to earth tomorrow, but how am I going to live there being so small and helpless?"
God said, "Your angel will be waiting for you and will take care of you."
The child further inquired, "But tell me, here in heaven I don't have to do anything but sing and smile to be happy."
God said, "Your angel will sing for you and will also smile for you. And you will feel your angel's love and be very happy."
Again the child asked, "And how am I going to be able to understand when people talk to me if I don't know the language?"
God said, "Your angel will tell you the most beautiful and sweet words you will ever hear, and with much patience and care, your angel will tea ch you how to speak."
"And what am I going to do when I want to talk to you?"
God said, "Your angel will place your hands together and will teach you how to pray."
"Who will protect me?"
God said, "Your angel will defend you even if it means risking its life."
"But I will always be sad because I will not see you anymore."
God said, "Your angel will always talk to you about Me and will teach you the way to come back to Me, even though I will always be next to you."
At that moment there was much peace in Heaven, but voices from Earth could be heard and the child hurriedly asked, "God, if I am to leave now, please tell me my angel's name."
God said, "You will simply call her, "Mommy. "

I never had the time to write my birth story so I figured now would be as good as time as ever. Charlie and I had stayed up really late on January 16 watching movies. Around midnight (January 16) after Charlie and I made love I started feeling pains in my lower back. I kept them to myself not to worry Charlie any. After a while they got to where they were causing me to tense up so I let Charlie know. He started timing these pains and he was telling me they were 10 min apart. I had plans on waiting to go to the hospital when I had contraction 3 min aprt. and no later unless my water broke. The thing is though I wasn't having "contractions" in my book. I never not one time ever throughout my whole labor felt a actual contraction. It was just horrid back and way low abdominal pains that the monitor couldn't even pick up. Still I had plans that if those pains got to be 3 min. apart I was going. Two hours later they were irregular, but stronger. Charlie and I were sitting up in bed and I thought my water bags were leaking. It was constant, but different from my bladder. We then decided to go into labor and delivery. We got there and all the nurses were really nice. They gave us a room and got me ready to be checked. I had told them about the pains and the leaking and she checked and said that in fact my water was leaking. So they got me ready and gave me a room until my labor progressed. I dilated to 5 in a matter of two hours if I remember correctly and then STOPPED! So they started me on pitosin (sp?) They got me dilating again, but slowly. Seventeen hours later I was finally ready for the epidural. Guess what? It failed completely and I was started on oxytosin. That stuff puts your right into active labor. I could of swore my ass hole was busing open or something. The anesthesiology was putting more and more trying his best to help me, but nothing seemed to numb me. Finally after being at 9 for like 40 min. the nurse said I could push. Not that I needed that information I was going to push anyways. I pushed for about 30 min. or so that seemed to be a complete lifetime and Eva Rayne Breaux was brought into this world. She was beautiful. She scared me because she would cry, but she was okay and breathing. I think now she was just being a good girl. They did finally get her to cry and bruised her food doing so. She was 6lbs 11oz 18 inches long. She was born at 6:11pm With Charlie and I in the dilevery room was our grandmothers. I think it was truly special and she was worth every bit of pain and I would do it all over again for her. Although at the time I wanted someone to shoot me. lol :)

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