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kaibear has 14 days to go and is now in week 38
	Age: 28 Country: CA Province/region: British columbia City: Victoria Partner: My Hubbylicious!! Children: Pregnant: Yes Due date: 09 Aug ,2008 Occupation: Retail
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My name is Emily. My husband and I are expecting our first child! We were married back in August, but have been together for 7 years. We are so excited and so are our families! I hope that, other than my debilatating morning sickness, the rest of my pregnancy is smooth. Have I mentioned how excited I am!!! I'm looking forward to getting a big belly! Grow baby, grow!!

Thursday, 20 Dec

Today I received a phone call from my wonderful boss. He informed me that if I call in sick anymore or take any time off for doctors appointments, I'll be fired. I thought this was completely atrocious, so I phoned Employment Standards here in Canada and was shocked to find out that I can in fact lose my job for taking too many sick days. I've taken 3 sick days since becoming pregnant and asked for a few hours off of work to see my doctor. I can't believe my boss is being so un-sympathetic and uncompromising. There were 2 pregnant women in my position before me and they never had any problems. So, why me!? I'm so stressed out and I feel completely trapped. I guess I'll just hope I don't get fired and lose my mat leave...

Saturday, 22 Dec

I had my doctor`s appoinment yesterday and I got to hear my bambino's heart beat! It was so amazing!!!! I`m so relieved to know that he/she is healthy! It`s such a weight off my shoulders, especially after a crappy week at work. Now it`s the count down to my ultrasound at 18 weeks! I can hardly wait :)

Wednesday, 16 Jan

I went to see my Dr. today. I got to hear my bambino`s heart beat again, which was such a pick-me-up!!! 160bpm!! Yay! I'm so happy that he/she is doing good! On the downside, I`m still suffering from morning sickness and have been finding work very difficult. I`ve also had some severe cramping as well as a couple of episodes where I almost passed out. I mentioned this to my Dr. and she recommended that I go on medical leave for a couple of weeks and take it easy. This sounded like absolute heaven to me, but, with all the problems I`ve already had with my boss, I`m not hopeful that it will actually happpen. I suppose I`ll try talking to him about it...cross your fingers for me!

Sunday, 27 Jan

I`m on medical leave!! Woo-hoo!! It`s so nice to be sleeping in and relaxing on the couch during the day instead of getting up in the dark and busting my butt all day! My stomach`s already feeling better! It`s also nice to be able to visit my Dr. on short notice. When I went in last week, the fill-in Dr. couldn`t find my baby`s heart beat, so (instead of having to wait a whole week) I went back in a couple of days later and the Dr. was able to find it! 140bpm and going strong!! So, yes, I`ve decided that all pregnant women shouldn`t be forced to go to that dreadful place called work!! I HATE IT!!!

Thursday, 14 Feb

Well, I`m back at work now. At least I`m feeling better, and I keep telling myself that I only have to be there a few more months. Plus, I felt the baby flutter a couple of weeks ago and I`ve felt a few pokes and tickles since then! That`ll keep me cheered up! I`ll try to block out all of the insensitive things my boss does, like not letting me sit down during my shift. I love being pregnant though! So much better now that I`m showing and my morning sickness has subsided! Common baby, grow!!!!

Wednesday, 19 Mar

So I finally got my u/s results back and my dates are off by almost 2 weeks! It sucks being pushed from week 21 back to 19, but at least my baby`s healthy! And, this means that my AFP tests are now normal, so that`s a huge relief! I`m still suffering from nausea and I`ve been getting horrible migraines (and finding work quite difficult), but other than that I love being pregnant! My belly`s slowly getting bigger and bigger and I love showing it off! I`m feeling TONS of baby kicks, punches and rolls! Feeling my bambino twirling around in my belly is definetly the best part and I can`t get enough of it!!!!

Sunday, 23 Mar

Well more drama for me on the work front. Yesterday they again threatened to fire me. The whole thing started when I asked for 2 days off in a row (which I`ve never gotten) since I was owed a day for the stat holiday. My manager flipped out and said I shouldn`t be quibbling about my schedule when I`ve had "so many days off ". I`ve called in sick about 6 times since becoming pregnant and those were all days spend with my head in the toilet. Not nice, relaxing days off. I've also spent hundreds of dollars on medication to make it so that I could go into work. She went on to say that I didn`t seem to realise how close I was to losing my job, and that I was acting like I was in a position of power which I'm not. (Actually, I am because they can get into heaps of trouble for firing a pregnant employee.) I argued and said they couldn`t fire me for being pregnant and asked for a reason and she said they didn`t need one. She also said that I`ve been giving her `attitude ` and that she couldn`t stand it anymore and she wanted to fire me right now. Keep in mind that I can`t stand her or her husband (who happens to be the store manager) but I`ve been nothing but polite and respecful of them the entire time I`ve worked there. They`re the ones who`ve treated me like crap ever since finding out I was pregnant! But, somehow in their minds, I`m in the wrong and they`re punishing me for something I have no control over. I hate this feeling and I`m so sick of being there! But, if I quit I lose my mat leave...I guess I`ll keep plugging away and wait for what they throw at me next...

Saturday, 05 April

My dr. finally put me on medical leave! I'm so happy to be done with my horrible job and to have some me time! Seeing as how I still have nausea, migraines, and back pain (among other things) I'm not expecting to feel a whole lot better until the baby is born...but at least now I don't have to force myself to go into work when I'm feeling crappy! What a relief!

Now, how should I spend my first day of freedom??!!

Wednesday, 23 April

I just found out that we're having a GIRL!!!! I'm so happy and excited!!! The tech said that everything looked good and she was right where she should be for development. She weighs 1 pound 12 ounces! We got to see her open her eyes and yawn. At one point she even had her feet up by her head! We got to see her in 3D as well and she's soooo cute (even with my nose)! I can hardly wait to meet her in person! YAY!!!!

Saturday, 31 May

Well, I finished my 24hr holter monitor test yesterday. It wasn't too bad - mostly just uncomfortable having probes glued to me and wires hanging off. Sleeping sure was a chore though! Mind you, it always is now;) I don't think they'll find anything wrong with my heart...I think my arrythmia is worse because of being pregnant and it'll get better once my baby girl is born. Speaking of which, her kicks are getting soooo strong! She's even kicked my kidneys a few times - that sure hurts!! She loves to stretch her legs out to the side and I can feel knees and feet sliding under my skin! Very cool! We have the nursery all set up and I just have to decorate it. Her dresser is already full of clothes and receiving blankets! She's gonna be one spoiled baby! Only 10 more weeks till I can meet her!

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mommyforlife - 15.2 hours ago
thanks so much! I'm having a hard time leaving you girls

eastern-Canadian-Lady - 31.3 hours ago
Hi,
I feel in much better spirits than I was last week. Thanks for asking. Holy Cow!! I can't believe you are dialated and effaced this early. Most people do get dialated, but I think it's rare to get effaced this early. It's really been like that for two weeks? wow!

It sounds like you get a lot of exercise! I feel like a couch potato bc I am not allowed to do anything. I can't even go for a five minute walk without contractions making me keel over. My doc said to stay home. At least we have an air conditioner! I am feeling unmotivated too lately, especially in the last week. Are you taking iron for energy? I have to buy more carnation instant breakfast drinks. I think I need them now more than before.

I have a tonne of work to do on a doll house that h borrowed ten years ago from his aunt. I want it out of the house, which means it needs to be done before next Wednesday. Getting old broken trim off of it was, then cutting new trim to size was a long process, then I placed it with wood glue, then nailed it.

It has taken a week and a half so far. It was very detailed work. I love this kind of work normally, but being this pregnant, sitting on the floor for extended periods of time is not fun. I try to find something for Ally to help with, and try to get out daily for her to have fun. I did get some things done today on the doll house, and it feels good to be able to say that!
I still have to:
1) sand it,
2)then prime it,
3)then let it dry.
4)Then I tape around trim and windows,
5)then paint it (twice, so double the drying time).
6) move the tape to get the other colour on
7) paint another colour twice
8) paint the roof.
9) vaccum the whole inside
10) remove the door to get it out to the van. It's too big to fit through the door.
Seeing this list seems more manageable than seeing the project as a whole. I guess I can get at least number one done before bed. I have to get it done before next Wednesday. Should be quite the time crunch!!

It is supposed to rain here like crazy for much of the next week. I would normally want to paint outside so it will dry, and so the dog's hair doesn't stick to it, but that will be impossible. My dog sheds a lot, so that is bound to drive me crazy. I think I may end up locking her in the basement for the next few days.Ally wants to help paint too. Good thing I own large garbage bags!! One will be over her clothes, and others will be cut, spread and taped to the floor for two feet all the way around the doll house. Should be interesting.

I guess I had better go and get it done. Wish me luck.
have a good night. ttyl

arcanejane - Sunday, 20 July
If you think he's not helping now, wait until the baby comes. With our 14 month old, my husband will come up with every excuse in the book to avoid watching her. "I've got to mow the lawn" "I've got to go to the gym" "I'm going to redo the front yard and I need to pick all the little rocks in the backyard up and put them down out front" "I've got to go the store" Men just do not get it. And they will never get it, which is why God gave women the duty of childbearing. Jeez. I guess I should be glad he does the yardwork and all, but when he tries to help with the dishes, laundry...he makes a mess of things. I just end up doing it myself cause at least it'll be done right! Husbands, I tell you. It's like having another child sometimes.

eastern-Canadian-Lady - Wednesday, 16 July
Thank you for writing to me. It really made me feel better. I was very stressed and overwhelmed. I have since made a list and accomplished a few things off of it. They were things that we bothering me that I felt were overwhelming tasks. I told h about the list, and he offered to help me. Since we got a few things done I feel much better. I know h is willing to help with whatever I need, I am usually just too stubborn to ask. I decided on a day of the week to get each thing done from the list, so that helped too bc I have a tendency to get started then not want to stop until the whole list is done. I think I need more sleep, so I must run.

I hope that everything is well with you. Any news? I went to the ob today and everything is good. baby is measuring right on target with the new due date since they changed it in June, so the gap in size between where baby was and should be has not returned, which is a HUGE relief. I was told today not to travel past Aug 6th, so I can go away again if I feel overwhelmed again. we shall see, maybe after a few more days of emptying boxes I can sneak away for another week.
I must run. have a good night. and thanks again.

crysc - Sunday, 13 July
The pain you are feeling on your pubic bone is probably from your baby dropping. The baby's head is putting pressure on your pelvis because it is engageing and that is what is causing the pain. I am having it too and it can be very uncofortable at times, but at least we don't have much longer to go. I wish you all the best of luck.

ITZmeASH - Wednesday, 9 July
Oh how exciting on being dilated!! I went yesterday and they said i was 3cm.. i am getting excited!! Almost think it was better had they not told me. Now, i am on the edge of my seat waiting for something to happen..
Good luck!!

April-Marie - Monday, 7 July
I get a lot of negative comments too. Mostly from other pregnant girls or girls who have been pregnant. I guess I'm small for how far along I am, so instead of praise I get the "You B****" or "OMG I hate you!" or "UGH you're not even in maternity clothes!" ... it's really hard to deal with. I noticed when I do get compliments I don't know how to take it, like they're lying to me lol! It's hard not to let the jealous ppl upset you.

mommytia - Sunday, 6 July
Sweetie yoy might look young to some people, I get those looks some times because people think I am in my teens or early 20's and if I were its none of their business.. Enjoy the looks It may be jealousy from the other preggo women!!! dont let it bother you

arcanejane - Sunday, 6 July
Are you sure you're not just being overly sensitive due to hormones? Because if anyone gives you dirty looks as a pregnant woman, you need to give them the finger! That is totally ridiculous. If anyone does look at you funny, you probaby caught the eye of somene who desperately wants to have a baby and can't. so they are hating on you and you should not give a rat's ass about them. Congrats on your pregnancy, girl. Be proud.

becca0x - Sunday, 6 July

This is a really pretty pic. Your bump is a perfect size!! :) congrats and good luck!!

tetera - Saturday, 5 July
I've also gotten a lot of dirty looks, rude stares, etc. from people, I just don't understand why! Pretty much no stranger has been nice to me during this pregnancy, it was completely unexpected!

eastern-Canadian-Lady - Wednesday, 2 July
Hi, I'm doing well. Changing the date has been frustrating bc it feels like we can't plan much, but then again I guess everyone feels the same way at the end of pregnancy. I just don't like that it is such a big range. (10 Aug to 12 Sept). I really think baby will come around the 20th of Aug. The doc said that I might go early, but not too early. At least the contraction are supposed to make labour easier, that's one good thing about BH.

3 nights of camping, wow! I haven't been camping in years. I want to, but just never could afford a tent, and with my step kids going back and fourth to their mothers for 24 hrs every weekend it was unrealistic to be able to enjoy it. I haven't been swimming during this pregnancy either. I would like to, and probably will during the next two weeks. I need to find a place that isn't too expensive that sells maternit bathing suits. There has to be one somewhere. If not, then I will wear jammie shorts and top into the water, LOL. That's what I did last time.

I just got home from the fireworks, and made nachos for everyone bc they were hungry. I need to Ally to bed. Midnight is WAAY too late for my 7 yr old. Happy Canada Day!
by the way, I will be going away for about 2 weeks in the next few days, so if you don't hear from me there is no need to worry. Take care

TeresafromBC - Monday, 30 June
Thanks, you too! It's no fun, I actually miss the rain. :P

eastern-Canadian-Lady - Wednesday, 25 June
Hi Kai,
It's sounds like it was busy to get all of the info at one time. I pretty much knew the after care stuff when I went last time, bc my mom had a baby when I was 10, and another when I was 14. I took care of them A LOT! I was pretty much their mother. Plus I babysat a lot too.

I would have liked to have a tour of where everything was at the hospital though. I went to the hospital and basically all they covered was breastfeeding. I didn't understand why we spent an hour on it. Now I see that a lot of people have problems with it, but I really didn't know it could be difficult before.

When I had Ally, they gave us WAYYY too much info to read, and sign, and send in the mail to one company or the other. I didn't realise how much there would be, so when the baby was sleeping at the hospital, I read and filled things out like crazy. I figured that was the best time to do it bc I knew that once I got home I wouldn't have nurses to help watch her so that I could get it done. Was I ever glad that I did it that way!!

I am cleaning and nesting a bit, but before I can focus on smaller things I need to finish unpacking. What a job that is! I haven't been able to do much so it seems to be taking forever. H is willing to help, but he doesn't know where to put anything, so I might as well do it myself.

I might have my shower at Thanksgiving. That way the family can meet the baby and get gender specific things. I really wanted to have one last time, but it didn't work out. if it's a girl, then I won't need much bc I am a papck rat and kept everyything from when I had Ally. If it's a boy I have almost nothing.

I do still have contractions, but they seem to be less frequent and less painful since last Thursday. I see that you read about me going to the specialist. I am thrilled that the baby is ok!!! The relief is unlike anything else.

I am guessing you are off camping now. It's Tuesday night. I hope you are enjoying yourselves.
ttyl

amlika - Tuesday, 24 June
it really sounds like a charlie horse- which can be a deficancy in magnesium or potassium... Bananas are good for these and fortified milk.

I have gotten enough that I don't let myself stretch in the morning until I am out of bed. It doesn't always work, but I try!

GoonieMomma - Tuesday, 24 June
I'm assuming it wasn't a leg cramp... and those are mostly in the calf.
My guess is sciatic nerve pain.

leenakaye28 - Tuesday, 24 June
Oh I have had a charlie horse in my right leg every nite now. So much last nite that it made my whole leg sore too. What are those from anyway? I heard drinking more milk helps-not sure. Hope you feel better

Mommy-Melissa - Tuesday, 24 June
I had the same thing happen to me 2 nights ago to my leg. It hurt soooo bad! I have no idea what it was, it felt like a charlie but worse! I hope i never get that again. It happened like at 2 or 3 in the morning. My husband had to rub my leg.

VictoriaW - Monday, 23 June
ty very much

eastern-Canadian-Lady - Sunday, 22 June
Hi, I've been thinking about you. How are things going?

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