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katemoz
	Age: 22 Country: US Province/region: Iowa City: Central City Partner: Husband-Nick Children: Yes, 1 Pregnant: Not anymore Occupation: Leads Processor
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Lets see...where to start....In February of 2004 (yes I was a senior in high school) I found out I was pregnant but sadly lost it around 7 weeks. (probably due to many things, one being stress because the father was crazy...no joke). Then in 2006 I met my husband Nick. A pain in the ass but he's my pain and I love him to death! :) We found out I was pregnant last April of 2007 and we were both thrilled along with our families. At my what should of been 11 week check up they could not find a heartbeat and realized the baby had been gone since around week 7 so I had to have a D&C done. It was one of the worst times of my life. But...without trying again (apparently i'm immune to all contraceptives!! :) lol) We found out at the begining of November that yet again i have a bun in the oven. We waited weeks to tell family (to make it past the dreaded 7 week mark!) And after 2 ultrasounds and MANY nervous phone calls for minor things, we are confident that everything will go fine this time around!! Everyone is very excited and I couldnt be happier!!

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mamajohnson - Thursday, 29 May
Hey love how are things going as far as the marriage topic?

shannon74 - Tuesday, 27 May
My weekend was quiet. Sean and I spent most of it at my moms house--in her pool. That felt really great! Its nice to be weightless for a while. Other than that, didnt do much of anything. I am tired most of the time.
So far I have not been poked in the ribs. He seems to like to push on my bladder though-love that :-/
Glad you got the car!

shannon74 - Tuesday, 27 May
I hope you had a nice weekend! The weather was great here but I didn't make it to the beach. That would be so awesome to meet up with our little ones next year sometime!

I am officially uncomfortable! I have so much pressure down on my pubic bone-oweee!!! It hurts to walk too much which means I am going to go crazy sitting more than I would like. I cant imagine it getting any worse-on nooo...
How are you doing? Sleeping ok these days???
Did you ever get the car you wanted???

shannon74 - Friday, 23 May
Yummmmy I am salivating for one! There really isnt a good place to go for margaritas around here :-/ Palm Springs is only about 1 1/2 hours away! (thanks for the privacy) It would be really awesome to keep in touch and meet up sometime. Florida is a great place to visit. I know this is down the line but you just let me know when you are coming!!

warwickbaby - Thursday, 22 May
They are both VERY excited! My youngest is getting better about it as each day passes.... She has just been the baby for soooo long now and doesn't want to give that up ;)

warwickbaby - Thursday, 22 May
Everything else is great! Zack just started a new job with a well established company here in town. He is WONDERFUL! I wish everyone had a chance to have a guy like him :)! Hopefully my divorce will be over soon! I have been told that if my ex and I are not divorced by the time Paityn arrives, legally he has to go on the birth certificate as her father and he is responsible to pay for her! THAT CAN NOT HAPPEN!!!!! So I told my ex so hopefully he will get a move on things!!!

shannon74 - Thursday, 22 May
Margaritas are one of my favorites as well! I have to be careful with that tequila though. I love mine strong-with a floater on top so I really have to pace myslef (muhahahaha). I miss them too. I think your right, he will naturally taper off the wine when the baby comes. He has had a stomach flu and has not been able to drink anything the past few days. I know he is sick when that happens! I hope you get things worked out soon. You seem so sweet ;-) Have a good day.

warwickbaby - Wednesday, 21 May
I have been okay, just gettin uncomfortable... Not too long now though... I hope things work out the way you would like for you and your baby!

I went to dr and was having contractions, so they gave me my progesterone shot a day early. Also found out I had some white blood cells in my urine, so they are putting me on an antibiotic. They said she is so low! They could only get her heartbeat way low (like in my pubic area) Sorry if TMI... So here is to another week of pressure and pains and hoping she cooks for a bit longer!

warwickbaby - Wednesday, 21 May
Hey! I haven't heard from ya in a bit and thought I would check in and see how everything is going!

shannon74 - Wednesday, 21 May
Hey-im glad to be be here for you to vent. We are doing well. Sean has been great. The only problem we have had is that he still drinks alcohol just about everyday. It was nothering me for the longest time. I just figure he is not getting drunk and he is home with me so I decided to lay off the nagging. When that baby comes he wont be able to come home and go straight to the wine and drink in peace anymore. I dont think he realizes it yet LOL! My husband is 7 yrs younger than I am and I forget that sometimes. Great guy--just has not experienced life in ways I have. Guys are behind as it is--as you know ;-) Over all we are doing well-thanks! Wwell, off to work I go. I am tapering off hours now (since I am a hairstylist and am on my feel A LOT!) Im getting heavy-UGH!

tanya21 - Wednesday, 21 May
Outch... that was realy not nice. That was realy mean. I know its non of my business but what does your heart tells you?

tanya21 - Wednesday, 21 May
i did.... lol.... So how is things going that side. "your partner"

tanya21 - Wednesday, 21 May
OOPS....!!!! So so so sorry i replied the wrong message to the wrong person. Ahhh this is so embarissing.

tanya21 - Wednesday, 21 May
Lol... Yes its a pacifier. Sorry for that. Im from South Africa and the way we name things is not the same as you guys over there. Guess i will have to learn how to pronounce things like you do. Hows your little one doing today?

shannon74 - Wednesday, 21 May
Well said! Good job girl! I am so sorry you are going through this but it seems you are well aware of what he is doing to you and you are not making excuses for him. You seem so sweet and I know you deserve so much more. I know what ever happens, you will be ok. A baby cant change a guy to stop acting like and idiot but maybe, just maybe, it will trigger something good and make him want to work on himself. I wish only the best for you.

shannon74 - Tuesday, 20 May
Well, this is just my opinion from my experience but, If you feel this way, marriage for you guys is not a smart way to go unless...he admits to his issues and is willing to work them out however you choose-together (counceling maybe but guys usually "think" they are too big and tough for that--sorry we are all human buddy ;-))so that is probably going to be a challenge (as you know). Your relationship can get better but only if you both are willing to recognize the issues and work work work on them. Oh, girl! One thing at a tme right? Baby has taken center stage right now. Try to focus on that if you can. Tough times, you will grow and get through them one way or another!!

shannon74 - Tuesday, 20 May
WOW! The things he says to you are so "out there" how could you respond other than to just hang up. He sounds so angry--where is this coming from-really. Is it coming from the wedding conversation or is there something deeper goiong on here. He (his words to you) just sounds so cruel. This relationship sounds so one sided to me. Granted, I do not know either of you--I could be way off. But from what you have told me, that is what I see. Why do we stay? I stayed in a bad relationship for 14 yrs before this one. We stay for lots of reasons--we are hopeful that things will get better, we "love" them. We are comfortable, and when we have the good times, when things are going well, we stay and never really work through the real underlying issues (because that takes soooo much time and work). Its just easier to stay and deal... It would be nice if your man could hear himself and take a look at his behavior towards you. How can one get him to snap out of this anger/bad attitude and remember why he loves you and how much he will love this baby--like you said-he is playing games and that needs to stop. I am frustrated for you :-/

MooMommy - Tuesday, 20 May
Yeah for the nursery!! I'm sure now a week later it's even more progressed!! How was your week??

This past weekend I went crazy baby shopping at Carters...got sooo many clothes and finally an amazing diaper bag!! I'm sooo excited to actually put it all to use...

Had a scare last week and spent the day in the hospital with some bleeding....Everything is gerat though and we're both healthy...and progressing fine...it was just a superficial tear in the cervix that closed itself within the day....SCARY though let me tell you...you don't realize how scary it can actually be util it happens....

shannon74 - Tuesday, 20 May
He is really being unfair to you. That is NOT a reason for two people to get married. What is he thinking? Getting married under that premise makes no sense and he sounds slightly immature on the issue. Getting married just to make it harder for you to leave is just silly not to mention nieve. Try not to allow him to turn it around on you. Stay true to your feelings of why you dont want to get married (right now, that way). There is no reason for him to hold anything against you--what, he's going to hold you being honest with him (and your feelings)against you?? Why does it take so long for guys to grow up? FRUSTRATING! Yes, I am sure he can be a great guy but right now he is not rational therefore it is impossible to have a rational conversation with him. His behavior (in my opinion) only reinforces why you shoulod not be married (yet). There are still too many issues to be worked out! Right now the focus should be on you and the beautiful baby coming in to your lives. Got to get this marriage thing off of his mind for now! Baby baby baby--thats what is most important for you both. This time, right now, is supposed to be a time to make happy memories together! I hope somehow he comes to his senses and realizes how lucky he is!

tanya21 - Tuesday, 20 May
Im glad you have a good family, so when it comes to the push you wont be alone. Im sure hes not a bad person its just by the sound of the way he treats you which is not nice. But like they say a baby changes everything. But i think like you said you must stand your ground and say you dont want to get married now. Why rush it? Goodluck with this problem. And plz when you feel like talking im always here to give a little advise. Sometimes i wont be giving the best advise but it sure helps to talk to someone.

JennSever - Tuesday, 20 May
is there a place you can go to temporarily? i don't think you should be in that place either. don't make a tense situation worse by being legally binded to him. tell him you will talk about this after the baby as its scientifically proven that stress is a 'no-no' during pregnancy. what a butt-head! good luck

shannon74 - Monday, 19 May
Oh No!!!! I just read what you wrote. He seems so casual about the marriage thing, like its a date to go to the movies or something. You didnt say you wouldnt marry him at all, just not under these circumstances. Let's face it, its a big deal! He threatened to break up with you (basically if he doesnt get his way) and that is not playing fair at all! How hurtful that must have been. You dont need that stress right now. His behavior to you sounds so selfish. Its so hard to give advice that would help. You two definitely need to have good long talk about how this issue makes you both feel (and really stop and listen to what is being said with out starting a yelling match). Sounds like he is cop-ing an attitude with you which makes it so difficult. I really wish you the best of luck in working this out. Sounds to me like stress has taken over (for both of you). I wish I had some magic advice that would fix it for you!!

mdbabyno1 - Monday, 19 May
I am sorry you have to go through this right now. You need to do what you think is right. You guys definitely need to sit down and talk rationally(which I know is hard to do right now). Maybe you can suggest a date for after the baby is born, maybe around the holidays or something. You can tell him that getting married is very important to you, a day to celebrate your love together with family and friends. Tell him you want it to be a perfect day and would like time to plan it and loose the baby weight! Maybe he will understand and since there is a date set, there is something to look forward to after the baby is born. I wouldn't give in to getting married on Thursday if you don't think it is truly the right thing to do. He is trying to place the blame on you for not loving him but he didn't hold up to his end of the bargin. What has he planned for Thursday? Just do what is in your heart, but talk to him and tell him exactly how you feel.

oopspregnantagain - Monday, 19 May
I would not let him talk me into any thing that I didn't want to do Marrige is a LIFE time Commitment, and if he loves you he will wait till you are ready or do it on your terms :) Don't let it stress you out because you baby is more important than being married :) or even having baby daddy around :) it is all between you to :)

mamajohnson - Monday, 19 May
You're not crazy sweetie! Seems to me like he has a case of the emotions and the mood swings! This is your life to. Do what you want with it...not what someone else wants!

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