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kelcam76
kelcam76 has 9 days to go and is now in week 38
Age: 31
Country: Australia
Province/region: Western australia
City: Perth
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Due date: 21 May ,2008
Occupation: Teacher
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Above is a picture of us on our wedding day, 1st October 2005. It was the most magical day ever for us both, we really had an absolute ball!

On our honeymoon in Hawaii (Maui tour) October 2005. We flew all that way just to have 2 nights on Maui and 5 nights in Hawaii (that's all the budget would allow) and it was more than worth it. What gorgeous people and such an amazing place. We were very lucky to experience it.

Here with our first "little addition to the family" (who is not so little anymore being a loveable rhodesian ridgeback called "Zari"). We are already thinking about how to introduce our new "little one" to the family without noses being pushed out of joint...any suggestions?

Our Story so far....

Cameron and I met and became "an item" on the 9th of September 2001. My life changed forever after we met, I never thought I'd find a guy with the perfect mix, or that special "spark" that just happens and is so hard to find. Then enter Cameron and now I feel the luckiest girl alive. He is one gift I am always grateful and the connection we have. Cameron is originally from Melbourne, other side of Australia (for those who don't know about Aust.), and grew up in a country town called Sea Lake. So whatever it was that drew him to Perth I'm forever thankful and now we have some great friends in Melbourne that we can go and visit, I absolutely love it there. Four years later and we were married on the 1st of October 2005. Which so far is the most amazing and wonderful day of our lives...I say so far because we have another day coming up next year which is set to be just as magical, the gift of our 'little one' to be...

We've always been keen and ready to have children but decided to wait until we were more 'set up'. As currently we are building a house and already it's taken a year and a month just to have brickwork done and this week (3rd of Nov) they've only just started on the roof...granted it's a two storey home but a year to do that much is crazy...(welcome to building in Perth, Western Australia...ho hum).

I'm also a teacher and one of those weird people who absolutely loves their job. It's my tenth year teaching which also means I'm entitled to long service leave next year which is perfect timing! I must admit I've got the fun subject of music to teach at two schools north of Perth. I'm the general music teacher (not the instrumental music teacher who takes selected groups of students) I take all classes for two music lessons a week (and provide their classroom teacher with planning time off) we do all sorts of things from playing many percussion instruments, to singing and dancing, to creating our own music and movements, to reviewing music of the moment and beyond. For three days it's music and then the other two days I teach pre-primary students. It's a fantastic job and the kids at both schools are gorgeous. I'm hoping that after 'our little one' is born and a year old I'll be able to go back to work two days a week (while bub spends a day with the grandparents) and then slowly see what happens but gosh that's so far away at the moment we'll just take it day by day for now.

Our only concerns at the moment...

Late 2006 we were given the news that my dad's health was not good at all (it was surprise out of the blue for us) September 06 he was given 4 weeks to 4 months left (which hit us for a six). However if you've noticed what month we're in now, he's still with us and proved them wrong. My dad is doing really well and has some fantastic doctors in his corner (and no doubt someone up above as well).

The next sign for us to stop trying to plan everything and just let life happen instead (not wait till you're set up) came in May 2007 when Cameron's dad was rushed to hospital after a seizure at work only to discover he had a category 4 brain tumour which since has been removed but he is still on chemo tablets as his medication. The bizzarre thing is both our dad's hardly ever needed to see doctor's and are the same age with a few days apart 2&5 Jan 1949. This had been the biggest wake-up call for us ever and we immediately took a different look on life and had started trying in March 07 eventually falling in August which I now realise is something never to be taken for granted, it is the best gift in the world and we are so grateful.

Everyone is doing well and was over the moon (to put it mildly) when we told them the news of a new edition to our family. Therefore yes our home probably wont be finished by the time our "little one" arrives but it amazingly doesn't bother us as we have so many exciting things ahead of us and we're looking forward to it all and are just grateful for everyday.

Now so far that's been the short story in a nutshell could you imagine the long version (gee I can waffle on hey?)

Upcoming events...

Our ultrasound on Tuesday 13th November 07 where we will be able to see our "Little one" clearly we hope...exciting is word I keep over using but it just sums it up.

Latest Update 5th Jan 2008...

Well since I last updated my page we have had two ultrasounds which is just the most amazing technology ever. I really felt like I was pregnant after seeing that screen...wow it's like nothing I'd ever imagined when it actually happens to you.

Our second scan we had on Christmas Eve and what a present. It was wonderful to see little feet, hands and fingers. However our little bub was camera shy and kept putting it's hands up to it's face, it was the most magical feeling. I kept laughing at little things it did and accidently kept moving the picture because of my stomach moving it was tricky to keep still and contain that emotion but wow what a feeling I nearly cried the first time I heard the heart beat (what a wooze hey? lol).

Cameron doesn't want to know girl or boy yet and wants a suprise on the day to add to the whole emotion of it all. I'll be grateful for either just a healthy and happy bub is what I'm aiming for so therefore we will have a suprise gosh I can't wait for May to come along...

Every now and then especially when I'm lying down on my back I can feel it move. Sometimes it's like a grapefruit shape clearly sticking out all over to one side then slowly changes and moves elsewhere. I've also felt a few little kicks or knocks which at first I thought was wind gurgling or popping inside my stomach but now know it wasn't ... most of the time though it's very quiet in there I hope that's normal ....

Well I think that's enough for my page at the moment...till next time

23 weeks Pregnant at a friends wedding at Caversham House and wearing highish heels which is a no no but I survived (ha ha) we even managed to dance in them :)

7th of May 2008

Well haven't been on the internet for quite a while lately as our family has had some pretty hard issues to deal with, which there must be reasons for but just hard to see at times like this. As my father in law passed away suddenly in the early hours on the 24th of april. He really looked like he was making heaps of improvement and definately no signs of going downhill if anything more recovering and we all including him had heaps of hope. He so wanted to meet his first grandchild as we wanted to spend as much time as possible with both our families once our little one is born. The only positive we can see is that he wasn't in pain and it was very quick for him and he wouldn't have known he missed meeting the baby but we believe he is now watching over it already... just so hard to understand. I know he will help and quide me and Cameron through what is to come as our little one is still breech and has been the whole time we suspect, also it has settled down into my pelvis so that I am now booked for a ceasarean on the 14th May which I'm very nervous about but it is the best decision (even though it is the only decision). My emotions have been like nothing I've ever felt ... all over the place but we are all looking forward to finally meeting our little bub who we all quietly know will have my pop and father in law watching over us all.

We will definately let everyone know this time next week about the little person soon to join our family and thank you all for all your care and support in all issues which has really helped me during this pregnancy...till next update ....


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mommy2008 - 34.2 hours ago
Same here on the breech situation. My c/s is also scheduled on May 14th.. I am having 2nd toughts, I am still having hope that she might turn. I have heard stories that sometimes the baby turns on its own during labor, but I don't want to risk an emergency c/s. I'm just so confused girl...


foxxy76 - Saturday, 10 May
hey Kel, Sorry to hear about your father in law,maybe if you have a boy ,they could share the same 1st name or have it as the babys 2nd name, my son has my parents name as my dads name is Sebastiano and my mums name is Sebastiana (both parents alive).
Hope you are doing well and i cant wait to hear the news about your baby , take care for now xxx


kelim - Thursday, 8 May
wow you look beautiful!!!! the best of luck in your pregnancy enjoy!!!x


christie78 - Tuesday, 8 April
Hey Kel, yep looking like end of April now! I am on weekly visits to doc now, so hopefully I will know a little more at my appointment tomorrow...It is getting a bit nerve wracking now! All is well though (besides STILL having morning sickness)!!!! I am sorry to hear about the diabetes - what a bummer!!!! I bet that has made things a bit hard for you? Hope you have all the luck inthe world getting Bubba to turn, please keep me posted! x


mommyx2 - Saturday, 5 April
PS... i love your wedding photo too...i like the look of the top of your dress..very pretty :)


mommyx2 - Saturday, 5 April
hey thanks!! i lobve your belly shot..too cute!! well my first baby was in proper position good and early...i think when they checked for position around 28 weeks he was already turned and stayed that way and he was 7 pounds 1oz when he was born..but he was 2 weeks early so he probably would have been a little bigger had he gone the whole way..who knows....this time though baby was breech up until week32 and i could tell because i would feel some movement at the top of my belly but not nearly as strong as the movement down lower...it seriously felt like this baby was going to shove its foot right out or something!! then just one day i noticed that the movements were REALLY strong up top and hardley any down below so i suspected that baby turned and my doc confirmed it a few days later...i think you have until week 36 before they start to become concerned about baby not turning..thats what my doc told me and she also said that if it wasnt turned by that point then they could try and manually turn the baby from manipulation on the outside of your belly...i have seen it done and it isnt scary they just kind push a squeeze certain spots but i have been told it isnt painful..just uncomfortable..but i think it has like a 75% success rate so that is good news!! hopefully this baby of yours will do what its supposed to and turn into position...keep me posted :)


foxxy76 - Saturday, 5 April
Hey Kel , sorry i wasnt paying attention in the chat room had abit going on here ,i cant wait to find out what you are having and i hope all goes well with your birth ,hope the baby decides to do the right thing and turn the other way . take care xxx


mommyx2 - Wednesday, 2 April
my doc told me to get on your hands and knees and then lower your upper body right down to the floor/bed and keep your behind up in the air (looks funny i know!) and to lay like that 15 mins for a couple of times a day...my baby turned..and i have also heard that swimming helps..you have to go into deep water and just hold onto something and just let your body float and relax and it will encourage baby to turn...hopefully that helps :)


bloomingmum - Wednesday, 19 Mar
I lost a baby last year, May 2007. My sis in law was pregnant not long after that and she found it difficult to approach me with the subject. I congratulated her and gave her a big hug. She did not know where to look. I told her that it was ok to talk about the baby around me. And that eased her slightly. She cried and said she was so sorry.The last thing i wanted was for her to be upset.
I would acknowledge that she has lost her baby and that you are there if she needs you. A Card with heart felt feelings from you, if you cant manage to talk to her directly.Let her know that you care.
Just knowing that people care and are sorry for the loss of a baby was enough for me. Sometimes people would say -it was for the best but that does not help...it is a lost baby.
When her daughter was born, it hurt for a while cos our baby would have been a month older...but a new life helps heal in time. And my little niece a gem. Good Luck and let me know how it goes. Take Care X Clare


snowwhite5thbabe - Wednesday, 19 Mar
Hi! I appreciate your concern for your friend who just lost her baby. I've had 4 miscarriages, interspersed between healthy children.
The only thing you can do is LISTEN, if she wants to talk about it. The only thing you can say is 'I'm so sorry'. Nothing else helps, especially not: 'You can have another one'...
But you are right that she will be even more sad around pregnant women right now, as it brings up thoughts of what her baby would have been like full-term. So please understand if she takes a big step back from your relationship for a while...I think you will- you seem like a great friend...Oh, and pray for her emotional healing.
God bless you and your little one!


christinesc - Wednesday, 19 Mar
I agree with jenakers. I m/c'd in February. I was shocked at the way people (two of which are VERY close friends of mine) ignored the situation. Maybe they didn't know what to say, but Hallmark does a really good job of getting those difficult feelings out. Let her know you care. It really does mean the world. I'm sure you'll say the right thing. Take care. ♥


stacey23 - Wednesday, 19 Mar
what jenakers said is perfect-I have lost a few pregnancies myself, and know with me personally, I don't like to talk about it...also..the WORST thing that alot of people tend to say is along the lines of...its for the better, god has plans,you probably weren't ready anyway, you can try again, ect. Those comments just make it worse.


jenakers - Wednesday, 19 Mar
I have a suggestion for you. How about a nice greeting card. 'sorry for your loss or a thinking of you card. I would state exactly what you said in the forum about being afraid to approach her at this time but, also letting her know you've been thinking about her. You could tell her to contact you anytime. This lets her know you care but does not make her confront your pregnancy if she's not ready. GOOD LUCK. Jen


sydneynj1979 - Wednesday, 19 Mar
What a tough situation with your coworker. I have no idea what I would do. Maybe write her a little sympathy card letting her know that you are there when she needs you and that you know nothing will make her feel better at the moment but knowing she can come to you will help a little. I would give her the card in private b/c I am sure it would be hard to read while at work. I really feel for her and totally understand how you must be feeling.


Charm - Tuesday, 4 Mar
You are welcome. I am glad I helped some. There will be alot of info thrown at you about this. Just feel free to ask if you have any and I will try to help if I can. I will cross my fingers that you will be able to control your sugars thru diet and exercise. I remember every diabetes appointment I had, the dietician would tell me the doctor will probably put me on insulin because my fasting sugars were always a few points higher than they wanted. But each time the doctor would measure me and say I am doing good and to see me again in 2 weeks. I never did get put on insulin. I could never get my fasting sugars down. It was always higher than what they wanted. The rest of my numbers were always ok with a few high ones here and there. So dont get freaked out if you see a couple of high numbers, it usually doesnt mean a thing (could be due to stress or something new you ate). As long as they aren't always high you will be fine.

OH I just noticed we both went to Hawaii for our honeymoon. We went in October 2004 on a cruise from Vancouver to Hawaii. I loved Maui out all the places we visited there.... you are right it's an amazing place and beautiful too.


~NyMom - Monday, 3 Mar
You are welcome..For now you can switch your white breads to whole wheat or multigrain.. you can have that with eggs and some sausage in the morning.. lunch you can have a chicken sandwich or any sandwich meat as long as the bread is not white or a peanut butter sandwich than fruit and milk.. for dinner just use a measuring cup for your carbs like a cup of cooked rice or pasta than your can have alot of vegetables.. be careful with corn, peas and carrots they can elevate your sugar.. and you can have your meats.. the key is the proteins which break down the carbs.. don't worry your dietician will help you.. My levels have been normal and have not been high.. so that is a good sign and I don't need insulin.. it is bad enough I have to check my levels with a prick on the finger 4 times a day.. but my doc told me I am doing great and to keep following the diet and soon they will reduce the times I have to check my blood yay! anymore questions feel free to ask maybe we can share some idea in meals lol. You will be fine and that baby will be fine take care.


Miska - Tuesday, 26 Feb
oh sweetie.. Don't beat yourself up to much about the GD.. I was diagnosed with GD at 28 weeks and I went through that denial stage. It's natural and very normal.. The most important thing now is to accept having gestational diabetes and getting your numbers under control.. That's the most important thing, you want your baby to grow slowly and healthy. I too hate needles!! But I had to give myself shots of insulin in my belly every night to keep my FBS down.. Every night for 10 weeks I struggled with those shots, but I refused taking the pill.. I didn't want no drugs passing through the placenta to my baby. But it was all worth it in the end. I gave birth to a 6 lbs 15 oz's beautiful baby girl and she was not affected by me having GD.. She was small and perfectly healthy.. So, keep you numbers good and everything will be alright in the end..


LiseyB - Monday, 25 Feb
Hi kelcam,
I was diagnosed at 28 weeks, was devastated for a while, big shock as was a healthy weight and had a good diet , but it really is about the pregnancy and our placentas working for our bubs. I have monitored blood glucose 7 times a day since then, and have learnt a lot about which foods raise my blood glucose, been put on insulin injections because in a small percentage of women diet alone cannot control it. Looking back - it was a bigger deal not knowing, as I felt so tired all the time. Women who are diagnosed and managed are lucky. I am due in the coming weeks so nalry at the end, and hopeully it will be gone once bub arrives. Let me know if you want to chat. You will be fine. X


~NyMom - Monday, 25 Feb
I know how you feel.. I have been told I have gestation diabetes a week ago and I kept blaming myself and trying to figure out what caused it ( and I was not a big junk food eater).. but it is nothing we ate that made this surface.. like Charm said it is the placenta and it is all the hormones being produced.. all we can do is stay away from junk foods, sugars etc..I take the diet day by day and it is really not that bad. And once the baby is born we will be fine.. this diet is just to prevent having a big baby and any complications during delivery.. there are really good women in the GD forum with experience past and present which can be helpful and understanding.. take care and don't worry.. just follow your doctor's orders and you will be ok.


Charm - Monday, 25 Feb
I know how you feel about being diagnosed with GD... it is scary. I was like you too cried and cried and cried... I cried telling my hubby about it, I cried telling my mom and my friends... But please know its not your fault. Its the growing placenta that is causing this. It has nothing to do with you or your eating habits before pregnancy. It goes away after you givin birth. Its been 4 weeks since I have giving birth and my doc still has me checking my sugars 2 times a day but my sugars are fine and I been eatin lots and lots of chocolate. Just listen to the diabetes doctor and his team (ie the dietician and nurses) and you and your baby will be fine. The diet is just a REALLY healthy diet. You still get to eat carbs (in fact you have to) but its just about making healthy choices. Try to take it one day at a time, a diabetes appointment at a time, even a meal at a time and you will have your baby in your arms soon. Also, tell your hubby to bring along your favorite chocolate to the birthing room. My diabetes doctor told me to do that if I wanted to and it was SOOO good to have a chocolate bar while holding your baby. I told my hubby to screw the diamonds and flowers for giving birth to his daughter... I want chocolate... hehe He hasn't stop giving me chocolate since the birth =P. Good luck and if you need to vent please feel free to vent, I am here to listen.


babyg - Monday, 18 Feb
Thanks for the comment! It was great talking to you too, glad I could help you out. Hope to talk to you again soon.


hollysboy408 - Tuesday, 12 Feb
hehe thanks! you're not too far behind me. getting to 20 weeks is the hardest part i think. well ttyl!
Holly


deerwendy - Saturday, 9 Feb
Hi! Congratulations! This may sound crazy, but you are very beautiful and should look into being a pregnancy model. I think you would be stunning! The picture of you at your friends wedding makes me want to buy that dress if I would look that good in it!

Sorry to sound so silly, but I just thought I would pass my thoughts on!




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