I just wish that some people would realise that and not put others down.

Hey there! My name's Alannah, and I will be 18 on June 5th. My fiance's name is Michael, and we will have been together for 1 year 3 months on May 27th. We want to start a family, but everyone thinks we're too young. On NYE 2007, we got a positive pregnancy test and were thrilled, but on February 1st 2008, our angel grew wings and changed my life in a way I never thought possible. We were TTC again, but no longer will be due to personal issues, even though it's not what we want. So for now I am just staying on this site because I have made a few friends whom I'd like to keep in touch with, and I am more than happy to continue to make new friends.

With my sister putting in her two cents worth last night (May 11th) I've given up hope TTC for now, but not because it's taking too long, but because of how worthless, stupid, immature and pathetic she made me feel. She seems to think that we (mainly me) are too young and not mentally mature enough to have a child. She seems to think that we assume it's going to be easy and that we think we're gonna have a lot of time on our hands. We know it's going to be hard, we know we're mature enough to raise a child, and we know it's going to take up almost all our time. We also know it's going to cost a fair bit of money. We know all of that stuff, but we want to start a family; we've made the decision, but it seems like we can't do it, and I'm not going to try to argue with anyone anymore. I'm just going to leave it in God's hands as to when we will be parents. I am so hurt and feel so useless right now, and any words of encouragement would be greatly appreciated.