Hey Everyone!
My name is Kelly :) My husband, Pete, and I are expecting a little boy, due March 22 2008. We live and work in upstate NY, and just bought our first house. It was the most stressful thing ever... I don't recommend buying a house when you are pregnant.
I work as a special education teacher in a program for developmentally disabled 3 and 4 year olds, and I plan on working until the very end. I'm not sure if I am going to go back after the little one arrives, but I do love my job.
Pete and I also have a dog, Duncan, who is half pug and half jack russell terrier. We love him to death, you can see him in my pictures.
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April 4th 2008 - OUR BABY BOY WAS FINALLY BORN!!!! You can read his birth story on his page, or at the bottom of this page. He is PERFECT!
My labor was only 12 hours from my first painful contraction until he popped out, 8lbs 4 oz, 20 inches. He's beautiful and breastfeeding is going great. Definitely a commitment, and painful, but if you prepare yourself for it you can do it!!
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40 Weeks and counting... I was due 3 days ago, and had my appointment yesterday. still NO CHANGES! mild contractions that are irregular and that I can't feel - only went up to 25% on the monitor. Still only 1 cm. At this rate I am never going to get to see my little one in his cute newborn onesies because he is going to be like 10 lbs!
WOW - 38 Weeks already! I should have updated my page more, but I could never figure out what to say. Still getting bigger, still pregnant?! Well, I have outgrown most of my maternity clothes, and my husband is lucky if he gets to see me in anything other than sweatpants. At my last appointment the doctor told me I am still "all closed up" and have plenty of time. I try not to think of it as discouraging; my one hope is that I will be able to go in to labor on my own - without any interventions. I left work last Friday, and I am really cherishing these last days before the baby comes. My husband is anxious, but I keep telling him not to wish away these full nights of sleep and freedom! I go back to the doctor this Friday, so wish me luck!!
At
30 weeks I feel... tired. I may be tired because I wake up at least 3
or 4 times a night to reposition myself, lucky to get a wink of sleep
past 6 am. I'm uncomfortable. My boobs have started to leak (which is
hysterical to my husband). It makes me feel like the baby is almost
here, but there are still 10 weeks left. My last day of work is Feb
29th. I CANT WAIT.
At
27 weeks I am still feeling pretty good. My stomach is feeling really
tight! I feel like I am full all the time. Today is Christmas Eve and I
fell on the ice, right on my bottom. It was horrible! Everything is
okay though, my back is just sore. It's been really hard for me to
sleep at night. I can't get comfortable. I'm in a 40 F bra size, up
from a 34 D (prepregnancy). A few of my maternity jeans are already too
tight in my stomach. I finally put a picture of my belly up today.
At
25 weeks I feel great, and I contribute a lot of that to my motherhood
maternity sweat suits which I wear just about everyday. I hope everyone
is feeling good, and staying comfortable : ) Let's Manga! (Let's
eat!!!)
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BIRTH STORY
We were scheduled to go to the hospital on Thursday, April 3rd at 5pm
to start the induction. We get there, get settled, and at 6pm the
doctor put in the cervidil. Since I was hardly effaced and barely 1 cm
she told me that the cervidil would HOPEFULLY soften my cervix and she
would be back in the morning around 9am to start the pitocin drip. She
told me that since my cervix wasn't favorable that I should prepare
myself for every possible outcome. I was feeling pretty crappy because
I felt like the cervidil probably wouldn't work and I would end up with
a c-section. She told me to get a good nights sleep so that I would
have enough energy the next day.
Courtney and Xavier came to visit and got there around 8 or so -
and while they were visiting I started to feel contractions. They
weren't too bad, but I could feel my stomach tighten. Around 9:30 they
left, and Pete went back to the house to let the dog out. My
contractions started to pick up, they were about every 8 minutes and
began to get painful - but nothing that I couldn't handle. In the mean
time the nurse came in to visit and she was AWESOME. She stayed with me
for almost an hour and she was a real sweetheart. By the time Pete got
back it was around 11. The nurse really urged me to get some sleep, but
I told her that I wouldn't be able to sleep through the contractions.
She checked me and I wasn't any more dilated or effaced - which was a
HUGE disappointment.
At 12 she came in and was like you HAVE to get some sleep! I told
her that the contractions were pretty strong! I felt like she didn't
believe me, even though you could see them on the monitor, every 5
minutes. She gave me a shot of morphine, and said I should be asleep in
no time - and that if I had to go to the bathroom to call her because I
won't be able to walk around well. Between 12 and 3 I wasn't able to
fall asleep, but the morphine made me feel good enough to relax a
little. I timed the contractions continuously with a stop watch that
keeps a log.
By 3 o'clock they were barely 2 minutes apart and the morphine had
worn off. I called the nurse and I was like well... can I get some
more?! The contractions felt really strong and they were so close
together, but I thought well maybe I just feel that way because the
morphine had worn off and all. At 4am the my contractions started
tailed each other, which means that they only come half way down before
starting again, so there is no break between. At this point I was like
okay, I am seriously in labor here! On the monitor they were going up
to 80 - 100 and only coming down to about 35-40. The nurse came in and
asked if I was okay, and asked if she could check me - so she did. I
was 3 cm and about 60% effacted (woohoo!). She was like WOW!! She told
me that it was really rare for the cervadil to put someone in to labor
like that, and that she was going to take it out because my
contractions were tailing. I was like THANK GOD this is unbearable.
So
at 4:15 she takes out the cervadil - about an hour and a half earlier
than it was supposed to come out. I expected my contractions to stop
tailing. NO LUCK. At 5am, only 45 minutes later I had to buzz her in
because I was throwing up and dry heaving and shaking because of the
pain. It was literally like one continuous contraction that never
stopped. She helped me to the bathroom, which took literally about 30
minutes for me to get there, go and come back out. Around 6am I finally
accepted the epidural because I kept dry heaving and shaking and at
this point I was crying. I just remember saying "they said in lamaze
that you would have a break! this isn't what they told me!" Pete was
awesome through everything. He really did everything he could to help
me and make me comfortable.
At 6:15 they nurse put on my IV and checked me. 4 CM!
The
epidural was in place at 7am, and thank GOD for my awesome nurse who
helped me through the whole thing. It took me SO LONG to get in to
position because of the intensity of the contractions. She felt so bad
for me, she actually stayed past her shift to help. After the epidural
was in place, she checked me at 7:30. 8 cm and 90% effaced!!! She ran
out to go call the doctor and let her know that I was getting close. By
8 I was a full 10 CM and 100% effaced, but the doctor still wasn't
there, so I just hung out and waited and watched the morning news. The
new nurses came in and talked to me for a while, and they were great
too. One checked me and was like WOW your water is SO CLOSE to
breaking! Lets try some practice pushing to see if we can get it to
break so the baby will engage.
At 9am we started practice pushing, and at 9:30 the doctor FINALLY
got there. It took her about 15 minutes to get ready, and my water
still hadn't broken - so she broke my water. It was like 1 tablespoon.
We started pushing and he was born at 10:38am!!! He was 8lbs 4oz, 20
inches long. I only had 1 stitch and no hemorrhoids and I didn't poop
on the table (even though it felt like thats all I was doing the whole
time I was pushing). My total labor was only about 12 hours from my
first painful contractions until he was here. He was very clean and
there was barely any fluid that came out when he was born, because he
was 2 weeks late. I started breastfeeding about 40 minutes after he was
born and he took right away. My milk came in before I even left the
hospital, which was AWESOME - not even 2 days after he was born. When
we left he weighed 7lbs 15 oz.
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31 hours ago Hey ya read your comment on weight gain im 28 weeks preg and im 189 pounds!! I was 21 lbs over weight before i got preg. Im 5ft 3in. Im wondering how much of that 35lb weight gain does baby weigh!! I hate going to docs nurse always puts me on scales! How much did you lose after your baby! As i intend to breast feed too and exercise! How long it take to get back to healthy weight for your height!
Comment ma page thanx a mill. congrats on your baby x babyontheway2008 -
Monday, 5 May we had to start my my son on fomula as well because I could not make enough. I would start with just giving him .5 ounce to 1 ounce and then breast milk and slowly within 2 or 3 days get him to take however much you want otherwise he will get really gassy and spit it up. I also found that dr. browns glass bottles ARE AMAZING with helping with gass they are 12.99 for 2 which is pricey but they have saved me so many days from him being fussy. nancy26 -
Friday, 2 May Your post in weight gain just made me cry... I was exactly 167 at the start of this PG - 30 pounds overweight to start with, and as of last week I was 213 pounds, and I still have 7 weeks to go :( It really has depressed me no end. I feel terrible. Thank you so much for giving me and women like me some hope, it really means a lot. XXX Congrats by the way :) mom2boy -
Sunday, 27 April I don't have stretch marks but I am totally feeling the flabby butthole thing. mom2boy -
Thursday, 24 April Ha ha ha, that is funny about him pooping in your bed. I mean I am sure it sucked for you but at least you can laugh about it now. I am a little nervous about that too since he has had his fair share of leaks. k-kaye -
Thursday, 24 April Just read your post about your huge baby! My baby is big too. He was 9.13 when he was born and 3 and weeks later he was 11.6. Kaeden is 3 1/2 weeks now and I'm wondering if he gained more. In the beginning he was eating 3 oz every 2 hours (of formula) and now he's up to 5 oz about every 2.5 to 3 hours. I was so worried about him being overweight, but everyone keeps telling me that babies eat when they're hungry and stop when they're full and that they really need the nutrients at this point. I think that the gaining weight will probably slow down a little bit as our babies get older, but I'm not really sure. ~NyMom -
Wednesday, 23 April wow! Thanks for letting me know that! I guess I was such a meanie to the folks here.. thought I had to get my little one some pimple cream lol! jk... but I still have to keep peoples lips away from her face..God only knows what they had in their mouths before placing it on her cheeks.. thanks again for that information! britt.b. -
Wednesday, 23 April i just read your post wow you are lucky your little guy is eating so much i cant get my son to take more than 2 oz. every 2-3 hr.!! whats your secret?? congrats on the new arrival by the way! kate318 -
Wednesday, 23 April my little girl eats just as much!! the pediatrician said she should only be eating 2 oz. at a feeding, but she's really not satisfied until 4. plus she needs the milk from the bottle in addition to breast feeding - I'm thinking she just doesn't have the patience to breastfeed to 4 oz. when the bottle is so easy. Apparently it is all normal though, so you'll probably end up with the "chubby breastfed baby" that the pediatrician says I will most likely have. jessicaann -
Tuesday, 22 April grats on the baby!! my little guy was born 4-3 :) Jo-Mama -
Tuesday, 22 April My baby eats like a pig too! It seems that if I give her a 4 oz bottle she'll chug it all, but if I give her 2.5 oz, she'll chug, then be fine after a minute or so.
Speaking of eating - she's squawking now! xiaodaph -
Friday, 18 April once an hour?? Oh man.. That will be tiring.. Haha.. But anyway.. I will try out your method.. Hope it works.. Thanks... heatkab -
Monday, 14 April I only hope my induction goes as well as yours did! Congratualtions on the new baby! bluebeanz -
Tuesday, 8 April Congratulations on the birth of your baby! When you're up to it, join us on the babies forum (0 months). Enjoy mommyhood! :) ErinS1121 -
Tuesday, 8 April Wow, Congrats to you guys!!!!! What an amazing story! I'm sitting here all into it bc I am being induced tom @6am. HOW BAD ARE THOSE CONTRACTIONS?!?!?!! Ohmigod!!!!! Congrats, congrats and congrats, he is sooo adorable:) numommi08 -
Tuesday, 8 April Congrats on your bundle of joy...and thank you so much for your birth story. I am being induced on weds night starting with the cervidil...(7days overdue) PoohBear -
Tuesday, 8 April Congrats 2 u and your family. startingoverat37 -
Friday, 4 April I hope your induction is going well. You are in my thoughts today. You will be blessed very soon with your boo boo on the outside. Good luck. mizzsnazzy -
Friday, 4 April I was induced and was in labor for over 24 hours. I did recieve an epidural, but it did not work at all, and I recieved 2 more after that because it just wouldn't take, and those didn't take either. So I basically was started on a Cervadil, adn then Pitocin...no pain relief. It was traumatizing. What I would've done differently was talk to my husband about how to act and what to do when I'm in this kind of pain...being induced isn't fun. Good luck. 4xprego -
Friday, 4 April I "induced" myself by using a breast pump for nipple stimulation. I just sat myself on the couch with a good TV show and used the pump. I pumped 10 minutes, rested 10 minutes, pumped 10 minutes on other breast, rested 10 minutes. I did this for a little over an hour. Labor started and I had the baby within several hours. I had her naturally - no drugs. Worked great! STREETJAZZ -
Wednesday, 2 April I know how dissapointing it can feel when you have to be induced. Im 5 days over today and was booked in for stretch and sweep, but was told my the doc that my babys head wasnt even engaed!! eventhough my own midwife has told me for 3 weeks it 3/5th down!! Im due an induction on wed 9th......I hope I go naturally before then!!
best of luck to you. xxx I look forward to reading your birth story! mummysj -
Sunday, 30 Mar Hi ya!! Hows things going, im in the same boat now 10days overdue its not good :(
You managing ok?
When are hey going to induce you
Hope all goes well
xx momofboys -
Saturday, 29 Mar I was induced with my second because my water was leaking but I was not having contractions. With my third I was induced because he was large. You do not have to get an epidural I just choose to because I am a big sissy & can't take the pain. ErinS1121 -
Saturday, 29 Mar ohmigod yay for you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :) naomijane -
Thursday, 27 Mar My doc said it is when your tummy gets all tight and you have the 'period like cramps' and the lower back pain...I have been having this for a few days now off and on but my contractions are so inconsistent that I know I'm not in labor my doc also said the best way to time your contractions is to use a stop watch or write down the time that each contraction starts and then write down the time of the next contraction's beginning. Hope that helps& good luck! Leave a message for lets-manga in the right column where it reads `Add comment`