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lilmamajess
	Age: 19 Country: US Province/region: - City: - Partner: my fiance John Children: Yes, 1 Pregnant: No Occupation: stay at home mommy
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Hey everybody! My name's Jessica I'm 19 and i am engaged to my wodnerful fiance John. I We got engaged January 26, 2008, it was one of the best moments of my life! Since we have moved out here my fiance's been wanitng to climb the m ountains soo one day i gave in and we climbed up to the very top...(i was 2 months pregnant) anyway, right when we got to the top of the mountain he told me to stand on the tallest rock and yell "IM ON TOP OF THE WORLD" so i did what he say and i turn around and hes down on one knee and said " whenever im with you i feel like im on top of the world" and asked for my hand in marriage! I said yes!!! Though we didnt plan this pregnacy i know it will be a blessing to us and we are very excited to take on the challenges of being young parents! We are having a baby boy named Julian David and he will be here in August!

The day you deliver, outside will be windy. Your baby will arrive in wee hours of the morning .

After a labor lasting approximately 6 hours, your child, a boy, will be born. Your baby will weigh about 8 pounds, 15 ounces, and will be 18-1/2 inches long. This child will have light brown eyes and dark hair.

But there is more. I know you imagine your baby often. You wonder if your baby is safe and healthy. Why don't you go listen to a baby's heartbeat and think soothing thoughts about your own child.

July 17, 2008

I woke up around 9:45 and ate breakfast and then feel back asleep around 10:45 and woke up around 12:30. I noticed i hadn't felt the baby move all day so far. So i tryed everything for him to move, got to a quiet place and try to monitor his movements, i ate and drank cold water, we even banged pots and pans to try to get a movement...still no luck. So i called the doctor around 1 pm and left a message with the nurse for the doctor to call me back. So right after i called, HE MOVED! So at 2:30 then they called me back and told me they want me to come in still because you are supposed to be feeling fetal movements within a 2 hour period. They told me to come in now to get an ultrasound and to get fetal monitoring. So i went in and did the ultrasound and they noticed i was having contractions and close apart and i diddnt even know it! So they strapped me up to a contraction monitor and it monitors his heartbeat too. I was having contractions 4-5 minutes apart! So then the doctor checked my cervix and i was 1 cm dialated and 80-90 percent effaced! She said that we needed to go to the hospital and see if they could stop my contractions, becasue i am only 35 weeks and the baby needs to stay in there at least a week or 2. So we go to the hospital around 5 pm and they hooked me up to one of those monitors again and i was having contractions 2-3 minutes apart! So they gave me a shot to stop the contractions, and they did for about 30 minutes. They came back in to check on me and i was having contractions again, so this time they gave me a strong pill to stop the contractions, and it worked. The doctor came in around 10 pm and checked my cervix and it was still 1 cm dialted. So she sent me home and gave me a prescription for the contraction stoping pills and told me to take them every 6 hours or so. I am offically on bed rest now and the doctor is expecting me to at the most carry him 3 more weeks, though because he is very low down there for 35 weeks and im already 80-90 percent effaced and 1 cm dialated he could come any day now.

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jaleca - Thursday, 17 July
so are his siblings...I don't know what it is with that. I didn't even consider my name when coming up with a baby name. Guess it was a freudan slip or something.

jaleca - Thursday, 17 July
OMG, us too! Jeff, Jada and Jaden...(what im going to call him). All his nieces and nephews have J names also.

jaleca - Thursday, 17 July
His name WAS going to be Jaden Nicholas, but my bf had a change o heart, and now it's going to be Jeffry Jaden (a jr)....*sigh*

jaleca - Thursday, 17 July
I go to school out here, but never really talked to anyone in my classes. There are too many ppl at my school. But yea, you're family will prob make up the majority of your stuff. I was kind of sad I wasn't having a traditional shower at first, but I'm cool now. So r u having a boy too?

kasey9533 - Thursday, 17 July
How many weeks bigger did they say he was at 21 weeks?? I had my last at 21 weeks too they said he was 22 weeks and if your still doing everything i am then you can GUESS how big your child is right now! I thought he's be between 4-5 pounds.....haha ohhhh noooo......little hog once again suprised us!!! Ive gained 18. Thats it, well 132 when i got pregnant, lost 14 pounds, then 2 more, then gained it back i guess now at 150.....excate! He's head is low too...i just cant believe they seriously would give their lives on me not going the rest of the 5 weeks.....3 maybe 4 he said and then laughed! So i guess thats good, my moms says he has bull balls......and a man already HAHAHAHAHA!!!!! Crazy...and thats my son.....

but alteast he is a healthy size and im sure yours is too, but they measure but the ultrasound told us excatly! He is so cute, hes a fatty!!! Baby faced, round nose, and yawned, we had the 3D on him for a minute and watched his movements and he was just adorable......i cant wait. So even if he's born early he is still a good weight.....

kasey9533 - Wednesday, 16 July

My son weighs at 6.2 pounds and i still have 5 weeks left, he's fat!!! Over weight LOL.....i'll be 35 weeks pregnant in 2 days and he's the size of 36 weeks. He has a fat face, and he is so adorable and the cutiest lips ever.....and he loves to suck his lips because he was doing it while we were watching him. Big feet, and they said if i go 5 more weeks he'll be 8 pounds.....but they said i wont make it 5 weeks, he said he'll give it 3 weeks maybe 4 weeks and he'll be 7 in a half pounds, the said a full term baby is starting at 37 weeks, thats 2 weeks off and anything before that is premature but he is full term size and if born today he is the size of a newborn....my mouth was on the floor. I could't believe what i was hearing because i was so scared he was gonna be small, they told me next time they see me which was today he would be in between 4.5-5 pounds and he's 6 lol.....i'm like oh my....and i'm so little and he's such a hog and he has alllll the weight, not me, suprised me twice on his weight! I can not wear maternity clothes, their too big, i'm still in my little jeans and my babydoll shirts are my maternity clothes lol.....but you can tell i'm all baby and that i'm pregnant.... i'm like it's gonna be hell when this child comes i know it. Because it already is now carrying him!!! But that was a big relief, so if he came today he is the size i thought he'd be in 5 weeks.....and he's healthy, heart beat is good, and growing growing growing, and killing killing killing mommy, lol but i'd rather him be big and bigger than small. When i found out what he was 3 months ago he was a week bigger then too lol....just a hog! And shower sunday....so excited about it all!!!! So goodluck on yours....haha...might get suprised like me!

jaleca - Wednesday, 16 July
I had the same dilemma, I'm not from Georgia, so my family and minimal friends are here. But I am lucky to have a baby shower at work, and I work at a daycare which is even better. So I check my registry and I'm so excited because people are actually paying attention to it

jaleca - Tuesday, 15 July
Yea, I was thinking about the same 3 week thing. Then I was like, whoa I don't know if I'm ready for that. I've been in the mode where I'm ready to start nesting...I think I'm waiting on my baby shower first.

jaleca - Tuesday, 15 July
Yep, I'm just doing the countdown now.... It's kind of good that we don't feel the BH either!

lnd22 - Tuesday, 15 July
yay! a boy! have you picked out a name yet? yeah i started out at 96 lbs.. i think i have gained about 30 as well. I am not sure if he has dropped yet bc i feel like the I have carried low the whole time. Are you ready for him to come?! haha i am excited but scared/nervous at the same time. i have a dr appt tomorrow... i think i have to have that strep test done :( haha maybe ill be lucky and they will squeeze in another ultra sound!

lnd22 - Tuesday, 15 July
thanks! congrats on yours too! I am having a boy, what are you having?? So far the pregnancy has gone well. Thank goodness I haven't had morning sickness! I have started having back pains but nothing too extreme. Unfortunately, the father has not communicated with me much... lol he hasn't even told his parents and I am 6 weeks away! How has your pregnancy been? You look so little in your pic! its cute! haha I have been lucky too, all the weight is in the front... must be bc we are young

barbie0mafia - Thursday, 10 July
awwww thats cool they are sending you stuff. i couldnt fit all the stuff that we got in my car. lol so our families are shipping stuff to us. the glider is the rocking chair for the nursery. lol i think thats just what they call it in the store so i keep calling it that. lol

barbie0mafia - Thursday, 10 July
lol. that sucks. i kno how you feel. i actually just bought a new car (4 door) lol so i could get the baby in and out a lil easier. i had a small 2 door car that wasnt gonna work w/a baby so i got a new car. its awsome cuz its the car i have wanted for a long time. lol but i kno i want my baby here. i feel so bored sometimes. i have a few friends to hang out w/ but they arent always around. ive been a little busy putting away more baby stuff. i have everything besides the glider for the nursery. i cant believe how much they are!!! i went to look for one today and they are like $400-$500. i think thats ridiculous but thats all i need now. i just put together the playpen and i just need to wash his clothes and blankets.

do you have everything you need for your nursery???

kasey9533 - Wednesday, 9 July
Your right, braiden is my everything as well. But jeremy has done alot that im just not so sure about going back to anymore you know? Id rather someone be with me making mistakes by saying hurtful things then leaving me for no reason and not even caring and still saying them for no reason at all and not even try or say sorry. And even talked about hoping he could move on and find better one day like that didnt hurt me and just left me here. Sometimes its easy to forgive, after so long, especially with a child, but the longer he goes to me it fells like he means it and its been almost 4 months so of coarse he does. And im not chasing him, i forgave him, but he basically ruined it after awhile. Me and my ex fiance are trying to work things out, we dated a long long time last year, he went to iraq, things changed etc....but he came home and back and we was together and i stopped talking to him for a few days and just now talking again, i loved jeremy with all my heart, i gace my heart, soul, and life for this family everyday and had the highest hopes and he just took it all away. And barely bothers, but brandon i know he cares and he loves my son when he could of ran in april after finding out, but he's been right here, talks about braiden to me and others like he's his own, but we just have some things we have to work through, because i loved brandon too, and very much, and what we had and wanted in life together is what i know i deserve but now he's back and i have a son to think about and its gonna take a real man to love me and braiden and he does, its just he's on base still, and maybe until december and gets to come home every few weeks, and ive done it before but it might get tougher than before, but im not putting my life on hold for either one of them especially jeremy, he didnt care about me, so i deserve to be happy and im not talking to brandon to get back at him, im just happy because i have that family piece back and he still loves me this much to be here no matter whats wrong with us too, he's here. So whoever im suppose to be with, whoever i end up being with in life, its god's plan and im just gonna follow my heart, he messes up again i'll leave again no problem. We just had words and it just gets tough him being 4 hours away, just hoping for the best with whoever and whenever and whatever its suppose to be. Taking it a day at a time.

mommy20 - Wednesday, 9 July
I am having a girl and I am so ready for her to be here! I just can't wait to see her face and hold her, this has all been so amazing.

mommy20 - Wednesday, 9 July
Thanks, its my first time too! COngrats~

barbie0mafia - Wednesday, 9 July
yep. thats exactly how it is here. i have a couple of friends that i met at my old work but yea i pretty much just have my fiance. i kno what you mean about going out. lol i cant wait until the baby is here. we wont be so bored then. lol well atleast she gets to comeout!! shes pry gonna be so excited to see you!!

kasey9533 - Wednesday, 9 July
Yeah well dont let him get you upset.....seriously! No women should have to go through what i went through, these doctors thanks braiden is a complete angel because they seen me soooo stressed for 3 months and his heart rate is perfect, he moves around all the time and very active, and growing and getting all the weight, knowing that most babies wouldnt be here or would be here trying to live because alot of mothers go into early labor, i was bad enough to where i am so thankful because that could of been me and i was blessed enough to keep going, and that made me think, everything did when it all finally hit me, and stopped all that along time ago but jeremy truely hurt me when he left me and always saying hurtful things and for no reason too. He left me for no reason, and i dont know how things will go between us when he's born but hopefully i'll be like i have been lately and not pay him no attition. Because he done me so wrong, and broke my heart so bad, every second of the day i keep saying he left me like its a shock because it is, he was my best friend for 4 years and i thought he was so right for me and finally came together when we got together and then he leaves me, and all i ever done wrong was the right things and thats be here, love him and always done him right and never hurt him and tried so hard everyday and be the mother of his child, and if thats all you have to be sorry for then dont!! Because thats truely their loss for hurting god's blessings in life, you have to be happy with what you have and going through, some people will never get our chance that we're blessed with, and not alot of people actually sit down and think about their life and what they have in it like i have, yeah its a baby but to some people that will be all that child means to them and thats those simple words, and i cant do that because i want to enjoy my pregnancy while i can because i might not ever get this chance again and i enjoy it because i love my son so much, unlike jeremy, to him im just the mother of his child who done him right and loved him who's having a baby, that simple sentence is all we are, it hurts but i didnt do nothing. I have 1 life to live, so its either my child or everything else thats especially not worthy, and i choose my son and family. And please do the same and make it not worth it, because yes our children can survive right now, but these last few weeks are important and i wanna see you make it. And not hurt.

Braiden has dropped too, and i feel it too and going to
the bathroom alot as well hahaha..........if you can feel a gap in the top of your stomach now instead of the egg being all the way up there and you can press into the top of your stomach then more than likely yes he has dropped, especially if it seems he is more to the ground than ever, when someone top me he did a few weeks ago i was like OMG because he was in position and i thought dropping was the same, but its not, they can be in position and not drop for awhile, and drop and still not be in position like my other friends is doing.....but braiden is both so not much longer.......and thats scary because i am hoping and praying i go all the way. I made it this far through everything, so im truely hoping i go to the end now that it means nothing to me for whats happened and im happy again.

barbie0mafia - Wednesday, 9 July
awwwww thats cool. girl its so hard to live away from my fam. its nice but it also sucks at the same time. thats cool that your mom is gonna come out. my mom is gonna stay for 2-3 weeks, im so excited. i deff need some help when i have the baby.

barbie0mafia - Wednesday, 9 July
yea. thats what im gonna do. ive been thinking about that soooo much. i really wanna make sure he is growing fine and i just wanna see him. hehe

i kno i dont wanna wait 8 more weeks either. yep it will deff be worth it!! our your families coming out to see yall?? my momma is flying out asap. lol

barbie0mafia - Wednesday, 9 July
awwwww. yea me too. ive only had one ultrasound.

i really want another one. my fiance never got to see the baby. he was pretty bummed about that. he doesnt believe that its a boy cuz he didnt see the ultrasound. lol i guess i see his point but i would love to see how the baby has grown. i wonder if my due date would change too??

kasey9533 - Wednesday, 9 July