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lindseyerin
Age: 28
Country: US
Province/region: Montana
City: Cut Bank
Partner: my husband Bobby
Children: Yes, 1
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pregnancy

so...

I went to the doctor on Feb 8, 2008 for another check up. It was just a doppler visit but it was the first one that my husband could actually get off of work to go to.

We listened to the heart beat for a little while before my OB asked me if I thought I was having a boy or a girl. I smiled sheepishly and told him that I wasn't sure but we could always take a sneak peek. I was only 17 weeks and about 2 days so I didn't think we'd be able to tell, but I wanted my hubby to get a glimpse of exactly what he did to me. :)

Once the U/S machine was wheeled into the room, Bobby sat down on the other side of me and hit the lights. The doc showed him the baby and then immediately zoomed in between it's legs... well, I suppose I can stop calling it an it now and start calling it my son... I'M HAVING A LITTLE BOY!

Pregnancy Survey

About You
Name?:

Lindsey

Age?:
28
Height?:

5'4''

Pre-pregnancy weight?:129
About The Father
Name?:Bobby
Age?:23
Height?:5'10''
Are you still together?:

married.

About Your Pregnancy
Is this your first pregnancy?:

yes

When did you find out you were pregnant?:

Nov. 9, 2008

Was it planned?:not really
What was your first reaction?:

wow, already?

Who was with you when you found out?:

I was at work, I grabbed my manager and asked her to confirm the little blue positive sign. :)

Who was the first person you told?:

besides the people at work that were there, my mom

How did your parents react?:

happy and nervous

How far along are you?:

22 weeks, 120 days to go!

What was your first symptom?:

I didn't have one, Aunt Flow was 2 days late.

What is your due date?:July 17, 2008
Do you know the sex of the baby?:

yes

If so, what is it?:BOY
Have you picked out names?:

yes

If so, what are they?:Matthew Gabriel

How much weight have you gained?:

13 pounds

Do you have stretch marks?:

not yet, hopefully it stays that way

Have you felt the baby move?:

yes

Have you heard the heartbeat?:

yes

About the birth
Will you keep the baby?:yes
Home or hospital birth?:Hospital
Natural or medicated birth?:

I'm going to attempt natural, but if it gets too bad, bring on the drugs!

Who will be in the delivery room with you?:

my husband for sure and the rest just depends on the situation

Will you breastfeed?:

yes

Do you think you'll need a c-section?:

no idea

Will you cry when you hold the baby for the first time?:

I have no clue, this is my first baby, so I'm not sure what my emotions are going to be like.

What's the first thing you might say to him/her?:

I've been waiting on you mister!

Would you let someone videotape the birth?:

not no, but hell no.

Are you excited about the birth, or scared?:

I'm a little scared to be honest with you.

Today is the 16th of July. My due date is tomorrow and I'm filled with so many different emotions. Part of me still can't believe that I'm going to be giving birth to another life very shortly. It just doesn't feel real. The morning sickness, the cramps, the emotional rollercoaster, sure, that all feels real, but me being a mom, is still a little bit overwhelming I suppose. I'm sure that I'll be a great mother, and that all of those motherly instincts that I have heard about will kick in. I'm really excited to see my baby boy. I want to teach him so much. I can't wait to hold him.

I lost my mucous plug today in the bath. So far, that's the only real sign that labor is on it's way. I guess that's why I've been so down lately. I just don't feel like he's ever going to come. I have an appointment scheduled with my OB on Monday the 21st incase haven't delivered by then, and my induction is scheduled for the 23rd. At least I know that if I get induced, my husband will actually be home. We moved to Montana from Florida in April, and he's been working out of town alot. He's home one week night and then on the weekends. It's really hard being alone here because I don't really know anyone but my inlaws and my husband's boss' wife. I'm sort of limited in the friends department now, all of my family is still in Florida, so I'm pretty lonely. The few people that I do know are great, but it's just not enough. I need my husband, and part of me is scared that he won't make it home in time for the delivery. This is our first child and I know that he'd grow wings and fly if he had to, but the tricky part is actually getting ahold of him to even let him know that I'm actually in labor. He's in the mountains and cellphone service just doesn't exist in those parts. BLAH. Sorry for venting. I just need to have this baby already. AND I NEED MY HUSBAND HERE WHEN I DO IT.

So, it's March 19th today. I put in my two weeks notice at work on the 16th. Bobby and I are going to be leaving the glorious sunshine state in the beginning of April and heading out to Montana. I'm pretty nervous about the whole thing. We are going to be driving our truck and pulling a U-Haul trailor so it will take about 4 to 5 days. The scenery should be nice... (this is me trying to be positive). He already has a job, his parents, and some friends from the military waiting for him... I have nothing. Hopefully I'll make friends fast, I just haven't been much of a social butterfly since the whole pregnancy thing. I dunno. Plus, my mother has been making me feel like hell because I'm leaving. I've been trying to explain to her that it's like I'm in the military again, just this time, I won't be going to war. That's another plus right? PLEASE HELP ME THINK POSITIVE!




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Mum2-3 - Saturday, 19 July
Hi, if you think your waters are leaking, see if you can get a bit on a bit of toilet paper or a pad and smell it. It smells quite sweet - if it is your waters and you do smell it you will know exactly what I mean - it wont smell like normal vaginal discharge. Good luck, hope it is your waters!


staceyp - Thursday, 17 July
Hi there just read ur post on 40 weeks! congrats! loosing ur plug is a good sign but doesnt necesaily mean ur gonna labour! i lost mine quite a few weeks before i had him. however some women can labour or their watres may break soon after they loose the plug. I wish u the best!


DianaBanana - Wednesday, 16 July
thank you so much! you are going to love it! regardless of how vicious they are when they come out! haha! sorry...but its true! get ready to carry around some huge hard boobies too! damn the babies are so cute and sweet and loveable!


babymamavh - Friday, 11 July
I feel your pain!!! Nothing here is saying that labor is on it's way. Only a little bit left of pregnancy, though. We can do this!!


dasha - Thursday, 3 July
Ah Linds. I've been a weepy mess myself this week, and just soo sensitive to every little thing. If I'm happy, I cry. If I'm sad, I cry. If I'm mad, I swear loudly and then cry....luckily my dog Maggie is attentive to my needs during the day, and sticks by me....was crying earlier, and she just came and laid her head in my lap and gave me "the eyes" until I was done....I'm sorry your husband is far away, but don't worry about having the baby without him. If you go into labour and he's not around, I can guarantee that man will sprout wings and FLY to be with you......keep your chin up. For heaven's sake, stay away from sad movies!! Or maybe it'd be better to watch one and get it all out! xoxo


mamiebugg - Wednesday, 25 June
 You look like the right size to me....I have been carrying more compact like you with this pregnancy..I think it has to do with being a boy. With my first a girl I was a LOT bigger. In fact in the last week I have lost a few pounds.


emmyhale - Tuesday, 24 June
 We're around the same size. :) I have side tattoos too! We're lucky they didn't stretch!


JAGJAC - Wednesday, 11 June
Hi Hun. Not heard from you in a while, how you getting on?

Im ok, but been in and out of hospital the last 2 weeks with high blood pressure. Have to see midwife every 2 days for a check - but im feeling fine. Make me even more frustrated coz i got to stay calm and rest.

J x


JAGJAC - Friday, 9 May
Hi Hun. Im good - well as well i we can be hauling a huge baby around allday!!! Its hot here at the mo so im not happy - i hate hot weather. My whole body feels swollen. Cut my hours down at work so only doing 6 hours instead of 8. Finish completely in 5 weeks so that will be good.
Hows things with the inlaws? You sorted a house yet?
I keep getting the odd ache ad pain which brings it home that were nearly there, only 10 weeks to go - scary!!!

Jx x x
p.s its official my belly button is out - looks gross!!! My hubby keeps feeling it as its really soft but very weird looking!!!


Nezbit - Friday, 2 May
Don't feel ashamed. I took them after my second baby was born. I understand what you are going through. I have been in my MIL's house since January and all I did for the longest was cry and I too was very depressed. Luckily yesterday was a great day because my husband and I got approved for an apartment, so we will be out in a couple of weeks. Everything will work out for you. Talk to your MIL and see what it is that she is feeling and maybe let her know what you are feeling. For the longest I didn't come out of my room, but things are better now. Remember that it is only short term and things will fall into place.


savvysmom05 - Friday, 2 May
Oh, I am so sorry you are going through this right now. I know people have taken antidepressants during their pregnancies, but I am not sure which ones are safe. Talk to your Doctor and don't feel ashamed. I would talk to your Mother in Law and see if you all can work through this. Don't be afraid to tell her how you feel. You can have a calm conversation and let her know that you are feeling tension between the two of you and if you just cry that's okay. She will hopefully understand this is a big change for you and be more understanding. Try to think about your precious little baby. All I have to do when I am having a bad day is think oh yeah I have a little baby inside my tummy that needs me. Please feel free to talk to me. Let me know how it went at the Doctor's. Believe me you are not the only one with this problem. Take care and talk to you later.


tracylouella - Friday, 2 May
Im not sure it is safe to take antidepressants while pregnant but you need to tak to your husband about this. Im so sorry to hear what you are going through. If it helps you any, my husband and I have 3 kids and Im 7 months prego with #4, we were in a house I owned that was u for renewal and because we have bad credit did not quailify for a mortgage so we had to move . To our surprise we couldnt rent a place either! We were about to be homeless! I was going to have to go live with his dad and step mom in a different province while he stayed here and found us a place!!! I was going to have our baby alone with his family and not my hubby!!! It was very very scary for me and oh so stressful! One day after being so depressed that I coudlnt stop crying allll day I wrote to the paper about the situation. To which they wrote a huge article and a few days later we had a very nice lady offer us a house to which we could rent and we are now moved in here. The house is huuuuge and amazing and I am sooo happy this happened. So maybe you will soon too have this sort of luck! Everything works out in the end!

Good luck to you and I hope you feel better very very soon!


bo - Friday, 2 May
Oh sweetie. I am not sure about antidepressants...but your post broke my heart and I hope you feel better. Take care of yourself please.

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18 weeks... (2008, 02, 27) that`s my little boy! 20w5d (2008, 03, 05) blowing kisses!!! (2008, 03, 05) My hubby, USO Marine of the Year 2006 (2008, 02, 28) first pregnancy test... (2008, 02, 12) 20w5d 13 oz. (2008, 03, 05) It`s a boy!  20w 5d (2008, 03, 05) 20w 6d. I`m loosing my belly button! And no, those aren`t stretch marks yet, my pajamas were too tight :) (2008, 03, 05) I think I was about 15 weeks... (2008, 02, 12) 36 weeks and counting!!! (2008, 06, 23) my belly button is an OUTY!!! (2008, 06, 23) tattoos are still hanging in there (2008, 06, 23)  (2008, 07, 17)  (2008, 07, 24)  (2008, 07, 24)  (2008, 07, 24)

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