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lisaj1001
Age: 29
Country: US
Province/region: Maryland
City: Edgewood
Partner: Jared
Children: Yes, 1
Pregnant: Not anymore
Occupation: Elementary School Teacher
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Hey everyone. My name is Lisa and this is my boyfriend, Jared and my 1st child! I have no idea what to expect and I have a bazillion questions....

I am an elementary school teacher in Maryland but I grew up in Western Pa (around Pittsburgh.. Go Steelers!) and I moved to MD about 6 years ago to teach.

I look forward to hearing how everyone is progressing. It is amazing that I started on this site at 5 weeks and now, here I am. Feel free to drop me a line

anytime.



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About You

Name?:

Lisa

Age?:

29

Height?:

5'4"

Pre-pregnancy weight?:

About The Father

Name?:

Jared

Age?:

25

Height?:

5'11

Are you still together?:

Yes

About Your Pregnancy

Is this your first pregnancy?:

Yes

When did you find out you were pregnant?:

July 30th

What was your first reaction?:

Are those REALLY 2 lines?

Who was with you when you found out?:

No one, I was by myself

Who was the first person you told?:

Jared... Texted messaged him something and all of the sudden, he said, "are you pregnant? He had a feeling for a week that I was

How did your parents react?:

all were surprised, but happy

How far along are you?:

37 weeks

What was your first symptom?:

Sore boobs and fatigue

What is your due date?:

April 8th

Do you know the sex of the baby?:

Yes

If so, what is it?:

IT'S A BOY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Have you picked out names?:

Yes

If so, what are they?:

Andrew William

How much weight have you gained?:

So far, only 20 pounds, but I am all stomach

Do you have stretch marks?:

No and I am going to try my hardest to not get them (I just need to stop being lazy and put the lotion on all the time.

Have you felt the baby move?:

Yes, at the beginning of Nov. and it was nothing like people described it. Mine feel like little pinches and shocks, not flutters. I know it is the baby though because it is all over the place and all the time.

Have you heard the heartbeat?:

yes

About the birth

Will you keep the baby?:

Absolutely

Home or hospital birth?:

Hospital

Natural or medicated birth?:

Probably medicated

Who will be in the delivery room with you?:

Jared and my mom if she is down here, if not, his mom I guess.

Will you breastfeed?:

Yes

Do you think you'll need a c-section?:

I hope not

Will you cry when you hold the baby for the first time?:

Definately

What's the first thing you might say to him/her?:

"So our the one who's been kicking me and sqirming around all these months?"

If my mom is down here from Pennsylvania, I will let her videotape it. Jared will be beside me and I don't feel comfortable having anyone else videotape it.

Would you let someone videotape the birth?:

8/14/07: So far in this pregnancy, I have only experienced mild abdominal cramping and a sore chest. I have been lucky. I have my 1st appt with the obgyn on 8/16. I know they will give me lots of info. I am excited to get an u/s but extremely nervous. I will feel a million times better once that is all done. So far, so good!

8/16/07: I am driving myself insane. I have my 1st appt. today with the obgyn. She is going to do an ultrasound and check to make sure things are ok. I am so nervous. I hope it is good news. I will be devistated if she tells me something bad.

8/16/07: I had my appt and what a waste! The didn't do anything to confirm I was preggo, said that the HPT were accurate. When she did the internal exam, so couldn't find the position of my uterus. I have been to the obgyn plenty of times and noone has told me that! I was also told I was getting on u/s and I didn't. Because she couldn't find the postion, i have to have an ultrasound the 28th at a radiology place. I don't know how that is going to help since my dr. will not be there to explain what is going on. I feel like my appt. was a complete disappointment. I am angry and think I should get a new dr.

8/17/07: After my appointment yesterday, I needed more confirmation so I went to this store this morning and bought a digital tset that says preg. or not preg. It came out pregnant! I feel a million times better after that and I have one test to spare that i can use before my u/s!

8/22/07: Still feeling good with barely any symptoms. I am so anxious for the 28th when I have an u/s!

8/28/07: Well today is the big day. My u/s! I hope all goes well with it. I am not feeling too many symptoms, just fatigue. My bbs aren't are sore as they were before which makes me nervous (but hey, what doesn't?) I hope this appointment goes much better than the 1st. I took yet another HPT yesterday to prepare for today and it said pos. again. I gotta stop spending so much $ hee hee.

8/28/07: My appointment was amazing. i saw the little peanut and the heart beating. The beats per minute was 168, which the sonographer said was good. I feel a million times better knowing there is actaullya life inside of me. I wanted to cry when I saw it! Jared asked a million questions, which is fine with me because I was in awe.. I really want the 1st trimester to be over so the risks for m/c lower.

10/03/07: Well, it looks as if all my upadtes from Sept. grew legs and walked away so I have to remember what I wrote. I had an appointment at the beginning of Sept. with the new dr. who was awesome. He told me my pap at the last place I went to came up mildly adnormal, so I had another appointment on 9/19 to have a colposcopy done to make sure all was ok. i was irratated because the other place I went to never called and told me that their might be a problem. grrrrrr... He tried to find my baby's heartbeat but was unable to find it. At my next appointment he found the heartbeat and checked me out and it turns out all is ok with my cervix. Nothing to worry about. This time he was able to find the heartbeat! It as awesome! I almost cried when I heard it. I had been a mess before that appointment. i was constantly worryinf, but it made me feel better. I still didn't have any symptoms or anything and wasn't feeling pregnant at all.

Now, here I am at 13 weeks! All still seems ok. I am feeling good, but I am now back to the worrying stage. i wish I didn't have to wait so long until my next appointment. I wish I could see the baby all the time. I have been having these huge headaches that last all day and no matter what I do, I can't get rid of them!

10/08/07: This is my last day in week 13 and things are going perfectly (so it seems.) I feel great, my boobs aren't even that sore anymore and I am starting to show. I went to my mom and dad's this weekend in Pittsburgh and had a blast. We walked around Station Square in the city, rode the incline and ate at a nice resturant at the top of Mt. Washington. Later Saturday, mom my and I went to Old Navy and they were having a sale on maternity clothes and I went all out and bought tons. My mom was laughing at me for my little belly and the fact I have boobs now. I am happpy to get that out of the way. I could buy them with no problem with my mom there. Only 2 more weeks until my next appointment. Hopefully the dr. will order an ultrasound for me and if I am lucky, I will be able to see the sex. I just want to hear the baby and see him/her to make sure that there are ok. It is hard having a living thing in my belly and not being able to check on it all the time! I wish pregnancy was much shorter. It will all be worth it in the end.

10/16/07: I'm still feeling pretty good. I guess I am showing a little, but only noticable to Jared and me. Eight more days until my next appointment. I wish I were getting an u/s done because I haven't had one in almost 8 weeks, but I will settle for just hearing baby's heartbeat and knowing he or she is ok in there. I am really looking forward to feeling my baby move, but have no idea what it is going to feel like. I am afraid I am going to miss it! I am sure I will know. I have small twinges now and then in my abdomen and I don't think that is movement because from what I heard, it is supposed to feel like flutters. Right now, it is just deep breaths for me and continued patience.

10/18/07: I am getting so anxious for my appointment. Six more days! I don't think I have felt the baby move. At night, I lay there quietly and hope to hear him/her move, but I only get small twinges. I don't know whether that is my uterus or the baby. I think I need to relax though. Soon I am going to start imagining I am feeling it move! I figure it is ok, I have 5 months to feel the baby move all the time. I am sure I will definately know it is the tater tot when it moves.

10/22/07: Ok.. I think I am going to go nuts until I see my baby again and I feel it and I find out if it is a boy or girl. I hate waiting. Everytime i go to the store, I check out baby things and it drives me insane because I can't buy anything because I don't know the sex of my baby. I did buy a baby book a couple of weeks ago and filled in as much as I could, but that wasn't much. I am anxiously awaiting my appointment and waiting to feel the baby move. Hopefully the movement will come soon so I can put my mind at ease. I really think I am going to end up in the nut house with all this waiting they make us do!

10/25/07: I FINALLY had my appointment yesterday. I swear that was the longest 5 weeks that I had to wait to hear my precious baby's heartbeat! The heartbeat was 160, which the dr. said was good. He also measured from the top of my pelvic bone to the top of my uterus and it was 16 cm, which he said was very good. I asked him why the books all say you can feel the top of your uterus 2-3 inches below your belly button and mine was right above and he said because everybody has a belly buttton in differnt places and I am short waisted. That made me feel better. I am supposed to call and schedule and u/s for in 3 weeks. I am going to try to get it for Nov 13th, which will bee xactly 19 weeks, Hopefuly I get it and hopefully they will be able to tell if it is a boy or girl. That would be a good Thanksgiving gift to tell our families. I just feel sooo relieved now that I got to hear my baby's heartbeat. Jared went with me this time and he seemed pretty excited too.

11/12/07: I haven't written in awhile in my journal because a lot has been going on. I am so stressed out and I know that isn't good for the baby. I had the AFP blood test done 2 weeks ago and the dr. called me last week to tell me the tests indicated I had a high risk for trisomy 18. I have been worried all week long, but I have a feeling everything is ok. I was scheduled for an u/s to see what I am having on 11/17 but now, because of the test results, I am going for a level 2 u/s today and finding out what caused the results as well as what I am having for sure! I am still going fo my u/s on the 17th (my mom and dad are coming down from PA for that) so this is a bonus. I get to find out 5 days sooner! I was a mess for a couple days but I have a lot of people praying for the 3 of us and the wonderful ladies on this site have put my mind at ease. Other than the worrying, I have been feeling great (just tired and I have a cold.) I can actually call my baby by it's name as of today (even though we haven't picked on out yet) so that is good. I really appreciate all the love and support I am getting. My mom and I both think the tests are wacky because of my Multiple Sclerosis making my blood come back funky. Anyways, i will write more in my online journal later informing everyone what I am having

11/15/07: Well.. my appointment went PERFECT! Absolutely nothing wrong. I found out I am HAVING A BOY as well! I was nervous for nothing. I had a lot of people thinking of me and saying a prayer for me and the baby. It worked out well. I think Jared and I finally came up with a name last night. As of right now, the handsome baby boy's name is Andrew William. I am so thankful and relieved that everything turned out alright. They checked everything they could possibly check and everything was ok. He kept on moving around so they didn't get a good shot of his heart. He is a mover! He kept on flipping over and at one point, he extendd his hand nd waved at the camera. It was so cute.

11/24/07: I had another u/s done last weekend and it went well. My parents came down for it and my mom, Jared's mom and I went into the u/s room first. We got to see Andrew's "parts" clearly. Andrew was not being shy at all. Then my dad and Jared came in and the technician showed them the baby. Andrew was being shy with them though and kept his legs kinda closed. When my parents and Jared's left, the tech had to check my bladder and Andrew must have thought we were all done because he was in there kicking his legs up and down. He kept yawning all through the u/s. It was so cute.

I went to my mom and dad's fo Thanksgiving and copied pictures for them and my grandparents of the u/s. So far, Andrew has been moving like crazy, but we can't feel him from the outside yet. I know Jared is looking forward to feeling him kick. I am so excited to be half-way through! Only 4 more months until I can see him and hold him. I know he is going to be spoiled. He is the first grandbaby in the family.

2/12/08: I haven't updated my page in awhile, so I figured it is about time since I have to day off. Things are still going great in this pregnancy. It is hard to believe I onlyh ave about 56 more days to go before my wonderful baby boy is born! He is such a kicker. The past few weeks he has been feisty and kicking all over the place. I have a dr. appointment on Thursday and then I have to see the doc every other week. Jared and I finished the baby room and bought a crib. We decided on the jungle theme for Andrew. It is adorable. Everything is going perfectly. I can't wait until he is born so I can hold him. I talk to him all the time. He kicks me a lot when I am working and the kids are reading in their reading group. The other day, Andrew kicked me hard and a couple of my students saw it and laughed so hard. Hopefully everything will continue to go well.

3/24/08: Its been another month since I updated my page. Andrew is squirming more than ever! I am so ready for him to be here. I want to see the little boy who has been kicking me and squirming around in my stomach all these months. I had a u/s 2 weeks ago and he is head down so all I have to do is wait. It could be any day now. I haven't really felt any changes, but then again, I don't know what I am supposed to be feeling.Th dr. hasn't checked to see if I am dialated or effaced yet. Maybe he will this week. I have had 3 showers. One at work, one in Pittsburgh and one here in Maryland. Andrew got so many nice things. I really wish he would decided to appear soon. I am impatient and I am kinda tired of being pregnant. It is a beautiful thing, but it is like waiting to open a Christmas present. Jared is so excited and I think he is more impatient than me.







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teresa - Sunday, 20 July
So, have you moved yet? That really is so exciting......Are you doing the same jungle theme in Andrew's room, or something different? My boys are visiting an aunt for the next couple of days, so my house is going to be so quiet.......I guess I should do some cleaning! Bria has slept through the night all this week (I'm so excited) I hope she keeps it up once school starts. I hate even thinking about going back already. Is Andrew teething? I can't feel anything, but she constantly is chewing on her fingers and fists and drools like crazy. Well, enjoy the rest of your weekend and talk to you soon


mommymelzy - Tuesday, 15 July
Hannah is doing all the same things as Andrew. Biting, sucking on her hands. She's constantly got her hands in her mouth. The other night she made herself gag really bad and barfed up everythign in her stomach...it scared the shit out of me. I instantly took her temperature and did a complete check of her and she was fine. It was Shane that said she probably puther fingers down her throat. She does it all the time so I figured he was right since there was nothing wrong with her.
SUcks that you are working...I can't imagine being away from Hannah at this age...she does something new and cute everyday. We are going for family pictures tomorrow...I cant' wait to have them. I todl Shane to expect some real money on them!! I dont' care if they cost hundreds I am getting the best package they have to offer! LOL
Take care and talk to you soon.


mommymelzy - Wednesday, 9 July
Is Andrew teething yet?...because I think Hannah is.


Teresa - Friday, 27 June
Good for you! So glad to hear everything is going well. It will be so exciting to move and make everything your own! I wish we had a bigger yard.....it's not a bad size, but I'd love to have more room. Summer is going by so quickly, I wish it'd slow down just a tad. Are you guys going on vacation? We've decided not to, but we are going to do some local things like Kennywood, Sandcastle, and Idlewild. The boys will enjoy those parks. Dylan's birthday is the 4th of July, so we may go to Kennywood then. They do a really nice fireworks display. Congrats again and I'll talk to you soon!


mommymelzy - Monday, 23 June
Hey how's it goin? Everythings good here. We are celebrating Shane's birthday Friday the 27th so I have been pumping like crazy so I can have a few drinks. Hannah is going to Gramma's for her first sleepover! I think it's gonna be easier for her than for me...haha! It will be a nice break though to have some adult conversation for a while! Me and my friend are making a bunch of food and were having some people over to play poker...it should be fun!
Posted some new pics of the babes! She's growin like a bad weed! Let me see some new ones of yur little monster! He must look so different now! Talk to you soon..xoxo


Teresa - Friday, 13 June
How are you enjoying your summer? We are pool bums here and loving it! Believe it or not, I take all three kids to the pool almost every day (We belong to a private pool). So far it's working great. The boys are happy, I'm happy sunbathing, and Bria sleeps most of the time under the umbrella. We have to enjoy it as much as possible because we know how fast the summer goes by. I hope everyone is doing well!


mommymelzy - Monday, 9 June
Sorry it took me so long to write back. These little people sure keep you busy eh! Hannah is getting so big. She was 12 lbs 3 oz at her last weigh in on the 3rd. I'm gonna weigh her again this week at our Mommy & Me class to see how much she has gained. She's so chubby!!! We are going to have pictures done of July 16th. I can't wait to get them and have some to hang in the livingroom!
I'm glad to hear that you guys have straigtened everything out.
So how's your summer going? It's getting really hot here. We had to install the air conditioner the other day because we were cooking in our apartment. Then just yesterday I set up the patio set and hung some plants out on the patio. Now we have our own shady oasis just outside the livingroom! I love it...I tilted the umbrella down so that we can have privacy and keep the rain off the chairs. Shane and I ate supper out there lastnight and it was really nice.
Neways hope to talk to you soon! Miss you!!!!


Teresa - Thursday, 29 May
Hi there! Just checking to see how you are doing? Are you back to work? Only 4 more days with kids, then 1 day clerical. Sooooooo excited for summer vacation to begin!! Things are great here.....Bria is just so pleasant! She's starting to coo and smile and it just melts my heart when she does. She's sleeping better too....I've only been getting up once, then feeding her again while I get ready for work, so it's been pretty good. We're finally getting some nice weather here, so I'm trying to do some walking. I can't seem to lose thiese last 18 pounds. I've already lost 20, but that's it and it's so frustrating to not wear my shorts! I have 2 pair that are my normal pants that fit perfect, but other than that, nada! Bria is getting baptized on Sunday and I have to find a dress to wear sometime this weekend! Well, hang in there for the last few days of school...............


zoee - Wednesday, 28 May
Hey Lisa...just responding to yr comments about our blokes and getting up in the night. Sounds like they all have a lot to learn! My husband is a fantastic guy...but the lack of support during the night will start taking it's toll if it continues. You never know one night our men may surprise us and take charge...stranger things have happened!! :o) Take care x


mommymelzy - Thursday, 22 May
Hey chic...how's it goin. I've been checkin everyday for your posts. Hope yur doin better!
xoxox


mommymelzy - Sunday, 18 May
what has he done that has made you so bitter. He hasn't cheated or anythign has he? But I am glad to hear that he is good with Andrew.
If you boobs are hurting when you are feeding then he's not latching right. I was lucky that the nurses helped me alot when Hannah was in the NICU to learn how to put her on correctly. It used to really hurt because I wasn't used to it but it's fine now. The only time they get really sore is when she's feeding so often...kinda like she is now because she's going through a growth spurt. Her feedings are really close together. I reccomend using Pur-Lan. It's a product by medela and you can use it for cracked and sore nipples. It really works. I had ot use it for a few weeks in the beginning. It relaly helps. And you don't even have to remove it for a feeding...it's safe for Andrew to have in his mouth. You just have ot wipe his face off afterwards because it makes it kinda sticky!
Neways...hope everythign is ok...talk to you soon.
xoxoxo


mommymelzy - Friday, 16 May
Happy belated 1st Mother's Day btw!!


mommymelzy - Friday, 16 May
At Hannah's last appt on the 12th she was 10 lbs 8 oz. You should see her...she's such a little porker haha. Right now she's going through a growth spurt so she's feeding constantly. My boobs are getting so huge!! Shane's loving it...he always wants to play with them but I won't let him becase they are always so sensitive haha. What a perv eh lol. He's doing really well. He adjusted to Daddy hood quite well. What about Jared...how's he doing? Shane depends on me alot to take care of her but he can still do pretty good on his own. He's getting less and less nervous the more time he spends alone with her.
I'll post a few more pics...and the one with her and Jersie (MommyG's baby)
Talk to you soon!


Teresa - Friday, 16 May
Unfortunately, I did go back to work yesterday, and it wasn't too bad. I just don't want to be there. My parents have her so it's not too bad, and of course they're loving it. I'm just a little more tired, but at least I get to look forward to the whole summer. OUr last day is June 5th. Bria had her one month appt. today and got her first shot.....she barely ever cries and boy did she let out a yelp! This first month has gone so fast........I want her to stay little. It's this time that seems to go so fast, and I'm enjoying it so much. I'm glad to hear you're doing well and Andrew is a good baby for you. You'll miss him when you go back, but at least it's only for a week. Do you have someone coming to your house? Well, enjoy your time off for now........We have fun day tomorrow and it's supposed to rain, so it's inside which is actually NO FUN and just a crazy day with kids running around inside like mad!


happyflmommy - Sunday, 11 May
Happy Mothers Day!!


mommymelzy - Saturday, 10 May
haha ya I know what you mean. Can you believe that our babies are a month old already. Hannah took really godo to the bottle and has so problems going back and forth between teh two. I only give her a bottle once a day though.
Yea it does suck that were like a lifetime away. I became friends with MommyG from this website and I've hung out with her a few times. Turns out she just lives down the road from here. We met a few times before the babies were born and I was over there last week with Hannah. She also had a little girl and named her Jersie. They are only 5 days apart...it's kinda cool!


AmyM42008 - Wednesday, 7 May
congrats how beautiful


Teresa - Tuesday, 6 May
How are you? Hope you're up and around easier now . I'm just loving my family......I actually like being at home now and wish I never had to go back to work. But, unless we hit the powerball soon that isn't going to happen. So, I'm trying to enjoy my last week at home, but at least I have summer to look forward to. Bria and I are going to get a pedicure in a little while! It'll be nice to have another girl in the house to do girly things with! She is such a good baby...She still gets up every 3-4 hours to eat at night, but hopefully with time that'll lessen. How is Mr. Andrew? They're getting big so fast....I wish they would stay this way longer. I love just holding her and cuddling! Talk to ya soon if you get the chance!


mommymelzy - Wednesday, 30 April
things are going well. I bought a breast pump today because I am going to introduce the bottle to Hannah. I dont' plan on using it all teh time just once in a while for when I am not around to feed her. I read that introducing it to them around 3-4 weeks is good because if youw ait to long then they will refuse it.
She is still waking up around 3-4am for feedings every night but otherwise is on a pretty good schedule.
Talk to you soon...
xoxox
Mel


Teresa - Monday, 28 April
Things are going great with Bria! She is really a good baby! I feel like I have everything...my family is complete! Yesterday we took her to get professional pictures....They turned out beautiful...I've always wanted to do the newborn picture, but never did it with Dylan or Carson. I also got a pic of her and me which I just love! How 'bout this.....I have a fractured foot! My foot had bothered me the entire pregnancy, but I knew I couldn't get a scan or anything, so I let it go. I finally went and I have a fractured bone...I have to wear one of those big, black , ugly boot at ALL times, and he gave me crutches and told me to stay off of it....Like that's going to happen..... If it doesn't heal, I'm going to have to have surgery . I'm hoping it heals or else I dont know what I'm going to do. Oh well, enough about me...how are you feeling after your c-section? Is Andrew sleeping through the night? He is such a cutie! It's amazing that they're finally here,isn't it?

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