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billbo - 32.1 hours ago
lol i dunno if they think im a psycho or not im just worried what hes been saying and why they are all telling him advice on not getting screwed over by the CSA lol
we decided we didnt wanna get the CSA involed n everything TERRY (ergh) said to him iv said to him lol n i just dnt like the thought of them all thinking poor old andy n his evil ex girlfriend lol
coz im been friggin nice to the bastard TOO nice to him. but hes been nice to me recently so thats probably good. im seein him tomorrow were gonna talk about ll the things magical mysterios terry told him to do! (he forgets iv said them all to him 1000000s of times lol)
stupid terry

billbo - Tuesday, 13 May
Andy pandy just rang me then to tell me hes coming over on thursday to sort stuff out n terry at works been telling him all these thigns about him keeping records of maintentnece etc etc etc! im all for him doin that iv told him to myself but i dnt want terry at work doing it i feel like hes been bitchin about me at work lol!!! I hope they dnt think im some psycho bitch whos trying to be evil to andrew!! im nice to him and giving him the biggest chance EVER n i keep giving him second chances after second chances lol I well wanna go in to his work n go "terry im NICE TO YOUR FRIEND" lol

GOD MY TUMMY AND BACK HURT SO BAD!!!

billbo - Tuesday, 13 May
lol the scan failed the baby takes after its dad and wudnt wake up or move like andy he sleeps for hours n wnt stir lol

so im going back on 27th STRESSSSSSS

im in agony today:( boooo

billbo - Sunday, 11 May
it really bugs me coz his mum n his sister are coming so they are gonna be excited when they get back home n he ahs no idea how him not giving a shit hurts me n i know hes going to regret it n im pleeedingt with him to come but he wont:( stupi puff! lol

billbo - Sunday, 11 May
he wont come tot he scan today he says he thinks it ruins the suprise :( babys gonna change tho in the next 13 weeks. I always tell andy i love him he goes "well u shudnt im a bastard" n i agree n say sum1s gotta. Its annoyign as we get on most of the time n do have a laugh together he just deliberatly upsets me at times lol nevermind.
He knows i want to be with him its not exactly a secret i told him that im not gonna get over him if i keep the baby n its going to tke me years to move on so he has to be ready for the apocolyps lol gipm face. i just wish hed change his mind about the scan!!

billbo - Friday, 9 May
heya yea im okay andys been a dick mum n dad are been dicks andys sisters on her way home as we speak to coem with me to the 4d scan that he refuses to come to n i accidentally told him i want him back before
oops
all in all not a good day hahaha xxxx

billbo - Monday, 5 May
awww thanks hun:)

im in a better mood today iv not bothered trying to contact him and im not going to bother.
Iv got my 4d scan on sunday next week (im getin a bit worried its too early for one but the woman at the clinic adviced to get it done between 26 and 28 weeks so 27 made sense lol) I dont think hes coming to it but his mum and his sister are (yay:|) lol

andy said EXACTLY the same thing about the baby and it been real etc wen we were driving up to get the moses basket, we were talking about a band he knows (the Vags they are like a local liverpool band trying to branch out tehy are pretty good but wnt really get anywhere i dont think)but we were making small talk n he said he hadnt talked to them for a while so i asked if they knew he was going to be a dad n he said he didnt know coz the last time he spoke to them was in december and i went oh when u were pretending to forget u wernt gonna be a dad n he went yea n i went your not still doing that are you? n he said "to an extent yea i try to ignore it most of the time i dont like the idea"
how much of a kick in the groin is that it kills u to hear that.

i know fullwn ell when babys here hes gonna be head over heals in love with it and its gonna be hard to get baby off him lol but i just wish hed share bits of it with me. i dont wanna always remember my 1st pregnancy as the most depression time of my life which its turned out to be thanks to him hes got 14 weeks to make me feel a little bit better about myself and he wont. i wanna tell him that but its useless as he wont care. He never does lol hes selfish but never mind!!!

if its agony in the last month what the fuck is this im in now lol!!! i cant walk for more than 5 minutes without almost crying in pain hehe.

hehe babys kicking loads it must like coronation streeet hehe:D xxxxx

billbo - Monday, 5 May
he has been an absolute TWAT this weekend.
iv just had a massive go at his mate about it n now proper regret it.
i feel sick to my stomache lol

was at his yesterday trying to sort out fiannce and access so we can make a ritten arangment n i said "how much do u want to see the baby? do u want to see it every day or once a week or what?" he went "my mum n dad want to see it loads, dads already said somet about that" not what i asked i also asked him if he can get me somet things for it like bedding for the crib and moses basket he went no
hes bought nothing for it yet at all n its really brought me down especially this week. iv been in the hospital again today coz iv had awful tummy pains dizzy spells n vomiting n i was all on my own at home n i text him n said can u come over n help me coz i feel really ill he replied via text sayin just take pain killers
:|
n that was it. n iv been so horrid to him tonight which is gonna cause alot of problems now n i know it is. ims still hurting alot that he slept with sum1 behind my back its the biggest insult anyone could ever give me i put my life and soul in to our relationship i loved him sooo much n he just shat on me n i cant get that out my head. nor the fact he wont feel the baby kicking i asked him to n he ignored me n it hurts every time lol

his friends got a moses basket for me from their mates coz they didnt know id gotten one so hes having it for his house but thats insulting me aswell coz its like im not allowed to take baby to my mums (im moving out soon me n my dad r hatching the plan haha its a long story) but i just wish hed realise that hes the dad n im the mum n i need him at times coz iv really got nothing else
my friends are few and far between n even tho they are helpful they go mad at me for thinking about him or getting upset about him etc they dnt see why im not over him or over the fact he slept with ruth etc etc
its just hard lol
n the babys hurting me alot n im only 26 weeks lol(as of today lol)

argh

i think we shud go on a killing spree ill kill david u kill andy lol xx

billbo - Friday, 2 May
your my soul mate *hugs* lol

i think andy and david are teh same person or have the same personality.
Andy has taken some convincing about this baby, he went from screaming at me to have an abortion coz i was ruining his life to not talking to me at all n telling everyone it wasnt his baby and he wasnt seeing "that slag and her sprog" (me and the baby lol) to wanting to pick the name if its a girl coz iv chosen joseph if babys a boy.
That was his dads bright idea NOT impressed with that so he wants to call it Amy Louise if its a girl (conviniently thats the name his mummy wanted to give to his little sister clare but she looked liek a clare not an amy or sumit) so im saying nope to it lol but hes sulking coz hes not had a say in the boys name (its my grandads name and its like a really popular and common name all down is dads family too and the middle name of baby will either be David (JD) Andrew after andy Joseph Andrew or James which is andys middle name Joseph James (JJ) but he goes throuh stages of been invovled n not been involved
at the moment hes involved sorta, hes not talked to me yday when he was ment to coz were ment to be going to sort out finances and acces and filing it with a lawyer so i cant change my mind (my idea coz i know ill get really uspet when he openily gets a new girlfriend)
lol and i was the same witht he whole i aint exactly pleased im pregnant either andy he knows i didnt plan it coz everymorning id get him to pass me my pillnand we used condoms every time we slept together lol so we were pretty sint haha.
I keep thinking maybe maybe hell come back to me when babys born he wants to come move in for a few weeks when it is born so he can help out but i know when he goes back to his it will kill me especially coz the baby will eb here n he physically will be walking out on his baby etc if that makes sense.
Hes not talked to my tummy or anything really like that he wnt touch it n he hardly ever recognises tis there, hes said "our baby" once usually calls it "the kid" and hes mentioned the fact i have aprgnant belly ONCE when he asked why pregnant ladies rub their bellies n i said coz its hurting me and im saying hello but he wont do it lol he put his thumbs up to it on my birthday n said "word up" i almost punched him lol
and nope we dunno what were having lol its a suprise andrew wants to be the first person to know and the person who tells me that we have a baby girl or boy etc he wants to hug it first n be the first person ever to give it a kiss which is sweet really lol but yea hes blowing hot n cold
sorry thats such a long messge hehe just got excited that finally theres sum1 who knows EXACTLY what i meen and feel hehe when i get all sad that hes not here im not weird woohooo.
hope your okay hun:D ooh n my due date varies between 10-12th lol its annoying hehe xxxxxxxx

billbo - Friday, 2 May
oh y god sum1 in he exact same boat now i dnt feel so silly

it sounds silly dosent it coz we diserve to be happy and want to be but the idea of another man cuddling my baby not andy makes me wanna cry n i have no idea how that doesnt upset him lol
that idea upsets me even more than a irl doing it to my baby who hes dating (but that idea still REALLY offends me)
Is david playing a part in your daughters life at all or just done one?
Andys wantin to take n active roll his babys his world (sorta he tries to pretend its not but he really does care deeply for it) but he reminds me daily im nto good enough for him.
he came over with some cheapo flowerslastnight for my 21st :| i wanted a good present lol but i guess thats something. i dunno im just relievedu cotacted me coz onow i dnt feel so silly and isolated
does that make sense?

whens ur due date? xxxx

armywifeash - Tuesday, 29 April
Ick that was gross, but thanks for letting me know about it!

ready - Monday, 28 April
Even Splenda is processed and not good for you. If you really want soda, just drink the regular stuff.

heavymetalmama - Monday, 28 April
Hi, I saw your question about Diet Coke. I myself was a diet soda drinker, but due to warnings I saw I now drink regular if I want a pop. I looked online quite a bit when I found out I was pregnant and scientists don't know a lot about the effects artificial sweeteners have on unborn babies. While it is possible they can cause birth defects, they just don't know for sure, as there hasn't been a ton of research. I mean really, how many women out there drink diet pop and still have healthy babies? Probably a lot! If you like regular I would just drink that while you are pregnant and then go back to diet after your baby is born. Well, that's my plan anyway.

ready - Sunday, 27 April
I stopped drinking diet drinks when I found out that I was pregnant. It can cause birth defects.

lucky777fairy - Monday, 17 Mar
Your not going crazy. Besides the movement I dont feel pregnant at all. I am a little bigger girl, I weighed 180 when i got pregnant...so I just look like I have gotten fatter to....ultrasound confirmed I am pregnant though lol



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